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I like watching your channel but the English subtitles are a major distraction. What's the point of English subtitles when the narrative is in english? Using the excuse that some people speak english as a 2nd language doesn't make any sense considering they all watch english with subtitles in their native language not english subtitles because it makes absolutely no sense. I have travelled extensively and there are absolutely no countries with the exception of the US that posts english subtitles if the narrative is in english.
Women seem to want the guy they can't have or the guy they want to mold into someone they want. When they get that guy or try to control him or have caught him. They are bored and move on to the next. They need the constant dopamine rush.
You are such a different person than Myron, the followers for each of you are completely different categories of people, don't stoop down to his level, it's obvious that he is worried about losing face.
Sadia is correct in that women’s options shift as they get older. The thing that Sadia doesn’t say here is that as the women get older, they don’t want the older men. They want men their own age, however, the men their age (30-45) tend to look for younger women, and that is the ‘wall’ that is spoken about.
@@rf4537 It’s more common overseas. In Latin America, men ages 40 - 55 have access to women ages 25 - 35. Especially, if the man is fit, fairly decent looking (5 or greater), and financially stable.
@@rf4537Also, a man who wants children. Life is about trade-offs. Men are forced to accept that reality. Yet women think that doesn't apply to them. Buckle up for turbulence ahead, lol
She is right about wives starting to go full mommy mode and forgetting she is also a wife and neglecting her hubby. I had set an exit date in my marriage and my wife realized i was emotionally detatching and realized her mistake in the relationship snd she did a 180. Now 27 yrs and happy.
@@shawnfallahi5616 but her mentality is for provision for herself and children, so it better include intimacy with husband or she may find herself a single mom with only half the time with her children.
She is brilliant. She offers a different and realistic perspective in many issues. She cleared up so many issues I have been wondering for while. The world is in need of more women with a brain like hers.
@@32AA32 and why the hell not..do you expect women to sit on the coach so you can cheat on her. And throw her life away. The best years of her life. FOR YOU 🤡
Sadia is a very wise woman. She understands that both sides are different, deeply flawed and have work to do. I love an impartial view on the dynamics of relationships.
Sadia is 100000% correct when she says men find nurturing women highly attractive. I fell really hard for someone who had this quality and I always was seeking it out with women I started to meet after her.
Not every woman wants top 10 guys. Y’all are so delusional from watching this red pill. In reality, women date and marry those of their class and circle.
Well....wealthy men can and do attract the top 1% of attractive women. Even when and if the wealthy dude is 20 plus Years older and is fat and ugly, he's STILL getting the top 1% attractive women chasing em down
Not only is Sadia's understanding of male/female dynamic so expert, she's so real and practical about it too. The part about "you don't need a pyschologist, you need pt .... you're too overweight to be here" hits so hard. That's so honest and real. They way she can break down a complex topic down to basic things is so impressive and I feel like I've leveled up just listening to all of this.
It depends, some still have that young girl (look) in their 40s but until you get up on her and get to know her past her self representative, she’s just for sex and love bombing you to hook you.
Because 87% of women believe that they deserve a man that's in the top 5% of men. Well...the top 5% of men are able to have the best pick of the litter...this means that by the time these delusional woman are in their mid to late 30s....find themselves still single...haha. now, they have to settle for a man that she NEVER gave the time of day to her entire adult life. Because of this, it's caused MANY married men(good men) to have a wife who doesnt respect him, doesnt love and care for him like a good wife should/does. It's sad (for the man)
I'm am up at 330am every day, working out at 4am, at work at 6am as a Journeyman Lineman. It's not just CEO's that do this. Honestly I hate working out and if I had to do it at 5pm I wouldn't do it. So I get it done and over with before the day starts. I'm 47 and look better than I did when I was 20 because Im consistent, watch my food intake and rarely drink.
Almost no CEOs actually do this. They want YOU to do it, because it's good for their profits. It's a simple manipulation that so many fools fall for. However, if you're self-employed, that's different
“For a a woman, the offers are endless.”Three points: If you live your life online, it’s true that there can be endless connections -and not just for women-yet nothing can replace the personal human interactions, the human touch. There is a big difference between chatting online and living together in matrimony. Second: The paradox of choice is that more choice you have, the more you are bound to go for no option at all. So I am not sure why men should “wake up” or why she says they overestimate themselves? Men and women are not two separate groups, they are one. What one does directly affects the other. Lastly: “Respect your body. Go to the gym.” There are people who go to gym every day and still die of a heart attack because they eat junk. So it’s not that simple. Nutrition actually accounts usually for over 80% of health, 20% is physical activity.
