Ben Affleck Monologue - Saturday Night Live 

their papers were never signed and I hope they will not go through with it.

Lenka Tal yeah, they signed.

I agree sooo cringey ...just watched this as he is news again with jlo etc ...how flaky he seems ugh

Ben really loves his Jennifers. But I think Gardner was better for him.

Yeah it funny to see them go from being a happy couple to getting a a divorce years later

lol

I just watch it. It seems to resemble the status of their marriage that time. It normal for him to hook up with other. Did he have relationship with the girl in real life? Now with this show, shokus is jusf around. How she felt that time? What an ugly thick skin.

Why do you say that “that marriage speech reminds you of Gone girl?

what do you mean

In his speech at the award ceremony where he won best picture for Argo, Ben said their marriage had been hard work for the past 10 years. She became teary-eyed, and the audience burst into laughter, so he said there was no one he would rather do the hard work with just to make her happy 😂

And I think he completely realizes that now. I’ve heard him allude to it many times since the divorce.

@@kimberlybellefontaine1215 It's still worth being said.

Wouldn't know if she's actually a sweetheart but she's so put-together and respectable, he looked like a total mess without her lol

@@hollywoodshopaholic I feel like she served a mom role with him. He’s kind of lost regardless. He just needs to grow up.

@@hollywoodshopaholic She stood by him during rehab and helped him get help post divorce. I think she’s a good human being.

He was really lucky.

was

Amen to that❤️❤️❤️

Lol!!!

How do you know? have you dated her?

That's such an interesting observation. 😆👍🏾 JLo said Ben always wore the pants in their relationship.

Yes I can definitely see that. They’re both super charismatic and have similar vibes. I don’t think that they’re compatible. Jlo looks like she would be the boss and the one in control, but JLo just wants to be loved and to love, she’s way more easy going than Gardner. I think Ben and Jlo balance each other out. Plus, Jlo is so in love with Affleck and respects and adores him. You can see that Gardner did not view him that way but was exhausted with him.

@@meltemo.4139 well, to be fair, he seems very exhausting

@@Maya-ig9kx Ben Affleck was unhappy in his marriage to Jennifer Garner and it showed in this monologue and a man in love doesn't embarrass and humiliate their spouse for years like Ben Affleck chose to. I understand that people didn't like hearing that Ben Affleck only stayed with Jennifer Garner because of their kids in 2021 but it was obvious to me years ago that Ben Affleck was unhappy in his marriage to Jennifer Garner and that many people overlooked that until 2021.

@@meltemo.4139 I think that Jennifer Lopez really loves and respects Ben Affleck and they both have successful careers and support each other without jealousy or resentment. Jennifer Garner's career never recovered after "Elektra" didn't do well at the box office and she didn't seem to want to work much after she got pregnant the first time. After a very short time everything became all about Ben Affleck and I think that it didn't really help that Ben Affleck did the bear minimum as a husband.

Just to be publicly embarrassed by him and his "real love".

@@B-ch6uk yep.

Looks can be deceiving. Did you watch Gone Girl? Garner was like Amy, America's Sweetheart, but a devil in disguise. She manipulated Ben by getting pregnant while still married to Scott Foley. Or do you think that he was trying to get another man's wife intentionally pregnant? This was no accident but not by Ben but Garner. She wanted him at any cost.

@@leahmiller37 ughhh than he shouldn't be messing with a married women than...takes 2

@@lunaForever2020 He sure shouldn't have been messing with a married woman!!! I bet he has regretted that since forever now!!! He respects her as the mother of his children but that's where it ends. That's bc he resented how she conned him into marrying her even though it all played into the damage control campaign for his involvement with Jennifer Lopez. But Garner was pretending to be his shoulder to cry on over the loss and fiasco made over Lopez on the DL. She seduced him and he caved. She shouldn't have been having sex with anyone but her husband, Scott Foley. In fact, she cheated on him with her Alias co-star, Michael Vartan and then Ben Affleck. So it's easy to see what her game was about!!! She wanted an A-list husband to take care of her bc she wasn't trying to make movies after the kids got older.

+Radek Seky it is

+Radek Seky Jennifer... Who?

+Radek Seky Jennifer... Who?

