Bachelor Alum Colton Underwood Reveals What Helped Him Realize He Wasn't Gay (Exclusive) 

Just saw the recommendation. Never knew of this interview.😁

💯😂

Yeah and he is such an ass for telling lies to basically everyone! Real men don't lie about their sexuality! I'm gay and we do not approve this message! Jus sayin

Yup, I just watched his interview last week😂

@@harrydelvalle3754 You have no idea what being in a religious, conservative home and background can do to you.

Me😂

Me🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️

Yep 😊

Hell yeah

This popped up in my feed as a recommended video.🤣

I’ve been watching other videos about him and this popped up. Crazy that it’s an old video. RU-vid knows what you want to watch.

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😂😂✌

Bruh I had to look at the date stamp cus I was hella confused

I never heard this interview but I knew he was gay when he was on the Bachelor.

@@peatier7626 yes,some gays live for awhile in the closet,for their own safety.

Triston, he evolved

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😭😭😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

A new book😂 every time the man comes to a conclusion he should write a book. You're savage😂. He owes us nothing. I love how funny your comment is. We would be great friends if we lived in the same area😂😂😂

He’s making a whole documentary about it lol

@@sheridan7475 I am definitely watching. I hope it helps a lot of people.

@@azikiwesnay7718 it won’t but he will make money so there’s that.

@@Salutations26 is he even gay😒 did he ever even spiritually struggle or mentally. Some people are so desperate for attention they'll resort to homosexuality.

Right, the ones who should be hiding are the guys who can potentially run into his stalker/manipulating ass

@@steffvm Explain

I don’t think he knows what he is

Marvellous Marv Because he talked about questioning his sexuality in his book which he is promoting. Duh.

because he's been bullied about it for so many years.

because he’s promoting his book and mentioned it

It's been discussed because he wanted to hold a interview with Robin Roberts hello

Your statement alone is why the world is soooooo fucked up

agreed!

I feel bad for his future potential partners

as long as he did not harm her physically he should be forgiven for any behavior as a result of lovesickness. he should be forgiven. pay the price, fine. he might have had to do something like community service or something and maybe take a class on privacy or possibly pay a fee to her, and guess what he should be utterly forgiven for that

well... it's not that he was trying to cover it up, he's taking ownership of all the bad things that he did. y'all should guys know that him coming out is not about him trying to erase all of the bad things that he did, but it's him accepting his truth.

@@yourmajesty1630 LMAO why is he entitled to be forgiven?! do you realize what a horrific experience stalking is? go listen to the Strictly Stalking podcast, or go look at the amount of women who are murdered by their partners- or who have PTSD even though they weren’t physically harmed. stalking has been described as “slow homicide”, because it kills your soul. what a disgusting comment.. “he should be utterly forgiven” LMAO because he’s GAY?

Hahaha same

We all are

Turns out he lies Dicks

Its unfortunate people see vulnerability as a weakness to attack, instead of a strength.

@@psychiccrocodile3679 Sorry but, Isn't that the definition of a vulnerability?

@@senselesswtf no, the definition is: the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally. It does not mean weakness at all. It means someone can prey on you. Really, the predators are the weak ones. Projecting their insecurities or using someone to gain something

But he should be called out for lying. Have you ever heard a straight man say that he questioned his sexuality?

@@milhouse14 they will never admit it. Colton had the guts doing it. I know men that also felt maybe they are gay in school because of bullying. If they are not in the in the popular group, are nice to girls and don't like to fight you are easily labeled as gay and bullied.

Some people have HOCD (homosexual ocd)

@@brooke4608 Yes! Thank you for mentioning this. As someone with OCD, our disorders rarely get mentioned.

@@brooke4608 Thank you for mentioning this. I have terrible OCD, this is one of my subtypes along with symmetry and harm obsessions. When I was younger, I had contamination worries but thankfully those have gotten better for some reason. As a teen, I started driving later than all of my friends because of OCD. When I did start, if I ever heard a noise or drove over a bump, I would panic that I hit an animal or even a person and I would have to get out of the car every time and check. OCD is exhausting and debilitating.

@@kaylajude8855 what is homo ocd

Karen Becker mane gtf💀😂

That's what I was thinking. He seems demisexual to me.

So you mean....women

sue she Yes. He has said he is straight.

I get why you guys think that, but if you go back and look, that's def not the case wut Colton. My evidence is a clip called "Jubilee's arrival in Paradise- Bachelor in Paradise 2018" and just watch Colton

Who or what do you think brainwashed him?

@@IWantToMature85 religion

@@IWantToMature85 society. He said religion and sports. They told him it was wrong, so he convinced himself he wasn’t, and then he spiralled into insanity.

@@RobAndrews18 religion doesn’t brainwash people. No one is perfect, even religious people sin.