My ex girlfriend was a gym instructor (airobics classes), and she brought me to one of there AW events, it was silly much nonhelthy stuff, they basicly trained hard soo they could eat lots of junk acasionally. Soo you are soo right! And I don't know if all that training stress is excactly 100% healty. If it is endless why all makeup and operations first.
You like skinny dudes??? 😂 once you get past a certain age you lose 10% of your muscle mass per year. I hate it if I don't look hot with my clothes off for, for my woman and I expect her to be hot and in shape for me. Of course there are people who like skinny sex, and others who like chubby sex 😂😂😂😂😂 but that ain't me.
whats more likely to happen you die of a heart attack as an active person or you die of a heart attack as someone that never gets off their ass? no one said going to the gym makes you immune to an pre existing conditions or mortality in general its just healthier and more visually acceptable in general than being overweight. what working out does is increase your RMR which allows you to burn more calories which makes the 80% more effective. if you dont want to go to the gym just say so...i would love it if more people didnt it would be alot easier to get stuff done in there lol so please spread your logic to as many people as possible lmao...
Thank you Sadia , i have just discovered you and what you say reverberates with me. Im so pleased to see beautiful woman of caliber who understand and is able to communicate such intricate aspects of human behaviour. How can I support you more. I’d love to join you channel, and I have just seen your link. Look forward to hearing more from you.
So there is an onlyfans for psychology! J/k Sadia, keep up the good work. You're creating positive cycles, similar to what your colleague Peterson does for men. God bless you both.
I would love to tlk to you im Muslim my self and I married and American woman had 3 kids after 23 yrs now I feel its not going to last its falling apart but I don't want to see my kids life's fall apart cause of mine and her selfish reasons I all so feel its not far for the kids to see us not be happy I would love to tlk to you
I have lived 31/42 years isolated and alone. I will remain Solo until my final moment alive. I have Zero wants and one need : To go home. I gave up connecting with the western dating shit circus clowns. Im a Genetic Psychopathic Ultra Sensing INFJ-T. The Law of Attraction is not the best way to get the most desirable people.
You should really leave attribution to the podcasts you are on. A. It's nice B. We can watch the whole podcast. C. We love you anyway, won't be going too far away from you
Sadia, your words of wisdom have helped me subconsciously for a while, but now after a little "wake up call" and sitting through a whole podcast i think im ready, thank you!
I'm actually finding it difficult to find the words, but this is the most immersed I have been in a podcast ever. Literally every single thing Nadia said struck me as a truth I either wasn't able to verbalize, or made me feel greatly at ease. Carrying responsibility, leadership, sharing the burden of family, intimacy. This made me feel like I have a new purpose in life. I don't think you will ever read this Nadia, but thank you so much for this. I'm going to look up everything else you have said now.
13:30 i didn’t drink until my 2nd semester of freshman year in college. i used to talk to all the girls sober and could interact fine (of course i had approach anxiety but would get over it after the first few). 1st semester junior year i was averaging 3 blackouts a week. my reliance on alcohol to approach girls became so bad that i literally told myself that i had to be on the edge of blacking out before i had the confidence to approach them. i’m 2 years graduated and 8 months sober and learning to be my authentic self without alcohol in social situations where i want to approach a girl. still working on it, but i’m so much more confident and proud of myself because i decided i didn’t want to rely on something to let me do what i want to do.
Pills( blue, red , yellow , green, black )are needed. I can't wait until she gets married. Sadia is a princess who needs to live and get some experiences.
Facts! This is ruining the world and lives. It is truly sad. On one hand, we have men and women lying to their single audiences by giving them bad advice, and then going home to their husband or wife. While on the other hand, single people are following the bad advice that is guaranteed to keep them single forever and lifelong consumers of this type of content, by listening to other singles. It proves that being educated doesn't equate to being intelligent. I really hate this for us.
It is most beautifully explained for middle age people. It covers so many subjects, it get me thinking for many hours. Every one 17 and anwords should watch this!!! I will show my girls when they grow up. p.s. I have learned a lot about my self too. Many many thanks :)
When I had my own apartment, I didn't have a TV or a phone line connection or even an internet connection. And I got more things done in my life if I needed the internet for online banking I went round to my parent's house and used their internet to pay bills. I read more books listen to music got better as cooking food, my fitness got better I enjoyed dating more had no distractions, even had a basic mobile phone talk and text. I miss those days.
