Ellen got down to the bottom of the most talked about love triangle between Dean Unglert, Kristina Schulman, and Danielle Lombard from “Bachelor in Paradise.”
Nina Liu you gotta realize tho it ain't real life. The whole point of the show is not only for entertainment but to explore relationships. He was always pretty honest with the both of them that he liked them both so
I feel like..they don't deserve to be on Ellen yet. Also, Kristina...thought he was hot. I need her to please stop pretending this was a love of a lifetime. She was clinging to a hot guy she thought was into her. He THEN WAS HONEST and told her to see other people, BEFORE Danielle even arrived. Kristina is no victim And Danielle deserves a more mature man. Dean's got a lot of work to do emotionally, hopefully this will wake him up.
Zebee For real. I'm pretty sure the only reason she gets so much hate is because of her beauty. But, really, she was being used by Dean for her body because she is gorgeous. So, I wonder, does being hot and attractive to these people automatically mean being a slut? Because the last time I checked she wasn't the one who actually slept with him. Kristina did. I just find it ironic that they are all sympathizing with Kristina and calling Danielle a slut for being hot when Danielle wasn't the one who slept with him when she knew that he also liked somebody else.
Kristina is too forgiving. "If he learns from his mistakes". Seriously girl?? You make it too easy for him to keep coming back. You have to be more strong willed and cut him off completely.
Adrianna Fraser she only disables comments when the video involves children, politics, or LGBT, you know topics which can attractions trolls in the comments.
lol its pretty obvious kristina doesnt like her maybe thats why she sat away from them. besides dean posted a picture of kristina on his instagram saying she is too good for him so its pretty safe to say he regrets ever getting with danielle
Steffy Rodriguez I don't think he fully regrets being with Danielle. She was the one he had to chase and that's why he called her exciting.. whereas Kris was easy to get, and it had him push back on their relationship. Kristina actually made a comment on one of her friends comment section I believe 3 days ago (wells) she said "how do you feel about the slut shaming Danielle is target of... production seems biased". I think she is coming to the reality that D isn't that bad of a person, and even just taking her time to post that in public makes me think she even felt bad for Danielle in a way. No one should have gone through the slut shaming from a bunch of females. Just my opinion here.
Exactly, she's way too emotional!!! I mean we all were humiliated for her for the crappy treatment and all the disrespect she got from him, yet when Ellen asks she says she would date him!!! You deserve much better, woman!!!!!
She's pretty young, I think she's only 24. If she was maybe 4 to 5 years older she might be a better fit to be the Bachelorette. She's still my favorite woman from NIck's season.
makeupfirst i probably used a bad word to describe it HAHA the tension is real & Ellen was talking to kristina about whether she'd get back with dean but didn't ask dlo bUT aNywaY third wheeling or not it was still pretty awkward
t expresso danielle is better off without dean anyways. Both women were probably just attracted to him because of his looks. Dean is still just a child.
Why blame anyone? Dean is too young to settle down. Kristina couldn't all of a sudden get over the romance. As far as Dlo, it's not like she was having an affair with a married man! It was overall an unfortunate situation and they might all have some personal issues, but don't we all?
O-my-freaking-goodness Kristina. Please, develop some self-worth. You'd STILL take him back? (sigh) I genuinely fear for her future relationships. She seems like the type of girl who'd stay in a dangerous relationship. And Dean needs to grow a pair and just tell her the truth. He's NOT interested. He's so scared of hurting her feelings and not wanting to be the "bad guy." ((eyes rolling all over the place))
YESSSSSSS! He's not interested but doesn't wanna hurt her feelings!! Sigh. She needs to get a clue. But she had that traumatic orphanage experience so I think that skewed with her ability to love/receive love in a healthy way :(
Ka B Xiong Daniel said it to Lacey because he felt obligated. Dean didn't say it to Kristina . He said it in a confessional as he was balling his eyes out. Obviously when Kristina saw that, she was gonna feel some type of way. I definitely think Kristina needs to get over Dean but i also understand why she keeps getting her hopes up. She does need some self love but she's not delusional for thinking he still has some feelings for her.
Kristina is so arrogant because of delusional girls rallying around her in social media as if she's a victim. She's not. She's so annoying. Move on Dean. Grow and learn. Danielle, you are a prize.
