Sheggz and Hermes straightforward with their answers and big sheggz claiming Bella with his full chest, Groovy still beating around the bush, I know phyna eyes will open when she’s out.
Shegez is abusive he found mumu womon Shegze is abusive even to his house mate n his country He inter begi house like Nigeria man but he said every time he said London London boy he is abusive Bella she is 27 I dont now about you
@@kherianasser7770 I now understand the gang up you guys just don't want someone living outside to come and take the money hence the hate . I am not a Nigerian but until you guys bring evidence from London police when abuse is not tolerated .
Abusive videos. It’s hard because he was equally abusive to other people in there . That is why it’s hard to see he isn’t what we saw. Anyway all the best
I mean listening to him and other HMs'kinda supporting his relationship says something! Well wishing him the very best and hope all works for him on the long run!! On Hermes & Groovy much 💚 and goodluck to them.two!!
I sincerely love Sheggz composure all through the interview. Time will tell your truth. Just keep improving on yourself after all we are all a work in progress.
Shaggy and Bella are being put in situation where they have to prove the public wrong. This pressure alone is enough to break them. I just hope they just do their thing
These interviewers aren't asking the right follow up questions 👎🏾...the question here regarding Shella isn't about whether they love each other or not, I'm not in their minds or hearts so I don't know. The problem is not about love/infatuation, it's about manipulation, bad behaviour n diminishing a person you claim to love. Fighting is also not the alarming thing here but the manner of it is. How a couple fights MATTERS. It determines the longevity of the relationship. But let's not talk about that bc you people only wanna hear the awwwn things. Edit: the good things a lover does in a relationship should never be used to masquerade the bad things. They aren't compatible n hopefully both their families can protect them from each other.
I have been looking for someone who can make sense like you. That Sheggz looked down on Nigerians and it's funny that most Nigerians seemingly took no offense to him in claiming, in so many ways that Nigerian men don't know how to treat women. He was so arrogant
@@sisandasisanda7490 he even looked down on Nigerian women that last Saturday calling Lagos girls cheap. it's embarrassing that he has female fans more than males.
And where he claimed he come from that made him behave and talk like that was London oooo not even America where you can use some slang... London is modest.... Just like the likes of kidwayya whom we know his father was not from London oooo... He keep saying you know where I come from.... Justifying his name calling with that's how I do with my friends.... Vee was from London......it's baffles me how he cared his London for head oooooo using it as reason for talking down on people anyhow..... All I know is the relationship can't last 6month outside the house
We saw lovey dovey sheggz, toxic seggz, rude sheggz, arrogant sheggz....all shades of sheggz. Work on the perceived toxicity, if indeed you didn't mean those insults in a derogatory way. Even Bella used to caution you about insulting her.
Sheggz and the rest are not getting the point, a man can be so sweetie, so nice sweetie nothing but still torture you psychologically or physically, I have a friend , ever time the guy beats her, he uses material stuff to apologize like buy a new phone etc
But Bella herself confuses how nice Sheggz is n just as u heard he is used to using those words when he is having an argument with his friends, they don't mean anything to him
@@ogonnaokechukwu1761 no oh we all watched bbn. It's also the energy that came with those words he was not playing at all even with other ladies not just Bella.
@@ogonnaokechukwu1761 and thats where the problem is, if he looks at this as normal, then it’s even worse than it looks , those words don’t go well with people especially women more so in public and then the person you call the love of your life
@@dianaatuhaire6005 But didn't u hear when he said he is open to learning n adjusting. He has seen that we in Nigeria take such words seriously, so he will change.
I believe this media houses needs to show Shegun evidence of things he did in the house to show his ship with Bella was all strategy ' kidwaya promax' ,who goes to the house with a bracelet for a partner,the show is bb not searching for love, the right questions must be asked, media houses need to invite utubers who really watched the show and did serious analysis on it like frankly speaking with glory,Austin Bertha,Sharks and Marie,to asked this housemates the right questions,they do so many things in the house and when they come out they act like they didn't and start twisting narrative.
Bruh what's the huge deal about tying laces like 😂😂😂how big of a deal is that compared to name calling and emotional draining they don't cross each other to make it equal 😭😂😂
someone should tell this sheggz n co that those shoe tying, and all the nice things...but we also saw the bad things he did...and aadly, it overshadowed the good
Sheggz is manipulative and very conniving he just wanted to try to change the narrative that was already put out there prior to him going on bbnaija. Sheggz being emotionally abusive towards Bella is exactly how he was towards his previous relationship. I also don't understand why Hermes is putting his life on the line to defend Sheggz, e is giving me coward energy because he was barely there when the fights and abuse would take place
Sheggz It was hard for most woman when you fought with bella and she Cried saying she wants her mother. That was painful to watch we felt it. Dont speak to a woman with such hurtful words. Whatever You and bella decide it your business. Never speak to her like that. She's not your boys. She is a beautiful young lady.