I’m 59 I’m kinda short… but I’m fit.. very physically fit actually and if I were 6’2” I would be slaying the ladies in all ages ..I’m actually getting more women now than I did when I was in my was in my 20s-30s-40s.. I was married for a decade.. but it was actually after that marriage ended that I started attracting more attention from women.. I work out 3 times a week, all muscle groups and women look. More than ever before.. I don’t know why… maybe it’s because women around my age see their other options and they didn’t take care of their bodies.. but I get younger women too.. I’m seeing a 27 year old woman who I met a few months ago.. and she’s exceptionally beautiful.. everyone stares at her…and she’s mentally attractive too, in fact I’m falling hard for her,.. but there is another young one pretty much the same , that I just got a number for…also in her 20s maybe closer to 30.. all I can Sysco to the men out there… get your body into good physical condition.. the best you can..you’ll be amazed
Wow amazing Sadia. There's so much to learn from her when I listen to her pouring out a lot of practical ideas so fluently and spontaneously. A perfect role model for most women!
Hi Sadia! You are one of the wisest women I've ever heard speak. From listening to your podcasts I am pretty sure your wisdom is due a lot with having been reared by both your mother and father. And your parents did a wonderful job instilling their values with you. I wish more people will listen to your words of wisdom. Thank you for being such a beautiful human being. You are a great beacon of light in this world full of so much ignorance and darkness.
That's exactly what I think, but I believe a lot of what she said intuitively comes so normal to her becouse of her muslim family background, as myself being muslim, I can so relate to what she explains and approve myself due to same sort of mindset always within the islamic communities, one advising the other continuely to avoid personal pain and built healthy relationship. so thanks to Sadia and the host making this podcast available to humanity.
Personal observations and analysis have nothing to do with upbringing. Her parents probably haven’t noticed any of this and probably couldn’t reach her conclusions.
@@AA-nb2kyLOL Muslims don’t talk about building healthy relationships. Nor do they talk about love. Most Muslims come from cultures where it’s all about duty and some cultures force duties towards in laws, without love and respect in return. It’s not a muslim thing at all which is why most Muslim countries have awful records on women.
Sadia thank you for your work. Many questionable situations which happened with previous partner became more clear to me now. I learnt a few things and I really need to set more boundaries.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@@peterwilliams6361 You are disgusting. You post this exact same thing in countless videos. Same exact words from both people meaning it's a scam. God will judge you for your wickedness.
Sadia, you make WAY too much good sense ! Keep it up though. Definitely we are ALL looking for that connection. I probably knew that already but it's great to be reminded. Many thanks.
As a Man who had plenty of women I must say: save this woman. Save Saidia. Feminine energy through the roof, intelligent, conservative. The type of woman I would marry immediately. So Saidia I am coming for you 😁
I disagree with her assertion on women as they age. Statistics shows the age bracket where women are productive and after which they depreciate by nature which some of them are trying to slow down by doing aurgumentation to any part of their body. As the woman ages the attraction diminishes. Using psychology to analysis human behavioral actions sometimes goes in tangent to the reality.
@@martian.07_I think she knows because in one podcast she ascertain that she was misled with the norm of going to school, empower yourself, make money and be independent and missing out one of the part of life, bonding in relationship with someone within your age bracket. She is just trying not to hurt someone people's feel by sitting on the fence.
He is neglected by his wife! You should've yelled this as loud as you could! Love this lady. She will teach you everything you need to know! So intelligent.
What I realised is that psychology is an interplay of various systems. Sadia has not only built an extensive understanding of all these systems but she’s figured out how they influence each other and drawn all the relationships. She’s hectic. In life, we meet defining professionals. People who show you what real competence is. Sadia was that force for me - within the field of psychology. I thought it was quite a lot of BS till I listened to her longer podcasts/interviews
A bit of googling and a few sources say that she's 35. I don't know what a well-adjusted 35 year old woman sounds like - I'll check then decide from there
You are achieving your goal. Listening to you on top of a recent connection gives me the deep confirmation that I should delete material that has had its claws in for too long. Thank you. ❤
Same goes for men too. I don't even like MYSELF when I'm fat, lethargic and out of shape. My hormones, testosterone, feels DEAD. I like to stay active, keep the blood and endorphins flowing.
This is one of the best videos I’ve watched in a long time . She is really smart and beautiful and not showing her body attributes like most girls do on the internet nowadays but the guy had the best questions really good content.
“When men come to me saying they feel lonely, if they’re overweight, I say you need a personal trainer not a psychologist. You’re too fat to be here.” Facts. Overweight folks should be taxed extra for their irresponsibility and the economic damage that produces to our health care system.
