FOLLOW UP: You can now watch the follow up here, ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-M4bjKlzrbRM.html You can contact Becky on 0794120614 and Naomi on 0768158233, both numbers registered under Becky's sister's name ( Cindy Okinyo). To share your story, send an email to lyn.ngugi@tuko,co.ke kevin.philips@tuko.co.ke or news@tuko.co.ke
Afadhali wewe ulifika form 2,,,, na mimi mwenye nilizaa nikiwa darasa la tano na sijawaijua baba ya mtoi wangu coz I don't know it happened,, poleni sana. I'm a single mom of one and thus why I always tell my son,,, if anycase amefall in love with someone's daughter he must let me know coz I don't want that lady to go thru hell which I went thru,, being a child caring ur own child isn't a joke it's very hectic & expensive,,,,I wish I culd offer her a bed & a mattress but Covid--- 19 has new cases hata kwa bank ukienda unashikwa na upelekwe quarentine centre wether u don't have corona it'self, thanks Lyn for sharing,, I feel so bad what they are going thru (girls)
Naomi I can feel living with relatives is the most hardest thing ever. Me I happen to living with relatives too since my mum left me I was a child by then and since then I can tell you it have been difficult to. At the moment am trying to make it though I don't have a child but my hardwork is paining them, they told down on me everyday. I mean this is so hard to us who don't have anyone to listen to our sorrows but don't give yet God's time is the best.
I could like two support this two young ladies to raise their kids, if I'll be blessed more and more , I can sponsor them to go back school. I got sponsored too and I need to stretch out my hand top for help.
@lucy wachira... well, it’s nothing new in African countries or South America to have a child with young age. My mother had my older brother in 1977 with age 15 and most of people that time did the same thing. My friend is from Colombia, she had her daughter at age 15 and became a grandmother at age of 32.
Me too i gave birth at 14yrs 😭😭😭but I Managed and I thank God for the far he has taken me walai it's not easy at all raising a kid at your own God bless these girls aki😭😭😭
Their story reminds me of mine I got ball when I was 19, mum wakanifukuza but nilijichuna masikio and now my son is 12years nimemlea peke yangu na mungu
I got pregnant at 18, that was after staying home for two years due to lack of fees,I knew my parents will turn so mad at me but I said hata wakuwe mad at me huyu mtoi nitamzaa,it was so heartbreaking coz the guy who was responsible for it even suggested for an abortion 😢😭 I said no liwalo na liwe I'm gonna have my kid,I started a small grocery which supported me and managed to shop for my baby... believe me by the time I delivered had done all the shopping for my baby and had enough cash ya kunisukuma hadi nipate nguvu. my babyboy is now grown up....he is studying his degree at Moi University.... so gals you just accept it happened and you take it from there,be strong and focus on your kid...kosa sio kosa kosa ni kurudia kosa.
İ wish we would educate our teenagers more. And people shouldn't behave like it's the girls' faults. Even those boys should know the importance of protection if at all they care they're as responsible as much.
Hapa kosa kubwa ni kukosea mungu kufanya zinaaa hio ndio shida coz kma ingekua tumemueka mungu mbele hakuna zinaa watu Hadi waowane ingekua mwanaume haezi kimbia ukiwa na cheti cha ndoa bt timesahau mungu all in all mungu atuongoze na atusamehe dhambi zetu na wanaume tusiwe na roho mbaya mjue tuko na dada zetu pia na watoto wetu watakuja fanyiwa hivyo hivyo pia malipo duniani
@@babradomenic7564 I've also been through hell trust me when am speaking about this am also a victim of drugs ,,,,but God wouldn't let me be an addicted to them He pulled me out ,,, so am not saying for the sake of saying
It is not the end of life,it is just a new beginning.i got pregnant at age of 17,dropped out of school,gave birth to my son who is now 15 years old.my baby daddy dinied my son.i chose to raise my son single handedly.am now planning to buy a piece of land for my son.God has never abandoned me,may his name be Glorified 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Both Naomi and Betty are so strong and brave young ladies despite everything they going through. They are each others support system and it's rare to find such true and real friendship. The sacrifices they both making for their beautiful bundles of joy. 💜
Love you my small sizs...there is no permanent situation Ata mashida zi hukua na mwisho,, so don't worry God is watching you.. Love you and may you find a ray of light. 🤲🤲🤲
Am so turched with this girls ,and i pass through what they are passing now and i would wish to take this Becky with her kid and stay with her and take her back to school,am living in kisumu,and help me how i can get this Nyakach lady Becky!
