I DONT KNOW HOW I ENDED UP WATCHING MOST OF YOUR VIDEOS WITHING THE LAST TWO WEEKS BUT YOU TWO ARE SO FUNNY YOUR ENERGY IS MUCH NEEDED IN THIS WORLD. YOU GUYS ARE DOPE AF
I’m just going to start writing comments as I watch cause I can’t remember half of them by the end! 😅 1. I stopped watching the Breakfast Club after Angela left. Also Jess literally prides herself as a messy messenger soooo I’m good 😅 2. I think that your feelings are definitely valid in terms of when to have children and how many. But what I learned from Cardi B is that, it might not be “the plan” but you can still do it and at any time, might not be easy or comfortable at the moment but might work out too. However people who aren’t carrying or caring for your child SHOULD NOT be commenting on when’s the next one coming. Y’all act like this woman didn’t almost die the first time around 🤦🏾♀️ Take your time Amber and Ben, enjoy your Wilde, who knows she might be the only one or in 10 years you might revisit the idea. Either way, you’re doing a great thing expressing your concerns cause some people don’t have that conversation and become miserable because they didn’t express exactly how they felt. Sorry for the long comment😅 going back to the video now
I was an only child growing up (technically, I have half siblings but we didn’t live together) and I loved it lmao I have a ton of friends and cousins and literally never felt lonely. I absolutely loved having my house to myself !
I have one child, she's 12.I have no desire to have another one,my mom got tired of guilt tripping me into having another. This has also unfortunately ended a relationship (he wanted a child to prove I loved him🙄). My daughter has a half sibling from her dad's side and they have a good relationship. Anyway, she's not spoiled at all. She used to be a little selfish but she's outgrown it.
The women here in the north of Italy have one kid.....in their early 40s. And for some reason, they have long-term partners instead of spouses. Even my doctor! I guess they dont feel that pressure to marry and start breeding before 30 like we do in America 🤸🏽♂️
You both are so different in the way you handle things but it seems so balanced. Thanks Amber and Ben for sharing your experiences. I also looooooove watching your other videos.
I am a only child. thankfully i had a lot of cousins in my age range. my cousins and I are super close but the bond between sibling, i never will know. on the flip side my mom got to be active in everything i did 100% and i never had to deal with the expectations from what an older sibling had accomplished. Or the annoyance of a younger siblings. the stigma of an oc is from outside perspectives i feel. now that i’m older i think being a oc helped me in many ways. i’m okay w being alone, i was self sufficient pretty young, and never depended on others. my whole life ppl thought oh i must be spoiled and thought i got everything i wanted. with a mom who was rarely financially stable i learned from a young age nobodies gotta hand you anything. if you want something you make it happen. also that nobodies gonna believe in you like you. I currently have a 5 year old and i use to always say i want 2 kids or none just because i didn’t want my child to be alone. but now i think i’m one and done. kids are expensive. Also her dad and i are no longer together. So only way i might have another kid is if i’m married. Her dad and i are really great co-parent so yeah we not ever getting back together. And i refuse to be a baby mama to more than one person.
i just love your guys podcast so much! i look forward to hearing and seeing you guys every wednesday ❤️ you guys killed it on bottoms up w/ fannita! hope you are doing great and having an amazing day 🫶🏽
I love you amber and Ben & wilde!!! I finally made it to the podcast I freaking love it!!!! I totally understand the number 2 question!! I'm 40 married 16 years and we still get when is the kid coming I finally shut it down I have cats and our family has plenty of children. I don't regret not having children but all the conversations make me question our decision. Lol
I have 4 kids 23,17,11,7 and sometimes this shit is insane around here. There’s some things in this life I never side eye people about and that’s not wanting to have kids , women not wanting to breastfeed, and people not wanting to get married
I had my second child because I wanted to have another baby. No one pressured me. My first was already 5. Yes, having a second child is more tough but eventually it gets better when they become more close in age and can play with eachother. I also had a 3rd baby when baby number 2 was 18 months old and I must say having 3 is easier than 2 for me. Idk why lol
Jess is not transphobic. She's just not going to stand by while trans ppl try to bully the masses into believing they are equal to what they are imitating... Jess wouldn't have said anything had they not crossed that line
