Josue is bringing Natalia to court for her to pay child support for their two children. She said she never wanted kids, only wants to party, and that the children are Josue's responsibility.
@@MsElfdee tho if he love's those kid's I think he shod have those kids with someone else that love's him and the kid's. do you think that's nice sorry if that sound mean
@@leehollow4410 I agree. that's what i meant. he appears a great dad, i doubt he'd love them less if he found they weren't his. the kids are better with him than the vagina which birthed them. they all deserve a better female role model. those poor kids if they didn't have him :(
I mean she seems quite focused on her career to the exclussion of almost everything else so she might be really good at her job! I mean being this dismissive of you're own family is hard to fathom so she must be doing something.
This dad is exactly in my position almost in every aspect. Im a single dad, two girls 13 and 8. Mom dipped on us almost 4 years ago and I finally was awarded child support and even full custody!!!! Dads like us who raise our babies alone do exist and women need to realize we deal with dead beat spouses as well!!!
My step-dad was awarded custody of his two boys after their mother left. IN THE 1970s!!! It was unheard of that the father got custody back then. He and my mother raised us (three kids from my mom) and my step-brothers as a blended family unit with no child support from either non-custodial parent. My best friend in high school had a similar situation. Her mother abandoned her because she is slower mentally and has a speech impediment. Her father left the Air Force to raise her on his own until he got re-married. I don't think Mr. A ever got child support because she didn't know where her mother was until 10 years ago.
My brother has married a single mother and they have a kid of their own. Even though she's not at work at the moment, because my niece is too young she is bored to death and doesn't want to deal with the kid much. She doesn't cook often and she doesn't clean at all. My brother is working home office, taking care of the children, he is cooking and cleaning. And she's just bored and playing on her phone and computer all day long. He complains to me sometimes, but I can't do nothing more than to listen and sympathize him
@@Just_a_Lad I don't understand women like this. I had 1 little one & another on the way,I was never bored. I kept house,cooked & played with my daughter.
@@debbieedwards420 You have my respect, it's great that there are still women out there who are okay with the role of a mother and a wife and they like it. Sadly, not all women are ready to be mothers and sometimes people around them suffer because of this. I have also rejected one lady not long ago, simply because she has issues and she's not ready to be a wife and a mother. I don't want someone with issues who is going to affect me and my children. It's irresponsible. All of this applies to men too, if they're not ready to be fathers and husbands then they should not marry and reproduce, not yet at least.
what's sad is how toxic the court system is, dad's are rarely given custody because of the misguided thought that mothers are whats best for the child and yet we hear so many stories of kids starving and/or abused while the father is forbidden to see them while the mom uses the money to pamper herself while she has multiple men coming in and out of the home
They're both crucial to the process. The skill set required to administer medical care is nothing without the necessary equipment and medication, and the equipment and medication means nothing if there's nobody to administer it properly. The thing that makes this woman useless is that she had children she cares nothing about, and I sincerely hope that on her death bed she gets the comfort and support she needs from her party friends because she certainly won't get it from her children.
Yes like my stepdad may he rest in peace made sure I learned Spanish along with English telling my sU back then I'd probably need it for my future career ..
I like how she says "I have a more important job than him" ...he delivers medical supplies to hospitals. Pretty sure she wouldn't be able to do her job with no supplies
I use to work as nurse and I have to thank him for delivering the supplies for us to complete our work. We have many Unsung heroes in Healthcare. Etc Pharmacy Dietary Environmental Human Resources Social workers PT/OT maintenance
@@fendertremolo9793 aka its a real case from the courtroom and these actors are reenacting it because of privacy. im not sure why your being purposefully dense
@@tanyarandolph4145 he did. Judge also gave him back pay which he fully deserves. The sad part is that he has to at some point (when children are older) tell the kids that mommy wants to party instead of spending time with you.
Can we just take a moment to admire the father's overall demeanor? Not only is he a great father, but he's impressive for the way he stated his case and interacted with the judge.
they would have had her tested the week stuff went missing. chances are she met a junkie while working there. ORRRrrrrr its a shady doctor with a loose pad. i know cause i have friends that are pharamcy techs that do drugs. when some go missing they really freak out because they could take the blame with no realproof.
It scares me that she's a nurse. Does she have this privileged attitude over her patients as well? Does she resent them for getting sick and needing to be taken care of?
Been there with birth unit. Karma got her in the end. Karma will get this Piece of Work too when she thinks she can USE her children later and they tell her to get lost!
As someone whose mother was never interested in spending time w me as a child. That shit hurts. But then u grow up to kno they ain’t shit and it’s not about me at all. Much love to this dad and his babies.
