AUTISTIC PEOPLE TALKING Ep. 13 PODCAST ft. Isabella

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Welcome to Ep.13 of Autistic People Talking - A #Podcast where #autistic people talk to each other. We celebrate #neurodiversity here.
Today's guest is Isabella from the RU-vid Channel ‪@isabellammusic‬ - make sure to check out their content on their amazing channel! You won't be sorry!
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@isabellammusic 15 дней назад

Thank you again Claire for wanting to talk with me on your podcast!

@fussyfissy 15 дней назад

thank you for sharing your experience. i cried 12 minutes in because it felt like you were re-telling what i went thru. after psychiatrist visit, i almost gave up. fortunately, i had the support of a loved one and tried again. life is better now. wishing you and your family lots of love

@isabellammusic 15 дней назад

@@fussyfissy ❤️

@AaronGrosch29 15 дней назад

Another podcast helping me feel less alone and grow in my understanding. Thank you both. 🙏

@BlueRoseHelen252 15 дней назад

Hey Claire, you do get some great people on your podcast, so nice to see and hear some great conversations. Have a lovely weekend. When we (the family) see you on Porch Coffee we will have 2 kitties to watch with us.... Exciting Road Trip! 😸😸

@lesliekarl3594 14 дней назад

Great chat! When Isabella said that because of slower processing she has trouble keeping up with herself, I so resonate! That gets me into trouble time and time again. Whether it be over-sharing, staying in any given situation too long/working too long which leads to exhaustion, or over-committing, etc, etc. I love "Autistic People Talking"!

@donnellallan 15 дней назад

I was nodding in affirmation all through this helpful conversation. Thank you, Claire and Isabella! I feel acknowledged and understood. 💜

@leilap2495 15 дней назад

It’s so nice to get to see Isabella on your podcast 😊 I will have to check out her channel.

@theautisticpage 15 дней назад

I am glad to see you doing this podcast!

@cynthiamoore6531 15 дней назад

You are talented Claire you can sing have you thought about making an album? Take care, praying for you.

@Pjolter365 14 дней назад

The best way to spend a Friday evening, alone at home safe with another great episode of A.P.T. Thank you Claire and Isabella😊!.

@eternalloveliness 9 дней назад

Very apt. ❤

@Mykethepsych 15 дней назад

👍 Subscribed to Isabella

@shion_lwn 15 дней назад

awwww!!! Isabella is the guest today!!!!! so happy to see you 2 talking 😊😊!!

@stephenie44 15 дней назад

I really breaks my heart how much time I spent masking alone in my room because I thought the mask was me.

@pikmin4743 15 дней назад

yes!! around 52:00 about not knowing in which ways you process things slower or faster than others. that is a huge reason I feel I need to be officially diagnosed, because I feel like I am an unreliable witness to my own life and all the problems I've had communicating with others and understanding relationships and social interactions

@spencerdeumer-nt2eu 15 дней назад

Great podcast! I have seen Isebella's channel and of course your channel Claire. Hearing you both describe your journey helps give me some peace. I am new to this journey at a young 70. Things were always a struggle but now I know why. First was the now I get me and now I am in the hard reflective phase and finding I am so focused on the Autism state of mind now. So now I am on this similar wild mental journey which your podcast relates to so much. You gals are great. Thank you for your openness.

@helle87 15 дней назад

Thank you both for this lovely and deep conversation, I could relate to a lot of the things you were talking about.. 💜✨️ It was a wonderful surprise to see you Isabella, I didn't know you also had a channel, but I'm excited to check it out! 🦋

@pikmin4743 15 дней назад

yay! two of my fav autistic people, talking

@marisa5359 15 дней назад

Another conversation that is really resonating with me..I totally relate to the self-diagnosis route. I know what I want to do as far as validation goes, but finances leave it out of reach at this juncture. I am hoping that could change soon but loving hearing from someone that gets the struggle to seek diagnosis. Thank you, Isabella, for sharing so bravely and thank you, Claire, for having this great podcast. So helpful!

@blakeharvard5841 14 дней назад

I had friends when I was a child. I'm currently a 30+ Autistic grown man and enjoying life. As an adult I have some friends that are family.

@flyygurl18 15 дней назад

Insightful conversation ladies; lovely to meet Isabella and hear the similarities in our experiences! 😍💛 could identify with a lot especially the nuances of self identification, struggles to figure out needs and just impact of masking 🖖

@InterDivergent 15 дней назад

I feel judged and invalidated by some of my family. I was technically diagnosed by strangers in support groups for Klinefelter Syndrome when I didn't really fit in there. I feel totally validated by the Autism community and fit in well online. Those of my family who I cannot talk to about Autism, I've asked them to just accept it and, well, basically, shut up. I don't want to hear their judgements and invalidations. It's rather upsetting really, I would like to talk to them about it, but I just can't. I don't understand why they think that they know better than me. They are not experts in the field. I've lived feeling like this for my entire life.

@Art-in-Making 13 дней назад

Thanks so much, thanks to conversations like this, I understand myself a little bit more. Thank you ❤

@stephenie44 15 дней назад

Claire, I’m sure it’s still a work in progress, but I’d love to hear what you’ve learned about making and maintaining friendships, and how that compares to your approach growing up. Autistic people definitely need some guidelines! No one spells it out for us like we need them to.

