Well for my case, if i make conversation to my friends through chat, they said to me you are doing try too hard and annoying. They don't like me. If i don't reply, they said to me that i should said something 😔
@@LJ___ Hm... well I try not to message on more than one occasion until they do, but I always respond. (also sometimes I do do it more than once but I wait like a week)
@@LJ___ then they don't deserve you!😡 For me, I love it when people can keep the conversation going! Don't listen to people who say "you try too hard" because, in reality, they're just used to doing the BARE MINIMUM ❤️
I’m SOOOOOOOOO introverted that ghosting is like a sport to me😂😂 (jk) but, it is very uncomfortable to start a conversation that I KNOW will just end in an awkward place. It’s draining, and as an Introvert, I don’t have much battery to drain😅
I relate to this soooo much... I once drove to the hospital just so i could take a picture and get out of going to a party... I feel extremely uncomfortable in social gatherings but my friends are persistent
@@je-zw5su Ouch sounds like you need to have a talk with your friends! I'm like that too but I've already told my friends that I'm not always comfortable going to parties especially with new people. It was a very short conversation, not awkward at all and they didn't ask a million questions or argue about it, they just accepted me as I am and are very understanding now. It might or might not go this way for you but you should at least try if you haven't already. It's worth a shot. If they don't make an effort or try to be more considerate, hopefully you'll make new better friends! If people that you originally like end up making you so stressed there's definitely a problem. (Sorry English is not my first language I don't know if I was very clear)
@@squeezedlemonydemon4472 but it's my friends who taunt me over this ghosting habit that i have, most of the times i dont even feel like texting back it feels like a burden . Im cool with talking over phone but i literally hate texting, what do i do?
@@bambi587 that's true for sure. I moved around alot. I was just surprised i guess that the highschools i went to were all the same. The one in Texas was kinda racist to me and my least favorite :(
out of all these, the period one is the worst.. because it implies that the girl is over exaggerating.. so it's basically devaluing what she is feeling instead of trying to understand why she is upset.. very obnoxious... even though some don't mean it in a bad way, almost every girl becomes even more angry when they hear that.. ;p otherwise everything else is kind of tolerable i guess... no big deal.. about the fat question... i think girls know when they gained weight lol ;p mostly the reason they ask is to see if you like her still... the only important thing is just to ensure her that you like her even when she's gain a little weight... no need to lie..
the worst part about the period thing is that most times the girl is not on her period. Heck, I have a condition which basically has stopped me from getting my period. and I know many other girls that don't get affected or at least tremendously by their period. when I used to have them, I never felt differently except for slight pain (I never used to get painful periods). it's such an assumption, and just a stupid excuse for men to not acknowledge a person. imagine if they had an equivalent.
please stop making up excuses i feel this and this you literally over exaggerating right now , it's true 9 times out of 10 im right when i ask that , even if they deny it usually they admit to it afterward when they calm down ! its even more accurate when you know her well , plus it's a fact that girls get emotional on their periods, they are literally emotional 90% of the time without periods , it's not devaluing your fee feee but it's implies that you can't think straight when you are emotional and would over react to everything , it doesn't imply anything else ! studies , behavior and characteristics are based on the majority not on the exceptions and the majority says so , this may not imply to you but still .... i guess im biased about this i hate weak women equally as i hate weak men who complain alot and it's all about how they feel ....at least own it "im on my periods im overreacting f*ck off !"
if you have to walk on eggshells with someone and watch everything you say for fear of triggering them, it probably means that you are not meant for each other.
Yeah avoid women like these. Much more sane and rational women out there that don't have to be infantilized to the point where you can't upset the precious, spoiled princess.
I'm a woman and I was like that towards my ex-crush. I was afraid to trigger him, make him sad, even avoided to converse with men that weren't in his circle because he would ghost me until the next day and act down, posts sad memes and stuff. It was getting real annoying so I just decided to let go
Theres a difference between walking on eggshells and just not caring abt the other side's emotions tho.. I mean some of the stuff in this video were exaggerated and most of it is not a big deal for me personally (if someone asked me if i was on my period while im angry i would get at least 10 times angrier, and i dont like ppl touching my tummy at all bc it makes me extremely ticklish and i cant stand it, i hav a hard time getting thru my yearly doctor examinations bc of it lol.. but i dont care abt the rest), but people hav different boundaries and insecurities and if ur not willing to try and understand that as their significant other then that means ur not doing ur part in the relationship (and obviously its not meant to be like a calculated business relationship but i think u get what i mean).. This video was focused on how men should act with women but it goes the other way too and in a healthy relationship both sides would be putting effort to understanding their s/o's current mood and insecurities in order to interact with them in a way that theyll feel comfortable and happy with
Hoseung aced the test! Woohoo! I just about choked when he said that all the comments were gonna be of people saying they had big hands, and then the little animated people running 😂😂
Sehee is the prettiest 😍 and Hoseung hairstyle today is very good!!... I can't get with the hair patting and cheek pinching tho, I am not a child 😑, also if a guy patted my hair, his hand wld come back with grease/moisturizer cuz this natural hair/curls gotta stay soft and moist
Thanks for another great video! I'm really liking these men/women videos since it can help us understand each other better. I definitely want to see the men version of this and maybe a korean/foreigner version of this too? Hoseung this new hairstyle really suits you! Sehee is beautiful as always. Watching you both is so much fun. You two really have great chemistry. PDnim can we have the whole crew for the next one? 🙏 ♥
As always Sehee and Hoseung have great chemistry 🤣 PD NIM, please make it happen! Hoseung, Sehee, Heejae and Jinkyu in one video please (in one room)! 🙏🏼 I can’t wait to see how chaotic it will be 😂
Hoseung is always subject to Sehee's death glares, but she is so cute and adorable. There is no winning for him. But I suppose Hoseung being able to always cover and collaborate with Sehee is always a reward and win in itself ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
the point about the period thing wasn't that she is on her period and that she doesn't want u to be direct abt it, its that if she is feeling upset/angry/tired etc. there could be so many other valid reasons other than "oh are you on your period?" as if that's the only reason to be upset bcos you can't possibly have any other problems
Maybe he didn't mean it to be harmful, I mean, he was probably stating facts. I mean, I don't think it'd be better to let that slide and not say anything so that the person would get even fatter
So? Now people can’t mention you’ve lost weight or you’ve gained weight, don’t be sensitive about everything, this comment just makes you look like the rude and mean one here
I never understand the change in attitude when that time of the month comes. I feel terrible when cramps come around, but I don’t get treating others poorly because of it 🤔
when i tell my bf that i'm fat, i'd slap him if he agrees. when they say stuff like that, they're, well, _i'm_ usually asking for a compliment. i want them to say "nah, you're skinny af"
Lena V but like, I feel clear and straightforward honesty is a better way to get that. “Hey, sorry to bother you, but I’m feeling sorta insecure. Could you maybe cuddle and compliment me?” is so much more appealing than “Do I look fat in this dress?” [hell yeah you do, but let me speak your language, cows go MOO!].
