Women celebrate in a different reception room. I find the Hasidic weddings most impressive and everything has a symbolism.One has to realise that women feel at ease when there are no men around and there are no "distractions". The wedding ceemony is not a matter of some relatives /friends, but the whole community participates and that's very nice. You feel cherished and protected... Evereybody is there for you...
It's seen as immodest for the women's celebrations to be filmed and if they're singing there's the possibility of kol isha. Jewish men are forbidden to listen to women singing. Personally I'm very happy that they aren't filmed! I'd feel very uncomfortable if there were cameras in the room.
Except at a mitzvah tance her father usually dances without the rope. I'm halfway through and I sure hope he drops the rope, and finishes the traditional way- the only time in their lives the bride and groom dance together in public.( what we do in the privacy of our own bedrooms is our own business )
I feel for the bride, standing there while her father prances around for a half hour or more, who's wedding is it???And the groom looks bored to death, or out of it.
Now I understand why to those people a simple, benign divorce is such a nightmare. Can you imagine having to explain sides to all the people there?! It would indeed take FOREVER!!!
greetings from the great state of Arkansas USA I'm a Christian not Jewish and you we all need to respect these people least they are family oriented they kill for the parents of the family members they take care of their own unlike a lot of Christians and you know people in our society who just don't care about one another too busy earning that money and worried about materialism it's disgusting these people have the right way just like the Amish do I just like lot of us in the South God bless you and yoursshame on people who love their families and friends to be homeless as well shame on it and they're going to be told judge by God
Actually, Mordechai David Unger is the Bobov-45 Rebbe, not the Bobover Rebbe (who is Ben Zion Aryeh Leibish Halberstam). The Bobov-45 are a split dynasty from the larger (much larger) Bobov dynasty and they are allowed to use Bobov, but they must have something in the name to distinguish them from the main Bobov dynasty. They (Rebbe Unger who is the first and current Bobov-45 Rebbe) chose to use 45 as it is the street where the dynasty started.
She did. With the black piece of ribbon (called a gartel) At some weddings, you'll see them hold hands, but it's immodest for men to see women dancing, so you'll notice her just holding the gartel and swaying a little.
As I said on another post, I would have loved to have seen my father dance with joy around me on my wedding day. Does the bride's family have to FEED all these thousands of people????
Yes, well it usually doesn't get this big, this is the wedding of Bobov Rebbe's daughter. Bobov Rebbe is the Grand Rabbi of the Brooklyn Ultra Orthodox Jews Sect.
question : est ce que ces cérimonies sont seulement pour certain mariage des fils de perssonalinalité élites (chefs des rav ou plitiques ou riches !? ou alors bien pour toutes les mariage ? ...
En effet dans le titre il est écrit que c'est la mariage de la fille du rabbin 🙂 C'est très impressionnant et ça doit être intimidant pour la mariée je pense🤔😕
Yep! In Chassidic culture serving G-d has to be done with joy, and getting married is a particularly joyful occasion. It's the beginning of another Jewish family :)
We take marriage seriously. The newlyweds realize the commitment to establishing a new family and the responsibilities involved. Their love grows as their life together develops. It is immodest for women to dance in front of men. In this case there are thousands of guests so they can't all fit into one room. Therefore, women are in a different room. Men and women who are not married to each other don't touch. For the traditional dance with the bride she holds a long ribbon called a "gartel" and the man (not her husband or father) hold the other end. They will dance but she limits her movement. She is allowed to hold hands with her husband, her father, her brother. However, for dancing with grandfathers, uncles, other men, they will hold the gartel while dancing.
+Doris Jaffe True. In the west, we fall in love, and then get married, but in these circles, you marry and then you fall in love. Not saying one is better then the other, but it's just a different approach to love that we ought to consider.
Свадьба у евреев это акт возрождения вселенной, потому бракосочетание сопровождается молитвами и просьбами ко Всевышнему об успешном браке и т д... Евреи раскачиваются во время молитвы , эта практика помогает отключиться от материальности и сосредоточиться на духовном мире ...
@@tibidoh Спасибо что просветили , только как то жаль невесту она стоит одна в центре среди скачущих мужиков. А ещё возможно и замуж выдают без большого желания с её стороны.
