Adoption say pehlay Islamic Laws ( for adoption) ko samajhnaa behad zarooree hay. Masha’ALLAH you are so blessed. May ALLAH SWT bless you with amazing daughter in laws and grand daughters Ameen. Lots of love and prayers.
I think no from islamic point of view u have already 2 boys and for that girl they r na mehram even Shehzad Bhai so u can help the kid aur sponsee the kid u can also ask any scholar JazakAllah
Dear I have two boys like you with age difference of 5 yesssss it is greatttt desire for daughter but now after 13and 8 years sons I thought for my grand daughter 😂 yes Allah pak nay olad di hay Alhamdulillah there are so many couple who are wishing for a single kid…. Alhamdulillah we have kids either boy or girl it’s Allah’s will ❤
This is me also...9 yr old and 3 year old...but when someone says to me about a girl i say 1. Its not my choice it is whatever Allah bleeses you with and 2. My daughter in laws will be my daughters inshaAllah
Mary baty b 13 and 11 k thy. Per mari beti hoi ab mashallah 3 year ki ha .buht buht shoq tha allah ka shukr ha allah ny pora kr diya. Buht ronaq ha ur sari famli ko buht khush rakhti ha. Mari gurya
i'll go with shahzad bhai in this matter..although i know ap jis ko b adopt karen gi achi tarbiyat or acha lifestyle den ge but adoption is a big responsibility.apki pori life change hojaye gi.thinking b change ho gi bht si cheezon mai..aik or bat MashaAllah se u have 2 son..kuch din guzren ge.2 girls ajyen ge ghar mai.or phr onke k bhi bache..lrki b ho hi jaye gi😍boht aagye ka soch lia mene.🤣🤣🤣
Your husband must be thinking about mehram issue. If you feed her before 2 years of age she can be mehram for your husband. Or if your husband’s sister can feed her before age of 2. Adopting is very good gesture. Please do that if you can.
I can understand the feeling of having a baby girl as well. However, Yar, I think people with girls should also out of courtesy stop walking around to parents of boys and asking, btw don’t you want to have a girl? The answer to that is yes of course. But when boy moms don’t go around asking moms of girls oh btw don’t you want to have a boy? It should be understood and respected. Ajeeb lagta hai. I have noticed ppl just love trying their best to make someone somehow feel bad that they are lacking something. So here is the thing, everyone is lacking something in this world, only Allah is perfect. May Allah guide us all. Ameen
shkr hy asa comment b mila sister same happing to me 3 boys hn masha Allah dil trapta hy k girl ho or loog asay pochtay mjy or jnay kiya kiya mnay suna hy girl na honay py here in uk specially log buht he tang krtay hn k girl ni tumara kiya bnay ga kon look after kray ga tumari etc Alhamdulilah mray bchay buht he caring hn mjy bad lgta hy unkay about sn k asa
@@vVeshremyshorts look after sirf Allah karta hai. Aur if you raise your boys well they do take care. Don’t pay any mind to it, most probably those people are deflecting the image of the men around them onto your life. One should make dua for Allah’s help, may Allah guide us all. Ameen
Great comment dear , Yeah we should understand and not hurt any one in any sense , so in that way we can make a beautiful world around us , I heard alot when I had two girls that I don't have boy now I have my 5 years old boy still people are not happy that why don't I have two boys 🤣🤣 , After five bad miscarriages I stopped my self to be a toy in people's hand , now whoever question me I reply them It's my Allah's choice what so ever he will give me I will accept it with full thankfulness inshaAllah and I feel my family is complete with three beautiful flowers 🌺 alhumdolilah ,
Ap k husband boht samajhdaar hain he knows k girl adoption boht difficult ha Qk namehram hota ha Father adopted girl k liye or zara c carelessness hamary RAB ko naguzeer ho sakti ha If he is not agree then don't force him because he is a sensible person and you must be proud of him definitely 😊😊😇😇😇👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻lots of love for your family❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yah but if his bhabi or sister can breastfeed ths baby girl thn she ll be mehran for him...i guess am stating the rule right...but yah there r so many complexities in taking any kid...so better to be happy with what Allah has given you personally.
