Ight I'll live an obese life, since they are gonna judge me anyway, "They had shit to say when I was fat, and when I wasn't fat, they still had shit to say" -David Goggins People don't want to see you win.
It’s simple other peoples opinions about u don’t matter cause what r they gonna do about it, a lot of people want to bring you down, but it’s all a part of life, they will find reasons to hate don’t let it get to you.
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@user-hk8ep6bw9g well yes but if you didn't believe in g-d how would you feel if everyone was saying that you are a Child of G-d And don't say I wouldn't care because I'm sure eventually you would be sick of it❤
Being a person is hard.. everyone goes through their own hard struggles. The way I see it is just do your best to be kind and good to others and you will find someone who loves you for you. If you like your body, you are beautiful. If you like your personality you’re beautiful. It’s all about you, we just run the line/circle and do our best. Sure some may have worse hardships than others, but that doesn’t change anything, it isn’t a competition. Everyone can grow and change for the better if try want to. In my eyes, everyone who strives to better themselves each day is beautiful no matter what they look like. More people just need to realize that.
I’m a girl and I’m saying that both sides go through major shit. I know a guy in my life who’s suffered every type of abuse. I’m not overexaggerating. I also know a girl in my life who’s suffered from an SA incident at a very young age. Both sides have it bad. These types of things aren’t black and white.
those things have nothing to do with gender though? yes, life is shitty for everyone, but those situations have nothing to do with what the video is about
for ppl saying how boys go through things harder, this isnt a competition.Men/boys and women/girls BOTH go through hard things.This is just a audio saying what alot of WOMEN/GIRLS go through.Some of you men/boys do to much whenever there's ONE audio abt women/girls.Same thing with women/girls whenever there's a guy video like this or wtv.
Fr like some people are just trying to make it a competition like we just are literally sharing what we go through on a course of a day and they neglect it and say that guys have it harder
@@Lahvanyah1.00.0So a womans life is hard,but you don't see that when one person says that men and women matter you say,,Not about men right now''A women's life is hard,and a men's life is hard!STOP TRYING TO MAKE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOUR GENDER!
Why do people comment always say "men have it hard too" under these post. No one is saying they don't have it hard but you are literally invalidating this video by saying men have it hard too. They do everyone knows that
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I'm a guy and I'm just telling you you're so right there's nothing you can do to make people happy just be yourself love you for you not for what other people think of you 💕
Then you're not a guy, you're a true man, tho, also man suffer this or similar kind of critical comments, sadly we live in a society where everyone thinks they have the right to say whatever they want even if they dont know what is to be in the other person's shoes (btw sorry if I wrote something the wrong way, not my mother tongue)
This helped me realize how hard girls have it, but sometimes it lies in the intentions of a girl that gives them their personality, not their body. Also, I’m not saying this to be sexist because I’m male. Everyone has problems it’s just hard to realize sometimes.
Good way on looking for an S.O. but male or female, we both get judged and as an older Gen Alpha, I am trying to help as much as I can with our f'ed up society and standards, can't believe I'm saying this but, United we stand, divided we fall. If we continue on the track that we're on, you might as well call us dead due to under population.
when i was a child I didn’t know how to act around girls, but once i found out their situation around other people i started treating them with respect. i would give my gf my heart and comfort her anytime she needs it, I pay attention to her moods so I know what she’s feeling and how to act when she’s in a bad mood. She is my world and I’d do anything for her to make her the happiest ❤ *all women are beautiful and none of them are perfect*
Boys have their issues too, I'll list issues from both: Men: -Being Sensitive means your weak, apparently -Being kind makes you weak, which isn't true -Being shorter than a girl, is apparently against the law -Being extroverted is terrible?? Like what? -Being unemployed makes you a failure?! No, it means your just progressing in life Woman: -If your strong, your considered a fake?? Huh?! -If your flat, your immature and childish? Bruh -Being tall is weird, apparently, okay- -Wearing too much makeup makes your plastic?! -Not wearing makeup makes you unprofessional??
Most men dont, its literally the men who get made fun of. If youre not 6 inches on longer, youll be made fun of. If youre not taller than 6 feet, no girl will like you.
@@SmitePlayz1 I’m uncomfortable with sex and I don’t care about my partner’s d!¢k size. Also I’m very short and I only care if my partner is taller than me. Dude be 5’6 idc as long as you’re taller than me I’m fine with it
My parents are the reason I had LOTS of eating issues growing up I literally couldn’t go a day without getting told to eat more. Now that I’m actually eating I’m being told not to eat as much. And it’s by my parents as well.
