As a black man I'm tired of that game. It ends up costing you more in the end. I had a 4 year long custody battle and I'm not signing back up for that again. Then I get the usual troupe of "You just need to find a good black woman. Don't let one experience change your mind". Its not worth it. A person can "change" their mind and an man is left on the hook.
@Alfred Pasly I just took a step back and looked at it from a logical perspective. All women around the planet have their issues. It's up to us to find out who gives us the least issues.
At the end of the day, majority of the women regardless of ethnicity are a lost cause in America. I was with a Latina for over a decade who actually born & raised in South America. Once she became “Americanized” and it was over.
In that decade you were with your Latina, how long were you two still in South America before y’all or she moved to the States? How many years of that decade was she in the States? How long did it take her to get “Americanized?
@twistedblktrekie you speak as if every black man is a business owner. I've worked with black bro's for decades and many of us historically lack business knowledge and experience. We all know why. I've done business with non-blacks who obviously dont have our history. Now who do you think performed better in their businesses??
Other women even noticed how our women treat us; I also think that's another reason why they interact with us nicely instead of just the perpetual jungle fever myth imo
Thank you. I've said over and over that they believe they live in a protective bubble BUT the reality is that everyone is observing their behaviors as directed towards black men.
You are so right , I experienced this personally,and I was surprised that a beautiful blonde saw what happened to me when I tried to introduce myself to this good lookin sista, the way she treated me,was absolutely disgusting,I went my way and took the high road,that’s when this white woman came to me and said she saw what happened, and she was like , I would give you a chance with me, well we did an impromptu coffee date that evening ,she became my girl, so when any sista got the nerve to say I’m a swirlers or sellout I will proudly tell them this story...
Dated Puerto Rican girls in college. The cultural differences were staggering! I was also pursued by a couple wealthy white girls [not for hookups, legitimate interest that would've switched my tax brackets upon marriage] but I was too inexperienced in general and with white women to recognize the blatant signals. One of my fraternity brothers had a fine, submissive, service-oriented white girlfriend who'd do him and other brothers' laundry, cook, and clean their apartment twice a week and leave. She was trained to do this and took pride in serving good men. One of my Puerto Rican girlfriends was from another college and she cried on the phone about not being able to see me as much as she wanted to. She told me that if she was on campus she'd cook 2-3 times a week, clean my place, make signs to support me at football games, fraternity events, and chemistry lectures. She told me she'd lay out her clothes and let me pick her outfits if I wanted to, and make suggestions. She liked girls [not uncommon based upon what I've seen], and she told me she wished she was in person so she could put my head in her lap and sing to me in Spanish... Both of us were too broke to sustain a long-distance relationship and didn't have cars, so it didn't work out... But she was the real deal, and her treatment of me was not uncommon. She told me to date Latin girls because many of them are raised that way and want to do these things for their man.
@@busyrand I'm just getting back on them! There's not many in the DMV but I'm back in Philly and they're choosing. My DR piece treats me well. I'm starting to remember why I usually had a Latina gf growing up. They're just feeling me more than ABW.🤷🏾♂️
I try telling my boys all the time to stop sleeping on Latinas, I’ve been with a Domincan for a year now and I’ve had a smile on my face the whole time we’ve been together compared to when i was married to a black women 2 years ago who was a demon, lazy and unfaithful.... hear it from me fellas!! Get you a Latina... more varieties of skin, hair and body. They’re literally a white girl with spice and curves lol
@@ummeshariff Imagine believing that. Us decent BM have no problem with cops. It’s only those pathetic simp that defends BW and raise by them that do 🤣🤣🤣 Meanwhile, you BW don’t win in the dating world.
@@mandabraithwate4962 yes I agree, it's just that many BW feel that they didn't. I'm glad to see many of them taking the opportunity to venture out. Nothing wrong with that at all.
Casinos, Strip clubs, and Baby Mothers are bad investments made by Young men under 30!! After age 35 we should invest in our Health, Education and Generating Wealth. Think about YOUR FUTURE!!
Wow that bit at the end about “black men are expected to be the b*#%h and if there not that their the monster. Both of which BW are deep down in love with.” Powerful. That hit me like a ton of bricks because it’s so true.
