You're free to post whatever photos of yourself that you want but social media is not fantasy land. There are consequences and the things you post can absolutely change how people feel about you. Complaining that your NSFW social media profile is making married people not want to associate with you is on par with getting blasted drunk at dinner parties and then complaining you don't get invited anymore though. You know what you are doing is over the line for some people, accept the consequences and own it or modify your behavior accordingly. Personally, if I was losing friends over it and my parents would be ashamed if they saw it, I would take a long hard look at what I was doing.
Yes, well said! Do whatever you want but what you want might not be what others want. Just because you’re behind a screen doesn’t mean there’s no impact. Own up and be responsible for your decisions. That’s how life works.
I agree. Additionally, if she just *has* to post these photos, she should put them in her close friends and not have the wives/friends in there. win-win
He’d probably say: “The problem is men CANNOT be friends with a hot bitch. What you’re doing is tapping into their need for some side pussy and that’s making their girls jealous. Let’s face it, most bitches are gonna hate you because you’re hot, and most guys are just gonna want to fuck ya. So if you like the attention, and the drama. Just be the hoe and have fun.” And he’d blame the guy friends for not controlling the situation.
As someone who has lost most of their friends to death, it's very hard to make new friends. Might be as hard as it is for you, plus I am, umm how old? 40 or something. Older than you, but still young enough to fail at making new friends, especially because why try when they just die?
She’s free to post whatever she wants but that freedom of choice works both ways. The guy is just making his free choice to prioritise the relationship with his wife over this ladies ego/self image. To me she sounds put out because she’s not getting the compliments/validation she was looking for.
Exhibitionism and prick teasing are all the rage. Women like to know and feel the power they have over men. However, other women will despise you to depths that I could never fathom. Women hate each other as competition anyway, and you are simply making a claim, which presents as a challenge to other women. What do you expect?
Sounds like there's a lot of unhappy marriages in this situation. Even if she was toning it down these wives would still be complaining. Nobody hates a woman's happiness more than another woman.
This is just a new version of an old problem. Similar things happened to me in my 20s, long before social media was a thing. It has nothing to do with what you post or what you look like. People can be possessive of their mates, and your friend isn’t going to dump every romantic partner he meets for you. That would be weird. It will be easier to maintain friendships with he opposite sex when you are part of an established couple yourself. It would be nice if things weren’t like this but they are.
The thing about this is that if you're a hot girl and you post hot pics you can get free shit like crazy. This one girl I was with was getting hundreds of dollars sent to her a month to "get her nails done". Lmao I'd take that shit if i was a chick
Why Bill? He can create a second fake account and try to find out what she tries to show him! Who knows, maybe it's something he never saw before! 😂 😂 😂 🤙🏻
Billy, keep in mind they've been friends for a LOT of years. @ listener: If it was just some friend from whatever then yeah, let the guy be, don't destroy his marriage. If you care about him as a friend, then be the good friend, give him space, and let his insecure wife get over her bullshit. It's not your fault, and I know that's no consolation, but you will be better off and so will he if you put some distance in there. If the wifey is that all over your shit, it probably won't last that long between them, anyway. Your friend will reach out to you. To second lady: You went through his phone?? WTF??? Would you be ok if your dude went through your phone??
If my girlfriend said, "you can't be friends with this person anymore, because of the pictures they post online" I'd be tapping my forehead to her. If this is about trust, and she doesn't trust me what kind of relationship is that anyway.
Post whatever you want and if people don’t want to see it they can unfollow. But this friends wife sounds super insecure. That’s her issue and she should get over it.
Nah, F*ck that. Keep posting what you post. Just have a conversation with the couple. Let them know that you won't be following them and that you're gonna block them on social media. Tell them they are still your friends and you never want for then to be uncomfortable. The twist is that the women are still gonna be jealous no matter what. They just really don't trust their man and that's on them
That's the obvious option, but I'm getting the feeling that she still wants the married guys to thirst over her and is trying to make the wives out as the bad guy because it doesn't take a PhD certified brain surgeon to figure that solution out
Grow the frig up & act like an adult. How childish is it to tell your spouse to unfriend someone based on their IG photos. I love how some people will say “I’m insecure” as if that isn’t a character flaw that is fixable. “I’m insecure so you should change friends to make me feel more secure”… go kick rocks ya goof. Security in self only comes from within anyway
Definitely a cold take by Burr. You shouldn’t change the way you act because some chick that isn’t your friend is insecure about their looks. Those girlfriends should just be happy with the man they have and the single woman should do what she wants as long as it’s not malicious
How insecure does his wife have to be to make your buddy “lose”a friendship over some pics? Hell, I use to buy playboy for my now deceased husband! Ridiculous 😝