Very unusual, not like Western ceremonies. It could do with a bit of explanation what is going on and what it all means but I guess, this video wasn't supposed to be educational.
the women are separate; always. the bride's hair is completely covered and it is her father who is dancing. notice the ribbon he is not allowed to touch her. how she gets into the men's section and out; who knows. lol
Interesting... Why is the father? Does it have a meaning? a kind of the farewell dance or something? And why isn't she dancing? I mean, she is practically not moving at all. Is she supposed to stay still?
it is immodest for a woman to dance in front of men. Men and women who are not married to each other don't touch. She can hold hands to dance with her husband, her father, or her brother. However, other men such as grandfathers, uncles, have to hold onto the "gartel" which is the long ribbon you see her holding. Some Chassidic sects use a white gartel and others use black. Each human being has a spark of holiness. We respect our bodies which house our holy souls. Therefore, we dress modestly at all times. A wedding ceremony is a religious affair so while we express love, joy, happiness, we do so in a dignified manner.
Any closed comumity / cuture will always be closed to the rest of society we have to mix play.amd engage together. Any esteem will not survive in a non exstrem culture. .
CATHOLIC AND JEWS MUST INTERMARRY WITH EACH OTHER TO MAKE TWO GROUPS ONE. Ezekiel 44: 20“ ‘They must not shave their heads or let their hair grow long, but they are to keep the hair of their heads trimmed. 21No priest is to drink wine when he enters the inner court. 22They must not marry widows or divorced women; they may marry only virgins of Israelite descent or widows of priests. 23They are to teach my people the difference between the holy and the common and show them how to distinguish between the unclean and the clean. Ephesians 2:14 For he himself is our peace, who has made the two groups one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility,
בסד תיתקוננו לקבל את מלך מלכי המלכים הקדוש ברוך הוא ואת כול הצבא שלו הוא בא לתקן את עולמו במלכות שדי אלוהים כועס מאוד מאוד על כול האנושות אמר אלוהים הנא בא מלאך הברית אשר אתם חפצים בוא פן אבוא והיכיתי את הארץ חרם אותיות חרם חורבן רעב מוות אפוקליפסה ממש ממש אחשב מלחמת גוג הוא מגוג התחילה רעידות אדמה קשות מאוד מאוד זלעפות ותימרות עשן נהרות של דם עד גווע ברך היונה לא זבח ולא מצוה תעשו תשובת אמת אחשב מהר מהר ניגמר הזמן כב בסיון התשפ ברוך דיין האמת אמן ואמן האמת מיתגלה כול רגע ורגע הינה בא יום בוער כתנור לישרוף את כול הרשעים הגוים והמזויפים מסכות פורים כול השנה אלוהים לא קונה מסכות חרטות תישרפו באש הגאנום אמן ואמן תעשו תשובת אמת אחשב מהר מהר ניגמר הזמן אלוהים כועס מאוד מאוד על כול האנושות משייח ואליה הנביא מיתגליים ממש בקרוב ירושליים השלמה בקרוב כב בסיון התשפ ברוך דיין האמת אמן ואמן אותיות אמת אדוני מלך תמיד ומהסוף תורת משה אמת
Whether anyone sees it or understands it or not: HaShem AdOnai Yahu-ah EL ELyOn is raising up a special remnant people to sing His praises in preparation for the manifestation of *THE MESSIAH, - the long awaited One* in glory and power ! This remnant is so talented and anointed ! We pray we pray we pray *for the restoration and peace of Yahrushalem and all of the elect of YaHisrael/Y'israel !* For Yahcov is soon to be manifest as the truly spiritual YaHisrael. Yahshuah-Yeshuah ha MOSHE-yahch is very near to be made known soon. ... very SOON in our day and time. hah lah lu-Yah ! *Yahu-ah-Yah Ovah-Yah ahvah !*
Where all the womens for this weeding? I don't see any family unity when only man are unite. They don't even show the face of the bride. Is it kabbalistic weeding?
They're in another room having their own party. Men and women are separated due to reasons of modesty. The girls are having just as much fun, believe me.
Sweet Jesus....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! no women as guests...? this looks totally unhealthy....mentally speaking....maybe I am wrong... since I am an ignoramus.....but not THIs ignoramus....thank God....!!!!! and how many poor chinchillas have been killed all for the sake of those silly hats.... I must admit...they sing good...
Ernesto Onofre Yes you are very wrong. You know NOTHING about the tradition you are mocking. It's a LOT older than you. Ignore the weird clothes. These people are focused on something INTERIOR for thousands of years, so they have unique insights. They are also much more alive than secular Western people. btw, I''m ex-catholic. If I can develop this insight by observation and study of their scriptures and writings, so can you...or do you lack the humility, courage, and commitment?
Chinchillas aren't killed to make the streimels. In the old days it would be fox tails, but they don't make them like that anymore. The women are having their own celebration that's just as fun and boisterous as the men's, they just have it in a different room. Sometimes, if there's space, there will be a partition between the men and women because for reasons of modesty, they are separated. That doesn't mean they aren't having a blast. :)