My name is emmaculate and I am amother of one girl.my niece got pregnant at 14 and had to take in the baby for her to go back to school.the boy is now turning 5 Sept...the mother now was to enroll to ku this sep after going back to study.all this is to encourage this girls and if u don't get somewhere to leave the kids my home is open...I will take care of them until u are of age and done with studies....🙏
I was a teenage mum too, all i can say is parents should support their daughters no matter the circumstances whether they get pregnant in school or not. My parents really supported me and even took me back to school i am now able to live comfortably with my now teenage son. Girls dont give up build yourself to provide a better future for your babies.
Lynn you are the mother of Poor people, if Politicians would do what you are doing Kenya could have been a Better place to live, Corruption is really in Kenya they Governors do not care even if they see people dying of Hunger, they own Big Cares Big Houses and a lot Land, so sad
Very sad ....Tuco you should be in air aki...God bless you . good stories And you are a blessing . You should be in history aki you have helped many and you are continuing .Good stories and am glad you tell them to say something so that kids can see. God bless Tuko may i get An Amen!
Tuko should be Aired in one of the most viewed stations (Ktn,Citizen,Ntv) .It really helps in covering Real life situations. And am glad they have an initiative for helping the needy during this hard time . God bless you Tuko!
This has reminded me back in 2009 when I got pregnant at 16.lt was not easy l had to run away from home to Shags my dad didn't want me at all thanks to my baby daddy who came to my rescue and that's how I got married
Teenage pregnancy really does put the girls in a between the a rock and a hard place situation. They need support though parenting and the ones not parenting need advice and mentorship.
My dear kenyans, why cant we Form a group tuwe tunadonate 100 Bob kila mtu we buy Pads for the needy or whatever we can afford juu hivi ndo mimba huanza. Mtu anakudanganya coz of pads
I don't want to imagine being pregnant without a support system. I'm really glad the parents of Betty stepped up and gave support to her instead of looking down upon her.
I got pregnant at18+ in the early 90s I did not tell my Mum cause I was scared of abortion it was my Auntie that was a Nurse that saw the changes in me that told my Mum . By the time my Mum realised what was going I put to bed within four weeks. We are a bit well off my Mum was so embrass and ashamed you know the stigma in the nineties , she had to quickly package lol and send me to England . I left my boy with Mum and she did a good job , My boy will be 29 years this year with A masters degree from a top University in London. I never look back and always thank GOD for given me a good Mother and a special son.. I know it is had for these girls if there is no means and way out and it’s so disheartening and sad .l won’t mind supporting one of the girls if they promised to go back to school and get a day care for the child ( both Mother & Child). Please get in touch .xxxx l
I'm reading comments like I thought my boyfriend used protection I think this girls know nothing about protection for sure. Girls sex is good but not outside marriage, keep yourself pure till your wedding night.
OMG! How do you interview them? They are so courageous. God see them through I got pregnant at 17. My boy is 9yrs now BT sijawahi pata hata nguvu ya kuongea. God provide for this sisters
I love the community support, her friend invited her to live in her house, helped her to the Hospital payed for her. In difficult times. That's a real friend and a real supportive community
Pia me nilipata mtoi nikiwa 17 but sio kupenda juu sikuwai ambiwa ati ann ukihave sex utapata ball, or ukimwi but i thank God..... Vile nilipata mtoi nikasema i will take care of myself... My dota ako 9yrs working veryhard to her asome... God pia alichange my life i thank God..... U too gals i know one day ua life will change
Sister Lynn and Tuko TV crew May God bless you abundantly and always walk with you people. You are doing a commendable job enlightening and educating the society through your channel.
