Chan waited so many years to debut, and I couldn't be more glad that he got to debut NOW, as the leader of a group, really the best leader a group could have
i was just gonna say this, esp after the australian concert speech where he said he doesnt talk abt his problems to other members or say anything to them but only does to woojin and knowing now that woojin left just breaks my heart
the fact that he still thinks he isn’t the best leader ever saddens me a little, he deserves the whole world. he saved so many stays without him knowing at all, he worked hard for us, he got so little sleep too. channie best leader 🥺
(Trying to bring positivity because we are all crying) The legend says in the 7 years Chan was a trainee, he lost a piece of himself every year *Pieces of puzzles he was meant to find later* He was missing his home *He found his home in Felix* He lost friends, some debuted without him *He found a friend in Changbin* He lost his teenage years *He found his childhood in Jeongin* He lost his reason to go on *He found his inspiration in Hyunjin* He was missing his family *He found a brother in Seungmin* He was filled with dark thoughts *He found his hope in Han* He lost his happiness *He found a reason to smile again with Minho* He was meant to find *THEM* (Not original by me. The video I took this from: ru-vid.com4Ct-qay5Bzg?feature=share I may have word it wrong but you got it)
Yeah, I've endured two sexual assaults this year, and I just have to say that without Stray Kids and their constant smiles, I would be dead right now. I have felt like killing myself nearly everyday, but they show me that there is some good in this world. I just wish they knew how much they mean to those of us in pain constantly.
@@rosebud7645 I'm so sorry to hear that to. You are so incredibly amazing and I'm so happy to hear you get happiness from stray kids and that they helped you. I and so many stays are here for you whenever you need us💛💜.
"I should've been there" You can't be everywhere, Chan. You did your best! And look at you now, a world-wide known artist. You deserve the world, boy ❤️
@@zohrahassan1134 oh hi! Welcome! The boys were a part of a JYP survival show, where they showed their skills to form a group and devut together, but there were two people who had to be eliminated. At the end, they were Lee Know and Felix. Chan was the leader of the group and felt guilty that he couldn't help them and felt it was his fault for not getting them to stay. Luckily, JYP, their boss, brang them back together, and they debuted as nine members! Fellow Stays, correct me if I'm wrong on something here, I don't know everything either.
He is so sweet and amazing. He blamed himself when Felix got eliminated he takes all the pressure and burden so the other members don't have to. He is the most generous, humble, sweet, and caring person to exist. He deserves the world but the world doesn't deserve him. Please protect and love him with all your heart Stays.
I feel so bad for him. He works and tries so hard, only to get the brunt of everything and everyone’s pain so they don’t have to take it themselves. He’s truly such an amazing person and he deserves the world.
He’s so smiley and happy in the outside but so heartbroken and stressed kn the inside. Yes, the others do too, but especially chan since he’s the leader
Sometimes, years later, when I see so much happiness and joy radiating from Stray Kids, to see them all grown up and matured, I forget that once, Chan was just a kid too. That he once left everything he knew when he was only a boy, his whole life behind for a dream. He, once, lost friends even after just making them in an unfamiliar world, to be left all alone. He watched them move on without him, while he stayed behind. Chan, once, was a young child who was still trying to figure out his place in the world, trying to figure out who his people were. I sometimes forget, that once, he went through pain and loneliness so unimaginable, so dark and empty, it is impossible to fathom. All these years later, when the boy named Chan finally found his people, when he found his home and his purpose, his REASON, he returned the light that those seven boys gifted him by cherishing their love, support, and everything that came with it. We may never know what Chan went through, throughout all those seven years of his life when he was endlessly washed with setbacks and depression, where the rug was pulled out from underneath him too many times to count, where he didn't want to be on this earth anymore, at times. We may never know. But what we know and what we will do for him, as just a small token of our appreciation, is that we will love him forever and ever, through all the ups and downs, through all of the forks we may come across in the windy road called life. We will support and protect him, "shelter" him, to show him that he no longer has to be alone. Because he's not alone. Stray Kids and STAY gave him a home, a haven, a warm hug. We gave him a reason, we gave him hope. We love you, Chan. We always have, and always will, no matter what. And we'll never forget.