I really enjoyed her fresh perspective and deep inside lotta good wisdom, even though as humans, if we are really using half our minds, this information that’s being displayed here is a neat wisdom and understanding deeper consequences of our actions, especially when it comes to partnership, and the need for connection is so diluted now bye our phones and social platforms it’s all illusion, and we have more depression in the world than ever now so that should be enough to send the signals to the brain that whatever is happening is not good for our complete well-being
What Sadia is talking about in the beginning is what I call the illusion of options set forth by dating apps and social media. It’s sexual attention women are getting post 30 not relationship attention.
Sadia, you've made good choices not only because you were reared that way but because of you are. Some people with the same religion and culture and parental structures will still go out and do whatever. So kudos to you
@@josephfreeflowingnatural8907 when she mentions George Clooney as a man of high value...I deduce that this woman has not had a happy romantic relationship and has not yet found the right man for her....talking about her failed marriage brings us nothing .... the important thing are her ideas, when I searched for her on google I discovered that she is Pakistani, I understand her way of analyzing ... women in Muslim countries grow up with a lot of complex ... the proof is that she says that masculanity is to have limits bondries .... her ideas are interesting for women like her not for women who were born in developed countries where the woman has had almost all her rights for centuries
This woman is speaking facts. So much wisdom on so much different topic, maybe she'll be the one to solve the great crisis of our generation in a changing world (celibacy/hikikomori/lack of love/OF) ???!
this video is jam packed with important caveats that are needed in the modern society,sadia is a woman that women should look up to.i actually want to make reaction videos to unpack and to further divulge into the things she is taking about
wow Sadia not only you have a beauty and highly intellectual you use your brain to help & model people troubling understanding the problems in modern society not knowing the underneath the traditional culture still much needed till these days. You delivered your words so clear what’s good & bad for society whats valuable or not.
Sadia the only woman that ever told me this about people pleasing and setting boundaries. Else it's only made sense out her mouth. Fact is I've learned all this through hard experience and the woman not going to tell me this in the moment nor help me improve in the time we spend together. Even naturally doing this women got a way of reducing boundaries or letting you ruin yourself. I see my partner slipping imma correct them and help keep them at their best. I'm done here.
I don’t hate it, I just know she wrong about certain things; and I am ok with her being wrong because most of what she says is valid. Chew up the meat and spit out the bones is what I say.
I love your suggestion about alcohol being pseudo confidence. And yes, then because it’s natural for human beings, that if somethings good then more is better, this ends up being a trap that causes people to over drink make fools of themselves, and eventually become addicted, and then narcissism usually sets in. The Bible is very clear that we are to remain sober, when we live intoxicated, we literally lose portions of our brain that serve to protect us, and pre frontal Cortex etc, dull and we then drop our inhibitions . At this point, then people often sin, or do acts of unrepentant sin that then gets that person judged, and when a person is judged in the courts of heaven, they are handed over to the devil, and the devil now owns them and the devil only comes to steal, kill and destroy them.. remaining sober, keeps us in touch, hearing the still small voice of the Holy Spirit that does Guid us , guides our conscience . In a nutshell, this is the reality
But basically she is just saying everything we talks constantly on Red Pill podcasts. And she is quite manipulative in some points when comes up to this topic.
I am in my 50s and if I were single, I would not desire a woman below 30 other than sex. (Don't ridicule me for being honest). I will rather be with a woman over 40s who is successful and who can stimulate my mind with common interests, mindset and experiences. I don't even mind if they have children. Sadia's third eye is always open.
Sadia you are extremely brilliant.. you really dealt with this topic with great understanding of what should and should not. Thank you for helping out… I got my answer to my problem watching this podcast and I’m going home to be a better Boyfriend 😊
What can I do as a woman, to be more attractive? I'm 19 years old, but I don't want to be the one who has to cross the wall losing me, being like the rest! Sadia is becoming my mentor, Thank you for the content👏🏻
Sadia really needs to build her spirituality. The physical is different from the spiritual as we see now. Sex is physical, Emotion is spiritual, so a mans main physical goal is sex, so it will be so contradicting to mention a mans sexual desire to his emotional cravings because everyones spiritual level is different, just how she speaks more of masculine correction as feminine, showing her spiritual imbalance.
3:20 was me. Just realized quality time is my love language not physical. Unbelievable realization and my depression left the moment I put time into actually being in the moment
wrong, im 30 something now and even if the woman i like is pretty ill choose always much younger woman due to many factors like fertility, body counts, emotional stability and much more
What body count ? Women born in 80s and early 90s have chances of having less body counts than women born after 2000.It's the era they are grown in. A lot of 19 years old have body count over 50😂😂
"The offers are endless." - Over 35, it's harder biologically to have children. That's what they are talking about. Not about having offers or not having offers.