When ever Becky narrates her story I feel for her she looks exactly like my sister and sad enough my sister went through the same and she was never willing to come back home
This got me in tears,i love how u are motivating them to stay positive,this girls are still young and have time to get back to school,ur future are bright girls and may God bless ur kids and ur family
Parents, when you are teaching your teenage daughters about abstention and safe sex, teach your sons too. Don't leave the whole responsibility and burden to the girl child. Boys should also know that the result of sex is pregnancy. I hate what these girls are going through!
Thx Lyn for this story may God show them the way what amazes me with you Lyn you are simple and humble popote huwa unaenda unakuwanga comfortable kujifanyi special kudos😍💕
Naomi has a good voice and great mastery of language,she could be a radio host If things were different. My prayers to the both of them,brighter days ahead. Mungu halali
I also gave birth at 17 currently my son is 13 years he's in class 8 now..I swear I was the most confused element at that time..My dad was very supportive he booked me as a private candidate at KNEC so that i can sit for my KCSE..And I thank God through all that I conquered..went to Uni graduated and now abroad still working for my boy...Funny enough my dead beat baby daddy had guts to come ask for his son when he was 10..🤣🤣 Story for another day but never ever would i allow him in my son's life after you shut yourself out from Day 1..
Don't do that... He is coming for his son not for you, his son will blame you as a man for blocking him from his father... Men have a special connection with their fathers no matter how good their mothers are they still have a spot for their dad... You can never be a mom and dad, allow him to be in the life of his children
@@linnetmbotto7212 wait a minute...where was he when this girl was struggling, now he is 10 ,he sees him as his son..Pleaseeee...He died the day he abandoned her at the time she needed his support.
I got pregnant at age of 17 now my utube profile now she is 14 years old and am proud to have her as a friend and daughter. Be strong girls is not end of this world
This is really heartbreaking.... Boys can be really manipulative and these precious girls can't be blamed😢..... As another woman I can relate and I feel the pain
I recall this happened to me when I was 15 yrs and in form 2 my parents were very angry at me my dad almost slaughtered me bt being brave in scul I was immediately taken back to scul bt under stern conditions,thank God I did my high scul studies joined college and now am working to provide for my family my daughter is now 13 yrs ,take heart gals and when u go back to scul never engage in sex again
That's true. Teachers have been parents to many children! We had a teacher in highschool. She always used the last 10mins of her time for sex education. She did her best and I bless her for that.
i know what they going thru since i gave birth to my daughter at 16 then my mum chased me out of her house oooh its a painful story but they will overcome.do u know how it feels to sleep hungry wile pregnant no place to sleep unaomba kwa kulala during the day unazurura ukitafuta wakukubuyia food 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭cant even complete coz cant stop 😭😭😭😭😭
A mother is a mother regardless of the age. These two girls are very brave and acting very maturely to bring up their kids. Bravo to all mothers wherever they are n may the good God see this teenagers through.
My name is Carolyne from Dallas Texas, Thank you for highlighting this story.. I just reached out to Becky.. This made me cry, I cant imagine what these little girls are going through.. yet they are so positive and willing to fight for their kids. May God protect and cover them with the blood of the lamb. I will be checking on them
@@blessedoveTX I did call that number and the lady who answered said she is Becky one of the girls in the story. I sent $50 equivalent of Kshs. 5000.. I asked to speak to the second lady so I can verify but she said she wasn't available..I hope the money went to the right person
i think if there could be a law where a man impregnate a girl he should be put in action to tke responsibility regardless of age. May be ths wll lower their urge fr sex
works very well in the west where huduma number is functional, ukiweka msichana mimba utalipa upende usipende. Because verything you do is controlled by your huduma number, you mess you get blacklisted.
