I love BENEE's music, something about her style just resonates so much with me, I've never heard someone's music that just feels like it meshes with me
I'm a 34 year old South African black guy and when I bumped into this song on Spotify I felt like crying for no damn reason.. She sings with so much feeling and soul... ❤️❤️❤️❤️
The fact that every song of BENEE herself addresses most of the peer problems nowadays. Damn, so accurate. She never failed to impress all of us. I love her way of expressing and delivery of message through lyrical process. T^T
@@carlosandleon Well Benee actually battles with OCD, I think thats what this track is about. to answer your question; Yes. But im going to have to disagree with the assertion being put forth by your question when taken into context, specifically "every popsinger" part. its pretty clear you haven't actually listened to any of her songs so I will leave you there in your blissful ignorant state.
I just read my journal when I was your age (now 74) and I'm with you on this stuff. I wrote "I wish there was someone I could talk to." well I talked to myself and now all these many decades later I made it and have so much empathy.
A stunningly accurate portrayal of what it's like to live with an anxiety/panic disorder/OCD. Right down to mini conversation with the second party towards the end of the song, with them not understanding why they are acting that way and almost coming off as annoyed/frustrated in them is 100% relatable. "Why are you thinking these things?" (These things) How do I even explain? (Explain) "You're scared of almost everything" (everything) I know and it's really a drain (a drain) And the response is really accurate as well: it's almost resigned and gives the same energy back to the person asking the questions. Like almost asking back "do you think I wanna live like this?". Those that live with these disorders know very well how it can feel when interacting with folks who don't experience it the same. Most of us have worked our whole lives trying to get to a point of being "normal" and "carefree" but have felt this way so long that anxiety and panic become "normal" and and the normal response just becomes avoiding everything for comfort (which is it's own way of being carefree but with way more negative consequences.) So, to the outside perspective, they see a person they love doing nothing to help themselves get out of the hole they are in. But they also haven't seen all the effort they've taken in the past to help themselves and the failures along the way. Plus, the whole process absolutely is a drain! Why do you think it's so hard for them to work on themselves? Your body and brain being on red alert 24/7 takes everything out of you. BENEE really hits the nail on the head with this one, and the song is beautiful as well. What a gem of young talent.
This song is bullshit. She doesn't have anxiety/panic disorder/OCD. She's a 20 year old music star. She records songs, plays concerts all over the world, and give interviews. She's outgoing and full of energy whenever. Everybody has worse times, but people who really have these sorts of problems, they don't do shit, they stay home, they don't achieve success, because they have to deal with their disorders, which are real.
@@damazywlodarczyk what qualifies you to gatekeep mental illness? You don't know anything about her or what she deals with on a daily basis. You're funny and sad tbh
@@damazywlodarczyk the saddest part is that you're essentially saying people with these disorders are incapable of getting over them or achieving success alongside them which just isn't true. Do you believe these things of yourself and that's why you're projecting it on everyone else? I genuinely hope you get a better sense of self and I mean that. Whatever has got you saying things like this is lying to you. You're better than the attitude you're giving.
@@beef_slop There is nothing sad about what I wrote, you're just a mean person. Also, stop with the bullshit yourself. You know nothing about me, so stop assuming I'm broken and I have no sense of self. You're trying to put me down, and look good on the internet. You're just a devious, mean person. How about talking about the subject? I'm sorry but successful, outgoing, quirky pop stars don't have a reason to talk about anxiety. People who stay at home and really fear the reality have a reason.
@@damazywlodarczyk Why would you post something like this? (It's just a song)!!! Perhaps she KNOWS someone with OCD, and wishes to relate to that person with that condition. The faces in the clouds in the video I see as the inner demons that some of these people must deal with just about every day.
Joy Division is great at catching that sensation. I've had/lived w mental for most of my life. I do hope it's a temporary issue cuz a lifetime is not easy.
LYRICS Mmm, what's it like To not have to think about it? It seems nice Not a care, so quiet Maybe I'm consumed by my mental Does it hurt me? Maybe, oh, well If I medicate, would it help me? 'Cause I'm hurting, I feel unwell You know how I feel You've told me before Although my fears are real The things I fear are not I know it doesn't matter I know it doesn't matter None of this even matters I know it doesn't matter I know it doesn't matter None of this even matters Check that Have to check that the oven is off This happens every night Sometimes you tell me off Maybe I'm consumed by my mental Does it hurt me? Maybe, oh, well If I medicate, would it help me? 'Cause I'm hurting, I feel unwell You know how I feel You've told me before Although my fears are real The things I fear are not I know it doesn't matter I know it doesn't matter None of this even matters I know it doesn't matter I know it doesn't matter None of this even matters You say "Why are you thinking these things?" (These things) How do I even explain? (Explain) "You're scared of almost everything" (everything) I know and it's really a drain (a drain) Hide under a pillow (pillow) Something's at the window (window) I'm too scared to check though Now I'm crossing my fingers Flicking off the switches Is my house filled with witches? What is my mind? What is it like To unwind? What's it like?
