Im here because of impact theory. That interview you had with Tom blew me away, this one I'm still reeling from. I was raised in the foster system beaten then prison and broken I was for 20+ years. In just 2 conversations you were able to shed light on places that I didn't even know I had. I am grateful for you and the life you lead and I promise you my wife will be grateful to the person you just gave me permission to be. God bless you brother
@@MikeBarron1 Old stereotypes that justified the female exclusion from professions have largely been eradicated and censored and yet male caricatures are celebrated. Its largely because they exclude men from the home. It is easier to chastise the male "power structure" whilst little is said of the "female domain." This consists of female access to "parenting" and control of "(domestic) decisions" as a means to wholeness and fulfilment. Women claim they want access to male space but remain dedicated to their tacit agreement and strategic silence in isolating men from this sacred territory. At the mercy of public opinion men are property. He must be exposed and she forbidden. Key to pushing men out of the home is DV. Domestic violence is initiated against men whilst sleeping, inattentive or at the mercy of the weapon, yet these explanations still fail to recognise a larger issue of framing. Even if there is no monopoly on abuse, domestic violence only empahsises the male physical tools whilst diverting from the psychological tools of women. Men may get the shorter end of the stick but still they are told to suck it up and keep quiet because they are violent and aggressive. Sadly these concepts of violence fail to account for power as explored by Bertrand Russell and Thomas Wartenberg. Unable to identify force, we fail to see women. Even if we accept the idea men are physically aggressive this still disguises the fact men are encouraged and expected to exprrss rage, fury and anger. Anger however is a secondary emotion whilst the primary ones are thise self respecting men cannot express: sadness, insecurity, isolation, shame, hurt. Men are more comfortable lashing out then communicating clearly. Anything other is branded as "sissy", "wimpish" "cowardly" or "unmanly." All of these are the equivalent of being a "rapist" "predator" or "paedophile", which, it is claimed men default to when they forfeit on their duties. Men are not just denied access to children but to expression. His inner world world of anguish and torment buried by distortion. "On Being A Man" betrays our pretence of 'strength.' Men do not have all the muscle. We have lots of the muscle but women have some too and we must both go downstairs in partnership because i am not disposable. We fail to deal with this because we are disregarded and rendered invisible. Unless we demonstrate we are insignificant so our being is equated with doing. We cease to exist in and of ourselves and are onky validated through conquest and acquisition. We are programmed to sacrifice and surrender to women and the kabour market. We must prove we are not sick and prove we are significant. We are wayched constantly to ensure to perifrm this duty whiks surveillance ensures this male machine functions correctly, meaning, accordingly. Patirarchy is presented as a vast global cabal of males oppressimf women. Male influence in the family has been branded as negative "because we know how men are." Being politicised it js no longee patriarchy but "the patriarchy." It is a mattwr of fashion. We are no longer cool. Men are not in fashion hence there are no more positive portrayals of us. We sre supposed to be resgined and hold our heads in shame as we succumb and bow to female dominance. Its a ploy to further perpetuate ourn diffidence and resultant servitude. Females see men as obliged to protect and serve them hilst also provisioning. Meanwhile females are held to mo such standard. Its extortion. Its a racket. A con a hustle a lie. It has been the illusion guarding the illusion. Men are terrified of labels. These ideas are used to domesticate and direct them. Men are ruled by this process of discipline kept in place by secret systems of symbols, signals, moods and messages. Far from being tamed by men women train men. We do the dirty work. Through false virtues and slave morals men are tricked into acquiescence and duped into submission. They believe it to be right and honourable despite the deep pain it causes. Maybe Naomi Wolf should have wrote about this; the Myth of Male Power.
Thug- Traumatized Human Unreleased Grief! Release, Reflect, Reset , and Rest! Wow! This man, was one of the best interviews and I was leaning forward too Ed 😀. I am sharing this video and buying the book for myself and loved ones. Jason is so right that when men change the world will change! 🙌🏾 Awesome job as usual Ed! ❤️II love it when you share your heart and allow other men to see it.
Well said Elaine Thank you for expressing my feelings and thoughts! As a mother of three men, who lost their father 8 years ago the gold nuggets 🌟in this one take #MAXOUT to a new level 🇨🇦❤️
Our past trauma will hold us in the past and we can stay as the old self… it’s not easy to let go of trauma, but if we make the decision that we will work on it, we will find the right path and people ❤️❤️
This was such a powerful interview. I'm a single mom who has raised two men. It was hard being everything to them. I also have had trauma in my own past and was always told to not express my feelings so that is also how I've raised my children, unfortunately. Anger has always been my "go to" response rather than showing vulnerability. I need apply the 4 R's to my life. I will also share this podcast with my sons and I will also purchase Mr. Wilson's book. So many nuggets!