Why is it wrong to think it’s wrong to be gay? The Bible says we are inherently evil, we are all born with disgusting selfish things about us. I was a drug addict for a while, Thankyou Jesus I’m past that. Just because you’re born with gay instincts, doesn’t mean you gotta have gay sex. Go to God about it and figure out what real love is, the creation of life to serve the kingdom. I’m not hating or anything.. I just know how messed up most people are behind closed doors and you certainly can love God and be gay. You just need to let Him guide you on what to do about it just like everyone else who sins

i never watched the show but i don't think i am equipped with a good gay dar. He is very pretty but its like he zero hombre flavor to him. a stocky Mexican will snap this up real quick.

Pape Diop. he can no longer live in the rural side .

He wrote a book for money and has to discuss this stuff. Of course people are going to talk about it. He knows that. It is what it is.

ss He is Bi , so what.He is in denial. What he says is double talking🤦🏻‍♀️He is basically telling us and then takes it back , confused 🤷🏻‍♀️

Lmfao!!!

@@lopear111 What's funny?

Not at all. I’m so confused

Colton is such a sweet guy I think all this gay talk has went overboard it needs to stop .Colton has never been gay and he isn't gay now so stop with this nonsense

@@beverlyangermeier8697 He is indeed a sweet guy. He has always been gay and is gay now and I’m so happy for him that he’s found his way to self-acceptance and self-love. And how wonderful that his parents are so supportive of his embrace of his true self.

@@beverlyangermeier8697 looool check again! he’s gay hunny!

@@beverlyangermeier8697 how do you feel now?

@@beverlyangermeier8697 this is why we need to stop assuming things about everyone, we can’t always tell if someone’s gay or not. And we should respect their process.

so he clearly is attracted to men. lol

Robert Paul Champagne No? He literally said in the video that he's straight. As a teen he didn't understand why he didn't want to have sex so he thought it was because he's gay - which he later figured out didn't have anything to do with that.

he only brought this up because people literally think he's gay just cuz he's a virgin.

You already knew why it was an issue.

this was a year ago.

They were calling him gay and it turns out they were right. He was lieing to himself his whole life and suppressing his sexuality. I've been there, and I can say it's so much better to stop lieing and start living

@@hagencarter8834 He said he knew since 9th grade. :| He was living in West Hollywood. the only ones being lied to were us and his girlfriends.

I'm gay and I'm not usually judged by other Christians, but then I don't go to church. You're stereotyping Christians.

@Travis Phillips I’m praying for your soul which is filled with hatred.

So why did he jump a fence for cassie?

And he said that the show confirmed that he was straight. Something is fishy here

Not all religious people are against gays. You are being ignorant.

Yes! Most guys don't open up like this so its great for him to be so open

Victoria Shore He’s not into both.

I think it was pretty obvious he was gay . I always thought he was struggling with it . Glad he can be himself finally.

The only thing that's straight about Colton is that he's straight up lying because he's gay as parade....

What makes you so sure that he's gay, what are you basing that on

Yes, it's hard to believe that Colton is straight because no straight man questions or questioned his sexuality ever.

Milhouse well that’s not true

@@milhouse14 He just wasn't feeling sexual attraction to people. Geez

Also Coming-out and presenting a Netflix Show about this one day later. This is so weird.

Its because he was having an internal struggle with accepting himself. He was trying to be straight and he used the show as a way to convince himself that he could be.

I think he may actually be bisexual. He said he felt in love with Cassie. Also stated he is not emotionally attracted to men. So maybe he is only sexually attracted to men and emotionally attracted to women. He’s never had sex with a woman. Maybe if he tries it once he may then change his mind and think he is bisexual. Only time will tell.

He staIked and harassed Cassie but gets a pass coz he’s into men.

For him it's because he was a professional football player and was often called "gay" because was open with people about saving himself, and wouldn't engage in certain demeaning conversations about women... and people seem to have an extremely hard time wrapping their mind around the fact that he, as a blonde haired, blue-eyed, big, muscular guy in the NFL, can be a virgin, so they resort to assuming he's gay. And that combined with the way he was bullied a ton when he was younger, and the way that he was raised in a conservative, Christian home where many things were taboo and they didn't have discussions, allowed him to now, in his 20's, let everything get to him and start asking himself "Wait, everyone has been saying it, and I don't have anyone to talk to this about,... Am I gay?"

@@kparker905 lol tho

@psychic crocodile What?

@@kparker905 hes come out as gay

Yeah, I was going to say he definitely sounds a lot like asexual friends before they knew what asexuality really is (like yes you can still want to makeout with someone or have a physical relationship, etc). It's also very possible that he's demisexual/bisexual with all of the questioning. Who knows? It's cool that he's chatting about it, but his conclusions I guess are none of our business or concern unless he wants to publicly talk about it. I just hope he's explored or does explore what asexuality really is and looks like.

I was thinking the same as I'm learning about it recently.

