Lecture notes ✍🏻 1. Psychology tells us about two mind sets - Growth mind set; they always see what they have done wrong and trying to get better next time and move on - Failure mind set; Blame others never accept of hes done wrong. 2. Islam tells us dont blame others rather work upon yourself. 3. Sahaba used to take criticism in thier way that yes we did that wrong we need to work on this and for praise they would say no its not us we are not praise worthy like that 4. Be easy with others and harsh upon yourself. 5. Prophet saaw at uhud, his choice was to fight inside Madina and sahaba said outside, when they got heavy injuries, even after then prophet saaw never ever blamed them. 6. Prophet saaw never ever blamed Khalid Ibn Al waleed for what he did in uhud. 7. Leader own things. 8. Quran surah an najam; Man would only get what he struggles for. 9. Positive-growth 10. Negative-failure 11. Do your tazkiyah. 12. Be quite if you are going to blame somone. 13. If giving naseeha, talk to him being alone. JazakAllah o khair.
Blaming (Lawm) View: Personal accountability is emphasized. Solution: Take responsibility for actions and avoid unjust blaming. Quran: "Whatever of good reaches you, is from Allah, but whatever of evil befalls you, is from yourself..." (Quran 4:79) Hadith: "If you were to blame someone for something, you would be responsible for it." (Musnad Ahmad) Explanation: Blaming others unjustly leads to injustice. Islam promotes personal accountability, encouraging believers to take responsibility for their actions and avoid blaming others without evidence.
Ali bhai great series Allah khair de ap ko ap ki team ko. Meri ek raaye hy k ap ko surah ya hadis batate hain us ka reference bhi show karan sath is se or maddad mily gi
Bhai mery shohar kisi Shadi shuda aurat k chakar mn pary huy hn r sb k samny Quran ki jhooti qasam kha k mukar jaty hn bt haqeeqat mery samny ha bht samjati hn bt mukar jaty hn bari bari qasmain kha k bhai mn zehni mareez bn gye hn yh dono mil k mujy pagal bana rhy hn mery 4 bchy hn mn kya krn bht pershan hn
Blame game is satanic behaviour. Iblees ne Allah ko blame kia magar Adam AS ne Toba Astaghfar ki apni ghalti mani aur islah ki. Hum ne Anbiya AS k tareeqy pe chalna hy ibless k nae. Agr log Quran ko samjhain aur amal karain tu kisi ki andha dhund taqleed na karain.