I think this would make a good panel. Like you said, they WERE the only game in town but not anymore. Millennials & Generation Z are able to explore their options. I’ve been exploring my options & will continue because my happiness is paramount
@venomspeak "Exploring my options" is descriptive of doing just that. I'm not familiar with "swirler" talking points, so I'm thrown by why someone should refrain from using descriptive language to describe something basic. It's semantic, and I'm quite sure they likely picked it up from hearing men discuss the topic. I don't understand why "swirlers" are even a thing because it's interracial dating... I'm thinking out loud here, but I'm assuming people who identify as such "swirlers" have a general code of conduct and talking points. The whole thing is sophomoric to me because human beings should be able to pair up and find happiness during the short period of time we have here. I meant no disrespect. I was thrown by your objection based upon semantics.
Had to come back to this after seeing a thread on Twitter of a BW saying she going to law school to overturn loving v. Virginia & many other BW agreeing smh. You ain’t lying
LOL seriously? They want to overturn something that was started by themselves? I once read a Twitter where the girl admitted and said "I would feel better about black men dating interracially if white men wanted me more".
@@ummeshariff With a comment like yours it's painfully obvious you don't have much to offer him either. #CompeteOrMoveYourFeet it sure is funny how the exact same angst and rhetoric is NEVER directed at black women that do THE SAME. Hypocrite much lately?
...BGS, don't call your videos "rants". It is KNOWLEDGE that is seriously needed for BM to hear. There is absolutely NOWHERE in the real world this information would be spoken about out loud!!!
No need to apologize, Master Teacher. A good ramble or rant is needed for the mind and the soul every now and then. Great way to get all of that negativity out of one's system.
Most definitely, this talk needs to be had on a grander scale. We can’t ignore these facts. At some point this will topic has to come to having a real and honest talk. Word!
This is a cigar dipped in alcohol chilled ramble. This would happen in a private members only club. Very necessary. The current generation of school aged males are not dealing with them. These boys are "not coming back" and I don't blame them. Go where you are appreciated. SYSBM. Work on all phases of your life. Recession proof your life. Put your future generations in the best position for success. If you have no kids, influence the ones that you are around. Pimp God has been on a role lately. Shout out to both of you.
This isn't even a race thing for me, it's a common sense family thing... "get the best wife you can period." No one should be pressured to do anything bc of race, that's racism isn't it???
Reminds me of that television show Dinasours. Far too many black women think they are owners of the Wesayso corporation. Why should black men only date and marry black women with or without children? Because We Say So! Yeah seriously hard pass on that.
When me and my wife meet it was lust. We dated and fornicated which made her feel that she was already my wife and could make decisions in my single life without any commitment, she assumed that sex equated relationship. Yet she refused to discuss marriage due in part to some failed relationships with black and white men. I told her my entire life story my faults failures and sins. But getting information from her was like an interrogation. I felt used and it came out in a dream.
"I've got a sickness... And the only thing that can cure it is a Ramble/Rant by BGS IBMOR" ... I love it when you speak on things. I've gotta cosign the fundamental premise. The level of red hot, legitimate interest I've received from women of every other culture of women outside of ADOS has been staggering. Every one of my Black girlfriends I moved on from loved me to a point they became depressed and gained 40-60lbs within 6 months of me leaving, yet I could barely tell they liked me... Especially in comparison to women of other cultures... Women of other cultures light up when they encounter deep intellect coupled with masculinity. The social taboo of dating us is dying down, and women of other cultures are choosing on quality Brothers HARD. I'm looking to take a wife and start a family in the next few years. I cannot afford to ignore high quality women who are into me any longer. It's not fair for them to suffer from lack of fulfillment in a mate also. Sisters need to compete for their men like every other demographic. They'll win all the tie breakers due to familiarity.
BW are the right hand of WS! They see us almost exactly as WM do. Serious question to the Hoteps out there, How do you get BW to actually cooperate with you to rebuild the community? I really want to know because I have never seen a BM in my peer group make a BW do anything they don't want to do.
My dude, EVERYTHING single trait you mentioned in this video about Black women's behavior towards Black men is SPOT ON what my experience has been. It's always a disrespectful loyalty test and constant passive aggressive manipulation. I want to date Black women exclusively but no matter how long I've know them before dating them, once we form a relationship, it's Dr Jekyll and Mrs. Hide. It's insanity. Black women (especially those with multiple degrees) seem to have lost all ability to produce feminine energy or maintain it consistently. GREAT VIDEO, bruh.