WHOA!!!!!! what a deep interview! As a single mother and recovering from my own daddy issues, this one hit deep! Its given me clarity about my own stuff and empathy towards my daughters father. I literally just had her call him and tell him that she loves him and appreciates him walking her to school in the am's. He's had a streak of unfortunate luck with work and as a result falls in and out of depression which then makes him "stay away" to deal. I appreciate this! Thank you 🙌🏽 please keep this conversation going, let's normalize it 🙏🏼
Holding back the tears watching this. Sent this to my husband because he is so broken and I don't know how to help him. May God All Mighty heal him and restore faith, hope, love and fear of Him back in his heart.
Ed this fills my heart with so much gratitude. I have had the honor of working in law enforcement for 27 years and watching masculine men especially the homicide detectives sit and cry with victims family and then Investigate relentlessly to bring justice and then be demonize by society hurts. As a woman I am so furious how men are blamed for so much. It has always been a desire of mine to change this perception.
I shared this with the men in my life. I’ve been a single mom and you are so right about single mothers- the opportunity to be the nurturer. I finally decided to just be mom and it feels weak sometimes but my daughters need to know we deserve that choice.
I'm 52, and one big factor that can limit our potential or deny us our true self, directly affecting our self-esteem and influencing our belief system, and that is our identity. If you have this figured out and in your favor then you might be okay and doing well. The other thing that really helped me feel grounded and feeling like my true self is mindfulness. I still haven't fully tried meditation, but many people swear that it makes all the difference. The other game-changer is your sleep schedule and diet. If you want to stay healthy, get good sleep, and no meals after 8pm or so. Just water till the next day, less sugar and saturated fats. What I like about being mindful is you will detect flaws in your being and thinking while doing it. I am now more sensitive to where and what I give my attention to, and the meaning I give to moments, incidents and distractions. I value my awareness and today I can say that I am emotionally unleashed to being productive at will without the need to push my way through discomfort and unwantedness. This is the edge that I needed to responsibly take on more business. Feels great.
Ed Mylett, the most underrated best/most genuine interviewer ever. Goosebumps unavoidable as he connects so deeply with his guests. Well done Monsieur.
As a man I been beat down for so many years! I’m really at a point of being sick of life. I’m frustrated and aggravated and angry with so many things. Thank you for this interview
Being a single Mom is the hardest job I’ve ever had. But the most rewarding. My proudest accomplishment in life is having raised my 2 sons 17 and 19 and grooming them into the amazing young men they are. The best is yet to come. Thank you for the insight Jason and Ed❤
I have a daughter with traumatic brain injury I deal with those roller coasters and major tantrums I just have to let her get through it and love on her when she’s done it’s at times a hopeless feeling
Never watched Ed before. This interview with Jason was great. It felt like two comprehensive men sharing wisdom. It wasn't an interview, it was wisdom expressed to the world!
Powerful! Revealing! And Super Insightful. Listening to this while at ‘work’, holding back the tears. Knowing that you’re not on your own in the journey of life as a Man and the expectations is liberating. Bless you both Ed & Jason. 🙏
What a beautiful soul. I will share this with my daughter who is a single Mom raising a little boy. So much to unpack here for single Moms as well. Thank you for this introduction to a wonderful role model
This was great! Thank you both for taking the time to have this discussion. I found myself crying several times for no reason that I can think of. Just getting the permission to have that release take place must have unlocked something in me. Be blessed brothers!!!
Single Mom, Divorced when my son was 11. He is now 16 and more a man every Day. No real immediate role model and I am still single. Made me really think about what I can and maybe cannot do for his emotional spiritual growth. He is becoming more than I imagined, but I see the need for the positive male figure...I cannot find the words for how this made me reflect cry and contemplate. Thank You!
SO elated that you both connected so quickly. When I heard Jason’s interview with Joe, I thought of Ed IMMEDIATELY!!! This was a realization of a manifestation of sorts for me. Once again, thank you Ed!!! Another Man who struck me deeply is when I have listened to Niels Jorgensen. I would suggest, if you haven’t already, to complete some due diligence regarding Niels. VERY powerful!!
This was an incredible incredible interview!!! This verse came to my mind and heart. "When two or more are gathered. I am there among you" Thank you Ed and Jason!🙏🇺🇸
This is was so empowering. I'm a man who wants to be also a human, we men often forget that, we think that we are not allowed to be sensitive and loving or to be scared and fearful. I see that this subject comes up more and more these days and I'm happy that more and more men embrace it. Thank you so much you Ed and your guest Jason for this delightful conversation. God bless you both.
I needed to hear this message, I am touched to the bone. I can't believe there is only 168 comments and 30k on views. Men, we need to embrace our emotions and share them as examples for our younger gen. #dkhunt
I agree100%. But we run from tough emotions just like he said, when people feel the resurfacing of buried hurtful emotions they instantly habitually redirect to something easier to deal with. It’s scary and it hurts to face the old demons. So it’s not going to be ‘popular’ because it’s REAL! Society loves new distractions and trendy people are hurt people, because they hide the hurt with anything they can. I wish this message would become more mainstream over the garbage in the media. It went ‘viral’ bc people can easily connect with that kid, wishing they had that, but looking deeper and working on yourself is a whole other beast that most people find every excuse to always avoid. The ‘emotional incarceration’ is REAL as he calls it. We all need to help find ways to break people out of that life sentence.🙏
Awesome Interview Ed, and a very interesting Guest. Jason Wilson my Brother you exude so much Calm and Confidence, I'm blown by the way you articulate yourself. Thank you for the Gems Gentleman and thank you again for keeping the language clean.
