I wish people would stop speculating. Married people don't do everything together and I doubt she's "trying to destroy Ben." People can be so mean. I wish them the best.
They are history! Ben has moved on. He has a lot of friends supporting him and encouraging him to spend lots of time with his kids this summer. Ben is working and will be the better without her!!! Jlo is still desperate to stay in the media loop, while her twins are still her 2nd priority. 😵💫
@@febasalo8369 She works hard being on the streets everyday while on the phone with her favorite paparazzi team, tipping them off where she'll be. She's looking very desperate these days!
I wish then nothing but the best. I wish she would take time to focus on her marriage. It appears she does love him. That is nonsense about her launching a brand of wine because he is in recovery! Does he only do movies w no alcohol scenes. People need to stop. Prayers for the newlyweds. Marriage is not easy.
Used her for what??? Ben doesn't even like all this publicity and being seen by the public and his private life out there. Remember, they first got together when both were at sort of more similar levels of fame and success. Ben and J.Lo seemed very, very in love. Then the whole media circus over their engagement and all that made Ben rethink the idea. It was too much for him. I think they are both very attracted to each other but their lifestyles and personalities and their goals and their priorities and everything - they clash in terms of living together for years and years as a couple.
Hes a recovering alcoholic, she is not! Besides it takes years to brand your own alcohol.. from state to federal tape.. to production and labeling..to advertising and mass distribution! So guarantee she already had that in the works long before she married him.
Every celeb seems to have jumped on the bandwagon after seeing the phenomenal success of George Clooney and his friends' (including Rande Gerber, Cindy Crawford's husband) premium tequila. Mind you, it's a bit insensitive but it's a whole company of its own, with employees and execs, not just J.Lo running a small business out of her garage. However, J.Lo herself doesn't drink I've heard, because she's obsessed with fitness and health (alcohol has a lot of calories and is damaging to your skin and obviously, your organs). So at least in terms of that, she's not encouraging Ben by drinking at home or when they're out.
@@thumper62973Her husband is dealing with a deadly alcohol addiction. Alcoholism kills people every day, and their mind cannot see how alcohol could be used responsibly. She has enough money!! She should have shelved/cancelled that project. She could have also outsourced this. Let other people handle it. Instead she’s marketing it. The minute she did this she gave up on her marriage because his sober advisors would have started to warn him!! That’s not good for an alcoholic to see his wife ‘glorifying’ alcohol because that’s how an alcoholic mind will see it. She should have looked at the ‘Intervention’ shows from a few years ago. JLo doesn’t listen to advice. She didn’t listen about making the documentary. His sober people would eventually have told him he cannot be married to her so her choice but he had a choice to make too!! I am no fan of Ben but his sobriety/life should come first to him!!
Jlo Doesnt Destrly Ben She Loves Him very Much Pepple R So Cruel n Matt should Mind his business people shouldnt interfer in other peoples marriage So Wrong
I think Ben has realized that he and jlo are oil & water. He's the one who's left her...twice. He doesn't feed on the publicity like she does. He'll find the right one next time. He knows now what he doesn't need or want.
She put the gris-gris 👉🏻⚫ on Ben. She's santeria...that is why A Rod and Marc Antony have put distance. She knows she did. Men are nothing but toys to her. I think the Wall is finally here for her, though.
Perhaps if Ben had listened to Matt, (and his own family)he wouldn’t have problems. Perhaps if both Ben and JL realized that neither of them are marriage material, they wouldn’t have problems. Perhaps, perhaps….
Ben has a great support system with JG and Matt. I think Ben has learned his lesson with jlo. He's so done with her. She's getting older and looks very stupid & cheap these days.
Not weird from Ben's perspective! If they'd been married in California, Ben would stand to gain a lot from J.Lo. J.Lo has a net worth that's a lot more than Ben's. She's the one who could potentially be handing over a lot to Ben. J.Lo really must have wanted to be with Ben, so much that she didn't stop to draw up a pre-nup. I think they were just so over the moon when they first got back together. But the honeymoon is over now...
