Become Confident in 60 Seconds 

We called this “the butterfly theory”. In college. If you chase a butterfly it flies away. If you stop, sit down, and wait…the butterfly will land on your shoulder. It was our dating philosophy

Tomorrow is my exam. I thought of studying but I guess I trust myself now 😝

I needed this because I’ve been losing confidence in myself. I used to be the opposite and idk what changed as I got older I lost myself 😔

This kinds of videos never actually helped me until now. That was a really good advice

This ish something a pick up artist would preach. You build confidence through repetition & experience/progress you gain from it. So no, keep trying even if you fail. That’s how you grow true confidence.

Jimin floating on in the waterr🥹🥹🥹

FACTS OVA FEELINGS. ... Confidence Doesn't Change Who a Man is it Simply Reveals Who He is

Anyone notice his glasses are lopsided in the beginning and gradually go down until the end when he uses the word “control” and addresses our obsession with trying to control outward circumstances . Very subtle and clever technique! I extend peace love and light to all of you on your internal journey! ✨🙏 be patient, you got this🙌🍁🙃

Great advice! And also, Confidence is a mindset and preparation 💯

good example of confidence: "Frick it we ball"

" Stop Trying, Start TRUSTING YOURSELF "

Confidence is imagined. 💓

Yes thats true, i felt that in college when i studied so hard and stressed myself so much, i always ended up getting an average mark while people i know who didnt even put much efforts, passed exams with good marks.

I agree. Although I think some trying is okay it's just when it's too much it can be repeling. People and the universe work the same way. lol

Remember fellas you dont compete you are the KING

Trusting yourself, so hard for me the last four years after making a series of blunders. Working on swimming with the river✌️

Yep!!! Fake it til you make it!!! I just dont worry about money and bills anymore. Money will come. As long as i am healthy i will be fine

This is so very true I use this tactic on a daily basis at Work as a surgeon , they're not too happy about it but I trust myself 😌

Reminds me of the philosophy I have when you lose something..The more you look for it the least you'll find it and vice versa...It's about energy and what you choose to focus on...

I would say that the way to build confidence is yes to “trust yourself” however do so only after you start doing things. If you say oh yea im doing this new thing but you have never done anything similar before you won’t have confidence because it’s factually impossible for you to have it in that situation. You need to prove to yourself that you can do things. Then that certainty that you gain from accomplishing smaller tasks will be your confidence. My point is that if you have no experience and you convince yourself to be confident you are experiencing delusion. You have to do enough that your giving yourself a real statistical chance building your “confidence” in ability because you are just scaling the same skill. This is different then controlling impulses and getting up everyday and doing it regardless of how you feel or “believing in yourself” to do it.

"Don't Try" - Charles Bukowski. .... He was onto something wasn't he 😂❤. Love him.

I really appreciate your videos. You put out good content that people need to hear but in a positive way. You’re doing good things for the world. Thank you.

That's great! Confidence seems more simple than I thought. I used to hear always, "Fake it 'til you make it", but that wasn't the whole answer. Your explanation sounds better. Good to know. Thanks.

You’re in my top 5 favorite RU-vidrs. Thx bro

Could you give an example on trusting yourself??

I heard this recently and i think it's the best way i have actually heard it. Confidence is something you look at from the outside in, it's like the best lasagna you've ever had that is incredibly good good but you have no idea what's in it because you don't have a recipe. What we need is the recipe! you can make a lasagna that looks just like it but it won't taste the same and that's what we all do by "trying to be confident", we make mediocre lasagna that looks nice. The recipe to the best lasagna ever is to exert effort, not in confidence, but in self acceptance! a cool person will accept himself in all situations, no matter how embarrassing or shameful. This will make you act right and change or accept anything that is out of place, it will give you inner peace and a feeling of being good enough. The beginning of growth and that thing others call self confidence. Try it! it changes the game

Love this … start trusting stop trying

I can’t stop watching your videos 🙏🏽☮️☮️☮️☮️☮️

Intense trust in my Lord.. I do my part and he always goes the rest.. simple! Never stressed or worry. Because w him there is no need to be 🤷🏽‍♀️

That's why i dont stress about my study without studying.

If you got bills to pay you definitely shouldn't be not focusing on paying them 🤣

Love the new content keep it up king!!

This is the greatest video of all time on you tube ❤

agree,when im stuck in things, just leave it and the result is coming then without im tey

Love your content!!!

Jiminshi what are you doing there😂

Don't want, chase or attach. It will all work out, it always does.