My heart breaks for him. I have grand kids this age. So i Adopt you all as my grandkids I love you like my grandkids and I pray that you all stay happy and well and loved. And You will be protected by the creator and heaven
Fun fact: He doesn't even knows i exist but he's a literal father to me, the father i can wish for, the father who protects me and motivating me, cheers me up after a breakdown, Thank you Chan. (I know he doesn't sees it but yea)
@@kautsarnadhimnovaldi6498 minho because he forgot his lines in a performance and felix because korean is like a target language (he was not completely fluent) but you know JYP.. he saw that they aheve a lot of potentiel so he gave them a chance.
1:28 his "I'm so sorry" broke me...this is the first time I see Chan from this side,the broken side💔please give all love to Chan cuz he's the best leader in the 4th generation 💜
Without chan there is no skz He is what is holding the group together one of the best human being and leader Always being there for them I love him and wish him all the best
Dude... honestly from man to man... i have *SO* much respect for this guy, the way he talks to the members, the way that all the members are close family to him, how he care for them, how good of a leader he is, and many many MANY other things... really makes me have a lot of respect for him
Thank you for appreciating him Some people don't really appreciate him like you did he is a member of straykids he goes by the name of bangchan Would be so helpful if you check them out Thank you .....
Ok so as baby baby stay of just two weeks old and celebrating Bangchan's bday first time with him I came here searching for more of him.. I've seen only 1% or less than that of stray kids or chan in these two weeks and after listening to some of their songs from this album and thinking that "yes this music is my style" and after seeing members being funny and finally I saw this human.. This human After listening to him just a few minutes I decided to stan this group for a lifetime.. I just heard from him everything I needed to hear at this point in my life. He told me "some ppl have some point in their lives where they go astray. And I've been there too. Not being able to work towards your dreams. On what you want to achieve. But that's okay it happens to many ppl it happens to me" I just want to let out everything outta my heart idc even if nobody is gonna read this but I just feel like wanting to out my truth on somewhere public. I had a dream. I have a dream. I started working on it since college days. But after some point I started to laze off too much, almost became irresponsible and addicted to smartphone. I've spent like 3 whole years wasting my life when I know what to do, when I could have everything I wanted to do perfectly and I could have achieved my dreams already. So many ppl who have put their trust on me are still waiting for me..trusting me.. but I became more and more corrupted when I started to lie, hide and fool ppl. No matter how many times I've tried to come out and tell to my close ones that I'm not working towards my dreams, I'm just playing around using that as an excuse.. even after many confessions I couldn't find myself going back to reality. I kept lying again. And again. That I was hating myself literally all throughout these years. That is the worst part cuz I know this is not me. Why am I like this? From when did I become such a person? How can be this evil? How did I get courage to fool ppl so easily when I couldn't even utter a lie before? Who am I? Which is me? What is real? But I knew I still have some kindness in me, goodness me, humanness in me. That trust on me is what led me survive it otherwise I would have done something worst. I had crazy thoughts but I was not brave enough to end myself. I'm just a coward and I just had thoughts and played with words as if it's so easy to say I should die. And that I don't deserve the love and trust of ppl around me... Some times I just gave up on me I was acting like Ok yeah this is me. I'm evil. I'm ugly. I'm destined to go to hell. Lets keep living like this. I even thought if I'm just living a phase of my life to write on my history that "I lived like this Too". And Some nights I just cry silently hating myself. While at this point today I was on the gave up phase but But I knew.. I'll change. Life keeps going on thru its own flow so I know I cannot defy it for a long time. 3 years was definitely a long precious time wasted but now at this point here I am, watching this video I just, at one moment in the middle, idk why I put my phone down and started bawling my eyes out and feeling shameful and asking sorry to God.. I just wanted to write this out and sign off. Idk if this time too I'd break the promise. But I just don't want to spend anymore time on anyone apart from my dreams. Just like them.. just like him.. ten whole years he was alone just working for his dreams. With nothing else in life. With just hard work, hope and dreams. Good bye
Stray kids is an amazing comfort group and they have helped me so much through everything God will forgive and change you if you let Him and I’m sure Chan was scared and he was tired and he almost quit but he worked hard and kept going. I hope your okay now :)