Jazzy Cakeup he literally is saying he is not

Sarina Gatjikjan he literally did not. He says he knows he’s straight now, but sexuality is a spectrum let’s be real. And you can have sexual feelings for a certain sex and not have romantic attraction. And Vice Versa tbh.

Yeah, I mean it's possible hes still slightly confused, but it doesnt matter to him now cuz cassie is all he wants. He probably just falls in love with the person, and hadn't found that until her. I'm also just pondering, cuz his answer was open to interpretation

Super Thuggin Agreed! I have no doubts he loves Cassie💕

@@darcyhopkins9055 LOL. Right?

He knew.

You people just can't stand the fact that Colton is straight ( well not all of you just some of you)

@@beverlyangermeier8697 You can be on the ace spectrum and straight

That would explain a lot

@@beverlyangermeier8697 this didn't age well lol

@@beverlyangermeier8697 about that...

Scotty, wish u all the best . Choose the best time for yourself.

I can’t imagine anyone coming out for fame, as I understand it is often very difficult. You pose great thoughts and questions. I would think he would likely be gay, as he finally let himself accept that part of himself. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and for reading mine.

@@LisaLGruman ~ You are welcome & thank you for sharing your thoughts, as well...Hope he's not struggling anymore... Two thirds of the bachelor/bachelorette shows end in engagements. Of the bachelor proposals, 11% get marriage while 30% of the bachelorette proposals lead to marriage...Some engagements last the 2 years, just to keep the ring; then they break up... Many will do whatever, just to get that 15 min. of fame, hoping it will lead to big success...It sometimes does. :-)

@@karibu1361 Interesting information. And, you’re right, some of them end up finding fame. Take care.

@@LisaLGruman Are you kidding? He only came out because he realized this was the only way he could clean his face. After restarting, he had no carrier. He came out and became popular again and sold his story to netflix, He's all about fame and money

@@faezehanisinia8685 I read somewhere that information about Colton’s being at a spa frequented by gay people was about to come out and he wanted to get ahead of the story. Regardless, I’m glad he felt relieved to have publicly come out.

Like clock work

Yes

Chiiiiilllleeeee

Welp!

Wow 😨

Constanza Garrido He did an interview for Good Morning America about his coronavirus diagnosis.

Hes literally promoting his book and he discusses these themes in his book CHILL

Cory Schmidt when your on your phone it only gives half the title, so for me it said “ Bachelor alum Colton Underwood reveals what....” under the thumbnail. Since it’s public knowledge that he has COVID-19, that’s what she thought it was about. No one could have guess this was the title.

He wrote about his sexuality on his book which he is promoting. Duh

I'm gay and I knew his ass was gay by the way he spoke about the NFL locker room issues and him being ... whatever that story was most likely a lie also. Honestly he gives gay men a bad name! Real men don't lie about their sexuality, especially when it has already been put on the table ... and he just lied and lied to all those women. I cannot remember the last time I was this upset with a male hurting a woman with lies about being gay .. okay, Bruce Jenner should have said something. SMFH

Nathalie, you like ?

I've been gay my whole life because of him🤣

Me too

I mean no disrespect but I’m confused. How could he be gay if he was attracted to cassie? He said he was attracted to women?

@@brooke4608 he lied

he only recently learned that gay people can be fathers. so learning that you can love/be attracted to more than one gender could just as easily be unknown to him. if he actually loved & was attracted to cassie like he still claims, then technically, he is bi.

I think your right. He has no intention of finding a guy, getting married, and becoming a father. He might go through the motions. Maybe a gay bachelor type show. But that will be unsuccessful. He will just say I explored that side of myself and then have another epiphany.

@The Elusive Vulture Good point. I saw an interview Colton did in the last couple days where he addressed that, so he’s not forgetting about it or sweeping it under the rug.

@@LisaLGruman I doubt it. Send me the link. Did he admit to putting a tracking device on her car? Being psychologically abusive and manipulative while in the relationship. Sending harassing messages to her and her friends from an anonymous number. Then lying and pretending he was being harassed when it was just himself. Showing up to her and her families' house unannounced. Being outside of her room in the alley at 2 am sending her alarming messages.

@@ElusiveVulture I sent the link. Did my post get removed because of that? It was an interview Colton did with Robin Roberts on Good Morning, America a day or two ago.

Oh honey, hes been looking for cheap meaningless sex, just lying about it. Its cute you believed that though.

kermitcyeh I think he’s running with the old virgin narrative for the interview and in the book. But he said at ATFR, that he wasn’t going to answer if he was or wasn’t a virgin anymore because Cassie was in the mix now and out of respect to her, he would not answer. I don’t think he’s still a virgin.

They live together, don't they? I'd be shocked if they haven't had sex

@@humankaleidoscope4989 , no they don't she has an apartment and he a home, but unless they recently moved in together but her family would not approve of them living together....

@@bluerivers5053 , correct, because her parents would not approve of them having sex and broadcasting it....

That would be a red flag for Cassie. She would not bother if she thought he wasn’t attracted to her.