I’m blown away at this. I’m a Wife, Mother and Grandmother and am giving God thanks for showing this to me. I needed men’s perspective on these things. If I’m better, I can help those around me be better. Isn’t that what today is for? What our life is about? I’ll learn and share. This was an answer to prayer! Thank you!
Man this was good! I lost father two years ago and I kept it all in.. I need to let go it has drained me completely. Thanks for making me realise I have to walk on myself!🙌🏾🙏🏾
Yes. When you change the world treats yours as such. It happened to me. When I released the hurt and anger after being saved in 2004…I reacted differently to the flat tire, to the rude cashier, the angry coworker etc. Then those things happens less. Wow. What an episode
@EdMylett thank you also for allowing the real moment with his daughter to literally verify a voice of wisdom. Awesome job! Excellent recognition as an interviewer!!!
Thanks Ed for bringing us (humanity) much needed truth and love. We live in a fallen world full of sin and hurt, so to hear two amazing godly men talk about healing and growth for the betterment of our souls is so refreshing and needed. Blessings and maxout.
Real Warriors Cry! Real Men Cry! Thank You Ed and Jason. You are Molding Men that this world NEEDS! Release, Reflect, Reset , and Rest! I subscribed and ordered book 20 min into this video. Your work is Cherished.
Great interview on all levels. As a man who battles with himself constantly with the relationships I have with my two sons, this was very inspiring Thank You
This man is just such a powerful entity. I can feel his light through my phone. I listened to one exert from his book and immediately purchased both. If you have children especially a son you have to purchase this book. We owe it to our families to be better everyday. There is not a lesson in this book you will regret.
I’ve never commented on your content before but I trust your message. This was something I listened to because I trust you but it was a message I didn’t know I need until I listened to it. Thank you, I’m sharing this with other fathers now.
Man. This one had me I tears. And I’ve learned to be comfortable with this. After drinking and smoking for my adult life, to becoming sober for 16 months, the roller coaster actually processing all sorts emotions is taxing at times. But I’ve learned that it’s ok to process rather than suppress it through substance or women. This is a great movement this man is doing, and I’m here for the ride.
Ed Myett you are quite the interviewer; your questions always on point. You regularly interview interesting guests and not least, this one. I enjoyed the whole interview. I clung to every word that came out of this man; Jason Wilson's mouth. His presence in the room was soothing. He reminded me of Solomon in the Holy Bible as he oozed wisdom and confidence. He seemed to wrap loving arms around all boys and men who hurt, giving licence to acknowledge their vulnerabilities. I'm sure "Battle Cry" will be a compelling read. "Reflect, Release, Reset and then you can Rest". What a provoking interview!
I'm so happy I stumbled across this -it was a blessing!. I saw the martial arts video a while back and it brought me to tears,but I never knew who this guy was. The amount of attention you gave as an interviewer solidified the content full spectrum. 2 big muscular MEN, visually opposite teaching strength through de escalation and empathy. God bless
Yea man this was a good one. Thanks Ed and Jason. I hope to one day sit there next to you and tell you how much you and your interviews have changed and shifted my perspective.
Deeply touched. Had a very similar experience regarding my wife's miscarriage until a divine intervention requesting me to broaden my compassion through myself.
Thank you, Ed. I love Jason and the way that God has made his life so much richer and fuller by learning His Way, His Truth and His Life. Blessings to him and his family. ❤ He's so right in saying that it's much bigger than the interview. #maxout
Wow I literally prayed for this video. Experiencing transformation coaching recently has opened my eyes to allowing myself to process the emotions and past trauma in my life and it was so huge for me. Holding in what I thought I gave to God was literally making me sick. I was praying for a way my husband could hear and understand what that would look like for him. He is super masculine and this video was an answer to my prayer. Thank you both so much. I could have listens to 5 hours!! ☺️🙏
Thank You Ed this episode it was AMAZING!!!! It touched my heart, you guys had great chemistry in this conversation. Jason's voice is so soothing and heartfelt. love you guys, god bless.
What a beautiful interview Ed! This is a blessing to me. Everything that Jason talked about reminded me especially when he mentioned about the value of a single mom. And the FEAR and to cry out everything and don't suppressed it inside of you. I have son who is struggling in his pre teens stage. Who is still longing for his identity while struggling the process. And not having the a self confidence. I tried to encourage him and uplift his spirit. But this interview gives me another perspective on how to deal with it. And this interview is such a profound message to me. Thank you again Ed. If the world consist of both of your characteristics, faith and wisdom as a man, yes indeed-The world will be a better place! God bless you both!
No way! I’ve seen this video and didn’t even realize this was the same guy as I listened to the podcast!! Such an amazing soul!! Glad I hopped over to RU-vid to re-listen and watch.
