What Zulu is saying is 100% truth. But the young girls and young boys will not listen. The same advice I gave to my younger sisters not to date untill they are 25yrs. Because I didn't want them to make the same errors I made. But they thought i was depriving them from having fun. So they went into relationship upon relationships and their hearts were broken and they even went into depression. One even died along the process because she couldn't contain depression. So young ladies abstain from men until you built yourself up
If maturity age biologically is 25 then it's ok for men to marry. It's not a.must to marry at 30 as a man. I married at 24 my hubby was 2yrs older but we have never thought of divorce we solve our issues and have lived happily 23_29 it's ok for both sexes to marry. At 30 there also issues hidden .