BEING HIS HELPMATE / being your husbands helper / my experience. what happened to my last video 

Wow, you sound amazing! God bless you as you serve your husband! ❤️

It just got better Dear one. God bless you and your Dear Husband.

Jehovah God, knows your pain . Revelation 21:3,4 says he will wipe all pain and it will be over forever. May God continue to uphold you dearly.

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God bless you...I shared your utube channel with my granddaughter.. You are wise in the Lord.Thank you so much.

Awe, thank you. It definitely helps:)

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me too...agree always room for growth..lol im 66 also.

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Same for me!

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Thank you so much for the input. I love hearing what you all would like to see. I definitely have more homemaking videos in mind for the near future;) ❤️

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Yippee!!! I am so happy for you. That first trimester is SOooo hard! I am almost to 29 weeks!:)

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Congrats!:) I have about five in the series so far. :)

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Yes, I read that book some time ago, but I also found it very useful!:) thank you for sharing the title. I should pull it out and read it again!💕

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Well to begin I will just say that I am no expert and am very young myself, so don’t take anything I say too seriously. ❤️ I imagine maybe he doesn’t know how exactly to go about making tons of money, and maybe when he is asked, it maybe reminds him of that and causes him to feel frustrated or threatened? I have no clue, that’s just what I would assume. I think your thought to pray a lot about it is probably the best option, as well as maybe simply illustrating through your own lifestyle, that you don’t need lots of money to be content and happy in life. So I guess my only tips would be to pray, your example, and then maybe wait until a completely non stressful time when he is in a good mood, to perhaps ask again. Or maybe you should start by just saying something like, “hey, if I could do anything that would help you at all today, or elevate some stress, let me know.” I have no clue if that is at all helpful, but I hope it is. ❤️❤️

Keep sweet, pray, obey

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Great question. For the same reason he doesn’t “expect” me to help him at our remodel. He just thanks and appreciates it when I do. I will reap the rewards of it as much as he when it is done, but since we somewhat divide and have our own “domains” we tend to, (his being income and the remodeling,) (mine being the home and child rearing,) we both appreciate when the other steps into our domain to help, but do not demand or expect it. That is why I view what he does here at home as a bonus, and he views how I help at the remodel as a plus as well. Hope that makes sense💕

Great question, and I love that you asked it. First, I don’t view our marriage as a 50 / 50, but rather as a 100 / 100 % effort from both of us. Danny does his very best and works his very hardest and I do the same. While I know some guys are couch potatoes when they get home, (and I would hate that,) my husband is not in the least. If I am doing dishes he will often take the kids outside, or get them ready for bed and such. But I do not ever want to just expect this of him, or take it for granted. I want to appreciate it and view it as a bonus, just as he appreciates if I make any money on the side, but never expects or requires it of me. When it comes to being his helper with long term goals, (our house remodeling adventures for example,) it is easy to work with him and support or help him in it because it’s something we both want. It’s not as though he is out building a career or a dream life separate from mine, but rather it is a team effort where we are both building what we both dream of together in whatever ways we can each best contribute to the process. Anyway, I know that’s a lot. Hope it clears things up. ❤️

Thank you for that tip:)

Also I LOVE this channel and you definitely don’t come across as arrogant!

Oh, I had no clue. Thank you for letting me know. 💕💕

Absolutely not. ❤️ My husband helps me all the time:) you are a team after all.

Amazing questions!!!

I would ask my self, "am I thankful when he helps me or bitter when he doesn't?"

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