BLACK WOMEN SHOULD BE NORMALIZING LUXURY, but HOW? | Chit Chat | Black Feminine

Подписаться 614

Просмотров 15 тыс.

50% 1

Hey Loves ! Welcome Back !
Today I wanted to chit chat about the importance of setting the right mind frame and actions around the current conversations pushing for the normalization of luxury for black women. Queens, we deserve lives of ease and grandeur on all levels including but much more than bags, shoes, and cars, but we can not look only to "influencers" to define what that reality is. We must define it for ourselves in our present and plan through financial literacy for its defining in our future . This video is about the importance pieces of normalizing that I see to be left out the conversations. Luxury is in the free time that we have, the food we eat, the self care + beauty regimens, and services we can afford to consistently partake in to bring ease to our lives.
#chitchat #girltalk #normalizeluxury #blackwomeninluxury
I'd love to hear your thoughts.
❤
Until Next time .
J Shaneé
-----------------------------
House Of CB Try On Haul : • $1500+ ON HOUSE OF CB ...
House Of CB Tea (Get it for cheap) : • ALL THE TEA On Shoppin...
------------- -------
BE SURE TO WATCH IN HD! :)
DON'T FORGET, LIKE! COMMENT! SUBSCRIBE!
------------- -------
Connect With Me !
INSTAGRAM & TWITTER: JayaShanee
Motivational & Inspirational Quotes Page: @SeedsToStalks
-----------------------------
Music by P3T0N - Mine - thmatc.co/?l=E...

Опубликовано:

21 окт 2024

Ссылка:

Скачать:

Готовим ссылку...

Добавить в:

Мой плейлист

Посмотреть позже

Комментарии : 55

@dariqueentruths 4 года назад

Self care is so important... facials, manicures, pedicures... all luxuries that should be monthly expenses!

@chidenisee 3 года назад

This is a great video. My grandmother was born in 1921. When she died she left her 4 children millions in paid property in 2 states. Money and insurance plans. I grew up upper middle class but she didn’t wear the big brands like everyone is doing now. I do purchase some lux items because I would rather have a few quality pieces over a lot of fast fashion pieces. I’m currently working on starting my own company so I can leave more for my son. I want him to be CEO of his on industry after I’m gone. I want generational wealth.

@SoAnesu 3 года назад

That’s the attitude sis #bbbl

@POVwithrenirose 3 года назад

Same goals chica ❣️❣️ as a young mom I definitely am trying to get to that point.

@numerologicatarot3333 3 года назад

This!!! It’s my main objective.

@almamater9346 3 года назад

Wishing this for you and your son too dearest 💜

@dejachaniah 3 года назад

I love what you said about luxury being subjective. For me, luxury is being a digital nomad, meeting people of different cultures, eating freshly grown food, creating art, and having fun! Love this video 🤗

@evapeace2385 3 года назад

To me luxury is not 300 dollar shoes it’s being able to pass down property and businesses down to your children. ❤️ But I do enjoy seeing black people looking sharp.

@EbonyJoneskuye 3 года назад

Its still okay to embrace luxury. Believe, leaving insurance and money builds generational wealth too!

@numerologicatarot3333 3 года назад

That’s the ultimate goal but bumming it is not living. My main goal is generational wealth and I cut out luxury just to realize that I deserve it all as well. I’m childless and I’m already on track and doing well. I get one life. My children will be fine.

@numerologicatarot3333 3 года назад

I know you didn’t writing anything about “bumming” but I just chose that word figuratively.

@tnthi5967 3 года назад

I know what a Birkin was way before the city girls and jayda. Dating from sex and the city. I love your point. I believe black women need to normalize luxury but at a certain extent. I feel like this generation allows material items to define them. Normalize getting degrees. Normalize cash flow and normalize good credit. My overall goal is to be in a million dollar property with good credit. I could choose to drive my 2019 Corolla or a Mercedes but it’s not that serious to me.

@gloryyt2024 4 года назад

Preach it sister! It’s okay to have what you want but people are taking it to new levels. I also hate that we value so many material things and quickly shell out money on this such as bags and cars but aren’t invested in long term financial and personal growth. Bags can’t be taken to your grave and at the end of the day, the Birkin and [insert random material] here won’t produce generational wealth or feed your family once you’re dead. I’m all for living life, enjoying life and buying things that you value (different for everyone) but priorities are pardon my French (fucked) and many are funding material versus goals and things that will actually help them elevate. Thanks for the video. You are amazing! Hugs ❤️

@meeka32ify 3 года назад

You are so right, I just read how LV had human petting zoos, and you already know who was on display. Made me think about how we have spending power, but don’t realize what we are really supporting.

@angelique757 3 года назад

I grew up middle class, I always had designer items, I lived with my grandma who's motto was if you can afford it get it. My mom used to make fun of me and called me bougie, etc. I always felt ashamed of living this way, I'm starting to grow out of that mindset now that I'm a mom.

@mads.online 4 года назад

I'll be turning 20 in January and am so excited to grow into the woman and lifestyle I want! This video definitely is great, especially about the mindset!! Get me a cute tote from Aldo's and ima rock it like its louis v #OK 🤣

@jadagemineye7148 3 года назад

How has everything been?! Turning 20 in June 😍

@tiffanywhite7701 3 года назад

Just wanted you to know you have a new subscriber. Your point of view on Black Women normalizing luxury is unique in the space. I've recently been watching a lot of content on this topic on youtube and instagram and your's is the first that felt real. I really agree with your perspective. Thanks!