A courtroom based tv show involving cases with issues related to child support/spousal support in Texas. All episodes include actors. Vonda Bailey is not a real Judge. She is a licensed attorney in the state of Texas who primarily handles cases involving child support and spousal support. The cases are based on real life scenarios of events that occur in child support courts. Names, characters, businesses, places, events, locales, and incidents are either the products of the author's imagination or used in a fictitious manner. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental.
My mother was the same way. She’s passed now and we never really had much of a relationship. I have my own daughter now and I’m not mad about it because I think it really taught me how important and special that bond could be and my worst fear would be to see my baby grow up and not even know her.
@@bruppieo5118 sorry to hear that but I’m glad u saw what u needed to do to break that cycle. I’m happy U got a chance to break the cycle. Happy for you and yours ❤️
Im a roughneck and also a single father. This video damn near brought me to tears. What a horrible human being that woman is. This man is a legend. Godspeed.
I can't have kids and I'm a truck driver 😂 I'm totally looking for someone with kids... Roughneck means you work in the oilfield? Are you still available ? 😁
no, you need to say it this way: "* I * *mean* what a horrible human being that mother is!" She seemed so ridiculously out of touch with reality and so completely void of the genuine love normal mothers have for their children that it almost seemed almost as if this was a scripted episode.
@@harmonymoxham1719 it's not real. This channel uses actors. The "judge" is a real attorney but everyone she has in court are actors. It says so in the channel description.
@@emptycarousels3950 but its not real, theres no equality when it comes to child support, men are doomed from the start because the laws are created that way. Unfair
He needs to take her back to court to get full custody of those kids. Some ppl shouldn’t be a parent. She’s clearly stated she didn’t want to be one. Ouch. Hope these kids NEVER hear her say that! Terrible women.
100% for the dad, a real man actually being a real father. The "mother", who literally said "giving birth was her job, being a parent was his job", a truly hideous example of a biological parent who should have never become a parent in the first place. "What am I going to be left with to party with?" . . . these kids don't have a mom, sad as that is.
And the way she "I didn't sign up for this..." when she literally procreated with this man twice and decided to keep the baby both times. The moment she said she wanted to keep the babies was the moment she signed up for every responsibility that comes with parenthood and yet she wants to sit there and act like she can claim to be a good mom when she brings home fast food and leaves to do god knows what.
My father had to feed my sister and I. My mom had more Important things to do. He didn’t start out a good cook but he ended up a great cook! Your children will never ever forget what your doing for them. Your a awesome dad!!
Does nice to hear father being praised you and him were definitely lucky that he got to stay in your life the mother wanted she could have probably divorced him especially in today's age got babysitters money to put the kids in school while she went and get off the so-called better things they always talk about drugs boyfriend's cheating
She said she told him prior to have them that she doesn’t want children, if it was the other way around ppl would be saying the dad shouldn’t have to be around since they didn’t want them
@@kyw4928 No one’s saying that. This is the most mismatched couple I have ever seen. She is irresponsible, and he is a fool. If things were reversed, it would be the same. Nobody looks on deadbeat dads with approval, whether they’re present or not. I’m not sure where people get the idea that, just because it happens, it is also accepted. But I feel sorry that these two were allowed to breed, because now their children have to suffer their idiot parents.
Imagine how her kids feel to hear her say she doesn’t want them. My heart breaks for those poor kids. They will grow up thinking they are unlovable, if their mum don’t love them why, would anyone else love them 😔
I mean bc not everyone has to love you. My father never loved me and that’s fine. I had a parent to show me I was worth love. And In this videos case, their dad shows them they’re worth loving
May Jimmy, I agree with your post. My mom left me in the NICU when I was born and didn’t come back until I was 3 years old. My grandma raised me. Growing up, I had abandonment issues and always felt like everyone was going to leave me at some point in my life just like my mother did. It follows you for the rest of your life.
@@barbarareyna2997 I feel you’re pain. Hopefully you have someone who loves you deeply and you can accept the love they offer. This is your mothers failings not yours. X
@@lilnuggetshy5111 the problem with that is, everyone keeps telling kids “no one loves you more than your mother.” Society is woman biased, when raising kids. Now I don’t mean this is a bad thing l, as mothers tend to be more nurturing. So when mothers don’t love their children, it affects the kids more than the fathers not loving them. In an ideal world, everyone would love their children, and put them first.
