TO ALL THOSE PEOPLE WITHOUT THAT ONE PARENT IN THERE LIFE I AM PROUD OF YOU FOR MAKING IT THIS FAR, AND I HOPE YOU CAN MAKE IT EVEN MORE FARTHER TO PROVE YOUR PARENT WHO LEFT YOU THAT YOU CAN MAKE IT WITHOUT HIM/HER AND YOU DONT NEED THEM BECAUSE YOU KNOW THAT THERES ALWAYS THAT PERSON WHO LOVES AND SUPPORTS YOU ILY ALL AND TAKE CARE ❤💯💯💯
My daughter just played this for me and it saddens me how much this speaks to her. I wish I could fix the pain in her over this. Thank you for giving a voice to the kids who suffer.
Dude your a tard ovbs it changes once your kids truly grow up... eminem even forgave his mom and look how pissed he was. So dont comment if its just gonna be hurtful an ld not even close to facts.. if """ you know trust me"" that means you prolly fucked up not your kid@serenitylucker4725
My dad walked out of my life when I was 2. My mom has raised me since then. Now I'm about to turn 14 and my mom has raised me to be a young lady! My mom has moved to Mississippi to be with her husband. And he turned into a FATHER. More of a father than my dad ever was. But that didn't work out and my mom moved back home. My dad sees me and tried to take control of my life when he honestly don't even know me. I live a disfunctional messed up life. But I have an amazing family full of beautiful siblings and loving hearts. I wouldn't change the past. I would rather have a split home then both parents together hating each other. My on her own my mom has done a pretty damn good job. ❤️
This hits so close to home its unreal.... are we secretly related lol my dad left when I was 4 and I'm way stronger... I visited him in 2017 hoping he changed but he never did he did the unimaginable to me while I visited him... just know he isn't worth any of your time and become as strong as you can.
This song has helped me so much to get over my dad leaving when I was 3 especially part 2. So thanks bmike i finally feel free and thanks to my grandfather for being a father figure in my life and believing I can follow my dreams.
listening to his song and also reading through the comments makes me realize just how lucky I am to have both parents in my life. I can't relate to this song but I love his music, there's so much passion.
So, My dad left me when i was 8 months old! Then legally at 5 years old... after 12 years of him being gone he came back into my life.., only to leave agin! What a dad:(
That’s how my dad is also I havnt saw my dad since I was 14 not even a call on my birthday I’m not 17 about to be 18 and I don’t hold my breathe anymore waiting for a damn text my dad can stay gone I don’t need him
21 fucking years with out my dad this song gets me through alot when ever I start to miss him I play this and it reminds me of all the horrible shit Didn't even call on my birthdays He won't even tell me he is proud of me Talks down on my family (the people that have been there when he wasn't) Talks down on me bc I remind him of my mom Said I was a failed abortion because I got him mad Just so much shit I'm glad he isn't in my life anymore
You can feel all the pain, anger, hurt, disgust, just how sad he is. Sadly, close to 60% of men seem to do this to their kids. This reminds me of my Birth father, But now I have a dad and obviously better off without that man. This song can/will/probably relates to a majority of people and their parents.
My dad has never ever wanted anything to do with me since 9 years ago when my little brother was born. I fucking hate that man. It's fucked up, the only reason I even call him is because of my little brother. I care more about that kid more than I do about myself. He's the reason i haven't killed myself yet, because he'd be so lost without me. He left when I was 2 I haven't even really seen him since then.
Jake Artic man I feel it, my dad has 5 kids I was the only one he ever saw up until I was 10 then decided he didn't want me either, told me im not his kid, to loose his number and not to contact that family, it hurt and I kept contacting till the age of 15, then realized I have a dad, my mom is my dad, she may not be a man but she's my mother and fauther and I will always look at her that way!!!! ❤️ don't let your dads decisions hurt you, let his decisions make you a better person!
