Blackmagic Design Smart Videohub CleanSwitch 12x12 Unboxed and Briefed. 

I have a good idea. Most modern and high powered switching equipment generates a lot of heat. That heat needs to be dissipated so manufacturers use fans. Fans have to be large and turn slowly to reduce noise. Large fans don’t fit into pretty little cases. Some designs incorporate passive air flows and use heat sinks. Most computer based switchers with anything more powerful than an Arduino doing the math can’t afford to do that and work reliably. Sometimes design is out before function and the professional utility of a device is compromised. The best thing to do is not have your noise maker close to your sound gatherer or out your noise gatherer in a quiet box.

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Companion by bitfocus might be what you're looking for. It can control the device and allow for macros.

I'll have to do another video with it on. It's fairy loud, but not unbearably loud. I've enjoyed the flexibility.

+BoguschMedia Ha! Yes, it really should be a play list. The switcher works great but video 2 was actually a pay-per-view for a larger event. If you have specific questions don't hesitate to ask. It might be some time before we get the performance video online. There should be some good run-through videos on the Tube by now though. Enjoy creating!