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B. Smith and Dan Gasby are out with their new book “Before I Forget,” which details their struggles with Alzheimer's. It's part memoir and part caregiver's guide with practical and helpful advice on how best to deal with the day-to-day challenges, family realities and tensions, ways of coping, and coming scientific research that may tip the scale. TODAY’s Al Roker speaks wtih B. Smith and Dan Gasby about the book.
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B. Smith, Dan Gasby Share Love Story, Alzheimer’s Struggle | TODAY

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@shadiatv
@shadiatv 4 года назад
He tarnished the love story. But what he can never do is tarnish this amazing womans legacy. Queen!!!Rest in Paradise!!
@beingmarilyngail8470
@beingmarilyngail8470 5 лет назад
The book is Before I Forget. Well, he forgot. He forgot he loved her and he forgot how to be a real man. He forgot not to cheat and he forgot not to bring his mistress in his house. He forgot his vows.
@patriciapowell1560
@patriciapowell1560 5 лет назад
Looks that way doesn't it.
@beingmarilyngail8470
@beingmarilyngail8470 5 лет назад
@@patriciapowell1560 exactly
@tiffanybrooks7618
@tiffanybrooks7618 5 лет назад
You're right about that!
@hiphoprabbit103
@hiphoprabbit103 5 лет назад
Being Marilyn Gail You are a beautiful man Dan . I have been where you are . I praise your strength . I know how lonely this situation is . Thank you for not leaving B in a home and letting her die alone I’m proud of you for loving B so deeply that you can’t let her go . Stay strong . Most of the people hating on you are black racist , bitter women . They can’t open their heart to understand your life and love . I do understand . God Bless you
@bnwo
@bnwo 5 лет назад
She spent her entire life trying to fit into white society, and now she's finding white society fitting into her home, and her man 😂
@patriciapowell1560
@patriciapowell1560 5 лет назад
B I will allways remember the Elegant Lady That you were And am praying For you🙏
@daquancherry6728
@daquancherry6728 4 года назад
Rest in Power to this beautiful spirit 🥺❤️
@babysunshine67
@babysunshine67 8 лет назад
B, you are from around the way - I met you years ago and asked you to speak at Black History month at a local university and you said yes ! U were / are so beautiful and inspiring and I am glad to see you are doing well - prayers go out to you and your family - Luv you!!!!!
@moonlite3860
@moonlite3860 5 лет назад
Dani, l am so glad that Dusty Dan came out with his lover, and know the whole world are gather to gather around to protect this beautiful person of women.
@celesteperry4929
@celesteperry4929 5 лет назад
I used to watch her. She's beautiful, and her personality was awesome. It breaks my heart that she is going through this sickness. Praying for you Mrs. B. Smith!! ❤
@Handle2point0
@Handle2point0 5 лет назад
Broke my heart to see him bring that other woman into her home. They're sleeping in B's bed, spending her money and living off her success... I'm truly disgusted. I just don't understand how he could do that.
@blessedmslady7016
@blessedmslady7016 4 года назад
I understand. . . HE'S A LOWLIFE ❗ YOU WILL REAP WHAT YOU SOW 🙏
@DanielleTRushin
@DanielleTRushin 5 лет назад
This video is from 2016... He announced his girlfriend in 2017...🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 I wouldn't be surprised if he was already dating her before his wife got sick.
@Shortlady82
@Shortlady82 5 лет назад
Danielle Silas I think he’s been cheating on B long before this girlfriend came along
@jesuswilljudge7296
@jesuswilljudge7296 Год назад
He was
@janetannisette5965
@janetannisette5965 5 лет назад
What type of love story he's talking about. If he so love why does he have that other person living in the house. No respect.
@bnwo
@bnwo 5 лет назад
Dan upgraded and is living his best life 😂
@phylliswilderdyer8159
@phylliswilderdyer8159 5 лет назад
Love is longsuffering... Love unconditionally... Love is not selfish
@j.riffney7939
@j.riffney7939 4 года назад
@@bnwo bish I know you are not blac and you are a woman. Gremlin troll.