I know this feeling, my father left when I was 2 months old. I'm 23 and i havent seen him since. I don't even know of he's alive and I don't care. He was emotionally manipulative to my mum and worst still is that my older brother is the same, he's turned into his double. I fucking hate them both and my mum doesn't seem to grasp how much I hate my brother.
seriously dear dad (part 1) relates so much to my real dad, i grew up without him. Now i have a step dad and he treats me better then my real one ever did. your songs are so inspirational to me. because of this song, if i ever see my real father again its what imma play for him. love your songs!
the last thing my father said to me was that i was a mistake and that he never wanted my and let his girlfriend tell me what a worthless piece of shit i was he stole my sister from me and wont let me see her but i turn 18 this year so im going to get visitation of my baby sister i love her to death no matter what
how I came across this song my son was was singing this word from word I looked at and baby boy were did you hear this and he pulled it up on his phone this is about my daddy and he can really relate to this song as a young boy kinda shocked me and I had wrap my mind around this when he said mommy look what he did to you look how he beat you left our family behind and not once did he not call us there are four of us and he left for what i just don't understand my heart bleeds for him
Shoutout to the man I’m forced to call a father who left my mother while she was pregnant with me for my stepmother now then had three other kids with.. he may be in my life but it’s on his terms and I’m always on the back burner. Always the outcast compared to my siblings! I’ve tried multiple times to cut him out but then he’ll change his behavior for a few weeks and my heart aches for a father.. thing is he’s been asked before how many kids he had by someone in the family and he only claimed three which were my siblings... he had to be reminded about me! Says a lot about who he is and what I am to him...
i can relate to this, my mom has divorced three times, and each one of my "dads" never supported her, they always treated me and my brothers like shit and this song fits how i feel toward them
this song describes the situation im in rn so well.... my dad and i started talking and like idk anymore... its hard to talk to someone that hasnt been there for me... i just wanna cry..
my dad abused me all the time the worst time of all was a couple years ago before he lost all rights to me on new years eve he literally threw me through an apartment wall
My dad was told he was not aloud to see me or my sister when I was 2months old we saw him when we were about 4 years old but he was beating us black an blue 😭 he taught us how to roll joints an stuff aswell I hate him he wreaked my childhood I haven't seen him since I was 5 now an I've done good with out him Im now 12 I nearly killed myself last year because it was all getting to me but your songs helped me through a lot BMIKE love you x
Bmike your doing something amazing and great by inspiring artists or anyone for that matter. Also thanks unofficial music for showing me this extraordinary artist. Another thing I can say before I leave is stay in there people who don't have there parents with them.
its hard without that one parent buy its self. but them having another family is worse with other kids. living about 3 miles from u and them still not talking to u or seeing u . that kills emotional so I feel who this relate to this raise ur fist in the air and march I'm here for ya
My son sent me the link to follow. I'm grateful your music has helped him express what he is feeling. I'm honored that he thinks so highly oh me. Sometimes I really wondered. It's so painful to know that he honestly suffered and will continue to for so long. I was him. I felt that pain. I tried very hard to not have that be their future. Music really helped me heal. Thank-you for being that connection we needed.
This song reminds me of my so called father he left us to go to mexico now he is having more kids their more than he can take care of the ones he has here this song helped me move forded and see the real father I have here thanks bmike
so sad that a child could think like this of a parent. My daughter just sent this to me about her dad .. breaks my heart she feels this way but I understand. So to all the parents out there please be there for your children , they don't ask for much they didn't ask to be here YOU put them here ..just your love and support is all they need and want
really i dont have a good family life. my real dad abandoned me at 6 months old. my step dad abused me for 8 years and im stll abused my my mom. but for the ones with a mom that loves you or any parent that loves you then charish it for the people like me or in a worse situation stay strong can i get a hand raise i wanna know who lives like this or who read this
My dad wasnt like this he was a marine he was blown up to save his best friend i live with him now he died when i was 11 im 13 i miss him but you all i feel bad for i didnt see him for 5 years he was in iraq
IM NOW 13 YEARS OLD!!!!!!!! Ever since i was five years my dad has been in out of my life and expects me to love him the same way the way i did but i cant. Then my step dad mentally and physically abused me when i was eight years old on top of that he physically abused my mother in front of me and my younger siblings, an then acts like he never did it. I now have very have a hard time trusting males afraid that they are going to do the same thing as my father and step father did. So any male that i get attached to they take advantage of me so now when anyone male comes near all I see is all of those people who abused me and took advantage of me . PEOPLE CALL ME CRAZY FOR HAVING HALLUCINATIONS OF MY STEP DAD AND DAD. AM I INSANE???
+Andy love you arent insane its not tour fault and i know you might not think this but not all males are the same and the people that hurt you dont deserve you in there life
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE your music I can definitely relate to some of your music. Keep doing what you do because honestly your music is great, so yeah keep it up.