This reminds me of my teenage life,... Due to circumstances I got pregnant at the age of 16 ,sai mtoi amegrow ..in life shit happens bora wajichune maskio as I did, Kosa si kosa, kosa ni kurudia, na kuwork Hard for the innocent babies
Omg..I cnt believe I literally watched it to the end. It's so heartbreaking. I cried for them both . They are indeed strong teenagers. From the way they talked, u could tell ,with everything that has happened ,and still happening to them, they believe there is light at the end . I pray for helpers to locate them .
I got my daughter at 19 yrs but all my life, I had passion for education. So, I decided to go against all odd to take up my place at University of Nairobi. I thank my parents for their support ; May their soul rest in Peace. This phase made me understand fully what young naive girls go through and I have dreams of setting a foundation for young girls. Poverty is really a curse.
I got my son when I was 16 my mom walinifukusha home ikabindi nikae na huyo mzee ata kama alikua old than me when I give birth to my son kumaliza 2yrs nikakapata my second born thanks to God now they are big but am single mother of them
I wish our girls would be taught the importance of not engaging in sexual relations while in school, they should also be taught about safe sex. It is sad that the boys get away scott free with impregnating young girls
Baada ya kuhimizana wazee kuwaelimisha watoto kua na khofu juu ya Mungu ati waelimishwe sex education. Akipata ujauzito atazaa alee akipata magonjwa atatubu, jee akifia kwenye zinaa na hajatubu? Ww mzee ulomfunza uzinzi na yy nyote mnamajukumu mbele ya Mungu. Maisha ya dunia nimapito lkn ya akhera ni ya milele na nibora zaidi. Kwa hiyo tusiichane akhera yetu kwa kutia viraka dunia.
Watching you from Sweden 🇸🇪 I really feel sorry for those girls, they are Very strong to stand for all the problems they are going through, may God open the door for them to keep being strong to take care of those beautiful babies.poleni Sana.
Am praying for all of them I always wish I had ajob...I could have supported them with what I have this life is all about helping each other ....anyone who will assist them I will really appreciate. They are really going though ahard time .. but God has areason . . May God bless both of you and may you have a happy life ahead that my wish ..but remember once you are help help others too ...it not necessarily money ...only education to can help also teach the young one who are growing. .you will be both be blessed .🙏
41:28 minutes of so much anger!!!! Anger because the society lets these young males free while leaving these poor young souls in this state. Anger because despite teaching our girls, we have not done enough to let them know the pain of being cheated on, dumped with a child and dropping out of school and that this thing of ''playing safe'' never existed in a man's world. Anger because as you read here, most people are busy advising the young girls on caution, on safe sex and early pregnancy. When are we (me included ) ever going to think of advising the boy child, holding them accountable for their act, because I honestly believe they are older than the girls and are probably doing the same to some innocent ones elsewhere. We need to wake up from this slumber and hold the bulls by their horns. Unfortunately the leaders we have as a country will never do anything or bring up laws to sort this out. Beautiful intelligent young mothers, lets unite and help out. It is not the end of the world. They need to be in school when schools re-open. The reason I LOVE Tuko is because we are one big family and every little helps. Thank you Lyn Ngugi for the amazing job you do and may God mightily bless you.
I think by design, the girl child suffers the most since she has to carry the pregnancy and is the primary caregiver of the baby. But I agree with you. Let's hold men equally responsible for their actions. When a man cheats, society will blame either his wife at home or the side girl. It's like the man is never held accountable or responsible!!!!. Who started this drama 🤔😬
im so happy to be subscribed to such an amazing platforms I also want to express my gratitude for the links to the people so we can all contribute in helping. These are one of many stories I love to see to give people an idea of how life can be for others. I am very grateful for how God has helped me and I am happy to be able to help.
