Of course it is a TRUE kind of sexuality it has always been. We must end once and for all with that hindrance of thought which hampers society to move forward. All the hangups concerning sexuality boil down to the high clout of christianity in our society. Let us all put an end that obnoxious ominous deranged so called religion
Yep...I consider myself Bi too as I legit had feelings for a girl....because of the way we connected and spent time with each other. Sadly, she didn't see me more than only as a friend. It's more about what you have with the person...but I definitely lean more towards guys if it comes down to attraction.
Exactly. I'm Bi and it does come with the "that's a lot to take on" concept. Especially straight women. Times have gotten better, but people still don't get that weather you are into dudes or both in a relationship cheating would still be cheating. I like guys with blonde hair and brown hair. If I'm dating a blonde guy I'm not going to need to be with a brown haired guy randomly. I have been in long term relationships with both, but when I was with a women I felt she would question when I had friends over etc. I don't even have gay friends, but people just think life is like a p*** when they leave the house
My husband of 7 years is a Bisexual man. We are in a healthy monogamous relationship and he doesn’t sleep around. I trust him. What does he do when he wants to scratch that itch? He masturbates to straight/lesbian adult content. I asked him one time why he hasn’t slept with a girl while we were together and his response was, “Why would I? I don’t need to F a girl to prove I’m still into chicks. I got you and that’s more than I could ask for.” Love you Demi❤
@@enchantedboy66 We are getting married, finally, this year. We are both secular non religious, so we are doing a justice of the peace ceremony at the county courthouse, and then a party at a banquet hall for our family and friends.
Good to hear that. My gay friend's bi boyfriend broke up with my friend when he found a woman he likes more. Some bi prefer women more and they just want to have fun with gay men, not serious relationship. Sorry for bad English, not my first language.
Exactly Leo the whole reason I prefer boys more over girls guys are more understanding girls freak out because they’re scared I might run away with a man and they don’t want to deal with it which it’s understandable your fear but I’m a serious man the fact that I’m telling you what’s going on and not hide it from you says a lot
Everyone should be honest though and that should be the basic standard. If bisexual man has to lie to a girl because they think the girl would not otherwise date them if they knew they were bisexual you can't blame the girls for that. It's bisexual person's problem if they cannot be honest and choose to lie and pretty selfish just so the bisexual man can get what he wants. Everyone has a right to their own preferences and if some straight girls aren't into bisexual guys then that has to be respected. It's not always about insecurity, it can also just be a turn off for some. There are many gay men who feel the same way and that needs to be respected also. There's many women and men who would date a bisexual man and plenty more fish in the sea who will accept you for your authentic self so don't waste your time on those who don't, and don't waste their time either..it will make you both miserable in the end. Let the straight women date straight men and the gay men date other gay men if that's what they are into and look for someone who's into bisexual men.
@@janx8695it is not a turn off ... I think they are just scared of S*d . because stereotypical st* is associated with gay men ... And I don't see y a gay man won't date a bi man 🤦🏽♀️lolz .
I for one, especially full together bottom gays prefer to date bi lads because they feel they are dating a more manly guy than dating a homosexual man even though he is a full together top while girls deem bisexual men as men who are gay but hide behind the bisexual label and are using them. In addition, girls have a craze for restraining and trapping men/ boys owing to their insecurities and jealousy. They want a man to be at their orders, do their bidding and lead them by the nose. Regarding a homosexual man who dates a bi man not only does he feel he is dating a manlier guy but also it gives him the trump card to have an open relationship and also enjoy other men bodies while his bisexual partner can have girls.
I don't think you appreciate how much it messes people up when someone can like them for everything about them, but there is one unchangeable characteristic that makes them reject you. It hurts a lot.
I'm bi and definitely well built men turn my crank. My first love was a gorgeous young man with deep beautiful blue eyes. He was killed when we were 21. I ended up married to a ginger girl 26 and 3 children later. You can be attracted to both sexes and still be faithful because you fall in love with the person and you make love with them and what ever body the are in.