Garner

sameen shaw and all women are gold diggers, dont forget this

Lol

Disagree there Ben is not a fool because of the children he did try several times to save the marriage it doesn’t work why stay in a marriage you’re not happy nope it’s time to get out

Yanki Doma Awkward now they're splitting!

Honest Tech​ and I couldn't be more heartbroken than I already am! :(

@@nolibranocrime5814 Are you still heartbroken 6 years later?

@@hopper6094 ngl I kinda like jlo & ben together too 😆

I prefer Ben and Jennifer Lopez together

I just saw Gone Girl today and I came to this video to see what people are talking about. Not only do I think you are right, I’m so glad he’s out of his marriage.

@@user-ll1xl1wv5w why?

Do not watch Gone Girl.

"I'm in love with J Lo"

I think it was planned that way

@@B-ch6uk No, this monologue had nothing that was remotely funny or entertaining, it was just completely awkward. A better monologue was the one Ben did when Gwyneth Paltrow came up on stage with him. I wasn't surprised that Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner got divorced after watching this monologue.

@@amusicfan25a21 It wasn't funny or entertaining but I think it was meant to be awkward. If that makes any sense.

@@B-ch6uk It was not one of "Saturday Night Live's better monologues or episodes and I will leave it that.

@@amusicfan25a21 you mean she IS akward ?!

Which is currently falling apart since your post and all signs indicate that Ben regrets Benifer 2 and regrets losing Jen Garner.

Here we are in 2024 with the Bennifer 2.0 divorce 😂 Ben made the right choice by having kids with this Jennifer 🤌🏻

Ang the result of bennifer is failed

He can't be happy with any woman he has. He only wants them when their gone.

What!!she IS sweet

Good luck w your own ben

Oop

Sike

Uh oh

Brandon Mumek The nanny so I heard

Cause it wasn’t working out for them and the Nanny thing was actually after they divorced

They divorced because of his alcoholism, cheating, and gambling. He cheated in 2013 with Lindsay Shookis, a producer on SNL. At the time he and Garner were still married. After they separated in 2015, he had a fling with the nanny.

@@albasalvat9101 According to what I heard, the nanny was the last straw that broke the camel's back. So it happened before the divorce. He was never happy with Garner. He became very resentful when he realized that she had manipulated him into their marriage. She pretended to be his shoulder to cry on after his breakup with J-Lo on the DL bc she was married. She seduced him. Then he looks around and she is pregnant while still married to Scott Foley or do you think he was trying to get another man's wife intentionally pregnant? NO!!! He didn't start doing all the drinking, gambling, and cheating until he married her. He wanted out of the marriage and refused to pretend he was happy with Garner. Now, there's no problem since they divorced! Watch Gone Girl to see how it is so telling about their marriage. Ben was not happy bc she just wasn't his type and he couldn't get over being tricked into a relationship. Would you trust a woman if she conned you into a relationship? This was no accident, she planned it but it didn't hold up bc he truly loved J-Lo.

@@leahmiller37 Yes you are correct---the nanny fling was when they were separated, but still legally married. He also cheated on Garner in 2013 when he started an affair with Lindsay Shookus, a Saturday Night Live producer. I read somewhere that Garner traveled to New York to confront Shookus about the affair--she found out about it by checking Ben's cel. phone--and Shookus did not back down when Garner asked her to end things with Ben. That affair lasted several years, but was an on again/off again situation since Shookus lived in New York and Ben was in California. Talk about messy. Ben married Garner because she got pregnant while they were dating. She was 3 months pregnant when she married Ben. Garner flirted with Ben while he was still engaged to Jennifer Lopez and she was still married to Scott Foley so she is no goody two shoes as the media always portray her. I also read that Garner and Affleck were going to divorce the year before their son Samuel was born, but postponed that move cause now there was a baby on the way. As we all know a baby can't fix long standing marital problems in a relationship. So glad Ben is now so happy to be back with Jennifer Lopez!!! Hope they get married and find a house for all of their combined kids.

Well let's see if this "JLo Effect" changes his personality back.

He was so handsome and happy here. Now? hmmm

@@B-ch6uk excuse me back then with garner he had a tumultuous marriage now everything is going good thanks to the lord

@@rosemarieramirez3460 You have to admit he was happier and more handsome when he was with Garner. Look at that clip.

