@@az21bob666you assume, to think, that there’s no standard to earn the money even if coming from wealth. Especially given her character. She didn’t just have an endless bank account she could draw from. Furthermore, she chose him in spite of his mediocrity. He chose himself, and that is what’s actually funny.
@az21bob666 Well, her ancestors built generational wealth, so their kids don't have financial struggles. Also to maintain what she has takes certain capabilities. Don't be jealous.
Don't do that for a man, a woman, or for anyone else. I made this mistake to the sake of two friendships of two female friends of mine, who felt inferior towards me and were always complaining that they didn't have the degrees or the intelligence that I have. I've limited myself interacting with shallow and uneducated people to please them. My life just went downhill after that.
Same. Worrying about triggering someone else's inferiority complex and not being yourself is EXHAUSTING for your own self esteem and mental health. They will always try to put the blame on you and play the victim while putting you down.
The best line for me was "I have 14 apartment buildings that I own....." it's not that I support bragging, boasting or flexing about your generational wealth. Astrid was clearly the kindest, most elegant and soft spoken cousin and she was supportive. I wish to be strong like her, yet kind and gentle and maybe own a couple of houses too by making my own money 😅.
It sounded nice but would be overly dramatic in real world. He shouldn't have married her also means she shouldn't have married him. It goes both ways. If she found someone to cheat with, she would have. She didn't have options to marry to begin with so she married him. He got options to sleep with, he went ahead and was liking it. What's wrong with that..I do think marriages don't work as expected. It is a faulty design..
Two people shouldn't marry if they don't have similar lifestyles and habits. We stick to habits. They are hard to form and very hard to leave. People with similar habits only can survive together. If we think alike or similar it gets lot easier. Cheating is more due to sexual needs and less due to other needs. One can't fulfill else's sexual needs no matter what. It is something that will make people cheat till the end of the time..if two cheaters can't have sex I am sure their extra marital won't last longer than it is supposed to be..AIDs was a disease people feared and found ways around it. But seriously two people that are engaged in extra marital won't really stick together if it has no physical aspects to it. It is as simple as that and easier to break if one stopped enjoying that physical element for some reason with other woman or man.
I agree. Well said! I always say, when a woman is done. DONE! It’s an accumulation of hurt and disappointment. That is the driving force. We stop talking, we walk out and leave everything.
She was also such a sweetheart throughout. Plenty of the other women in the movie could be catty and mean, but she was kind and generous. Glad she got this moment in the end. She deserves someone who loves her!
This scene is legendary ❤. When a good woman is taken for granted and pushed to the extreme, you bring out the beast in her and she takes total control of not just herself but everything else.❤
They bring out the beast in good women for a reason- it helps lot of other women that don't mind not being good and get the men, the pants, and every thing else too. I don't trust women. They can make it all about themselves. Keep crying not knowing where their limits end. Sure because they don't have personal parameters of success. They are copying men and what has been done before. They will never be satisfied.
I had exactly the same conversation with my ex. He told me that I stole his financial luck and killed a man inside him…just because I became pretty successful and he didn’t manage to catch up
I hope you said something like this to him as you walked out the door. Someone who truly loves you is always happy you're successful because they are there with you as well when you were struggling. Your win is their win & vice versa ❤
Regardless of gender never dumb yourself down for anyone. If they are insecure because of your strengths because of their own weak egos, or insecurities and refuse to embrace and value yours. RUN!!!!
Wish I'd said things like that to my ex. "It's not my job to make you feel like a man. I can't make you something you're not." Ouch. YES❤!! I'm going to hold onto that one.
The last words is so powerful...I just realize... It's NOT my job to make you feel like a man... I can't make something you are NOT! Man with only his penis, doesn't work with the marriage, bro!
She was a powerful image of what marriage means for integrate women in conservative societies. Even a woman of means gets treated like trash doing everything right eventually.
I love this! I love this. She walked into her power and her strength. Finally. She tried to make herself small for him and she saw it got her nowhere. I love this scene.
Let's be honest, her British accent made it sound kinder than it was meant to be and makes it so that anyone on the receiving end would not want to respond.
“I can’t make you something you’re not.” That applies to everyone; we’re what we make ourselves. It’s not someone else’s job to make us who or what we want to be. We have to do that work ourselves.
⚠️Leave it to a cheater to blame the one they cheated on, for cheating😑. HE disrespected her, to latch out at his inherently wealthy wife. The RESENTMENT he held for her, made him see her positive traits as a shortcoming & something negative. He needed something to justify his betrayal, & the resentment he had for his wife & mother of his child. He didn't want to accept that her lack of inquiries & poking around in his business. Was simply her wanting to wholeheartedly TRUST HIM & giving him her unconditional support. Instead, he saw it as "she doesn't love me enough to care if I'm cheating or not, because she's always too complacent about things that don't add up. Her image as a calm & collected wealthy women, is more important to her than her husband sleeping with another women. So she DESERVES to be brought down a peg or two. Her nonchalant behavior drive me to cheating , it's her fault too"🙄😑🤦🏻♀️.
I was literally in her shoes and it is not your job to make a man he has be one in himself. Also i didnt own several apartments 😂. I did own my home which i worked hard for me and my son so he would inherit someday. Keep your head high the light at the end is something to aim for and worth it. ❤
did the cheating made him DUMB too asking his rich af ex-wife ‘where shes gonna go’ bruhh im so glad she hit him with that 14 apartment buildings line lmaooo 😭👏🏼
This is a real life lesson. Especially about to be 30 soon. People need to understand the behind the scenes of relationships. I’m glad this movie portrayed this!
Rightly said, a lot of times in order to express Love one gives in more than necessary and that is where the fissure appears and the chasm develops It's not your fault being from an affluent lineage, but on the contrary the lesser mortal also needs to rise up to the occasion and be more giving and equal in sentiments, which is completely one sided as it seems in this Short Video Love is giving not just receiving ♥️♥️♥️♥️💯
I admire her for her decision, speaks eloquently, elegant and with.dignity. So many lines so loudly spoken and all coming from hidden hurts and pain. Bravo ❤
Absolutely 💯 be ourselves , be genuine and real... We cannot make something someone who is not them...we cannot fake things to make them who they are behind doors...