@blessedmslady7016
@blessedmslady7016 4 года назад
@@phylliswilderdyer8159 AMEN 🙏
@ells80
@ells80 4 года назад
B. Smith has departed this life. May her memory be as a blessing. 😇
@AntoinetteChanel
@AntoinetteChanel 4 года назад
She was such a light.
@mjhawk4334
@mjhawk4334 4 года назад
Thank you Ms B. Smith for sharing your story, it has ignited me to appreciate my dad, and being patient and loving. My greatest fear since my teenage years was that one day my parents may not recognize me. My mom transitioned in 2016 and was diagnosed with Dementia. She never failed to recognize my face or voice. Thank you so much I look forward to reading and educating myself on this topic to become equiped to face the experience with my dad in love. God bless you, you're beautiful
@MissEricaBarnes
@MissEricaBarnes 5 лет назад
Awwwww so much pain in her eyes
@charlenewalker7891
@charlenewalker7891 5 лет назад
yes it was Be Debt Free...yes it wassssssss................
@triumphantqueen3091
@triumphantqueen3091 4 года назад
Eternal Peace Queen B Smith 💕💐
@magnoliamagnolias
@magnoliamagnolias 5 лет назад
May this book burn because of the lies that her husband told.
@honeybuzzard2843
@honeybuzzard2843 5 лет назад
Yea, BURN BOOK
@fredinestmartin5039
@fredinestmartin5039 5 лет назад
Indeed the truth will reveal itself
@blessedmslady7016
@blessedmslady7016 4 года назад
@@fredinestmartin5039 right ❗
@ArmyBarbie
@ArmyBarbie 4 года назад
RIP B SMITH❤️
@soiriliensthilaire3333
@soiriliensthilaire3333 5 лет назад
Know your partner catch the signs before it's too late
@aderlinejohnson8566
@aderlinejohnson8566 4 года назад
Im sure she knew he was attracted to white women
@vincentvarner-cheatham861
@vincentvarner-cheatham861 4 года назад
*R.I.P. B. Smith. She died this week on February 22, 2020* 😪
@consciousbeautycb5974
@consciousbeautycb5974 5 лет назад
Let B talk! He tried to steal who she is.
@consciousbeautycb5974
@consciousbeautycb5974 5 лет назад
Can we get a interview with B alone?
@tiffylovelove288
@tiffylovelove288 5 лет назад
I wanna read that book and see what happened from then and now... Bc i wanna know what chapter B Smith says, when that storm comes "abandon ship" ! This is wrong. He is wrong. Having cake cookies and ice cream. Soooooo those vows of death do us apart meant nothing huh.. Wow
@seand67
@seand67 4 года назад
R.I.P. Ms. Smith
@jaicoture
@jaicoture 5 лет назад
Fastforward to 2019... He LOVES her so much that he stays, but INTRODUCES a semi-new white girlfriend?!? I will sip my HOT toddy on this here... SMDH!!!
@bnwo
@bnwo 5 лет назад
Dan is living his best life and he upgraded. Black women worst nightmare Lmao 😂
@ajsassy788
@ajsassy788 5 лет назад
N.W.A. You're joking right? I sure hope so👀😡😲
@Yonder416
@Yonder416 5 лет назад
My prayers are with B. Smith...her husband has forgotten his wedding vows !!! so sad
@smoton2
@smoton2 5 лет назад
Bye Dan..how dare you!!
@MaryMary-gn3in
@MaryMary-gn3in 5 лет назад
A beautiful woman 😍❤️ It is sad to see be this way 💔😪 Her husband is so wrong 😥 Really where is the real 💀 Love
@theresalwayshope5349
@theresalwayshope5349 5 лет назад
So sad to see the decline from this video to the newly released WP Video - horrible disease.
@divinehealthspirit6462
@divinehealthspirit6462 5 лет назад
There's always Hope yes!! Omg, I want her book now
@terry-annanderson4917
@terry-annanderson4917 5 лет назад
Mrs B's husband seemed to have forgotten way sooner than her who have the desease. He disgusts me.