Danielle is NOT a prize. She's so stupid, you can't even have a deep conversation with her. Kristina on the other hand has emotions and is smart. Danielle is an airhead bimbo. If you don't agree with the lack of depth Danielle has in her conversations (look at the one on one dates with her and Nick Viall), then maybe you have her level of IQ also
yea...danielle lo has relied on her looks all of her life (she was a car model since forever and there are interviews of her where she displays the same vacuity & laugh lol that she does now.) I think she seems level headed Only because she's not a very bright girl.
makeupfirst ikr? Ugh, Dean has totally lost all the sympathy and respect I had for him from Rachel's season with this Danielle vs Kristina thing. Obviously he just wants to have fun and not do anything serious, so I hope the girls realize that too.
I mean he's just not that into Kristina , he said it over and over to her , in many different ways and with his actions . She will forever be friend zoned .How did he handle it poorly? He seemed pretty honest about it to me.
Jasmin Cabrera I agree 100%!!! He's always made himself pretty clear with Kristina. Even told her the day before Danielle got there that he wanted to take a step back from their "relationship" lol.
Ka B Xiong Daniel said it to Lacey because he felt obligated. Dean didn't say it to Kristina . He said it in a confessional as he was balling his eyes out. Obviously when Kristina saw that, she was gonna feel some type of way. I definitely think Kristina needs to get over Dean but i also understand why she keeps getting her hopes up.
Ka B Xiong I agree that she shouldn't take him back. I agree that she needs some self worth. I agree she's weak. What I'm saying is that she's not crazy for thinking he has feelings for. Everyone is making it seem like she has absolutely no reason to believe he has feelings for her. That is what I don't agree with.
What I want to know is has this manchild apologized to each of the women individually? Dean slut-shamed D-Lo by reducing her to her physical features, saying she is a fun time while Kristina is out of his league blah. Dean also played Kristina. Kristina also should apologize to D-lo because in a way she perpetuated the slut shaming and attacked her which all these Kristina stans seem to drag D-lo for which is disgusting because she was a victim too. And now she is STILL trying to date this manchild. No one learned a damn lesson, maybe D-lo because she sat there trying not to be in any drama.
*danielle didnt do anything wrong, she was late arriving in paradise and she shouldnt be off limits to people who are obviously interested in hER. kristina and dean are not married and he made it very clear to her that he wants to explore other options (even telling kristina that she should date other people) so i dont understand how shes still confused when he obviously wants to spend his time with danielle. she needed to set her feelings aside and MOVE ON early unless she wanted to continue being a victim.*
I think Kris wanted to compete against Dlo maybe to prove to herself that she was the one that Dean wanted.. I mean it showed. Just her getting the rose from Dean. She seemed to want the satisfaction of D walking out more then winning Deans heart sometimes. Whereas I saw Danielle just doing whatever she wanted and chatting with everyone loving life. No shade to Kris. She's beautiful.. but is clearly still broken from her past.
I agree! DLo is getting so much hate regarding this "love triangle". She didn't do anything to Kristina. Dean told her he was not in a committed relationship with anyone. Not her fault he wanted his cake and eat it, too. He was stringing them along...and no one's hating on him.
I actually feel kind of bad for DLO here. It didn’t seem like she was acknowledged that much and that the interview was more centered around Dean and Kristina. Almost like Danielle wasn’t even there
Dean definitely knows how to play a woman. Lost all respect towards him. Thank goodness! Rachel saw through all his shit and left him. He's so immature.
@Faryal Zubair Boiiii, Rachel is married to that play boy who was, according to you "not her top choice", after dating him for two years, so um...... 🙄😶
Kinda sucks how we should all feel bad for Kristina because she was in an orphanage. Dean doesn't like you the way you want him to like you, it's OBVIOUS. Danielle is beautiful and deserves better.
I don't really understand why Kristina is getting this much sympathy. I mean, fool her once, shame on him. Fool her twenty times, shame on her. She needs to take some fucking responsibility in her role of refusing to let him go. She was desperate as fuck.