TYSM for bringing up this. I have been arguing with girls about how it’s harder to be a boy. But I eventually came to a conclusion. Everybody has it WAY harder than everybody else thinks.
@@stephaniedunlap7252so true it’s not just girls it’s guys too I hate it at school when people make fun of guys for literally having emotions and make fun of girls if they cry too much like we’re all just human tryna exist bro
If a girl rejects a guy it fine but a guy rejecting a girl is messed up how like if you are a boy you get made fun of for anything I'm a little overweight and I get flamed for it no girls like me I'm called fat do you know how many guys get bullied compared to girls it's crazy and this is stupid if you do anything it's just messed up if a girl kisses a random guy in public it's fine but if a guy does that its sexual harrassment we need more people like you to help stand up for the stuff like this thank you for standing up for is men
Men’s mental health matters. I’ve been through many tough times and girls tell me that I’m a man and should suck it up. I am not saying being a man is harder than being a woman. It’s not. I’m saying both can suck.
I have to deal with death threats because I look ugly, everyone yells at me for everything... I just exist and I get bullied for it! I nearly die on a daily basis! And look at me! My family wants me dead!!! I take abuse as a way of training for the fights that i get in for existing... I've also recently learned that I shouldn't hide my emotions... its extremely hard for me to express myself so I take all of my anger out when I'm in a fight... and FYI, I'm a 5'3 boy who's 13, I'm already fighting for my life.
U good? Ik that I’ve been mainly arguing with other people under this video but this comment is mad concerning. If you need, I can give you a couple of hotlines.
Oh the death threats is wow you have a phone so you should use that to help with the… yeah 😅😅😅😅 stay strong and stay safe God is with you you are never alone
Dude, I understand you what you need to do stop taking your anger out on fighting I used to do that and it didn’t end. Well get a punching bag or something take your anger out on that vent to people being a boy is tough being a girl is also tough And I understand that most of the time we have it harder but you gotta remember there are people who care about you and if they don’t they can go fuck off
This is why you should so whatever you want no matter what people say. Either way you’re gonna get bashed for it so might as well do what you want while they say it rather than trying to change for them and still getting criticized for it.
Exactly. The world honesty sucks. People beg for attention and don’t get it. Instead, they hurt for attention to feel “better” in some sort of way. But then you can’t hurt them because they most likely having some hard life. But you don’t wanna be hurt either… So what do you do? You’re supposed to ignore them. Then, you get quiet, and then no one talks to you. I’ve gone through all of the stages. Don’t give a crap about what others think. It’s a waste of your time. Be you, and only you. If someone can’t accept you for you, ditch them. You don’t need their caca. You’re perfect as you are❤ Don’t give up on yourself, give up on them, if they won’t help.
Facts, at this point I’ve accepted all that I am and I don’t care what anyone thinks. I’m going to workout to achieve my ideal body type but I still remind myself that this body is just as valuable since it’s the one that gets me to the “ideal body.”
folks, guys have it hard too, we know, that's not really the point of the video you can't just comment about your own unrelated struggles when the main subject is related to other types of struggles, this video is mostly about the simpler and most average girl struggles that you go through when your only setback is that and no other setbacks exist. You can try to find safer places for venting, try finding other people that understand your struggles, but people who don't have a major setback or trauma aren't gonna understand it
@@24k_vibezz.xno they did that because someone else commented the same thing and they saw that first witch would make them think that this person is a copycat
Truth be told both sides have ups and downs. People are always going to judge you whether it's because they're jealous, cocky, etc. Just be who you are and be around the right crowd.
