I just love watching all of you. To get on the topic of love, relationships and kids. I've never been the woman that would try to come between a man and his family. For one, you're less than a man or woman to try to come between them and the kids. If you meet a single parent with kids. Get to know the kids and if they like you, then you're in. Let your first impressions be your best. A lot don't like it when it's not mommy or daddy in the household. Terrence, I'm sorry but I just love watching you. You have a Beautiful Smile.
I too love watching this series. But I feel you should let people know first if you guys have children and how many. Continue to have talks like this we need it.
You both are right, ask questions first and pay attention to the signs. A person eyes tells a story. I raised all five of mines to let me know if anyone has ever touch you and that hug made you feel uncomfortable, let me know. Even now and they are all full adults. Any man or woman that has a thing for kids and young teens has a DAMN problem. Not Acceptable. And if they are bad, keep it moving. I can't tolerate bad or sassy kids. I love kids but if they step out of line. I'll slap the spit out of his or her mouth. Kids love me because I'm real with them.
If a woman is serious about that man and she vetted properly. Why not allow the new man to discipline. I definitely love when a man steps in, and Discipline in a tough love way. And just blind in!!! It's hard out here. Lol
But what about when the child does not say anything to you about the new guy because mom look so happy? And all the while the children did not express there concerns right away. 🤦🏾♀️
That can be a challenge also but I believe that's when good communication comes in and you're just asking questions and having discussions with kids regardless of the age, about their opinion of that person. A lot of times we just assume that the person is okay with what's going on because they don't say anything so we don't ask. Still gotta ask! Just to keep good communication. 💯🙏