@yvonce7309
@yvonce7309 5 лет назад
I find it very disrespectful that. Now Mrs. B Husband has moved a white woman into there house. He as videos up with Mrs. B and his girlfriend in there house. Mrs. B memory is a lot worse now.🤨
@patriciapowell1560
@patriciapowell1560 5 лет назад
Right up under her nose,how disrespectful of him.
@tiffanypennington1987
@tiffanypennington1987 5 лет назад
Would it be better if he moved a BLACK WOMAN in instead? Instead of making this about race why don't you make it about the true issue?! We have enough division in our society without people like you making it worse.
@mylesburris3885
@mylesburris3885 5 лет назад
@@tiffanypennington1987 oh be quiet! I don't like you either!
@patriciapowell1560
@patriciapowell1560 5 лет назад
@@tiffanypennington1987 No I find it disrespectful to move Any woman into there Home as his lover right under his wifes Nose he wouldn't do It if she had her right Mind,he at least out Of respect for his wife of many years Could entertain this Woman away from He and his wifes home,it still doesn't Make it right because They have vows that Given threw marriage For better or worst untill death due us Part.
@tanyabrown6969
@tanyabrown6969 5 лет назад
Wooh Chiiillle!
@acajudi100
@acajudi100 3 года назад
He will reap what he has sown.
@aircamflyer
@aircamflyer 4 года назад
About finding someone if your spouse has Alzheimer's When my wife was diagnosed with Early Onset Alzheimer's in 2011, she told me that she knew that I'd take good care of her. I promised my wife that I'd never place her in a facility and she would be with me until the very end. I even wrote a piece on it that is published in a Chicken Soup for the Soul Book. She then asked me a very tough question... "Who will take care of you when I no longer can?" I laughed it off and refused to even think about it for seven years until three years ago when I saw a text on her phone begging one of her friends in our neighborhood to come and visit her. She never saw her again and by then most of her other friends had distanced themselves. Again, she wanted us to find someone to be a friend for us both, even to the point of trying to fix me up with some of the single ladies in our community. Exhausted from the day to day stresses and loneliness of full-time caregiving, I was at an all-time low and felt my health suffering. It's a well-known fact that all too often, the caregiver dies before the patient with dementia. I reconsidered her proposal to find a friend. So, together, we joined a dating site. I was completely honest about our situation. Both of our photos were displayed and I said that we wanted a companion to enjoy life to the fullest. I was adamant that it wasn't anything other than a platonic relationship. My wife sat beside me, paged through over 200 responses and, after weeding out the obvious gold diggers, loonies, and baggage laden losers, we met a few in person. I also said that I would never meet anyone for the first time without my wife present. I wanted to see the compassion in their eyes for her, as well as my wife's response to them. For one reason or another, we never found anyone who was perfect for our situation (travel between two homes, old enough for retirement, etc.), so I quit the site and took a few months off. Many of those we met either online or in-person continue to be Facebook friends. Two years ago, on another site, we met the perfect sweetheart for us both. She and my wife immediately bonded. They're like sisters. They go shopping, visit friends and family, get hair and nails done and, as an alternative family of three, are always together. We travel extensively and have been giving my wife a wonderful quality of life that she'd never been able to have whether in the best facility or just me, a completely depressed, burned-out caregiver. She no longer knows my name, that we're married and can hardly speak but she knows that she's surrounded by love and the constant smile on her face tells us we're doing the right thing for her. She visits both our families, children, and grandchildren and even comes with us when we attend Alzheimer's support groups. If you ever see us in public, my wife is in the middle, holding each of our hands. One of us always has her hand in ours. We don't want to lose this precious, beautiful lady, even for a minute. People often speak of marriage vows. How does anyone know what was said at a wedding? Traditional vows were written in the 1400s. "In sickness and in health" ??? Back then, someone got sick then died a few days later. Their bodies were left outside for the wagons to pick up the next morning. There was no such thing as 10 years of 24/7 caregiving. People with dementia were sent to asylums and treated horribly. So, you people can criticize as much as you want from your haughty position of ignorant condemnation. You know nothing, see nothing beyond your own myopic viewpoint and finally, feel nothing in your shriveled little hearts for the thousands of caregivers, both male and female, desperate to find a little affirmation and peace as they watch the loves of their lives taken away by this cruel disease. ... One brain cell at a time.