You're body isn't a book, don't judge it. You're neck isn't a coat, don't hang it. You're face isn't ugly, don't cover it. You're arms aren't food, don't cut it You're legs aren't food, don't cut it. You're not ice-cream, don't freeze yourself. You're not a target, don't sh0ot yourself. You're not a bug, don't k!ll yourself. You're body isn't a pillow, don't smack it. I love your hair. I love your body. I love your roblox avatar. (if you play it) I love your pet(s). (if you have any) I love your arm(s). I love your leg(s). (not in a weird way) I love Your hand(s). I love your video(s). (if your have any) I love your brain. I love your style(s). I love your head. (not in a weird way) I love your music(s). (if you made any) I love your name. I love your pants. I love your skirt. I love your skirt. I love your therian/cosplay mask. (if you have any) I love your smile. I love your heart. I love your teeth. (If you have any) I love your voice. I love your opinion. (IF it's a good opinion) I love your pictures. (if you have any) I love your house. I love your pfp. I love your age. I love your liver. I love YOU. I am happy you are reading this. I am happy you tried. I am happy you are alive. I am happy you play. I am happy you clean up. I am happy you don't clean up. I am happy you eat. I am happy you don't eat. I am happy that you survived. (for those who have dealt with SH) I am happy your loved (not in a mean way) I am happy you slept. I am happy you ate. I am happy you went outside once. I am happy you are enjoying this comment. I am happy you are nice. I am happy you are mean. I am happy you laughed I am happy that you are funny. You are cute. You are loved. You are nice. You are beautiful/handsome. You are smart. You are brave. You are good at talking. You are cool. You are the BEST! I wish to have you as my friend. I wish we could play together. I wish we could make crafts/videos together. I wish we could go to places together. I wish i could give you a hug. Your not ugly. Your not stup!d. Your not dùmb. Your not bad. (unless you did something bad) Your not mean. Vent to me if you want too. Im here for you. Free to copy and paste this comment! no need to tag me!
To anyone who’s need to hear this, Don’t ever compare yourself to anyone or anything.. You’re beautiful and you need to understand that the world is gonna be mean, but self love and caring for your body and heart makes this place so incredibly easier! You are stunning, and never EVER let anyone define who you are!
Yes, because men also go through these same problems, right? Chill, little boys. Nobody said being a boy isn't difficult. This video is just not about you, what's wrong with that?
Like Human Trafficking Doesn't exist and it's mostly Females,Like Segregation didn't Exist,Females Lives r tougher than any man,We r posed as Weak and Especially.If we r Lgbtq+,It's fine for guys,But we always get blamed because it's Gross and S4,KEEP SAYING UR LIFE IS TOUGH BOYS,but just know,Most of the Time,That Smile on Their face is Fake usually......
One fact about me as a male. I get insulted every day several times a day all because I try and be a kind person and help others out and yet I get insulted every day by everyone except my friends and family so I slowly started hiding who I truly am. It's pissing me off how many people don't care about anyone. But in my eyes everyone is beautiful. So keep going. Have a great day!
I am a man and I have a beard 👍🏾 I get called short every day but I have my beard I get insulted for my race and religion but I have God and my beard Always remember, you have your parents, your pets, your siblings, or your beard
You seem like a nice person, and you probably are. I hope your life gets better and you stop getting insulted. I’m not sure if Rylon is your name, but it sounds perfect. Have a great day, have a great night, have a great week, have a great month, have a great year, have a great life. Keep your eyes just the way they are, ok? (:
This has happened to me, I get teased daily for being flat and as small as I am, multiple men have told me things like "I could just pick you up and run off with you if I wanted" or "I could just throw you across the room because your so small!". I try to not kind it much but it kind hurts when i get weird stares when changeing in the locker room and such..just know your beautiful nonmayter what. Dont pay to much mind to thebpeople that say things like that to you because your beautiful in your own way, even if you get teased. Make yourself comfortable in your own skin.❤️
Girls : we are expected to eat less so we can be skinny Boys : we are expected to eat more so we can be strong Girls : we are expected to be a perfect housewife Boys : we are expected to got to war Girls : we are expected to be a crybaby but then get shamed for being one Boys : we are expected to beat up every guy that looks at his gf / wife Girls : we are expected to always meet the Beaty standards Boys : we are expected to work all day away from our families Girls : we are expected to always have perfect skin Boys : we are expected to keep our emotions bottled up Both : no one has the perfect life Btw I’m a boy typing this so couldn’t think of lots of things that girls go through so please dont start attacking me for this! I do believe u have very hard lives but so do boys!
This is my dads account (I don't have my own) Girls go through horrible period cramps, and childbirth. And it's not safe for most women to walk out at night because some men will grab them and force them to have kids and can't even do anything about it, having to carry it in the womb for months.
“Don’t worry about what people say about you, stay positive, don’t let people bring you down and for all the girls out there we I love you no matter what.”