@@B-ch6uk nope Ben was not happy with jgarner

Yeah he pretended he was a Husband for 10 years 🙄

@@LA-gh3mi he didn’t pretend to in his marriage he did try several times to save his marriage because of the children but it didn’t work

I'm not happy with Ben and jlo because their family doesn't get along with each other

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Nah, that would be Michael Keaton.

what are you talking about? in a recent interview he regretted divorcing her, even wanting to get back with her, She refused, Love is growth. Stop getting caught up with public affections and a 3 minute video clip. She is one of the main reasons why he is alive today.

It was because she knew he doesn't love her and it was just a lie, he was only acting for the audience.

Lets wait if ben will become alcoholic again then Jlo will be their it would be media buzz still JG stick with ben though the worst time of his life lets wait and see if JLo could stick with ben for another 10-15years as what JG did👍🏻

@@rielalonzo6152 Have you ever thought that maybe his drinking/gambling re-started bc he was miserable in his marriage to begin with? he tried to stick it out for his kids not for her. He didn’t have that drinking problem while he was with Jlo back in the day, he’s always loved Jlo and now that he’s back with his TRUE LOVE he’s not going to seek out to alcohol. He’s happy now so instead of hoping that things go downhill for him why not wish the best for him?

@@NormaLilia24 i wish his the best but its not like Jlo and ben would last either jlo history of many many many man makes us believe they are the one look at Arod. 😁 And Ben affleck started being asshole since gweneth time and to j lo and to garner to nanny to ana de ramas and and now back to jlo again what makes you think this will make a difference. Jlo newly broken up with arod after 4yrs of being together like most of the time on social media like they seem to be the end game with all the engagement fuss with all their social media circus and now thisss???what makes ou think that they are the end game???they both seriously needed help and time to heal not to rush up things and to all the pda like they prove something of love and lust that is for dying papparazi/media purpose only🤣🤣🤣 then after a year or 2-3yrs they seen with other couple again??as i said i will believed this circus if they will last more that 10yrs🤣🤣🤣if not i just watch and eat popcorn and see if this "so called true love" between them would last the test of time👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻and if your a real fan of JLo how many time you supported her so called perfect lovelife since the time for Mark anthony✌️

@@rielalonzo6152 Garner is on her fourth men since her first wedding. Keep shaming Jlo.

@@rielalonzo6152 the only one who doesnt stick is ben. he is weak. when his movie with jlo didnt go well he decided to ended their engagement and walk away. jlo was alone facing all the criticism, judgement and humiliation, ben wasnt there for her. he never stood for her at the time that jlo needed someone. instead ben blamed jlo on his career failure. what a f@#$king gentleman he was right? lol now karma on him. garner divorced him and he became miserable. all the women dumped him. hes desperately needed someone on his life. thats why he reached out to jlo. now all the blame he did in the past he ate them all.

Your wish has been granted

Wdym?!

Could not have said it better. This monologue was not fun at all.

Yes my exact thoughts. JLo adores and is so in love with Ben, that’s what the difference is. There’s no passive aggression between them or control issues. This monologue was so awkward and really reveals how unhappy they are together.

Ben and Jen Garner (judging by this video) had a bad body language compared with bennifer interview in 2003.

Nah, shes’s just too good for him

Sam Dodge who's that woman?

@@user-hh7ii6rk1i Lindsay Shookus

Was it at the sane time as this though? That Lyndsey woman is nothing in Jennifer.

i don't know what marriage is in your head. probably a walk in the park. it's no fairytale, honey. Jen has put in so much considering Ben's womanizing, alcoholism addiction. You glorify Ben and Jlo, but have you seen how they were making out in the presence of Jlo's kids?! that's wrecked Anyway, keep viewing surface level, pretty sure you'll be in a MAGICAL, world with your bennifer 2021 😂😂😂

Ben will get feed up for your jlow. Garner and Ben were once in love and has 3kids , they spent their youthful days loving each other and their love kids,,, what jlow enjoying now was Garner leftover 😂😂😂

What's the last month?

He only pretended to kiss her so did not pucker his lips😑

He had even already filed for divorce but they were still putting up a show pretending to have the perfect marriage whereas they were just acting! They are both actors anyway😁😄😃😀😆

He wanted a void to fill after JLo. I guess another Jennifer tried. Lol

How you get em is how you lose em.

@@Jalil-wx7rh yep

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