I said What I said get over it. He should never speak to a woman like that. Maybe you ladies like being spoken to like that. Cry Today,Cry Tommorrow and Cry Forever. Freedom of speech.
@@sparkle257 The same bella that people are protecting seem the type that will rather stay with abusive relationship. Remember her response to Ebuka. She will shock you.
Sheggz is abusive, don't be fooled. The video is true, fortunately for him the girl didn't mention his name, but she did mention he was a ex footballer. So except if she has dated more than one footballer, it was definitely Sheggz. Finally he called all of you that studied in Nigeria stupid, you're all clearly falling under that label. Sometimes think with your brain and don't be deceived by good looks and smooth talking!
The only difference between sheggz & bella's ship is that it was aired, y'all judging and throwing tantrums at sheggz are going through a terrible relationship and the world doesn't know about, so y'all should keep your opinions to yourselves and let him breath.
It's just how he doesn't realize that there should be a difference in the way you address your friends and the way you address your 'babe'. Dude, just accept your wrong, apologize and do better.
I don't think I will be able to understand how allyson would leave a single guy like adekunle and be with Hermes as number 3! Women are wonderful creatures 😲😲😲
@@realtinuke1 i still don't understand! Are you telling me she's allowed to go out and sleep with another man too? How's such an arrangement supposed to work in marriage? Won't they have kids...
Sheggz and Bella: Big Brother’s Cradle of Emotional Abuse Ebuka had an interview with Sheggz - the evicted housemate who had Bella as his love interest in the house. Ebuka tried to highlight to him the tonality of abuse which characterised the demeaning, on-screen relationship he shared with Bella. His response was both tactless and revealing. It disclosed his ignorance about the subject of emotional abuse, his unwillingness to admit his character as an abuser and his audacity to present his age as an infantile excuse for his spitefulness. Patterns of emotional abuse include: 1. The content of someone’s words. For example they say things like: a. You make such stupid decisions b. You never do anything right and c. Nobody else will ever love you. 2. Tone and none verbal cues such as: a. yelling, b. ignoring and c. showing contempt through body language. 3. Reaction: How someone reacts to being told they have said or done something hurtful can show important insight. a. Do they apologise sincerely and act differently in the future? b. Do they dismiss and minimize the pain they have caused? c. Do they make excuses for their behaviour? 4. When someone directs any of these behaviours at you take note whether this is part of a pattern of behaviour for them. Abusers rarely engage in abuse 100 percent of the time, there are moments of kindness and calm. These do not invalidate moments of abuse but are actually a part of the cycle of emotional manipulation. See how this 4-step pattern is manifested in the interview. Step 1 and 2: Content and tone: He yelled: ‘Shut the f**k up you not my mother’ amongst other things while in the house. Step 3: Does not apologise rather minimizes the hurt he caused with an excuse. “I am 26” Step 4: Emphasizes that he is nice 90 percent of the time. Thereby establishing a pattern or cycle of emotional manipulation. This is an excerpt from the interview: Ebuka: “The one thing that tipped it over for most people was the away you talked to her; … how you would say WORDS to her. I think the one time that stood out to many people was when there was a fight … and Bella said: ‘Sheggz, I don’t know why you are explaining yourself.’ And you said: ‘Shut the f**k up you not my mother.’ Sheggz: Nine times out of ten I never speak to Bella like that. Bella is somebody that I tie her shoe laces, I make her food and I make sure she is good. I am constantly caring for her… I did everything to show that this is the way a man should love a woman because that is what I learned where I am coming from … so if I had two or three times where, maybe, I wasn’t always perfect, I am 26. I am growing and learning every day.
After the Captain Morgan challenge he criticized her dancing style and made her feel about it instead of celebrating with her. She even tried to defend herself by saying that everyone dances differently and he should let her dance the way she wants. He kept reiterating that she was doing rubbish.
If you knew how to write this well, why have you not used this medium to better yourself instead of trying so hard to break down a person God has blessed already? So tell me in all years of adulthood, you haven’t called your woman/man some names when arguing?
I get you. Remember Kermen? Do you remember what happened that season? They obviously conduct psych evaluation on the housemates to protect the housemates particularly the women but you need to understand that human psychology is not a perfect science. Cracks happen and this instance, it happened LIVE for us all to see
Radio anchor; you should have asked Sheggz if he knows Beauty by Gbemi, that is where you should have started. The video that went viral was made 2 years ago and after she did, she removed it but unfortunately the people that downloaded it started circulating it now because of BBN 7. Nonetheless, it was said her classmates went on all his social handles to attack him. Do your homework.
Man keeps saying professional footballer, instead of to say he plays for local town team which anyone can do if they can play, he come here come dey catch mugu… baba lielie