We 👏 need 👏 more 👏 men 👏 like 👏 this Edit: IK THIS IS AN AI VOICE BUT I MENA WHOEVER IS BEHIND THIS VOICE AND IF THEY ARE A MAN WE NEED MORE MEN LIKE THIS
@@Mydi244then do it darling, this is society, men go through a lot of issues too, this just explains women. Everyone experiences issues, remember to respect and validate it, especially when a bulk are agreeing to this video 😄
@@Danz.786 Ok bruh this makes no sense and is so hypocritical. Like girls always say that a man’s penis needs to be 12 inches and make fun of it if it’s not, so does that mean that if I have a big d!ck I can just show it off? No that’s weird. Also no guy cares about a girls hight cause most guys want girls shorter. Also way more girls care about hight than men. If anyone is like 600 pounds then yeah they do need to cut back. It’s way easier for a girl to get a guy cause there will always be a guy who just wants someone to love him cause girls are way more picky when it comes to their men cause over half want them at least like 6’5. Nobody said having a period is gross( at least not that I’ve ever heard). Depending on when and how you loose your v card then yes obviously. Only sh!t bags wants those pics.
First of all , all girls are wholesome , but not those who are bad hearted , all girls being fat , tall , short , flat , no flat , are awsome and they're kindhearted , i respect all the women out there that have problems and are insecure
@@WEditsForLifewhy do people always compare what men and women go through? You're just as bad as the people who shame women because you're acting like men's problems are more valid, which isn't true. Women an men go throw gh different things but it's just as bad for both of them. You not stop comparing them and acting like women can be upset because "men have it worse". Everyone has hard times and everyone goes through terrible things. So instead of validating certain behavior and making certain parties look more important or their problems more valid, we all needs to help each other. Wasting your time comparing others ain't gonna do shit except for making hints worse. Just because some go through more than others doesn't mean that the original blems of other groups of people aren valid or no one should be update over it.
How many women are actually called ugly compared to guys? And how many women are called good looking and beautiful compared to guys who are called good looking and handsome? There you go.
Women have mental problems, if all women could clear their mind they would have 9 problems bc that's all it is it's in your kind women don't think everyone cares about your small things men want a personality
And for men if we show our real feelings, we would get made fun of, if u ain’t 6 feet now u r short, if u ain’t rich it will be hard to find love, and waaaay more
I am so happy i grew up with friendly people and still am. Nobody listen to what others say. If you like how you are don't change or be depressed. if you don't like it feel free to change yourself but you should not have to
@@Ella-sf3rq O yeah this. Nvm. So yeah most dudes don’t care if you flat and more girls make fun you you if your flat. Showing off your titis is just as weird as me showing off me d!ck. Almost all guys want girls shorter than them. Why would we make fun of periods? If anything we want girls to have them so that we know that your actually a girl and not some dude. Dudes who ask for nudes are just honest sh!t bags and if you actually send them then that’s just dumb. You should know that he could do anything with them. And yeah I’ll adjust that there are plenty of sh!t bag men out there so I’ll say sorry for that honestly, but I mean at least you can actually show that you have feelings and people actually feel bad for you. If your a guy and you even cry all you get is things like “Men don’t cry” and sh!t so… If your like 600 pounds then yeah for your heath you just gatta lose some weight. Something is wrong with you if you don’t date people cause your actually interested. Instead there are girls who date just so they don’t say that their single. Depending on what age you loose your v card then yeah that is weird, but at least play safe when you get to an age cause it’s just stupid to be a teen parent.
Your freckles are so pretty!! i want everyone to know that they WILL find the person they are looking for, whether it be a boy, a girl or a nonbinary that respects you. you arnt objects. ❤
Would like to add on to this, this isn't saying everyone is going to date someone- Just find someone who cares! Be it romantic or platonic, there are many people who love you or will love you.
@@stormyplayswastakenThen find a nice themfriend to bring home! It doesn't have to be a guy or a gal you befriend. And plus, remember, people of the same gender ain't a monolith. I'm sure you find someone to form a meaningful relationship with :) And if not, befriend an animal pal! (If you can, of course, pets do tend to be expensive and a tad hard to care for)
I AM A THERAPY GUY I LISTEN TO PROBLEMS I HELP THEM I PRACTICALLY TAKE THEIR DEPRESSION EVERYONE GOES “please help me please help me!” AND NOT “how are you?” Or “good job” AND NOT TO MENTION ALMOST DYING ONE TIME BECAUSE OF A RANDOM DRUNK HARASSING MY FRIENDS AND WHEN U SAY THE WORD FRIEND I MEAN THE POPULAR GIRL WHO NO ONE LIKES! But in another occasion I did actually help on of my real friends tho.
