2:30 not starting therapy early on in life 4:30 not cutting off friends who gossip 7:30 not saying "no" because you put others' feelings first 9:15 letting go of your health 12:45 not trusting your gut 14:10 comparing yourself to others
This couldn’t have come at a better time for me, I’m 21 and my brain is all over the place😭 I have no idea how the this next decade will pan out, and I feel like I’m already falling into so many mistakes it’s so scary. Thank you for this video, may Allah protect you from all harm and may He bless you with everything good that yo ur heart desires! Ameen💕💕 love you mona🥺
Oh, Mona. I hear so much Shallon advice here. SET BOUNDARIES, and respect them yourself. If we have weak boundaries, that's how people take advantage. And yes, gossip is the worst. I've always said "your life must be so sad and boring to be fixating on other people's lives." And of course, people who gossip with you, gossip about you. In the end, the most important person in our life is ourselves. Great video, thank you for sharing this. Many young people feel lost, uncertain, and afraid of the future. These type of videos can help a lot when their environment can't. It feels like we are listening to a big sister.
You don’t sound like an old lady. I lived at the gym from my 20’s into my early 40’s. Last 10 years, me being 50… it’s so hard to lose at this age and now have lost energy to work out. I should of kept it going because it’s so true.
Biggest problem i am undergoing is i have no money to spend for what is need. Even for the simple things. It is not my mistake. I am also in my 20s. Hearing to what you are talking is just soothing. Thank you for the video. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Hey Mona! I’m 25 going on 26 and there are some things that I still need to work on. I’ll be hitting my 30’s soon but I’m going to enjoy the journey. Love the advice hon!!
Health is really an issue especially when feelings n mind aren't intact and being far away from parents n being in a negative energy around currently has made significant difference I irregularly eat, sleep, really bad weight gain n loss. And being strong n keeping hope is so exhausting right now even though I was a person full of dreams n hopeful.
I love that statement of “Letting your feelings be your compass” I don’t like to look at it as mistakes but character building experiences, we are all on our own journey and products of our own environment, so you were very wise in saying to not compare your life with anyone else’s. You hit the nail on the head with TIME and HEALTH are the most prescious assets we have in our life!! Great content as always Monie! Lots of love to you! 😘🥰❤️❤️
Would love to see more videos about mistakes you’ve made but according to each topic; one on relationships, a separate one on money etc etc. Love you Mona ❤️❤️
At 28 I have to say I agree with all of these. I’ve been married since I was 21 and I have a 4 year old, 2 year old and a 1 year old and I couldn’t agree more. I’m learning myself more as I’m going into my 30s.
Think we made mistakes of every kind at 20’s and 30’s it’s when your 40 when you realize. Lol never late to be a better you! Love your spirit thanks on new Kayali fragrances,sending love from Texas US
This is very good life advice. I hope the women of your generation really appreciate how much information and inspiration is available . I wish you continued success with this channel💜
It really helped me... although I am in my teens..but then also I believe it's gonna be helping me in my future and help being an established woman ❤️💕
A good heart shows on the outside. That's how I feel about you, Mona. Thank you for helping us. May Allah keep you protected, loved and guided. Aameen.
I love this video and you should definitely make it into a series. The point I relate most to is about comparing to others, when I first started creating social media content it was hard not to compare myself to those who kept getting noticed or put on PR lists but once I started to focus on myself, more good things came into my life in that field. Sending you love xo
Yes, cutting out toxic people out of your life is one of the most important things! If they’re gossiping about other people with you then they probably turn around and gossip about you to someone else! You don’t need that in your lives, huns ✨❤️🩹
i remember reading this quote 4 years ago and every time we are in family union and people start gossiping i tell them that and they start blame me and who iam to tell them what to do i stopped meeting with them 😂😭 yaaas i love these kind of videos 🤩❤❤❤ i really hope u start to makeup fav or lifestyle fav videos , and top 10 sexy date night perfumes 😂😭😭😭 alote to ask i love uuuu ❤❤❤
Love this !!! Thank you 🙏 so much for sharing your pearls of wisdom with us Mona, you don’t know how much I needed this! I’m trying to get my life better organised and live a happier, more successful life. You are such an inspiration, you are wise, intelligent, creative, strong and loving. 👸🏽👸🏽👸🏽 💖💖💖 ✨✨✨
This was a wonderful and much needed video! I am so glad you started this youtube channel and are sharing such information because they really really are helpful! Im in my latest 20's and I am in the point realising these mistakes myself but whats so wonderful is hearing from you just further validates that I'm on the right path and I know thousand other people relate as well! I would love love LOVE if you made this into a series! Maybe by category, friendship/money/family and similar to this video giving an insight of what steps you took to help yourself out of the situation!
Dear Mona i just watched your video today and in glad i did. Ur a very nice person and wish you all the happiness in life. I have made many such mistakes, can't say no when i shud, gossiped just to stay in touch with friends....this video put some serious thought into me.
I think high school is built on gossip, same with older middle school - it builds a weird bond between people, kind of like a “class” system. Personally I don’t agree with it either, it’s weird and usually not accurate.
Monaaaa!!!! You are such a radiant and generous soul, your videos never cease to inspire me. Would love more career advice and how to find your passions in life... thank you so much. Sending you love always
Hi Mona thanks for this video that you have made because I am now at my 20s and knowing about how to keep yourself motivated and about friendship and gossip all those things all those words that you have did it do really mean soo much. Thanks 🙏🏻. Yes I have to admit that I too do the same mistake of not saying no at some point thinking about others feeling. At certain point I have to say no. And also make a good friend circle. Yes we(I) want to see this kind of videos. Once again thanks from the bottom of my heart.