@thumbprint7150
@thumbprint7150 5 лет назад
Go on living the fullest life possible full of joy and care and happiness. Ignore the criticisms and just stop posting as this just draws attention to you all.
@mamaslim1
@mamaslim1 8 лет назад
God bless them and make all things work for their good. In the name of Jesus. Amen. I loved seeing her on tv. So sorry this has taken them. Good teaching. Awareness is empowerment!
@Nickyloveslove
@Nickyloveslove 6 лет назад
Praying for you~
@M2J89
@M2J89 5 лет назад
LOL
@Janice_so_loved
@Janice_so_loved 5 лет назад
So am i ....💕
@officetechtyping
@officetechtyping 4 года назад
RIP B.
@mimi7434
@mimi7434 5 лет назад
Wish I could hug her she is such a strong woman her husband on the other hand is a hot mess
@ceritacarter4337
@ceritacarter4337 5 лет назад
Before I Forget Book - Did she say get a girlfriend & move her in? Ijs 😏
@moonlite3860
@moonlite3860 5 лет назад
Cerita Carter, I believe Mrs. B. cut Dusty Dan out of her will because she knew he was cheating on her. I believe her money is all tired up in her will. I believe that is why he is publicly embarrassing her in public. This is just my thoughts and opinion. I believe the only thing Dusty Dan had was the house. Where is Mrs. B. brother and wife?
@nilevalleyrollin4247
@nilevalleyrollin4247 3 года назад
It's none of your business, control your own life,...if you can!
@svmundorf
@svmundorf 5 лет назад
Who cares what color the other Women is. The fact that he has another Woman is the issue, sickening.
@Seastar259
@Seastar259 5 лет назад
Dan and his girlfriend Alex are on the " Publicly Humiliate and Disrespect your wife as she Battles Alzheimer's disease TV Tour"!!😒😒😡... Karma!!
@moonlite3860
@moonlite3860 5 лет назад
GreenLife 4Eva, it's about the moooney
@helenboula3538
@helenboula3538 5 лет назад
Does she know you have your mistress living in the same house as with her no.
@verapeterson7069
@verapeterson7069 4 года назад
that's sick
@faylewis4268
@faylewis4268 5 лет назад
Dan need to get a good caregiver I am a good one and I would love to take care of her my hart is hurting to c her like that.
@foothilld30
@foothilld30 5 лет назад
It sounds like Alex was a mutual friend of both Dan and B before she became ill. Is that correct?
@justthe1049
@justthe1049 8 лет назад
GOD BLESS+
@territ.5357
@territ.5357 6 лет назад
God bless her and her husband.
@ebonysungoddess6648
@ebonysungoddess6648 5 лет назад
fast forward 3 years later and he's cheating on his wife, moved his mistress in while his wife is battling a severe illness and flaunting his white woman all over social media calling her his soulmate
@bnwo
@bnwo 5 лет назад
@@ebonysungoddess6648 She spent her entire life trying to fit into white society, and now she's finding white society fitting into her home, and her man. Hold this L, black women 😂
@jesuswilljudge7296
@jesuswilljudge7296 Год назад
Not him
@marykinuthia5780
@marykinuthia5780 5 лет назад
Slithering snake!
@ChrissyLoveLIVEtotheWORLD
@ChrissyLoveLIVEtotheWORLD 6 лет назад
Thanks B Smith... you and Dan are inspiring. Healing prayers...