Everything is in your control. If you don't let others'negativity impact you, nothing will be hard. You're the only person that can make your life hard.
@@Bobby.546ik this might be a first for you but we are human we will listen and be affected by these comments and if we don’t emotionally deal with these comments it will pile up and turn into a problem
@@jessicablodgett1 humans can’t be perfect. But I believe humans have a will power that can help us achieve almost anything if we want to. The natural thing is for humans to be concerned about if people dislike or like them. You can change this mentality. You just have to want to. It’s hard, but that’ll just make you stronger
Me as a trans woman. I don't have every experience but I do have to agree a lot of these double standards I've witnessed being compared with. I'm 5'9" so I'm feeling way too tall, my breasts aren't that huge but i also used to wear pads, and im slightly overweight (yet I rarely eat now cuz college food sucks). So I force myself to walk laps around the whole campus (which is a few miles) I've been pressured by many people to send nudes even before I was 18... and I've had mine leaked before it's not fun. A girl I dated when i was 15 btw pressured me and sent the pics to a whole group chat...
we all have our problems. Some might effect girls more, and some will effect men more. stop saying that one gender has it harder then the other. Life is just hard in general and EVERYONE goes through it. We all have it hard. This audio was made about girls. If you want this audio but abt being a boy, then go make one. You’re not going to fix any problems by just complaining. We all have problems.
They didn’t say one gender has it harder. They said it was hard being a girl, I get that a lot of people ignore male problems but not as many males speak out about it, just recently (in the grand scheme of this prob max last 30 years which isn’t a long time considering how long humanity has existed) have girls been speaking out to point out the double standards. You wanna talk male problems you don’t have to shut down females speaking out and pointing out the double standards (I know some of these are thing men say to women, but a lot of these are women hating other women and bring them down), stoping speaking out just will revert thing to bing more toxic but at least in some places some of these things are lowering. Instead encourage more males to REALLY speak out on the double standards and injustices WITHOUT pulling females down and trying to dismiss every video they do, which is what your doing since this wasn’t an attack on men. If you find a video saying “boys you think it’s touch” then you can comment. Also how is a female creator going to do a video on male issues, yes they can do one on a topic but this is about daily double standards (some slightly exaggerated at least for my area). If you want males to do it then reach out to male content creators and you yourself can heed your own advice and talk about it
this is why men cant o these things cause people will most likely complai n that girls have it harder and that they should just stop being a wimp and become a man for once and your the type of person to have men think that they cant have theyre own opinion plus besides they were just saying both is hard you dont have to go off just because they arent praising girls because they have mental problems to. deal with it. everyone has problems. men just dont share them.
This video is about woman not guys if you want to see an video like this about man just look for one there are enough don't just waste your time and complain here
@@NoName06174Idk why you think ppl can’t say what they want in any vid. Are you mad that we express how we feel? Because this is why we have it so tough.
@@Relyk-fr that's not what i said im just saying there is another version of this audio for men this is just the version made for women it's mot necessary to say all this in a video what's maked for women pls just watch the other version before complaining nobody said woman had a harder life then men this is just a version made for women . "Idk why you think people can't say what they want" be serious im just explaining to them something
The thing is being a girl is hard but there is things about being a boy to is hard we should not keep on saying that one is worse then the other because in reality both is hard and I am not saying this to make fun of the audio the only reason this audio should be shown is to tell people that think it is not hard but now a days you don’t see a lot of people that do think that it is not hard. Good luck to everyone and remember not to give up❤❤
If you ever think being a girl is harder, remember a woman once dressed and acted like a male. She took her own life last year because of how tearable women treated her, and the thought of how guys are treated. Btw I'm not lying google it.
cheesecurds601 : Im really sorry for her but also we've never had a men experimenting as a woman like she did either, who knows if it would be worse or better for the opposite. Dont use someone's death to win some gender war pls.
Yes, being a girl is hard. But you gotta know that everyone is perfect in their own way💕 don’t let others change what’s best about you, especially a boy bc you’ll find someone that loves you a lot and looks at u like he won the lottery♥️ Edit: I understand that girls can say it too guys so uhm chill..