@@Sheenkaaf87 haan g inky husband k liye to mehram ho jaye gi lakin beton k liye phir bhi namehram rahy gi Allah paak naush ko sehat wali apni hi olaad ata farmaye ameen
Salaam Naush. I also have 2 sons and both my pregnancies have been very difficult. And my post partum depression has been rough both times. I have been wanting to adopt even before I had kids or was even married! May Allah swt guide us both to the right decision. And may He give us the gift of raising a child that needs the love of parents. Please please keep us updated on this journey of yours if your husband does agree to it. I want to adopt from Pakistan but as far as I've seen Edhi only gives children to people unable to have kids? If you've heard of other ways please please enlighten me. ❤❤❤ Love from Atlanta.
I also want adopt a child because I have some medical issue about kids but no one is guide me in positive manners if anyone wants to give their kid then I am willing to adopt that child
Dear naush Aoa. You r so decent lady. You explained the issue very well in a very nice way.Dear adoption ke issue mein Shahzad bhai k sath hon. Allah ne aap ko bhat pyari aulad de hay. Apne aap ko imthan mein mat dalye ga.bhat sare Phychological issues create ho sakte hain.i am not too much islamic person but I know islamic point of view se b there are some issues. Allah bless you and your family. Ameen 😊
Saving a life and providing for a life is an excellent descision..No doubt. But sharai aitbar se kuch maslay atay hain.. Jo k serious hain r un p tawaju deni chahye.. Jessy, agr ap larki adopt krte hain to wo ap k bachu r husband k lye namehram hojaegi..r agr koi larka adopt krta hy to us k lye us ghr ki khawateen namehram hojaengi once he will hit the puberty.. R ap bachay se chupa b nahi skte k k wo adopted hy, shariah k hisab se u have to tell the baby k us k father r mother kon hain..infact zaid bin harsa r.a jinko NABI saw ne beta banaya hoa tha quran me ayat I thi k unko un k bap k nam k sath pukaro r ye k wo tumhare betay nahi hain..r na he adopted kids ka ap ki property me koi hissa hota hy..r bhi is trha k sharai masail hain jinko overlook nahi kia jaskta.. May Allah swt make it easy for you and for everyone who is struggling for any cause ameen.
Aap bhut mehnat karty hyn.. ALLAH aapko kamyaab Kary.. Aapki 2 betya hyn jo koi r paal raha hy... R Haan Mai to adopt karny k haq me ni namehram ki waja sy. Haan albatta aap apny bhai ya behn ka beta r aapky husband unky bhai ya behn ki bety adopt Kar sakty hyn. Keu k wo mehram hogy aapky.. Phir masla aajaey gaa aapky beto ka k wo Bari ho k namehram hojaey gy... To behter ye hy k aap time per apny beto ki shadi Kar k apki 2 betya jo koi r paal raha hy wo ly aen...
Kaash aap k paas b ek beti hoti to aur bhi kuch spl videos Girls k dekhne ko milta sach me ... Lot's of learn from ur videos di 👍😊 Allah her Beti k khwaish ko pura kare Ameen ✍️ Hum 3 daughters hi di😊
mashAllah bht Acha Soch ri hen. Mre b 3 bete hen aur mri b AJ kal Apne husband k sath yehi debate chal ri k aik beti adopt kr Lete hen. Allah apk aur mre haq men behter Faisla kre
acha socha ap ne 👏 ap logo ki life well set hy kids barey ho gy hy phir sy life rewind ho jae gy kuch time hy tihami ki shadi ho jae gy us k kids hojae gy ❤
Assalamualaikum Baby adopt karne ka irada bahut achcha hai kisi bachchi ko aap jaise pyar karne wale parents mil jayenge lekin aap kaTihami matured hai n understanding bhi but Dil ke kone mein woh accept nahi kar payega mishu chota hai fir bhi agr aap ki himmat ho toh bahut achcha hai.