He's so thicc and fit and hot. More of Leo and let him hang out with Demarkco and other bi bros . Yes Leo, speak the ❤️💜💙truth. Bobby Burns, Repzion, TX2, Silas Brooks, Andy Taylor, Drake Von, Zach Rance, Mason Healy, Aaron Fuller, Axel Kane, Will Braun, Titus Low, Grant O'Brien, Imari Stuart, Zane Williams, Cole Church, Spikey Dee, Jay Tee, Paul Cassidy, Viggo Sorensen, Dan Yates, Christian Wilde, Jesse Stone, DeAngelo Jackson, Sam Truitt, Peter Pounder, Jeff Kasser, Kai Mahi.
Sexual orientation isn't just about sex. In fact, a better word for it might be romantic orientation or love orientation, meaning who a person is capable of loving in a romantic way. That said, unlike a lot of people, I don't think you can just pick and choose the person you want to love, regardless of their gender. It's a trait locked in by genetics at conception. For example, as a gay man, I'm not capable of loving women in a romantic way. It's as simple as that. And while I suppose it's possible that someone could actually be bisexual, as a gay man, a relationship with them wouldn't be anything I could ever fully trust and, therefore, would never be interested in.
What he say is soooo true, If I make a bi Tinder account no match if I make one only gay I have over 99+ Match lol 😅 People still judge bi, we need to explain everything like this...
So he claims that once he’s with someone he doesn’t care about their sex, but then immediately says girls aren’t so understanding when he also wants other things from other people.
@@AH-xw6qe I think a lot of gay guys feel the same way as straight women. It can be hard for people who are only attracted to one sex to wrap their heads around bisexuality because we just don't have that experience. I heard one bisexual moaning about having to lie to his gf and be on the down low sleeping with men because he knew she would not like him being bisexual asif she was the one doing something wrong. I was like you can't blame your gf for that, she is not asking you to lie to her or sleep with men behind her back.
@@janx8695gay guys are just seeking for attention with the whole I don't date bi guy thing.... As a cishet woman I see no logic reason y a gay man will not date a bi man .I could still understand straight women because of .... (It's a long story )
Pretty interesting, i rarely think about bi guys. I feel the same, it be u comfortable for my guy to be interested in girls, it be hard to ignore. I do admire their courage to come out as bi, since straight guys are so closed minded.
That's why the majority of us are depressed as fck. We grew up believing everyone was like us. And that some of us just choose to sin. It took a lot of courage and time to unlearn it. Some may never even be aware of it or accept it until the end so pls do encourage those who come out
Bi men, choose the guys only for sex and dating, but never to get married and have a family. I was left by my boyfriend because I wanted to get married, but he said to my face that if I was going to get married it would be with a woman. And he really married one.
I am bi girl. With differences of sexual disire personally it doesn’t matter what my partner has. I have no preference when it comes to that kinda stuff only that i want to do it with the partner that i am dating
both actually but it's way more annoying if someone is into a totally different gender that's why gay guys avoid bis.. the vast majority end up with women eventually
I follow him and I don't 'think' love is what he's looking for. He seems like a sweet guy, and yes, he's not ugly. He honestly has the body of a Greek god, and he knows it! BUT, Art did point out a quandry when it comes to longevity in relationships with bisexuals: For example If you're gay and in a relationship with him, how long until he says "I want to get with girls more/again" ? There's only two options ...break up or have an open relationship where you know your man is getting with women. Among my friends not many many gay guys are cool with that, when pressed to be honest. If someone says that they're Bi upfront, does this thought process go through your head? I personally want to be on solid ground, not putting the heart on thin ice.
@@GilleoniYes you perfectly voiced out every bit of my thought! With a bi guy, the risk of getting a dump is relatively higher. It's the natural urge in him to want to be on "the other side" again that haunts me as per my past experience.
I think humanity is meant to be Bisexual and only when we start identifying ourselves in different persona. We started to explore new boundaries, and we differ as we get to a point. If being a Bi was natural, I think everyone would agree that sometimes we feel attraction to same sex is not gay but a desire for understanding and acceptance. It's a mechanism on how we experience social life.