@SunnySunshineField 10 дней назад

Yes! Would love a video about this! ❤❤❤

@Nope2_coleslaw 15 дней назад

It’s really encouraging to hear that you are learning about friendship - I asked for advice on this as a young adult but other people just seemed to have an intuitive approach, as a 40 year old I still don’t understand how it works - I’d love to see a video on what you’ve learnt.

@heedmydemands 14 дней назад

❤

@pLOVEheart7 14 дней назад

I had an assessor who was abrupt and rude also! I knew more than he did about autism- from my son and my 2 years of research. It was an "uncertain" result. I'm still learning of Autism and ADHD. And I've learned more about myself. Now I'm on an assessment waiting list with a reputable organization.

@shapeofsoup 12 дней назад

Hell yeah, Isabella. We need that self-identified autistic representation. Good for you. I’m self-identified as well, with confidence as absolute as my belief in gravity.

@TheCassierra908 13 дней назад

Thank you, Claire and Isabella,, for the great podcast! I can relate to so much . Very helpful!

@SunnySunshineField 10 дней назад

This was fantastic! Thank you both! ❤❤❤

@cdvorhies 14 дней назад

Really appreciate this interview. I relate to so much of this. Definitely before I knew about neurodivergency I felt like my life was very bleak. It still feels like that a lot, but it's getting better. 💕

@lisastratton3869 10 дней назад

Grateful to have listened to this dialog. I hear myself in both of your stories. One concrete reason I am glad to have formal diagnosis is that it was required for disability accommodations at work...even tho all I really needed was no strong smells, controllable lighting, and freedom from horrendous machine noise that plagued me daily before. Basically just needed to move to a better office...but my psychiatrist had to sign stuff for me to ask for that. Diagnosis definitely can be useful.

@eternalloveliness 9 дней назад

Lovely conversation and quite reflective of my experience. 57 years and finally I’ve girt my number. Wink 😉 ❤

@eternalloveliness 9 дней назад

I meant to write “got my own number” as in: I see what I’m up to and why. It’s Mr McGoo bumbling around and bumping into the world. Then finally putting on the correct spectacles. Thank you, both for your openness. ❤

@kristin7101 13 дней назад

15:21 This statement is so perfect.

@Katielouise262 14 дней назад

There was a lot in this, but it was interesting to hear what you were saying about keeping up with conversations as I have started to do the other thing. If I am in a conversation and I get to speak about anything I have started to apologise for backtracking and backtrack anyway. Maybe I have just been lucky with the context, but it has gone ok.

@jesusfollower5588 15 дней назад

I love your podcasts! I learn so much!

@zoevolpa2085 11 дней назад

I relate to this so much!! It took me a long time (and still am finding it hard sometimes) to accept that I am autistic

@WoodshedTheory 11 дней назад

thank you for sharing that

@kariannefimland1475 12 дней назад

The struggle before the diagnosis, is like stumbling through life "squinting" and then being told " you need glasses", and when you get your "glasses", life is easier. You see things more clearly. You can walk and not stumble as much. Your eyesight still sucks, but you get the tools (i.e. glasses) you need to help you function better in the world around you.

@KittyInTheGarden 14 дней назад

45:53 I really felt this too

@glenrose7482 15 дней назад

None of the therapists at my clinic have disclosed their neurotype to admin but the vast majority of them are neurodivergent at this relatively large clinic with about half of them open about it. The most common job area for autistics is psychology so I'm guessing there is probably about a 50 50 chance of finding one who is neurodivergent (whether they know they are or not, much better to find one that is self aware so their isn't a wall there).

@zoevolpa2085 15 дней назад

I haven't listened to this autistic people talking episode yet but I thought of another idea for someone else to talk to/ to have more diverse voices represented which is always a wonderful thing! ru-vid.com (also sorry Claire if this was the wrong place to put this suggestion!)

@Infinitesimal-ho7it 15 дней назад

It has been tiring. We do need to figure out how to optimize our lives so that we can best contribute. The image of us being keys that will fit certain locks has been coming to mind, lately. Is it called "spikey traits" that could be like the teeth on a key? Too simplistic?

@StarShade-l7q День назад

Maybe a faux speaking stick might be helpful? And Isabella I have said "This is long but stay with me" so many times or some variation. It's refreshing to be able to talk and listen to fellow Autistics and our specific communication style. For example when y'all were talking about the difference between NT norms and how they have an overlap with ND norms but they are different enough that they can cause us stress and trauma. When soldiers march over bridges they make sure to not step in time because that can create a resonance that will build and build and has and will cause bridges to flow like a wave of water and break. So that concept but our ND mental patterns are slightly off from NT and when we can't make the allowances we need (not marching in step with the NT folks) then the resonance will build and build and take us out. Usually a burnout but sadly we have a much higher rate of the final option.

@shapeofsoup 12 дней назад

Claire, kinda sad lol but my experience with “is this seat taken” is more someone wanting the seat for another table because clearly I didn’t need it.