M toh full apke support me hu q ki abhi nhi toh aage ja k beti ki kami feel hoti h bcz beti hmesha apne parents k bhut qrib hoti. Or hmari khala ko b beti nhi thi unhone b adopt kya ab unka dekh meri cousin b adopted k plan me h. I hope use b mil jaye
Meri bhi 2 daughter hai aur 2doni delivery mein bacche ki jaan per aur meri jaan par banaye 😭 Allha Pak ne mujhe meri betiyon ko jindagi Di Allha Pak laakh shukr hai all ok fir bhi log piche pade hue hain ki Teesri delivery kar lo beta to hona chahie Allhumdolillha mujhe aur mere shauhar betiyo se bhut Khushi h Love you from India 🇮🇳 Mumbai Maharashtra
U guys r very decent Masha'Allah. I go with shehzad Bhai in girl adoption. In terms of shariah, baby girl Wil b na-mehram for ur sons n husband when she grows up. Don't gt me wrong but Allah k hukam k against kar k u won't b happy. Insha'allah u'll gt good bahus so no need of beti. Allah k har KAAM main maslehat Hoti hai coz He is All-knowing.
Mashallah acchi soch hai...ajkal Syria me earthquake me kithne nhanne se bacche be Ghar ho Gaye unki Puri family ki mauth hogayi Allah un sab bacchon ko apne hifzo amaan me rakhe ameen.....
Bht ache bat hai k ap adopt kry gy baby agr ap k husband maan gay inshallah ap ki wajha sa kise ki zindaghi Ben jaye gi ache life guzar saky gi ya saky ga koi inshallah is sa bari naikii mjy lagta hai ho he nai sktiii sub sisters Mary liya b zaroor dua krna Allah mjy b utr ulaad da Abe ek beta hai 5 sal ka zaroor dua kijeaa ga please
Ap baby adopt karen and us baby ko kisi qareebi relative sy mother feed kara lain jis sy wo ap ki family k lie issue na hn jesey log bat kr rahy hain mehram waly issue ka
As Salam o alikum meri bhi koi ulad ahi hai bohat saal ho gye aap sb hamary leye bhi sehat zindagi wali naik oulad ki dua kejye JazakALLAH khairan kasera 😇
Very happy for you, adopting a child is a life changing decision, I am sure if you have made this decision you are well aware of the importance. My duas for you May Allah guide you and keep you safe.
Sach mein ye baht taklif deh hoti kyun ki humare ghar mein ye case ho chuka hai .Baht hi muskil waqt hota hai yeh. Allah hum sab ko aise paresani se bachaye. Apka adoption ka decision sahi hai
Hamesha aise nahi hota go a head for third child u will get beti inshallah Duwa her cheez ku badal deti hi Allah ki zaat pe bharosa Karo .. sub theak hoga
O Allah ronkathy khary ho gy mishi ko asy dekh k Allah pak ap k dono bacho ko sehat wali mukamal zindgi dy.Alhamdullilah both are fine now Alhamdilullilah❤
Sister you go ahead and adopt your little girl. Ignore what everyone’s saying because this is your decision. Once it’s ur daughter, it’s yours. Not anyone’s business. You’re SO SO lucky to become a mom to a little girl. She is gonna be your little best friend!!! And ofc your little helper😄😄😄😄
Assalamualikum iam frm India must say addicted to ur vlogs, alhamdulillah i have 19yrs son n 17 yrs girl but still wanted one more son n adopted a baby boy 6yrs back now feel complete famly
Same meri beti ka mishari wala case tha at birth.. My bp was high, baby sugar was low and ventricular septal defect(vsd) Alhamdulillah Allah pak ny khud hi heart wala jo issue tha khatam kr diya tha.♥️
Seems like u r telling my story ..blessed with 2 boys Alhmdulillah but i had same blood pressure issue and so my babies also suffered…lotss of good wishes for u naush ❤❤
Assalamu Alykum wrwb, I haven’t seen the video yet but as per the caption I believe you have spoken about adoption. I conceived after 9 years Alhmdulillah and during the time which was obviously difficult, when I was not able to conceive, we were planning to adopt a baby and the mindset was obviously to take care of that baby who has no parents. We asked from mufti and came to know that it is non-mehram for your husband if it’s a girl and it is non Mehram for me if it is a boy. So we stopped there. I would request you to consult Islamic scholars/muftis then take decision. Btw I am living in Sharjah too so did consultation here.