Marketing ALCOHOL having a husband in sobriety, let's talk real, maybe her behavior is being covered up, maybe she is an Alcoholic. Let's ask Nicole Kidman, who stood steadfast by her husband's side as he battled his addiction That is caring, supportive behavior. Imo
Me parece que Ben le pidió a Jenifer renunciar a su compañia de bebidas alcohólicas y ella desprecio ese pedido bien con ella ella tenía ese negocio antes de casarse el acepto todas vienes de ella que no hable el es el problema
Jlo has over 400 million. Ben Affleck has 150 million. You do the math🤔... Jlo doesn't need a hardcore alcoholics petty crumbs.... Ben will never ever be happy with any woman until he quits his addiction to alcohol. Bens father was an alcoholic for many years,he finally got sober after 13 years in rehab. Bens grandmother and uncle were both hardcore alcoholics, and both committed suicide.... Ben is presently on depression medication and anxiety medication. Jlo has tried her best to help Ben get back on track. She wants him to go back to filming, and directing movies, ..something he's good at... But he has to make the effort!!! Ben doesn't know what he wants in life, and Jlo is a 24/7 workaholic, she doesn't have time for his tantrums. And Ben is a Immensely layback individual who just likes to take life slow and be home drinking his 🥃 🍷🍸liquor ..He's not a bad person,he just has to mature more and have the balls to stop drinking!!! Garner is so obsessed with Ben that she'll wait forever for him to return to her ,Garner will take any leftover crumbs Ben will give her....🤦🏼♀️ That's why back in 2002 when Ben and Jlo were engaged, Garner KNEW of Ben and Jlo's engagement ,and Garner didn't respect that engagement and went ahead and got pregnant from Ben. Ben and Garner were in the Pearl harbor movie back in 2001, that's when Garner became Immensely obsessed with Ben. Garner immediately divorced her then husband... Later around 2002 Ben and Jlo became engaged. And it so happens that in 2002 Ben was called to be in the movie called Daredevil with Garner. Garner knew of Ben and jlo's engagement, but Garner wanted to be with Ben so bad that Garner became pregnant from Ben. Jlo found out and broke off the engagement with Ben. Garner and Ben then married, Garner had their daughter violet. Ben wanted out of the marriage with Garner,but every time Ben mentioned divorce, Garner would hold him back by getting pregnant, she got pregnant again and again. Ben then told Howard Stern he felt trapped in his marriage with Garner. Garner was so obsessed with Ben that she even told him he could stay in their back cottage, as long as he didn't leave her, but he had to be discreet about his hookups with other women. Then the paparazzi caught Ben with the nanny and it was out for the world to see, and that's when Garner finally signed the divorce papers. This is why I lost respect for Garner, how could she break up an engagement?! Garner even told her bff that she would dump her now boyfriend in a minute if Ben would return to her. Garner reminds me of the movie called FATAL ATTRACTION with Michael Douglas and Glenn Close. Garner is immensely obsessed with Ben. There's another side to Garner we don't know if ... And yes, Jlo acts like a Diva out in public,but then this is Hollywood! Everyone acts this way. Jlo has a compassionate heart, she's donated millions to organizations to help women advance in life. There's a gentle soul in Jlo's heart we lack to see. I hope the best for Ben and Jlo...they're both good people... Ben just needs to 🛑 stop with his addictions.... ♥️🫶🏼♥️
I pray do god they are he deserves better. She needs someone who loves the limelight. He married a wife and got a degrading mom. They both have their good, bad, and ugly so I don’t see all the shame out here.! Either way what an unglued divorce it will be! My biggest thing is he’s an alcoholic whom mommy has to check his drink prior to make sure yet opens her own line. Slap in the face. #TeamBen
Regardless of how they treated each other when they are all said and done she's going to be very rudely reminded about how she treated people that she loses all these contracts that she's had. You can't treat people the way that she has and expect life to just continue on p Diddy the Kardashians all the walls come crumbling down You can be beautiful on the outside but when you're ugly on the inside.... She better hope that everybody has more compassion towards her than she has ever given to anybody else when she became popular.
She was trying to relatable (reminding us of someone else) when she dressed in those khaki trousers, sun hat, plain blouse and flip flops, and took selfies out in a garden on July 4th. Never saw that look on her before. I mean, high heels with a bathing suit on a bumpy boat ride.