Hoseung's hair is so cute like this I could die. I'm loving it. Please style it like this more. It suits you. He passed this video with flying colours. A catch! Also I have small hands ronnie. Just saying... ;)
Sehee and Hoseung look GREAT! I love Hoseung's new hairstyle! Sehee always looks Fabulous! I agree with all of the points. I do not like my hair touched, ghosting, and I am not always comfortable having my face touched. Although, pinching cheeks is not really common in the west. I like Sehee's suggestions on how to respond to questions about being FAT. Hoseung looks like he wants Sehee to approve of his responses/answers, which makes this fun to watch. However, I sometimes miss his more laid back honest style ("I am a beast").
I swear a lot and make dirty jokes too but only if I'm close with the person, it's all in fun and I'm amused myself by my jokes. I don't like when people are too uptight sometimes and can't even enjoy a simple joke. Also people often tell me I'm really sarcastic too. And moreover I'm not good at keeping in touch, I mean I don't set reminders and all, I'll just call or text if I really miss the person. So people that I truly care for are the only people that stay in my life. Most people get angry that I don't call or text but although they hate me for it, they don't call me themselves in tge first place but expect me to call them regularly
Me and Ho-Seung would not get along, I have a really bad swearing habit- it's normal here since I'm raised in rural Australia lol. Most our sentences contain curses compared to city folk and their more uh- nicer way of talking. Not to mention, my town is very very wine based and we're also very known for being sketchy- in like the drugs and illegal things so like- We swear a lot, end of story so me and Ho-Seung would sadly not get along ;-;
@@harleyquinzel3764 what about when they did gain weight in numbers but their belly or anywhere else didn't get bigger in size? So they're not actually fat right?
@@Manilove223 I think it depends on personal preference and where you store fat, some girls may store fat in their boobs, or glutes, and they don't mind the extra weight, but other girls prefer a a less curvier look. So they might feel fat even if they don't look like that
SeHee: "I don't like people who are regularly lying." Also SeHee: "Lie to me so you don't hurt my feelings." or to put it drastically "Lie to me so i don't have to kill you."
Touching The hair made me think of The annoyance when my dad swiped a spot on my face where The foundation/concealer was a thick spot commenting that It was. Like he thought he Fixed something. He Ruined something. It Was thick on purpose to cover something that looked worse than a visible dab of concealer. This was most annoying as we were standing in Puplic on line in a store and me having no make-up with me so I could fix it. Or my sister unbuttoning some of the buttons on my cardigan ”because It would look better” and me having to hastily button It again as It WAS BUTTONED FOR A PURPOSE. Only waynit didn’t roll/slide of my shoulders. In short, SAY don’t touch. If It It something I actually wanna fix I’ll do It myself don’t just assume you know better. A issue temporarily fixed with covid though as now no touching at all.
Hoseung no worries! I feel the same way when a guy has too small hands compared to mine too. I have small hands too. And small feet. So I prefer those who have bigger hands and feet. 😉
I naturally ghost people because i don't have a natural inclination to talk to pretty much anyone. If someone wants to keep up a 1v1 relationship with me, it's all on them bc i literally forget they exist if they stop talking to me 😅
It's like Hoseung always wants to say the right thing when it comes to women. Even though he is obviously a woman expert. That's why he is a sneaky beast.
Hoseung: "I really don't like people who swear" Then you should never come to the Balkans. Swearing is part of our daily lives. Usually is used as a reaction, rather than insult. We have such a variety of swear words. I don't mind people who often swear, because I do it myself and am so used to it. 😂😃
The hair part is sooo true for curly girls; takes a lot of time and effort to make ourhair look good and neat, one careless stroke is enough to make our head look like a bird nest. lol
Id love to see this the other way around as well (girls to boys) could be very interesting. And i feel kinda bad for hoseung always being blamed by sehee even if its for fun ^^'
Guys, please don’t pat the top of our heads. That’s something you do to a little kid. It can feel condescending. You can rub my head in a comforting manor or lightly cradle my head in a romantic manor. Just don’t pat me.
3:18 My dude does that. On one hand it makes me uncomfortable bc it's my belly. On the other hand I feel appreciated and loved knowing that he likes and accepts me the way I am. I really think that the situation and the way you do it is important.
I'm relatively new and have watched the videos out of order, but did Hoseung went from not having a girlfriend to having one in such a short amount of time? 😂 like dude, we are on a world pandemic, how did you do that so fast?
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