Best Advice For Dealing With Arguments In Marriage - Shaykh Hamza Yusuf | Part 5 

Aamen ♥

Ameen

And all the other rightly guided ulema, Ameen. Without them being the beacons of hope and guidance in the darkness we would surely lose ourselves.

conversation1986 hope you both are alright

الحمدُ لله There are ups and downs but Allah Ta'ala keeps us going with the reminder that this is dunya and it will never be perfect. May Allah Ta'ala place love between my husband and me for His Sake and help us assist each other in this deen and make us from the couples of Jennat al Firdaws aameen Thank you for asking. Jazaakumullahu Khyran

Ameen. Alhamdolilah. Good mindset. And perhaps try to convince your spouse to try therapy or talk with a local imam. Just a piece of advice.

good luck

Is it possible to stop the music please, it's very unpleasant to listen to and distracting from the words spoken. Jazakum Allahu khayran.

La Cinéphile Du Coin if the music unpleasant to you, it isn't to others.

it's not music, it's vocalization / humming

That's her shortcoming and that's where you should be patient.

Anisa Tajy Yes I will inshaAllah , may Allah guide me and her , right now she is yelling while I’m writing this msg ☹️

@@shafiq154 Ok, but don't be her slave. It could be that you as a husband treat her like your master, thus creating a unnoticed psychological effect, which will make her treat you like her slave. How? Everytime she errors, it's fine and as she is the master, she should not apologize at all. If you make a mistake, as you are the slave, you must apologize and you deserve punishment. You only strengthen this aspect of relationship to happen by tolerating it. The fact is, the only reason why your wife treats you that way, is because you let her do that. I can get that you want to have sabr with your wife. And that is honestly very good, masha'Allah. But akhi, there's a difference between sabr and tolerance towards abuse. You should never tolerate abuse. Now, I'm not saying you should yell back, divorce your wife, etc... No... I'm just saying you should do something about it. May Allah strengthen, correct complete and beautify the relationship between you and your wife. Ameen

@@shafiq154 Oh btw. Now don't look at your wife as someone who does this intentionally. It's all psychology without notice and realisation. And this could be both your responsibility. So, she isn't solely to blame.

A N I KNOW RIGHT?!

I agree just trust the content, no need to add background noise... And yes it is noise since it doesn’t add anything

Seriously the over-sentimental lullaby is too much. It confirms stereotypes of Muslims as irrational and incapable of serious thinking!

so cheezy

Maybe you should petition your own government?