I know how it feels honestly I went through the same phase.....I wanted to die....I didn't want to live.....l was devastated, frustrated,depressed.....Until I found kpop it gave me a reason to live to smile to have hopes to forget insecurities they made me realise everyone is going through a lot these days even small children are worried about something they thought me I am not the only one fighting alone so that is why........I cleared all my problems......I knew this would be hard but I deserved it....And now here I am as an Kpop fan a human who loves herself Stray kids, BTS etc I hope u are doing well now remember never give up keep on going and u will make it to ur happiness and ur goals 😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤
You are brave. Trust me and I am proud of you. It's hard to even realise that we are wrong. But you accepted it. And now you are true to yourself. I know you will get through it. Whether you achive your dreams or not, you are a great person. You are the same person who cares about people and who don't want to lie to them, hurt then or else you wouldn't have cared. Sending love and blessings ❤️❤️
So im gonna tell u guys a story of a boy A amazing brilliant kid left home at the age of 12, to pursue his dreams. He came to a whole new country not knowing anything. He had to find his own place there. He became a trainee in one of the 3 biggest companies in korea. (Only boy out of 800 people who auditioned). He trained for 8 whole yrs. His friends debuted and he worded harder. When he was in class 9, he lived all alone in the huge dorm. Still worked hard. He was going thru so much mentally. Still worked hard. Then came 7 new amazing boys in his life. (As he said "these boys came into my life and ye basically saved me"). He worked even harder. He worked till 5am in the morning, and showed up at the office at 10am. He guided his boys. After all he debuted with his most cherished people on earth. Things didn't get easy tho. He still worked hard. He slept so little, that during promotions and preparing period be got up to 6hrs of sleep a week. He (and the kids, especially 3racha) made about 100 song in 3yrs. He did vlive every week for his fans. Then he and his boys won their first win. They cried. They won their rookie of the year. They won the 2ed most number rookie of the year award. They has the brightest smiles on their face. They say the most comfortable word for their fans. They put out the most amazing stages. They make thousands and millions of people's day not just there fans'. They do their best and tries to do better every time. The boy's name is chan and the boys are skz. The fans are stays Best leader bang chan, best boys skz Stays are here to stay by our 8 amazing boys. ‼️ *EDIT 4: (I had decided to not edit this comment ever again but this is important) SO I DID NOT ADD WJ CUZ SKZ IS 0T8 !! WJ GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH SKZ OR STAYS!! HE IS A SOLOIST !! STAYS NEED TO REMEMBER THAT!! IF ANY OF YOU DONT LIKE HIM OR HIS FANS THEN DONT BOTHER ABOUT THEM!! SIMPLE AS THAT!! stays have taken this way too far!! The tiktok incident was UNACCEPTABLE!!! PLEASE!!! PLEASE DONT RUIN THIS FANDOM!!* ‼️ I personally don't Stan him or have anything to do with him since I started stanning skz as OT8... BUT AS A STAY THIS IS SOMETHING I MUST ADDRESS!! *DONT HAVE TO READ THE REST* Edit: something very personal: the most precious person to me, my grandpa died today.... He was someone very different and special to me. The person he loved and adored the most was me... I don't cry easily... After seeing him lay there I cried a lot... We used to talk over call everyday.... Even day before yesterday we talked so much and laughed... He was so strong. I'm not asking for pity... But just needed to open up cuz I can't open up to people... Edit 2: hey I'm sTrOnG 💪🏻😁. So don't worry. And tmrws (18th Dec) my 15th birthday day. I have exams thoo 😩😩 Edit3: so apparently I ain't that strong after all... After 41 days of my grandpa passing away my mom's younger sister passed away.... I couldn't leave my bed for 2 entire months, my social anxiety got so worse that i couldn't be with my family even. I cried to myself. Got bad insomnia. And my mom noticed I was going through a lot, she knew I am terrible with expressing myself. I used to ghost my best friends. Then At one night it got soo bad, I didn't sleep the entire night and cried... The next day Han droped alien... I remember texting my friends saying "isn't it crazy how there are songs that just exist which speaks exactly what your feeling and going through".... Alien became a song meant a lot.... I realized to me skz ain't like the other groups/soloist that I Stan.... Anyways after that study pressure increased and thighs got better eventually... But honestly my social anxiety is still a really big thing... Yet again mom noticed that (moms really are amazing huh)... I don't go out of my home. Leaving home is overwhelming and tiring... But Chan said *"we fight what we fear"* so imma try me best and fight it... 😁😁
@@l._.l07 I mean u shouldn't thank me. Thank the kids for not only just existing for doing their thing and going against the flow for their dream, yet not losing themselves. I'm still very young and small but I have big dreams. I WILL accomplish them. I will work hard. That's what they taught me. U CAN DO IT TOO😁
