This video was refreshing considering Tigrrbelly fans tend to one-sidedly shit on Khalyla for some reason. I suspected that Bobby was primarily at fault, because I have also seen other videos of them after the break-up and it's apparent that she didn't break things off and is still in love. When I initially watched the Cut video I was moreso confused since I'm a little more aware of their break-up situation and their relationship since I follow their podcasts. In the Cut video, Bobby mentioned wanting to be able to have relationships with other women, but I know that Khalyla and him have opened up the relationship to have a more polyamorous one at one point, and Bobby didn't like that and decided to close the relationship back up as a result. To be fair, it's one thing to want to have multiple partners and another thing to be ok with your partner having multiple partners (which is hypocritical if that's the case), but the thing he claims was the reason for their break-up was a scenario that Khalyla once allowed him to have. In fact, Khalyla was in a polyamorous relationship before her relationship with Bobby, so it's clear that he could have options if he really wanted to and still have Khalyla as well. Because of that I kind of disregarded what Bobby was saying because of this, and assumed he was giving some bullshit, cliche line of the spark was just lost, but Anthony you make a great point. Maybe they both struggle with being intimate and emotionally vulnerable with one another which makes sense for two individuals who have experienced childhood trauma including sexual trauma. Also, I think it's harder for Bobby as a comedian/entertainer because his whole job description is dressing up serious matters with bullshit and jokes. He makes a living off of deflecting with humor which unfortunately is the anti-thesis to emotional intimacy. Plus, I would bet that since he attributes so much of his charm to his humor it would be harder for him to drop the facade, because not only does he believe that he'll be vulnerable, but he'll no longer be attractive to women because that's the only skill he believes he has or will ever have. It doesn't help that he's a recovering addict when addiction really is just chronic avoidance, which is also not conducive to intimacy. Yeah, you have revealed and helped me think about a lot of things once again Anthony lol.
"even your partner is branding for you" 10:22 wow i have never heard anyone put it like that. that is truly how so many people treat potential partners and dates. thank u for your wisdom
Loved how you broke down the performative nature of sex and where people default. Feel like you nailed it on the head as far as lack of vulnerability. Big Tiger Belly fan so was great hearing an outside perspective.
This viedo was heartbreaking. This sweet girl needs to MOVE on. I don't even know who the guy is, but I hate him for wasting her time. I hope she didn't give up wanting to have kids for this clown. He doesn't deserve her at ALL. Thanks as always for your insights Anthony, you're the best and what the dating coach this world needs.
Hi Anthony I got the same problem with how I view sex as artificial performance and I wanted to ask you if you got any book recommendation on this topic or everybody else guys.
No need for books. Just focus 100% on the vulnerable connection between u and the other person. And take ur time to super duper enjoy the experience. Don’t hide or hold anything back. Be as passionate as possible 👌🏻
Hey Anthony, can't believe you did them! So glad you did! That relationship was sooooo messy. It was polyamorous, but only on Khalyla's side. They stopped being intimate so they agreed on those terms (with one man of her choice), but it ended up just hurting both of them. I think they're much better as just friends.
Lmfao this whole video is so bad knowing what people actually know about them 🤣🤣 anyone can play a nice girl on Camera , behind the scenes is completely different
Joel ur prob used to seeing people on the internet drop buzzwords without explanation and I see you doing it too. On this part of the internet we have discussions. You can explain more than this, I’ll listen to you.
Anthony, you are so ignorant to their whole deal and its not your fault. Ill give you some insight of one of the reasons they broke up. KK was getting her gutz decimated by Big D Hawaiian while bobby was in rehab,she has also tried to cucckk him multiple times and it took bobbys addiction coming back for her to be able to go to hawaii and get her back blown out. Also she left him at rehab even when the conditions were not the best. She a master manipulator and you fell for her fake persona so easily, she is not no vulnerable person she is someone that would write some cringey poems and took advantage of bobby.
They had an open relationship because Bobby is a porn addict and didn't have sex with her anymore. The way you're writing about her is disgusting and very telling on how you view women in general. Not to mention your username. You're genuinely such a weirdo.