Yeah? As a boy I don’t have it much easier. If I show emotion, I’m a p*ssy but if I don’t I’m unapproachable. If I’m introverted and ugly, I’m a creep bit if I’m handsome and extroverted, I need to have a girlfriend. If I’m open about existent mental health problems, people will tell me to man up but if I don’t show a soft side I’m not attractive. If I want to casually talk to a girl, I have to make it seem like I’m not hitting on her. And didn’t get me started on how there are girls around me who’ll take the slightest joke as a sexist comment. It’s tough being us. You wonder why some of us are weebs and gamers? Because it’s our escape from the reality that we don’t get to be human mine the rest of you. So don’t talk about how these things make it hard for you. Because we have those things too.
I can’t speak for all girls obviously, but I just want to be treated like one of the bros. But guys are too worried about accidentally flirting, I just don’t want it to be about that. Just treat me like a homie.
I love this bc as a girl all u gotta do is make one post ab a problem in your life and sooo many people will come to help but as a guy there expected to hold it in remember girl for every 3 girls that comet ss 5 guys do 😢
your all wrong I may be a girl but men struggle two everyone struggles it’s not tough because of your gender it’s because we’re human and we’re alive not because life is hard alone
Let’s just realize it’s hard for everyone not harder for girls or boys it’s hard for everyone sometimes for others it’s harder but it’s always chose on random
In middle school, i got bullied on the bus everyday by a girl who called herself the picture perfect girl. (This story is sensitive do if you don’t want to read it leave now) Let’s call this girl that bullied me Mia. Everyday, in middle school I would wear baggy sweaters and sweatpants because it was more comfortable than other stuff. Mia, would sit by me everyday without my consent. I would try to LISEN to music in my headphones but she would rip them off my head. My best friend got on the last stop. So Mia had an hour everyday to bully me. She made me LISEN to her comments about me. The baggy clothes i wore made her think i was fat. The comments she would say was, “box” “your blubber is taking up the whole bus” “built like a pool foatie” “such a fat rat” “just know that no one cares” “ugly monster” “I’m the girl you want to be” “stop trying to be popular girl like me” This girl made my mind think i need to be just like her. In all my years so far, i wouldn’t say I have curves but my friends say I do, and I want fat. I was also one of the girls with the biggest boobs in my grade. All my friends knew this was happening, and they tried to tell adults but no one believed them. One of my friends said to show her up by wearing a crop top and some nice pants one day. I still remember her face when she was Exiting science and me walking down the hall showing my curves. I know it was a bit cruel but, this girl hit me on the bus and down talked me, so I bent down to her ear and whispered, “who’s the picture perfect girl now?” Now I’m in high school, and one of the most popular people at my school. This girl has started bullying me again for being a slut, i was also gaining a few pounds around the waist. WHAT DO I DO??
Y'all must live in the greatest city in the world. I'm a female and men in school be getting all the attention (To be honest I don't care and it's just because I'm in high school 🗣️🔥)
this video was about girls struggles not boys. By bringing up boys struggles in a girls struggles video, its seen as dismissive of girls struggles.it's just inconsiderate
Yes but it is also true for men both sides experience hate. I just dont like that the video says that men dont realise this though. But if the video isnt being sexist to men the i 100 percent aggree with you
It’s so messed up, the way people objectify and ridicule you based on your looks and personal things you do(whatever the reason) is fucking messed up, I empathize for women, you have it tough just because guys can be gross, judgmental jerks. It shouldn’t matter how you look or what you do, as long as you’re happy, that’s all that matters. You matter ❤❤❤❤
or you can relate to this because thats all you can see, men go through 10x more shit than this falsley accused of stuff(ur 11 so im not gonna say what but maybe u can see waht i mean) and work in the sewers and on skyscrapers for women to complain about this, but yeah the world is tough for every one.
@@SettelmeyerGirls-ub5hw incorrect very few women can do those jobs and most are diversety hire, and men have alot more pain we just dont cry about it all the time, and how you are commenting im going to assume you are a 3 year old so have at it. your "words" dont ahve any change on my perspective.
For anyone who needs to hear this: Your skin is not paper so don’t cut it Your face is not a mask so don’t hide behind it Your weight is not a book so don’t judge it Your neck is not a coat so don’t hang it YOUR LIFE IS NOT A MOVIE SO DON’T END IT You are amazing and you can do hard things!❤