@ebonysungoddess6648
@ebonysungoddess6648 5 лет назад
fast forward 3 years later and he's cheating on his wife, moved his mistress in while his wife is battling a severe illness and flaunting his white woman all over social media calling her his soulmate
@bnwo
@bnwo 5 лет назад
@@ebonysungoddess6648 She spent her entire life trying to fit into white society, and now she's finding white society fitting into her home, and her man 😂
@kiradavis9156
@kiradavis9156 5 лет назад
This is kinda like the movie of the notebook
@stefankurlak9556
@stefankurlak9556 5 лет назад
THIS IS NOT A LOVE STORY !! He is disrespecting her at such a level ... I wish she had a son that would have protected her
@GS-st9ns
@GS-st9ns 5 лет назад
He calls it civil rights. I call it civil wrongs. He's just wrong for that and I don't believe she's has anything I believe he's poisoning her. Without her stick a fork in him because he would be done. He is hanging on for dear life because she is his bread and butter. Sorry y'all I just can't take it Dirtbag Dan needs to shut up and let his wife talk. Someone needs to get her away from him for about a month because I think he's doing something to her. Someone who was with him? was that his girlfriend who noticed it too. Sounds like they've been in cahoots a long time. She should never have been at that interview because that was the first day they discovered her "Alzheimer's"
@christyjohnson6595
@christyjohnson6595 5 лет назад
😔
@sarannec1282
@sarannec1282 5 лет назад
I wonder if Alex Lerner saw this and other videos they did, picked up on how needy Dan is and positioned herself to work her way into their lives like scandalous harlots with no conscience do, hmmmmmm🤔..., I wonder.
@donnieraveling188
@donnieraveling188 5 лет назад
He is disgusting. He had a vow and that vow said NOTHING about Alzhimers and said everything about sickness and health which she leaned on.
@MsCK34
@MsCK34 4 года назад
He is gone get his Karma!!!! Ole girl gone do him the same way
@hazell1593
@hazell1593 4 года назад
Dont purchase anything in support of Dusty Dan. All the money will be going to his evil side chick!!
@evelynwashere13
@evelynwashere13 5 лет назад
He is a real PO 💩!!!! I hope he gets his back 😠😠😠
@TJWC
@TJWC 5 лет назад
He will.
@stephaniedylan3431
@stephaniedylan3431 4 года назад
they barely let her speak
@QueenIZA
@QueenIZA 5 лет назад
This video did not age well. 🤦🏾
@bnwo
@bnwo 5 лет назад
Neither did B
@Xtheearthchildx
@Xtheearthchildx 5 лет назад
Why not divorce her and have her go somewhere where she has 24 hour memory care? She made plenty of money to do so. He just wants to keep her money and give it all to his side chick. Disgusting.
@nilevalleyrollin4247
@nilevalleyrollin4247 3 года назад
She made him the business manager for her a long time ago, it was her choice not yours; He controls the finances not you and there is nothing you can do about it!
@nikiaellis
@nikiaellis 5 лет назад
Why she is wearing a baseball cap
@marywilliams9472
@marywilliams9472 5 лет назад
😡😡😡
@chantelspring111
@chantelspring111 5 лет назад
Should he deteriorate with his wife?
@romeoisha
@romeoisha 4 года назад
Her and his side chick..
@JH-vo1pv
@JH-vo1pv 5 лет назад
This man is despicable and his mistress is just a vile disgusting creature. Karma would be him having a stroke becoming paralyzed and his mistress prancing around in front of him with her new man.Old goat
@m.w.3256
@m.w.3256 5 лет назад
Oh if B. Smith could have known then what her deplorable husband’s adulterous actions would have on her now! If ever this is a wake-up call for successful black women with or without children and married! Have entered in that Pre-Nup a clause “in sickness & in health” that if you get sick/incapacitated, have trusted legal representatives and someone, other than your husband or children, to ensure you will be well cared for and not taken to the cleaners...with the aid of your husband’s live-in mistress!
@cooperthe1
@cooperthe1 5 лет назад
See: Dusty Dan's Mistress. Ex Nanny Says They Were Treated Like Slaves. by Paris Milan.
@vene1840
@vene1840 4 года назад
He’s a lier and a cheat!
@theuntouchablegirlkysieisc599
@theuntouchablegirlkysieisc599 5 лет назад
Doesn't seem like she's in the critical stages of Alzheimer's to me!
@kw693
@kw693 5 лет назад
This segment is at least three years old. Her condition has progressed since then.
@sugabooify
@sugabooify 5 лет назад
Gemors
@Lovejoyful606
@Lovejoyful606 5 лет назад
Ugh!!!!!!
@bnwo
@bnwo 5 лет назад
Dan upgraded.
@M2J89
@M2J89 5 лет назад
Upgraded...he downgraded th atrashy scarecrow.
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