Chan saying he is embarrassed Because all his fellow trainees had debuted already and he was still a trainee wrecks my heart. I read somewhere that BamBam and Chan were supposed to debut as a duo but he got put in GOT7. They were close friends, and I know how it must have felt, watching your friends move forward. (GOT7 could've not been the same without BamBam and I know putting him in that BG was the best decision)
Just knowing he literally grew up elder training makes me think how AMAZINGLY patient & strong he is. The training days made ur life hard, being alone, choosing members, helping them, trying to debut as 9, eliminations, debuts, hate, leading, writing, composing, singing, rapping, speaking many languages, approaching as a leader, loosing a woojin, dealing w/ controversy about hyunjin,....... U passed through all & u can see u R getting stronger, clever & more handsome😘. I rly wanna say this to u, U are literally perfect for us stays & u will be to ppl who will need u but still don't know u & skz. Don't give everyone ur kindness & sweetness cuz not everybody deserves it. Don't be too stressed on haters cuz that's what they want. 10q for existing & for making & being leader of straykids. Ur worth is more than anything u could imagine so pls be sure that there are aLOT of ppl by ur side at ur best/worst. Skz is on the stair of success , don't stop from climbing bc a gum is stuck on ur shoes. We LUUUUUUUUUUV U❤💜❤❤💜❤! Cheese= ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-YLtEc-kvOqA.html Thunderous= ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-EaswWiwMVs8.html
Dang, I really wanna meet this guy someday and give him the biggest hug ever! Bangchan is literally so admirable to me. He's not afraid to show his emotion and tell people how he really feels, and as someone who struggles with that, it's refreshing to see it. 💜
We all know that out off everyone in the entire world Bangchan loves Stray Kids the most. Everyone there he chose. They’re all friends, all family. I hope as a fan that no matter what road they take in life, they can stay connected.
seeing bangchan cry is like the whole world is falling apart, he's the best leader and always will be. bangchan, STAYS will always be with you the whole way, we love you so much.
Thank you for not giving up Bang Chan, thank you for waiting patiently on your "Stray Kids".. I salute your talent, pure talent and hard work, your handsomeness is just a plus point. But we are here to always support and STAY with you 💖
chan is our emotional support kpop boy. but we only know a little about wat he went through and wat he still goes through. he hides his 'demons' just so we and the rest of skz can be happy. we dont deserve this man 😞
people who have suffered the most and got trough it is the people whose smile feel so genuine, who hugs like there's no other day.... that's what I see in chan
I cried so much watching this. Channie I am so thankfull that I got to know you, the moments that us stays have shared with you will stay with me forever. I was going through such a bad time and then you came. Words are unable to express my gratitude. Chan is my safe zone. Thanks to him I feel like I can truly be myself. I laugh, cry and smile all because of you. When the day comes that you will all go your seperate ways I will never forget these memories. One day it will all end but these memories are forever. I love you so much Chan, and all the other StrayKids members. You truly don't know how much you mean to me.❤️😭
I really hate that he doesn't see how great of a leader is. He's done so much for the group and for the fans, he's not just a leader to the boys, he's a leader to all of us. I hope that one day he starts to see that.
bro i'm forever grateful to chan for doing so much for me without even knowing it, the only reason i'm still trying to stay alive is to thank him (and to stray kids)
Thank you Chan for enduring all these years and all those hardships but you showed all of Us that without you there’s no Stray kids and how thankful we are for your existence you are a Gem of a person the most beautiful human We would never forget you please Stay with us Forever Thank you Stays all around the world for Making Bangchan stay and not be regretful of his life decision of becoming a Kpop idol and making him live his dream🥰😍Shine bright diamond king firstly and always be healthy and happy😘❤️
He is the reason why I started to stan Skz. I've fallen in love with him after knowing how sweet he is for the stays bcz of his weekly vlives. After that I started to like skz lil by lil. And now am a stay. And Chan is forever my bias. 💜
Chan has done many sacrifices to save his group, and for STAY. Not only he has done sacrifices, but he also protects his members and his fans. He has passed many hard times during predebut ages, but he never gave up. Leaders are the people who take most of the responsibility, take Chan as an example. Take RM as an example. Take any leader as an example. STAY have two things to do, love them, and of course, love Chan. Thank you Chan for teaching me the responsibility each person has. Thank you for teaching me everything you know. Thank you for loving us. Thank you for being there whenever I was sad. Thank you for everything. ----love, STAY.