Same concerns here. What about if mother feeds the infant baby. What is the relation of that baby with her other kids and husband ? I think it would be sisters and brother but not sure abt husband.( mom of three boys Alhamdulillah so interested to adopt a baby girl)
@@simeek4224 yes if mother feeds thr adopted baby then father or becomes father (through milk relation). Then child would not be non mehram to either the mom or dad. Otherwise adopted boy will be non mehram to mom and girl likewise to father after chuldren reach puberty.
Even if you feed baby, still they are non mehram. Another thing of adoption is that you cannot give your name to that baby like you give to your real daughters and sons. If your adopted child is from your own sister or brother or from your husband’s brother or sister then they are mehram to you and your husband.
dear ap logo ki na sunain yakeen manay jo baby ko adopt karnay k bad jo life ap us ki change karain gi aik maa baap ka peyar de k yakeen manay khuda ko peta nai insan ka konsa amal pasand aa jain wesay b dilon k bhaid to khuda janta hai ap k dil saf honay chaiey bus phir hi khuda ap k dil main aesi neki karnay ki khwahish dalta hai i am from germany meri 2 betian hain Mashallah 1 mishu jitni aik 3 sal ki Masha Allah aik beta hai hai woh ap k tehami ki age ka hai but yakeen manay idar germany main bohat mushkil hai adopt karna bacha but mera itna dil hai k main aik baby adopt karun halaky meray pas dono nemtay hain but us bachay ko maa bap ka peyar de k jo khushi hasil honi hai na us ka muqabla nahi kar sakta please mujay jawab zaroor dain
I have the same thoughts..☺️ Blessed with 2 sons but still longing for 1 daughter.. Anyways Gods will.. that why I can relate so much with your vlogs however I am not as perfect as you..💕
Yes that is really good decision adopt karna acchi Baat Hai insan ku ghar pay koi janvar layay too ussay b piyar hojata hai bacchay say b hoojayaya ga bas mind sat karray k yay b apni bayti hai loog khoon ka hi soochtay apna khoon zaruri nahi ittnay bacchay hai jis k Maa Baap nahi hai yay b sawab ka hi kaaam hai ussay b piyar milnay ka haq hai every one should think to adopt kids
I do appreciate the way you are thinking for adoption,, above all i can say that she could be lucky to have parents and siblings from all of you .....and again you guys can open another new chapter of patenthood for not only the baby girl as well and example for all parents and siblings too.. From India..
اللهم صل على محمد وعلى آل محمد كما صليت على ابراهيم وعلى ال ابراهيم انك حميد مجيد اللهم بارك على محمد وعلى آل محمد كما باركت على ابراهيم وعلى ال ابراهيم انك حميد مجيد
Aslaam o alakum! Allah nay 2 bachoon key sorat mai namat dee hai jo dya uska bohat bohat sukria. Larkion key kismat say dar lagta hai. I think adopt key zarorat nahi jab un bachoon ko life mai pata chalta hai tu problems create ho jati hain. Allah nay dyni hoti tu aapko aik baiti dy dayta usnay jo bahtar smja dy dea aap bus mutmaen ho jain aur uska shukar ada karain. Allah bless you and your family Ameen summa Ameen.