Needed this because I’ve been convincing myself to talk to my ex in person and get her back. We were together for 5 years and broke up because of long distance issues, now I just don’t feel like I can love again :/

Confidence is gained by competence. That's the way happy neurochem Serotonin works, the more you win the happier you are, the more you get competent/capable the more confident you become... "you cannot be a master if you're not willing to be a fool"

That's all good when you can express yourself the way you want to with words. I notice myself in conversations wanting to say things or comment on people, but I don't seem to be able to come up with the words. I don't think about it a lot as i learned that its a huge flaw i have to live with. Never seen anybody mention this anywhere sadly. I don't seek approval or anything, but i had people tell me it makes me come off as slow/not confident and not interested. It's not an issue, but confidence doesnt fix this.

Excellent, it really is. Thank you❤

Trust also means confidence.

Confidence = from the Latin roots. Con as prefix meaning “with or to carry” Fidere is the Latin origin of suffix “fidence” meaning faith or Trust. So having confidence means “With faith”

I trust my confidence.

Phew i needed this

My understanding: Focus on the solution. Now as far as confidence. That comes from preparation and or experience. Focusing on the journey that gets you to the outcome is what he means. Enjoy the process.

True gotta be in flow state

This fixed everything!

Confindence is, whats left when your mind gets silent.

Excellent advice 👍

It's not ourselves that we are supposed to surrender into trusting.

jimin floating 😏🤣🤣🤣

Your content is getting better! Keep going

Your words are music to the victims. Thanks a million .

Absolutely correct mate

Its not stop trying, its stop being desperate and start trusting yourself 🕊️

This couldn't be more true!

most wisdom come from Alan Watt is good one 🔥🔥🔥

The Superman curl though

Yo Ive been saying "Im a badass" since the beginning of this video and I feel Im a badass.

The more you study the more prepared you are to your job.

You say trust, I call that faith Great video

Trust yourself; and just do the work to the best of your own abilities and trust the process.💁🏻‍♀️💛🕊️

"Oh yes, they all float down here."

Best advice, EVER.

Think swimming as the metaphor. The more you try and flail about the quicker you sink. When you relax and trust, the easier you float and swim.

Confidence comes from support and being able to build a belief system about your own idenity (validation from others or of the self, it doesnt matter. Confidence is not facts or proof it's a blind belief or love. Support builds momentum and possibilities/potential, this is why majority of people chose sponsorship and not mentorship. It's clearly not about competence for majority of people, it's about security and comfort and acceptance.

I really needed to hear this. Thank you

...so, confidence makes you attractive. Do things that make you feel more confident, such as, get fit, clean your house/car, pay you bills on time, learn a new skill, be kind to yourself and others, get a new outfit and hairstyle and set and accomplish goals.

Thanks for this video. Really needed this.

Thank you sir !

You just nailed it

Wow thank you appreciate it ❤ God bless you

Damn So True Thank you 🎉💙

I definitely needed this advice.

What what it comes down to is can't never did s***! Could always did.! Don't give up keep trying and eventually you will get it if God is with you

Needed this one ❤

I love your videos. I have learned so much and I am a big fan.

Thanks. I think I need to be reminded of this at this exact moment

Flow state- relaxation intuition surrender

I'm working with someone I fell in love with when we were kids, 21 years later she came back. Wiser and more experienced I found a hidden covert narcissist/psychopath/every other narcissist catigory. I've devalued myself because of my never dying love for her. I'm up against the challenge of a painful life time. But I do intend on if not fixing but relieving the world of psychological murders.

Thanks, so true

Needed to remind myself of this today 😅 thank you 🙏 ❤

SO True start. Trusting yourself Mote

Thank you bro, keep doing and making this type of video, it really help me. And wishing you Happy new year 2023. May this year be fruitful to you💗🥳💐

I love this thank u sir

I'm doing it and it's good. Be confident. I can anything. ❤💜❤❤🖤🖤❤💜💙💙💙💙💙

It's so true!

one of the facts 😁

I need intense trust video I apperantly lack that 😢

Great point. Well explained. 👍🙏

Facts.

So the secret of confidence is confidence 😂 thanks 😅

In short push yourself to grow but don't obsess

Thank you , I think i got a confidence tho even I'm not sure about it but when watching this shorts. Ok I'm got a confidence

I grew up thinking that having confidence meant to not have humbleness. So, therefore without humbleness then confidence, by default, was arrogant. Not true. The minute that I learned that you can be both confident in yourself and humble. My head and heart opened up to my possibilities.

I flirt a lot with a the man I fall in love with, but I am pretty sure that is not chasing. I sincerely like him. If he wanna throw that away, it is fine. I will survive.

Simple and effective words that are so true.

Nah, doesn't have to be intense trust, just basic trust will do.

Much love❤