@@valentiinehearts or they should take protective actions. Birth control and condoms can be effective when used used properly. Oh and a shocker: abstinence is 100% effective! Or...or...ask the doctor to take out the plumbing. Oh and just to put this in I would be just as harsh on a guy. They have those options too. Abortion is not birth control
I take a bow and give a round of applause to the father for being a responsible parent and raising his children please get full custody and keep that 👿 witch of a mother away from them for there safety
@@OnlyTwoShoes I believe that many of the actual court cases are real, it's the names used that are different and all of the participants are paid actors.
She's lucky she didn't do that infront of my mother. The added part of the "I can roll my eyes too" would have been "after I make yours roll across this floor." My mother would have had zero patience for the way this Entitled Idiot was acting. Hopefully the dad takes her back to court so he can get 100% physical and legal custody of the little ones.
@@DeeBraynt2010 I decided to roll my eyes ONCE....by the time my eyes were back to the front, my mom was right in my grill!!!☠☠☠ Neva did that again, I promise!
It’s truly disturbing and awfully sad how she didn’t even pretend to be a caring mother even for the judge’s sake and openly admits she doesn’t want her kids. It’s probably better that she does just exit their life now because if she’s forced to look after them she’ll just abuse them emotionally
As an autistic adult that had a lot of difficulties with multiple things growing up (I was considered on the low end of the spectrum) it breaks my heart to hear her say "It's to much work". If it wasn't for my mom taking the time to teach me, I would be in a horrible place right now. (FYI I'm considered to be in the high end of the spectrum now) I couldn't spell my own name at 8 years old, I couldn't talk till I was 5 years old. My mom use to walk me to school because the school said I was to energetic. It takes time, patience, love, and diligence to raise kids properly. I feel for the child with autism.
Fellow Autistic Adult here. Thank you for sharing your story. Similar to you I owe so much to my Dad. The audacity of this woman to be so cold and unfeeling towards her autistic child was far too much.
God Bless You! my son is just like you. he could not talk until he was 3, very hyper later diagnosed w/ ADHD. he was also in the spectrum. he did bad is school, could not read on the 1st grade. but we work w/ him & surprisingly he started getting bettee at 4th grade. he will be graduating elementary this year & is on the principal list. it was a lot of hard work to get him where he is now. i would not trade him for the world.
Thank you for telling a bit of your story. I'm always worried in not doing enough for my bbygrl, and I hope that she can be as functional as she can when I'm gone. God bless you.
When she said “he wanted them I didn’t want them” my heart shattered. How is this monster a mother? Imagine how her poor kids would feel to hear this… it also breaks my heart for the loving parents that want but aren’t able to have kids. Shame on this woman
I had a mom like this. I never knew my dad bc she didn't want us but she sure as hell wasn't going to let someone else legally take us because then she'd have to pay for us... But I had godparents that watched over me and took me in when my mom got too bad. They never took a dime from her and really helped her more than she deserved. It was hard as a child - especially bc she was quite vocal about how she felt - but it made me VERY aware of how much more my own children deserved... It's sad but it's really more common than people think to see mom's that just don't care. I'm glad these babies have a dad that cares about them. Some aren't lucky enough to have anyone else at all.
Woman an man bouth have done it. 6 months ago I put a restraining order on someone had the police report from Boston and everything police stated I needed to put one on him. In court Dean Cooper told the judge he didn't just assault me he assaulted my girlfriend which was his ex who was pregnant
@@edbar7642 Exactly there's not a chance that a person would say such damaging things about themselves to a judge when they're the defendant /respondent. Saying her kids have the tablet to raise themselves, saying its dads job to take care of them and she shouldn't have to spend any $, and that she didn't want to have kids so she could keep partying....no one would purposely volunteer those kinds of things in a convo with a judge. They basically scripted this to make her look as bad as possible. Should be obvious to the rest of these people but I guess it's not.
This almost made me cry. As a parent of a child with Autism spectrum disorder it hit hard. Luckily I have an amazing wife that goes above and beyond to make sure our children have everything they need.
dude yes, even just as a parent (I am 100% not downplaying or acting as if I know your personal situation at all) im a fairly new parent, but listening to her say theres nothing wrong with dropping off food and giving them a tablet is beyond blasphemy to me
@santolini no dude, I completely understand your point. I wouldn't had taken it in the wrong way. Thank you for clarifying though.This lady made me sick to my stomach and I just related to the father a lot. That's all.
@StreamwoodExplorer at the time I first watched this. It got me emotional. It was very relatable to the situation I am in. I came to found our later these are actors. Your point?
@StreamwoodExplorer at the time I first watched this. It got me emotional. It was very relatable to the situation I am in. I came to found our later these are actors. Your point?