A woman's counter (pointless) argument "You can't handle me, because I am a strong woman with demands." A man's response (conscious thought), "No, you are just vile and narcissistic." After that, we men just walk away.
@venomspeak I'll have to check out that video, but not all men running the same game... it one thing to dominate a woman's environment, another thing to dominate her heart... and completely different to dominate both. Funny thing is almost all ethnicities have complaints about their women.
Exactly...this is why you hear black women ask white men, so you only have sex with black women but wont date one? Whens the last time you heard a black man ask that question to a non black chick?
I’ve seen a few asian men use that term on asian women who date white men but for the most part it’s a term used by those of a particular group who are too lazy or incapable of competing with others for the mate that they want.
Again I have to say Thank you for another one. The way you break down situations is phenomenal. This is one of those videos that I am going to have to listen to a couple times. Respect to this message.
It's crazy that I came across this video within mins of having an arguement with my Wife where I had to explain to Her about the way She addresses Me and the Tone of Her Verbiage! And the fact that you spoke out everything that happened in that exchange to the T! It's honestly becoming increasingly difficult to maintain a healthy relationship! And I know I'm not perfect I fed into the BS and fueled it, But it's only so much you can take without exploding back! Great Vid, You've gained my follow!
Master Teacher BGS, Your Rambles/Rants are the Bestest!!! Raw, Uncut & Unrehearst!!! Keep them coming Sir!!! My thought is be if you think the grass is greener on THE OTHER side, but all means CROSS THE BORDER just don't HATE US/BAD MOUTH WHEN WE DO IT.
I know a woman in her 40s telling me that she is not submissive, does not listen and loves to argue. Here is a shit test that most Black women will fail ask her when was the last time she had sex and then compare that answer to the last time she has been in a serious relationship
The best way to win, is to not play the game at all. Been there and done that. We (men) prefer the submissive type of woman. Instead of being in competition. I’d rather go where I’m appreciated. God speed from the 305.
♻️I read this in a comment section of another video ♻️. Black men to black women are like that old toy that your cousin never plays with anymore but gets mad whenever someone else wants to play with it
To see a prime example of the actions of BW, take a look at the interview Mike Tyson did with his former wife. They were married for about a year over 20 years ago and now that her shelf life has expired, she tried everything mentioned in this video to try to harm him and to make herself relevant. I’m so glad it backfired. She actually showed just how trashy she is. Very happy for Mike Tyson and the way he now handles himself.
I recall reading a study regarding rat testicle size and it stated that male sex organs are developed in proportion to the promiscuity of the female. A male needs to be able to produce more sperm (larger testes) and force it deeper (larger penile shaft) in order to give himself a better chance of fertilizing a female egg during copulation. Also, it has been suggested that the ridge at the base of the human male penile crown is designed to 'scoop' out the sperm of competitors. Anyway, if we apply this to black men, who are typically regarded as well-endowed, this suggests that this endowment is the direct result of black female promiscuity and would further suggest that black females are inherently less invested in any given male. If my thesis is sound, we can also assume that Asian females are the most loyal (or less inclined toward sexual promiscuity). Before anyone jumps on my head, I'm not stating this as fact, as I've done no research, I'm just presenting some loosely connected ideas as food for thought.
Black men must understand there value to themselves as men. Then know there value where ever they find themselves. Money wise, If black men pulled together regardless of station or status and help one another high value won’t be an issue. We as men must reach outside our self and work together.I can care less about white men and black women. If they want them.. Be my guess.
This wasn't a ramble man, you spoke well. Everything you mentioned about black women in this video is exactly why I dont bother with black women anymore. Latinas are the nicest women I've met and I love them so much.
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Brilliant Summation! Black Men have already begun to look for the Casinos with better odds in the dating and marriage game for a while now. The Push back and Back lash is already being felt by Black Women everywhere across the Socioeconomic Board. Classic Commentary that is the perfect description of what the Dating and Marriage game is for Black Men. Brothers have decided to cash in whatever chips they have left and look elsewhere.
Single mother's expects to get wife up but they don't...they have apartment with cats....because men done figure out these women and keep young women around until they die...
