I often go to sleep hungry because I'm too tired to eat, but my stomach will grumble. And when I hear his gentle voice scolding me, it makes me feel cared for without being bombarded with stress or concern that I won't live past forty. But then when he says he won't eat if I don't eat, that he'll starve, I'm like what- nooo. I adore this soo much.
This is how u speak to ppl who are struggling with their owns elves. Ofcrse u guide them to be better but u also..ensure to make them feel loved. Make them understand tht this whatever flaw is not gonna make them unlovable!!!