@SoAnesu 3 года назад

We need to love ourselves more.

@EbonyJoneskuye 3 года назад

Black women need to stop clapping to only struggle. Black women need to embrace luxury and femininity ... we can fight and love being a woman.

@k.howard7264 3 года назад

So tired of the attitudes and sly remarks when I want "better", not even really "luxury".. Its stifling.. I dont want super expensive items. I want quality opportunities and sources for inspiration that money can help me into, for myself, future, and future generations.

@HarrisPilton789 3 года назад

Black women have been normalizing luxury. We consume more than we save and invest. Everyone knows this, which is why everyone markets their wares to us.

@RAYVENUS5 3 года назад

Amen to you touching on the levels of luxury. I appreciate that you explained that luxury is relative to each individual, that individuals should do things according to what they can afford, and not splurging beyond one's means for appearances sake. In my opinion, some of those material things become irrelevant once you've achieved a certain level of consciousness anyway. Most of all I appreciate you mentioning PUTTING IN THE WORK while making sensible choices . I also believe that we CAN have things/see the world/enjoy fine dining by educating ourselves, working smarter not harder, and making investments, etc. All of which can be obtained without suffering or self sacrifice. OMG! This needs way more views! This is my first time seeing you and I've also subscribed.

@CassandreSylvain 4 года назад

This video is exactly what I needed to hear. Luxury IS subjective. 💡I'm about to binge on the rest of your videos. 💕

@DaughterOfTheKingdom16 3 года назад

I love that this was said I am not really materialistic when it comes to tangible luxury. I only have 2 designer bags. I grew up in a pretty well-off family like upper middle class and to me luxury was traveling and eating well. I love concerts, traveling, and eating good food. A lot of people will be like where’s your Birkin bag or where’s your xyz instert tangible item here. However my money is spent on my travel.

@User-uw7uw 3 года назад

Personally I don't like this whole thing about depriving yourself from minor luxuries just to save money. If it's not to invest in another activity which will generate more money, what are you saving for?? Like u said, life is short and you could literally die tomorrow while saving money for no reason. If you need to spend more become familiar with your finance s and find ways to make more. Don't limit yourself forever to your situation. I understand what you're saying about affordability, but I think we need to encourage people to generate more money so they can afford their luxuries instead of telling them that they should remain in that

@TheCruzan26 3 года назад

Lmao wow! You people are so lost it's funny. And this got 14 likes? Sad!

@CamielleTee 4 года назад

Thank you for this! Especially breaking down how luxury is subjective. This is such great content 👏🏿

@hairmunsta9788 2 года назад

A year later and this video is still hitting facts. I didn’t realize that each year I clean my feed of the bs that does not serve me. I now use the mint app to track spending. Whew $700 eating out each month. Girl my savings thank me now.

@karissalogan9706 3 года назад

The spill on "you are enough" was just what I needed to hear. I want all these luxury things and trips and yes I deserve them but it's okay that I can't get them right now.

@therealtormom 4 года назад

Yes!!! Love this. I recently started to learn and accept myself and pamper myself better.

@jessicahollis5150 3 года назад

Each individual level of standards will have a huge impact on what is luxury to them. Self care services nails, hair, facials, massages should be regular services because it improves your overall well-being the benefits are so much more than the outward appearance. Can self care services be on the level of luxury? Absolutely but can it be apart of your regular expenses absolutely! Black women should be able to responsibly enjoy luxury without having to explain anything to anybody or feeling bad.

@DaughterOfTheKingdom16 3 года назад

Also my nails are super important to me it is the one luxury self-care thing i do for myself.

@ONTHEDL 4 года назад

Love this video! This really need to be talked about amongst the black community

@ONTHEDL 4 года назад

Yes big difference between motivation and influencing

@LovelyLenish 3 года назад

I definitely took shopping organic for granted. That is certainly a luxury

@kendrai.667 3 года назад

Me too! My mom thinks I’m insane for shopping at Whole Foods.

@dhl1288 3 года назад

Luxury is not items tho in our society though many jones associate it. Luxury is an ease of comfort convenience and security or given those who live on credit to appear living a luxurious lifestyle imo the appearance of to others.

@monie3558 3 года назад

Maybe you should just Google the definition because that’s actually not what it means

@dhl1288 3 года назад

@@monie3558 wow lol you are aware that imo is in my opinion right? That the definition is and I quote...'the state of great comfort and extravagant living'... So what exactly about what I considered it hard to grasp humm that was so different from the definition? Was it the ease of COMFORT convenience and security or the implication that most people exist on credit to give the appearance of luxury to others? That debt from attempting to live a luxurious lifestyle on credit so many gloss over nonwithstanding.

@bey_lovely 3 года назад

This was so good! Thank you girl!! 🙏🏼💕

@eddiexhey 3 года назад

while i'm all for us having nice things bc we definitely deserve, we're also playing heavily into this capitalistic mess that has us feeling like we need all of this to feel good. so idk.