This song has perfectly described how I’ve felt living with anxiety disorder and feeling so sad all the time.. i dont sleep well, I feel like I’m losing so much.. I just want to be better, I want to make the people around me happy and not drag them down.. it hurts so much.. this song, “this happens every night, sometimes you tell me off” gets me so much. Had exact situations like that happen. Gosh this is so hard and I just don’t know which way to go anymore and this song gets me bawling..
Haunting and hopeful at the same time. I used to be incredibly anxious but managed to overcome a lot of my fears. I hope everyone gets the opportunity to break free from theirs ❤️🙏🏼
BENEE is the only 'stand out' artist we've seen for the last couple years genuinely making original music and doing it soooo well...👌🏻 always leaves ya with that feeling 🙌🏻 keep at it 💪🏻
I was just thinking about how she's unlike anyone else and that those kind of artists/bands dont come in packs, only once in a blue moon do we get someone as special as Benee. She really speaks emotions I have its great.
I love the song so much more when watching the video, just something about seeing the emotion on her face makes me more emotional and in tune with the song.
She’s just so lovely! Her songs speak to me on a personal level and it just feels so nice to listen to them because they’re nice to try and understand. Also I’m excited for her world tour in May! (If it doesn’t get cancelled 🥺🥺🥺)
Es justo la estética que imagine al escuchar la canción. Y hasta más de lo normal esperaba. Refleja todo el sentimiento de la letra Me encanta💚 I love you benee💚💚💚💚💐
COMO TE AMO REINA 😭😭😭 TODO LO QUE SALE DE TU BOCA ES ARTE Y ESTOY DEMASIADO ORGULLOSO DE LO QUE LOGRAS CADA DÍA, EL MUNDO RECIÉN ESTÁ EMPEZANDO A VER TU TALENTO 😭❤️❤️
Accidentally heard it today on the radio: what a fabulous song! Modern arrangements, vintage sound...perfect mix! Thanks for the chills, lovely Benee! Greetings from Italy. P.s, Stella means "star" in Italian, beautiful meaning and name :)
nothing against songs like green honda & other club like songs but this side of her music is just on another level & shows benee’s brilliance as a musician & singer
@BENEE Thank you Stella for reminding me I’m not the only one with these problems. It feels like I’ll never get help again with the way things are. Made by humans? You don’t seem like one of these humans. You seem like one of us.
The gentle sound of the ocean waves at the end of the M/V are so apt. It feels as though Benee’s soft chilled voice has blessed my soul and body.Arohanui 👌❤️🌈
I have always loved Benee! I hate she gets compared to Billie, not even close this girl is a sweet diamond and continues to shine!! Keep it up girl you will always have my support!! You've found your voice now!! Keep it coming! Amazing work!
Can we stop to admire how perfect this video is? The friend that knows you so well and it's there for a ride, and spend the day with you, and listen to you? Such a great song and a perfect match with the video. Amazing. The attention to plug the guitar, the horses, her sad face of disappointment, the clothes, the location...
This song has touched my heart since it came out. The video really touched my soul. You're amazing. Thank you for all your music and sharing your life with us.
Estou passando por um momento bem difícil nesses últimos dias ;( Tenho tido muitas crises de ansiedade e essa música consegue descrever tudo o que sinto. Muito brigada, Benee, por ser um refúgio nestes momentos de dor. Meu coração se acalma quando te escuta... É como se ele soubesse que todos estamos no mesmo barco e que há uma luz no fim do túnel. Obrigada por existir S2
nss cara, eu te entendo, eu passei pelo mesmo, a Benee me ajudou muito, as musicas dela apareceram no momento certo na minha vida, tudo ja passou e se acalmou porém não paro de escutar ela até hoje
Benee is so beautiful and talented. She is real. Her honesty and vulnerability make her unique .Her music is awesome .Benee truly is one of a kind. 🌹🫶🏼