We must protect Bang Chan at all costs. HE'S PRECIOUS AND SWEET. Just look, he's so supportive and caring towards his group members..just by hearing Bang Chan apologizing even tho it's not his fault make my eyes water:(..
He always put others first before himself. He is the most kindness person I ever met. Before I became a Stay, I never knew how sweet and kind he was. He even blamed himself because of Felix's elimination. He has a very precious heart. He deserves the achievement and success in Kpop Industry. Thanks Bang Chan. I luv you ❤
Bang Chan is a man of many blessings. Thankfully to all his patient's, sacrifice, understanding, loved and appreciated well as a leader. His talented and humble person. What you gained now, it's a deseving success to all your futures. Congratulations and more blessings to come to all the STRAY KIDS. 💯🙏💖🥰🤗😘🤩😍😊
Stays, a lot of us changed after we stanned skz. We became happier. They supported us. Let's support them too. Please support your fellow stays. Let's make sure not to spread toxicity, become solo stans, toxic shippers or just toxic in general. Refrain mentioning them in content related to other groups and don't mention anyone that was once associated with them. They've done so much for us, the least we can do is support them too. STAY FIGHTING!
when 'demons' started i started crying my soul out. Stray Kids gave me happiness whenever i needed it and Chan is the best leader i've ever seen. Demons is a very special song for me and it's like a milestone for my life and him singing this song really made me feel like everything was right again for a moment. Thank you ♡
This is why I love him so much. Personally, he's the best leader in any Kpop group out there. When I saw him cry in this video I cried too. He's so precious. He trained for so lang and so hard, and now he finally is in skz, and we can't stop loving him for who he is. I love him too much, WE love him too much. This is our Christopher. This is our daddy jk. It was a good choice to make him the leader. Chan deserves the world and I'm not even exaggerating. Chan is too precious. I keep repeating these because I can't even explain and express how happy I feel for him through words. Chan, I know you're not reading this but the chance isn't 0%, if you are ever feeling sad or having a hard time, STAYS ARE HERE FOR YOU. STAYS ARE HERE WITH YOU. we love you so much Chan, you don't even know it. I'm just another broke stay here dreaming to actually meet you guys, but even though I know it will never happen, I will not, I will NEVER EVER stop loving you guys. Honestly Chan is one of the reasons why I stanned skz, when I watched his vlives, my face always lit up with happiness and delight. We really do love you. Chan, thank you. Thank you for being with us, thank you for spending your time just to make stays happy. We can't be even more happier to know that you actually love us. We love you more. Thank you Chan. Cheers to the Best Leader in the world!
Its being 8 months since I officially started to stan straykids and i just saw this video and the struggle he went through and him now is just wow. He and Rm know the struggle to be successful in kpop industry. He, Suga and Rm (also whole bts) are my idols and they keep me going when I am down cause they are the strongest people in know so far.
I haven't been a STAY for a long time like others but it hurts seeing this because Chan is literally the definition of leadership. He is one of the only souls on earth who care a lot about their loved ones. He works hard to accomplish his dreams and goals. Seeing him cry is hard because he is a kind soul who waited for people to debut with, but that moment when you realize that you are losing them is hard. He is literally one of the most hard working people I have ever seen.
I think one of the main reasons that chan is such a great leader, is because of how much he genuinely cares about his members. He cares so much that theyre like brothers to him, and he wants to deliver them even further. And he always tries to stay strong around them and Stay, so when we actually see him cry- it hits homeee
HELPP I dont wanna cry today :( This is why Chan is my bias. He's so sweet and caring and funny and looks after his members and fans so well. Im so proud of how far he has come. PLEASE PROTECT HIM STAYS
I'm a new fan, I know them since like two or three weeks and I swear he took my heart right away!! He is such a charming lovely and amazing person! So in love with him