You all are a beautiful family, with good values and have an abundance of love and gratitude. You would be lucky to have another baby and the baby would be equally blessed to have you guys as her mum and dad. But this yearning has to come from within the heart. It can't be convinced by debate. Just like babies are conceived, the heart conceives love for another. So let him have his space and find his way to it or away from it. Other than that MashAllah you both are blessed with 2 boys, may Allah bless you with 2 beautiful bahus with daughterly love. ✨ 💖
Meri do betiyan hai mashAllah se or un k dam se jo ghar me ronak hoti hai my alfaz me biyan ni kar sakti or apne apko bht zada khush naseeb samjhti ho k Allah ne humen is qabil samjha k apni rehmate bheji or meri or mere hubby ki khawhish hy k 3rd bi humari beti ho ♥️♥️
Khana dekhna me bhot acha LG rha h SB se Dua ke guzarish h k Mere family k liya Dua kre k Allah pak hamare mushkila asnan kre hamara krza khatm kr de hm bhot zayada preshan hn es ke waja se Mera bacho ke school ke fee's jma ho rhe hn q k serly Jo bhe ate h wo krz dena me chale jate ur khabe khabe hame bhokha bhe Sona prta h
Assalamualaikum wrwb Dear Naush ur thought for adopting a girl child is very good,at first when I saw ur vlog saw a baby in incubator I thought u ppl might hv decided to adopt from turkey,Syria coz many children are orphan now,after watching the whole vlog it was baby mishary,any ways best of luck may Allah give hidayath to ur hubby n make both of u to decide on this,u hv given a thought that a very big thing 🥰♥️
Aslam o alikum, ap baby girl adopt kren gi but wo apky beton ki behn kbhi nhi ho skti kiun k ye rishty Allah tala ny khud bnay hain humain ekhtyar nhi dia is me.
People like you having fan following must must must go for baby adoption, you can inspire and motivate others, save and change so many innocent lives. Also you will be rewarded in both worlds.❣
Its good to adopt a child but prefer to adopt from ur husbands family side taky bachi k bary hony pr ghar mein koi namehram wali tension na ho... All the best
Mera ek b baby nahi hai 2 miscarriage hogaye hai me and my husband both agree for adoption We r living in uae yaha k laws bht strict hai to yaha sy adoption nahi krskty Agr apk husband agree hai to apko zaror adoption krny chyea ❤️
Bless all children every where and if u go ahead and adopt a girl sister lots of blessings will come to u and ure fly🤲🙏so many babies out there need a forever home, especially girls🤲🙏
You should restart pregnancy procedure with a doctor help. You should do all your tests. Every pregnancy different hoti hai. Zaroori nahi is dafa bhi aisa hi ho. After all you know better your health issues. You can take a best decision.
You should adopt a baby girl.. if its possible plz adopt from turkey.. jink waldyn earthquake ma ni rhy un ma sy ksi ko adopt kr lyn..! Allah pak bht nawazny waly hain..!
I have 6 year baby girl ....Lekin me is KO smbhal nhi skti me bohat bimar ho me chahti ho meri Beti KO achi life mil Jae aap bohat achi hy meri bachi ko beti bna ly
Allah aap ki Soch ko pura kare q k bahoot hi naik khayal hai q k me or mere husband bhi soch rahe hai girl adopt krne k liye mujhe bhi 2 son hai meri health k isue ki wajhe se 3 baby ki plan nahi kr rahe hai
Even i always say my husband i want to adopt mayray baytay hai 2 aur ek bayti b Hai laikin mujhay ek bayti adopt karnay ka man hai inshallah jaldi ki yay kam hoojayaya
Alhamdulillah kaseera mera ek beta hy 4 saal ka. Osk bad 2 miscarriage hogay ab log mjy achot smjaty hn k... Alhamdulillah ab mai saudia agae hon pak k pakeeza logon sy jo mery jeson ka saaya nae chahty apny sath... Allah pak hmy es tang nazri sy bachay. Dua krye ga sab mery liy k Allah pak mjy or zindage tandrusti wali or olad sy nwazy... Amin