I hope Kristina goes back to Dean so she can get hurt again and realize that it was Deans fault all along. The hate that Danielle got because these two is so messed up. I'm glad Danielle has moved on. 👏
I think Kristina is the most at fault here by now. I don't really understand why she's getting this much sympathy. I mean, fool her once, shame on him. Fool her twenty times, shame on her. She needs to take some fucking responsibility in her role of refusing to let him go. She was desperate as fuck.
ouch, how many times is Kristina gonna allow herself to be dissed by this boy?. its obvious he does not want her, maybe he doesn't feel a sexual connection to her or that chemistry needed/
Dlo i like how you carry yourself...your poise..smartness..you really look professional..i guess its because you are a professional business woman..you are like many european girls how they carry themselves...so lovely to look at...
I don't understand these comments. To me, it seemed he was leaning way more towards Kristina than Danielle overall. However.....he isn't relationship material and knows it
This is so fucking annoying. Yeah, yeah, Dean didn't handle it well, but it's fucking paradise... Like how many hints did Kristina need? I mean, fool her once, shame on him, fool her twenty times, shame on her. At some point she needs to take some responsibility for holding onto him so tight and not letting go. When someone treats you poorly and you straight up refuse to walk away, you shouldn't be getting this much sympathy. It wasn't like some epic love story years in the making. It was a few weeks. And he was pretty fucking honest about it. About being a "player" but still, honest. And literally almost everyone in paradise did the same thing, the only difference is they didn't have someone they dated not letting go of them and crying to the cameras about it making them the villain. The hypocrisy is insane. I don't even find Dean attractive, I just feel sorry for the kid.
its crazy to me how people blame dean, did you forget the very FIRST rose ceremony where instead of tricking her to pick him so he has a spot, he decided to tell her "i want to slow this down and explore other relationships", which is a CLEAR indication that we are not committed, and yet she picks him anyway and says afterward "im looking forward to building our relationship", as if she had amnesia about what he said to her?! Dean's only issue is that he is way too kind and dealing with a deluded person.
“she’s amazing. He’s amazing. She’s so amazing” uhhhh can these bachelor people get some new words please??? If I hear one more fricken time that someone is AMAZING I think I might punch the screen.
Berly He's always said it was about the chase. Before the bachelorette he even stated his profile, "*Do you prefer a woman who wants to be pursued or a woman who pursues you and why?* A woman who demands to be pursued. Nothing good comes easy. - Dean Kristina, for him and to America, came easy...real easy. You're right, once Kristina left, he wanted her... Remember, though, she didn't really have a choice to stay (with any bit of dignity) since Dean already told her that he was going to accept a rose from Danielle, so good luck to them as a couple (she hasn't changed). That will NOT be a healthy relationship.
Dean is the biggest flip flopper ever!! Dean tells D Lo that he is gonna tell Kristina they are done so he can pursue D Lo. And then when Kristina leaves, Dean is sad for a little but then is happy she is gone so he can be all over D Lo without it being awkward. But here he acts like he was soooo sad Kristina left but he was the one that made that happen after he specifically had to tell her HE WAS GOING AFTER ANOTHER WOMAN. Lol and then after him and D Lo hang out more it looks like they might continue a relationship, but then Dean is all like oh actually I love Kristina. Like wtf!! And THEN, after paradise he still talks to both girls! you both need to move on from him! And Kristina please don't go back to him. You're more infatuated then in love.
Don't watch it, but this is likeJared & Ashley all over again... That Kristina girl will run around him for years now like a loyal puppy and pretend it's all good, that she's fine being even just a friend? The only difference is, that I like Jared, he strikes as a genuine, good guy , but this one has ''douche'' written all over his face.
Team DLo man. Like raven said to Kristina's face, IF YOU WANT TO BLAME THE OTHER WOMEN LIKE A TYPICAL GIRLL WOULD BE MAD AT HIM AS WELL NOT JUST HERRRR
Ahhh Danielle replied to me on Instagram bahahaha😂 I saw her post saying this interview was going down. So I comment "please tell me y'all grilled him just a little" And she replied that I'll just have to see. Uggghhh no just tell me!
Seriously Dean does not do it for me.. He is far from ugly but the fact that he is not very confident that turns me off. he has this way of laughing when he is not comfortable,Rachel did call him out on this
READ the body language ladies! He's still very young and clearly at the point where his interest is hooking up. Neither of these girls are at fault, they just fell prey to their emotions. If a committed relationship is what you want, Dean ain't the guy. You're both hott, move on with some dignity. He's not even THAT cute. I think Wells was the golden guy of the season. Who cares if he was "off limits". If a good man was what you wanted, Wells is where it's at!