This "mother" is something else. I fought tooth and nail for over a year during my custody battle to even see my kid. The absolute NERVE of this woman to say she doesn't want her kids boils my blood. Well done to the dad
I'm sorry that you had to do that. Dad's shouldn't have to fight so hard to be in their kids' lives (unless there's cause for concern). It's not fair that some mothers and the courts put you guys through that.
@@rosietouse686 I'm not. I suffered through that year but it helped me win majority custody. Now I make decisions, dragged my ex into a true 50/50 agreement, and my kiddo sees both of us very regularly. Short term pain for long term gain
@@rosietouse686 they do it out of spite. like oh you have a new woman. you aint seeing the kids. or you don't pay for my lexus. umm how bout you know the kids you love. let them see the father
So I’m autistic and hearing her say “ it’s a lot of work so he’s better suited “ broke my heart so much. If my mother just walked out bc “ I’m too much for her “ it’s so emotional to think about. Me and my mother have been through so much with my Autism and my 15-20 other diagnosis’s so I’m so so grateful for her.
I also raised an autistic boy who is a wonderful blessing. Currently 40. His dad had more problems than I could count but he never seemed to see the problems his son was having.Our divorce was nasty as all he was doing was grabbing as much money as he could. I have a wonderful relationship with my 2 sons, and the boys put up with their dad as little as possible.
Me as a parents having anxiety n depression, having multiple kids with adhd is hard work let alone a child with autism 😔 which my youngest whos 3 maybe be on the spectrum and i find it hard most days but i would NEVER walk out n leave the responsibility to their father .... This woman should loose her parental rights 😡
Me as a parents having anxiety n depression, having multiple kids with adhd is hard work let alone a child with autism 😔 which my youngest whos 3 maybe be on the spectrum and i find it hard most days but i would NEVER walk out n leave the responsibility to their father .... This woman should loose her parental rights 😡
how could you left your own child alone and dont take care ? thats her kids her flesh and blood... but sadly i know woman like her and these kids from them are gonna hate they mother but if thats what she want so okay but partying to get a clear head and dont have to think about this important things is a bad decision and she dont deserve to be a mother
Yea same here I'm not even her kid and that hurt me. I grew up in a turbulent divorce myself and I didn't trust people enough to even speak publically until I got helped by a pedagogue on a special needs school I got transfered to. That's when I was 8. Most children seem to be yapping your ears off by the time they turn 3. I genuinely hope for the kid the mom just got her turbulent ass out of his life... While it's difficult growing up with 1 parent isntead of 2, it's better than growing up never knowing what the second parent is going to be like today bringing in constant self-doubt and disappointment to the table.
I will give her credit on being honest about how shit of a person she acts. She didn't lie about her intentions or how little she cared. I pray she grows up before it's too late.
@@ruthfoster6706 Agreed, I think she was (at that time) referring to her occupation. Well if that's true then she should be making more than him, which she was, so why does she think she's entitled to be supported?
"I mean, he has an obligation to give me support..." Honey, no. That support is what you're going to be paying. It's called child support. The sad part is, most courts would agree with her.
I REALLY REALLY PRAY THE FATHER READS THIS COMMENT BECAUSE I WANNA TELL YOU I THINK YOU ARE AN AMAZING PARENT AND FATHER and YOU DESERVE AN AWARD FOR HAVING TO DEAL WITH THAT DEMON LADY YOUR KIDS ARE VERY LUCKY TO HAVE YOU AS A FATHER🤞🙏😁👍👌
Cases like this frustrates me, because I want to be a mom and can’t bare a child. She’s popped out 2 amazing babies and she don’t want them. Wow the world we live in….💔
Miracles happen everyday, keep your head up darling, I’m an 18 y/o mom of a 3 year old boy, i would never treat my child the way this woman has, and it’s been so tough for me to raise a child, and it breaks my heart knowing people like her can do this to their kids. Its really sad.
I'm a single mom who wants 1 more baby, I have a 15 yr old. Now that I'm 35 and my biological clock is ticking, I won't have another 😢 and women like this don't want theirs, so thankful I got to have one. I'm praying for you. ❤
"Its too much, if i had to pay this heavy, what am I left to party with?" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 She's terrified of not being able to party! 😂😂😂 She's not ready to raise a family!
This is why more judges need to be unbias and hear a father's side of the story. A lot of unfit mother's get custody of their children and use them like a income for them to party with. This father did everything he could to make sure his children get the care and support they needed and this amazing judge listened. We need more judges like her. As a mother of three boys I cannot understand this woman's thinking at all. If she had spent even a single moment of time with her children she would have learned how amazing children are...
Try being a military single dad it took me 3 years to get full custody of my daughter and her mother has never paid squat and trust me they always tried to peg me as drunk and a violent person they do us dirty especially military dad's it's crazy.