I’ve been with a few guys who were bi. All of 😊them said they really love women but sometimes want a man. I imagine 😊them telling their girl to roll over and take it like a man :)
Ok here's an explanation we like men and women or there's bi people who like men and non-binary folk (also no that's not pan bi people have never excluded non-binary people)
There exists a lot of stereotypes 'bout bi ppl, It's comprehensible to feel unsure if you're dating with one of them, coz you're always thinking that you aren't enough for them coz they maybe need a girl. But I guess it's just a fake believing coz if they're sure they wanna be next to you, commint with you and love you as u are, that's the most important thing.
My partner of 18 years whom passed away 4 years ago felt that way (like art said) i am bi! Its who we fall in love with. Sex is sex. And i fell in love with jesse
He likes girls and guys. I am sure there is something he might not like about a man too. Most women don’t want to think about their man having sex with another man. It’s an icky feeling to imagine.
@@spidybat7658 there was a friend of mine who came out as bi, but is only interested in chasing girls 😐, i was like dude what's the point of claiming of coming out as bi if you are only going to chase the girls 🤷, these people are so scared to date a person with same gender 😐
@hausofluzon some people are more attracted to one gender more than the other. Personally I think I am slightly more attracted to women. Also there are probably people that are scared if dating the same gender due to heterosexual relationships being more acceptable in society.
@hausofluzon that's a weird train of thought. 1. If they don't want to date you then that is fine, you can't force them to 2. Don't paint every bi person with the same brush 3. Don't assume anything, they may just not be attracted to you
Leo is so well spoken, which is a turn on by itself! Plus, you have the added bonus of him being so cute, fit, smart and absolutely adorable! LEO, COME TO DADDY! ❤️❤️😘😘🤗🤗
I dated a guy who was also uneasy when it came to dating me because I was bi. It took him a while to realize that I loved him and would only be loyal to him as long as we were dating. Yes I am attracted to the other sex but they don’t matter as long as I am with you. I remain faithful to who I am with whether guy or girl. But recently it’s been mostly guys. I have not been with a girl in quite a while now.
Leo, you are a very impressive man! Beyond being very good looking you carry yourself well in conversation. You speak well, if you are nervous during open speech forum you certainly do not act it. You sound as though you are sure and proud of yourself.
When I first came out a 17 I identified as bi. Then I went and met a bunch of gay men at a coffee shop a year and half later and was told bisexua men do not exist. At the time it did seem like they may have been right but when I hit 35 I for some reason started getting really turned on by women just as much as men. It felt strange to tell myself I was actually bi. I kind of felt ashamed of myself because of it. However even in my early 20s when I was having sex with other men I sometimes thought what would it be like to have a woman join us.
Even me scared to give a chance for even friendship too, in the past one of the my Muslim roommates was bi and he knew im gay so he started playing with me emotional way and he used me for his enjoyment things physically i was abused too mentally struggled a lot and finally i moved from that city it is really a big pain still sometimes i feel depressed those things that basterd is happily married and have family too from then i got fear of Muslim man and bisexual guys especially bisexual Muslim guys.
I am attracted to both genders. But, I prefer to be with a woman. I did try to date a guy but it didn’t work out. It was not a good experience. As a result, I wouldn’t date a dude again. If I do find a partner, I would prefer the gender to be a woman.
as a gay man whose also trans , not about fear just preference! i feel in my opinion bi men should date bi men , just like straight guys date stright women unless very accepting in my exp doesn't work out otherwise
It's funny but when I thought I was bi I got questioned about it a lot more by gay guys than I did by the specific girls I dated at the time, maybe it was just the type, nor what women in general think but... yeah. A lot of guys assume that you being bi is "just a phase" and you'll fall in line eventually, which kind of was true for me but, bisexuality is not just real, it's probably way more common than people think or care to admit.
At least he didn't come up with the B.S that he is straight when you can clearly see he is not. By the way Leo is really strange. He is lije a handsome alien 🤨
I'm a bi guy myself, experiencing a lot of bi fobia, although it is getting better. Once I am in a relationship with someone I just wanna give them myself, that's my way of thinking, doesn't matter if it's a girl or a guy. I wanna be there for them. And as for the sexual desires, we can talk through this and discuss it, but 1 person can definitely be enough for me in this area. People are scared because they think I am gonna dump them for someone of opposite sex, but it's just stupid, I never did that. I do think that both males and females are beautifull and they both turn me on in my head, but it does not go anywhere beyond that.