I like kristina at first but after what happened i don't like her anymore.. she is a typical girl who feels entitled and blaming the other girl for the fact that the guy is just not that interested in her anymore.. the way she badmouthing danielle showed how immature she is.. she even got in a fight with raven when all raven did was just telling her the truth.. it sucks when the guy you like doesn't reciprocate the same feeling but you just have to accept it and move on!! You can't force people to like you.. stop blaming others for it and play victim!
I totally agree with what you're saying, but her behavior is typically of people who have survived the foster system. They always need control and can not deal with rejection on a "normal" level. I've encountered a few foster children that are now adults and its a struggle for them dealing with those two things especially.
It should be..but for the ones that I have experienced, its their fear and insecurity of being rejected and left alone or not having control over what happens to them because during their childhood that drives them. They were abandoned and then for many, tossed around the foster system so the control was never theirs. For some its simply a defense mechanism to make sure it never happens again. And also they tend to play the victim because for so long they were. Just my experience though...i'm no expert.
I'm a big fan of Kris & Dean relationship and I don't really blame D'Lo for being the way she looks. She would have been people's favorite if it hadn't been what she got caught up into. On the other hand, you just don't fall or think there's a possible chance of having a relationship with someone who has already been into a little bit of something with another person or maybe just broken up - fact is, those people may still have feelings for each other; and what you're building with them isn't gonna last long
Probably none of yall saw Nick's season, but I did and Kris is my absolute favourite non lead bachelorette, shes been through SO much in her life, and all of yall putting her down here sucks.
actually, what dean said in bip after kristina left : he said that he realized he's in love with her. he cried (so bad). so there are two possibilities 1. he's really in love with her 2. he's a great actor
There is so many good guys out here who can treat a girl right. Don't fall into the hole you once climbed out of on your own. If he knows he had failed you, he should give you to someone who can see yourself worth.
He reminds me of an ex I gave too many chances to. Indecisiveness is STILL a decision! Save yourselves the heartache ladies! Poor Kristina looks ready to jump back in. 🤦🏾♀️
Kristina is beautiful and sweet. And seems like someone who can hold a conversation. So tired of seeing girls like this have no self-worth and chase after guys who treat them badly. The fact she still wanted him after he chose to go on a date w DLo... really? That would've been the dealbreaker for me. Why would you want someone who makes you feel so wanted and then with the flip of a switch disregards your feelings and goes out w someone else... the shit makes no sense. RAISE YOUR STANDARDS KRISTINA.
Don't forget that Dean cared enough about Kristina that he went to Kentucky to see her once the show was over. He made amends with her so who knows what transpired or what was said during that visit. He has a picture of the two of them on his instagram. Tonight we will find out how things went between Dlo & Dean. It doesn't seem like he fell for DLO as much as he did with Kristina. I wonder why Dean wanted to leave the show after Kristina went home. Hopefully, tonight will give us a better idea as to where Dean stands right now.
Rachel DHM, he went back after the show ended also. It's on Kristina's twitter page. Copy of the tweet: Kristina Schulman Retweeted grace♛ @GraceOsbourn11 Aug 15 More Dean was in Kentucky... with @kristinaschulma 😫😍 5 replies 17 retweets 195 likes Then after the above⬆︎ tweet showed up, Dean pasted a picture of the two of them together in Kentucky on his Instagram page. The dates were after the show, so I'm assuming it was in addition to the first time during the break. But, who the hell knows for sure.
I'm so glad they didn't rekindle anything... 2 years later, Dean turns out to be awesome and all grown, Christina on the other hand... Petty and has a lot of growing up to do.
honestly, this whole thing pisses me off. yes dean kind of was a player and played them, BUT he also told kristina how many times that he wanted to slow down? i understand he shoulda not flirted w her after that, but cmon. it's bachelor in paradise, the whole show is a joke. what about everyone else that was doing that? amanda with robbie? why is everyone so pissed off that dean went on the show and did EXACTLY what the show is meant for? to meet new people? idk why it makes me so angry it has nothing to do w me, but i just hate seeing all of these people coming at Dean and making him seem like SUCH a terrible guy
I'm sure that's because Kristina kept the door open but D-Lo seems done with it. The impression I got was D-Lo was okay being the other woman until she got treated like Kristina