To all the people bitching that the haven't spoke to their dads in a few years. how do you think people feel not knowing their dad. or the people who's dads abused them. also i love the way people are saying that they look up to their dads on this song. its song dissing his dad.
I grew up without my dad he's not the dad I was once proud of heck a daughter he's never suppose to hurt I go finding out my dad's been giving out mine and my kids stuff * including the Christmas stuff that I bought for my kids and then my ex go behind my back and has my kids my family taking but yet he calls himself a MF man to well who knew I been the roll model of the mom and dad who they never had * I can say I'm sorry for all of us who has to go through all the bull crap it's their loss * I love mine always will
anyway to start off I never heard any of this music from him but listening to the lyrics to this song and a couple of others some of it reminds me of my past
I never had a father or any kind of male role model my sperm donors been in prison all my life he tried to end my life when I was 6 months old I'm now 22 and I have a family of my own and I relate a lot to this song I listen to it every night
when I was 4 my dad cheated on my mum and she took him back as long as he wouldn't do it again he was a great father as a child but when I was 17 he left and said he didn't want a family life but 2 months later he was running his girlfriends nephew to school and now he takes the little lad on days out... he thinks putting £50 in my bank on Christmas and birthdays if what I want but I'd rather him use the £50 to come down and used me but that's to much trouble I recently quit my job as it was making me feel suppressed my mum and brother stick by me no matter what but my dad has always said "look after number one" and that's just what he did so for that he's not my father he's a "dad" a father looks after a family and not just number one but if he ever sees this I want you to know I hate you for what you did but on other other hand I love you because your my dad and that can't change (thank you for my child hood) my children will always have there father so thank you for teaching me a few lessons on the word family us three are great without you just so you know :D
Man Mike I understand you and what you are going through my dad left and hits me up and says can I have 50 dollars and I want to.not have a phone but right now you got a big fan keep it up and you are going to be on the top
I relate only time I stayed with my father twice and both times were a nightmare, everytime I would forgive him, he would show his ass out again. He was well off while my mom worked herself to death, he remarried a woman twenty years younger whom I share 2 sisters, and seven nieces and nephews, another older brother in Florida, with a niece and nephew there as well, not counting the siblings in England, Germany, and Mexico, although both of my parents are passed the earth now
I'm only 12 and my dad left me the day I was born he pretended to care and be there but bout the time I was 8 he tried again and I feel for it...Now he Is he reason every day I suffer from depression but I don't ever want to hear shit from him when my name in lights💯 Oh yea a few days ago that Nigga tried adding me on Facebook😂💯
it may be dumb but i always dedicate part 2 to this song to my moms ex aka my step dad he was a huge part of my life taught me just about everything i know about life and being a man and one day we figured somethings out we all got distant he kinda went crazy trashed a $1600 motor we bought together to do a car build and then he just left my heart aches everyday because he's been in my life since i was 1 years old and i always looked up to him so much i always wanted to be like him and now idek who tf he truly is it genuinely breaks my heart but oh whale thats life :(
my dad is more in my life today but growing up he would game alot and not really hangout with me much so my moms ex was always big about doing stuff with me and i got into cars we both got the same cars it just all sucks man :,(
No parent should ever pick anyone over their own children I’m sorry that this happened to you or anyone at all cause I seen and see how my kids feel about their dad choosing a whole other family
My daughter had an open door to him.. I never took him to court or pushed him away.. I never taught her this love... it hurt me to see this is how she saw him...
Everyone here is saying about how their dad left them and their family but my story is a bit different. When I was around 5 years old, he would beat my oldest brother and that mentally and emotionally scarred me. I was never physically abused but when my oldest brother left, my dad started beating up my other brother (who is still older than me). My mum didn't know what was happening but when she found out she left him and divorced him. It didn't help though for a while and it was a messy divorce. Even now, years from when all this went down, I still find it hard to trust anyone and tell them about my depression and anxiety. My family doesn't know but some of my close friends do. I'm not here for sympathy or anything but it helps to tell all this stuff so if anyone has a story feel free to comment or tell it, even if you just write it on paper because I promise as long as no one finds it, it will help you so much. To anyone out there who's parents have gone through a divorce or are suffering from a mental illness I salute you and your courage because it takes a lot to stay strong through everything
My dad left me when I was a baby. I am now 16 years old and I have not seen or spoke to him since he left. I know nothing about him or where he is, but I want to find out just so I can rap this to him!