Why did he even get her pregnant tho honestly especially if she told him she don’t want kids yet and for her to get pregnant not just once but TWICE. Like what
@@laruna8228 tbh he should have done himself a huge favor and ended the relationship right there when she said she didn’t want kids and wanted to terminate the firs pregnancy but he stuck around and gave her a second kid smh. Broth control and condoms aren’t 100% that 2% exist and I know of three woman personally who have been on birth control for years and still gotten pregnant.
Props to this excellent parent for giving his time, energy, love and care to his kids. I can tell they will grow into calm loving and functional adults. He deserves children and she do not. I hope he files for full custody and terminates her parental rights. I hope the kids never see this video of their "Mum" saying she didn't want them.
@@sweetsweet81 yeah but you can't terminate in most states unless another person is willing to adopt and take parental role. So hope this guy finds a good woman who wants kids, and they can do that.
I feel for this man so much. My husband has been through this with my stepson's birth mom. I'm trying to go for adoption now, but she refuses to sign over her rights. She hasn't seen him in five years, hasn't paid a dime in child support in almost nine years, and he's nine now, yet loves to call me names and say I'm not his real mom. I've been in his life since he was one. And people are shocked when we say we're trying to terminate a mother's rights, not a father's. Sometimes the mother is not the good one to raise the child.
It sounds like the mother is vicious and you may need the court's help on this. I know it means having to see psycho chick again but for that nine year old son of yours that you treasure immensely, but for him how far would you legally go to make sure he's safe from her?
The way she said "I didn't want to have kids" is so sickening. I have a 9 yr old autistic son and I can't imagine EVER in my life feeling that way!!! Children are a beautiful, precious gift deserving of nothing less than the most loving of parents. I am so happy that these kids have such a great father bc he obviously loves them so deeply. It still angers and breaks my heart that this woman could be so cold hearted !!
people like her make my point that some people should of been fixed before they ever had kids, maybe we'd have less kids suffering with abusive mother's/fathers if they never were able to have kids period
If she didn't want kids, why have 2? What is wrong with her? A man doesn't have a choice but a woman actually does. She should just pay child support and leave.
Damn she didn’t even care enough to PRETEND she wasn’t a piece of shit mother. Wants so little to do with her kids she’s actually going to pay more just so they won’t be on her insurance smh
As a person who knew a girl exactly like this in high-school, who told me to my face "I understand why she cheated on you" and actively cheats on her husband while he serves in the Navy, I can 100% guarantee this is a real person and people really feel/think like this
Army wife here, it’s really gross seeing so much cheating in the military. I don’t talk to spouses because of how dirty they are. It’s just…just no. I’m good.
@@JackieOwl94Oh, it's wild. Not even on the spouse side either. Some of the people I know who went on det came back to divorce papers because of the shit they did. Two divorces and one broken engagement.
When he said he wasn’t much of a good cook but does what he can. That broke my heart but only added to the respect I had for him. My mom worked nights so we seen dad a little more than mom and my favorite memory is helping my dad cook in the mornings.
Kids don't care if they're not being given gourmet chef meals. They see their Dad working hard to put food on the table for them. The occasional time that Mom agrees to supply the dinner, she always shows up with McDonald's. There's no effort or love put into that meal! Your Dad sounds like he's a lot like the Dad in this family. You were lucky to have two parents who cared so much. These poor kids are never going to know that feeling.
She said, "I gave birth to them, it's your job to raise them", had he said "I impregnated you, it's your job to raise them", he probably would've been twice as wrong.
As a mother and wife, I could not imagine leaving my family just for me to party and get messed up on drugs.. yes it’s hard being a parent sometimes but in the end it’s so rewarding. God knows that man is suffering and I hope he gets as much help and love as he can because he sincerely deserves it .
"AS YOU SHOULD AS A MOM, THE ADAUCITY" that was exactly what I was thinking, Judge. WOW I have to edit this comment because Ma'am you came through with this case. *Subscribed*
I’ve been feeling such awful mom guilt lately, and tbh this lady made me feel SO. MUCH. BETTER. 😂🤦🏼♀️ Showing up for your kids, and genuinely caring for and wanting the best for them really shows what kind of parent you are. I’d be more sad for those kids if they didn’t have such an amazing father fighting for them 🥺❤️ brb hugging my toddlers and reminding them how loved and wanted they are
Just that you are watching this and siding with the loving supporting parent makes me believe you are likely a great mother! I know many great moms who feel they are bad for reasons so small and out of their control. I just hope you have someone there telling you how much your love means to them. You deserve that.
