Hey You! This month is all about "Revolutionary Boundaries". Join us as we dig in deep about both the cost and rewards of becoming a woman who has clear boundaries for herself and those around her.
Less than 5 minutes ago I was in bed having a pitty party. atm I prayed to God to release this depressed anxious feeling…He did. I proceeded to ask Him to reinforce His word thru an online sermon and he brought me here 💕💕 I cant ! He is too good
“A lack of boundaries may keep you in position, but it also keeps you from growth.” ✨ This was everything I needed at this moment. 💜 There is a knowing that’s coming to me 🙌🏾
I named my daughter Vashti and she sent this message today because of the situation I am in today! God bless her and you Sarah Jakes Roberts for this message!
“Just because you have a crown doesn’t mean that it’s a crown of honor.. this world is giving out all kinds of crowns but is Heaven honoring all these crowns that earth is giving out?”
I believe that this message is more than a blessing for me. Setting boundaries is absolutely important for us cause it will help us grow and become who we supposed to be.
Hey you watching this ! You’ve GOT THIS GIRL !!! I know it can be hard sometimes to keep pushing !… to keep going but dang it sis your GOING ! And your doing a dang good job in your going ! I pray that we can be friends in this moment I’m that girl who feels she has none… and it can be hard & heartbreaking but girl it’s time you put yourself out there and take a chance!!! EVOLVE GIRL ! GET YOUR HOPES UP 🗣& PRAY ! With that being said cheers to NEW FRIENDS 🥂🥳🙌🏽🥰💕💕💕💕💕💕🔥🥳
turning 19 in a week! finding my spirituality. finding out who i am, my purpose. evolving into this amazing woman i am! loving & getting to know myself before giving ME away! i am saying this to say THIS MESSAGE WAS FOR ME! i love this woman 🥺
I’m 23 Years Old. A New Mom, In A New City, I’m Am Out Of My Element & My Comfort zone But God Has Been Pushing Me To Become, He’s Triggering Me Into Healing, & He Brought Me Here To This Video Because THIS IS ME! I Have Been The Queen Of Many Things But God Is Calling Me To Be The Queen Of Boundaries & Forgiveness & Grace & It’s So Hard At 23, To Be Hurting & Healing All At The Same Time But THIS IS ME ! & I WILL SET BOUNDARIES SO I CAN RAISE MY SON & Continue Onto The Woman God Is Calling Me To Be. ! Thank You SJR ! I Love You
"Love without boundaries can create so much heartbreak and trauma" "If you are going to be made in the image of God you are going to have boundaries too" A WORD!!!!!
“Love without boundaries can create so much heartbreak and trauma. Love without boundaries will have you in relationship with someone who speaks negatively towards you because that love didn’t have boundaries.” 💞✨💖
Yep. Am learning to love myself enough with or without my husband. I love him but we didn't have boundaries and it's caused arguments and I want peace ☮️🕊️ I love my husband and I want us to work
I love to come to the comments section and read the empowering testimonies. I'm in a 17 year relationship and I've been married for 15 years, we have a beautiful family and my husband adores me, but recently I got off track and was seeking the attention of another man, because he said everything I wanted to hear and made me feel like I wanted to feel, I have now cut ties with that person, and learning to be grateful for the beautiful life and family God has made for me. Thank you God, you are my savior. Thank you God for guiding me and bringing me to such wonderful message. I love you God, amen 🙏 🙌 I give you all the glory and praise.
I AM becoming, and I can not wait to become the woman that God wants me to be. I am a woman of boundaries, respect, and intergrity. My past does not define me. My heartbreaks does not define. My rejects does not define me. & My pain does not define me. I am worthy, I am loved, and I am enough! 💕
It is NEVER about the other person. It is ALWAYS about self checking, self value, and remembering who's you are. Refuse to lower yourself to correcting another person over a liar.
“It’s not about how much you give, it’s about how much you keep” I needed to hear this. Sometimes we get so caught up doing things for other people and doing for others that we don’t keep much for ourselves and we starve the woman down on the inside of us that God needs us to feed. 🙌🏽 Thank you Jesus for this word. Pastor Sarah touched on so many things that I had been feeling but couldn’t quite put into words until now. ❤️
I was in bed halfway sleep and sick with a sick newborn baby. This word made me sit up in my bed. God bless you Sarah! Every woman needs this word. Thank you!
Im crying so much right now after listening to this. I needed this word and im so scared of the decisions that i have to make. Pray for me please for strength 🙏🏼
I’ve always been told I was attractive but my past relationships made me very insecure when it comes to other women, so I could never understand how I could be so beautiful and have so many good values about myself but was still cheated on by these men. It made me feel low in esteem. Then I start comparing myself to other women who they were cheating on. However, I’m still learning that these guys that I’ve been in a relationship with have self esteem issues themselves and they projected their insecurities onto me. I made them feel whole and they left me empty. I’m also learning and trying to heal from the threat and insecurities I have when it comes to other women because these men decided to cheat on me with them. They’re just as much a victim as I am. If I had created strong boundaries I would have NEVER allowed the attacks on my self-worth and esteem. Also my childhood trauma of sexual abuse played a major role in my self-esteem and the lack of protection that I had during the abuse. So boundaries have always been like a foreign language for me. God been working on me and these things for the past 2-3 years and I see him working. Give yourself grace when learning is my advice!
I’m sorry y’all had to go through that 🥺 what help me with my self esteem Is not listen or worry what the world say you should look like or what man say you should look , focus on what god say about you and it’s challenging in the beginning but declare and speak affirmations over your life look in the mirror talk to yourself and embrace every little insecurity that you have . mentally chop down those lies that planted seeds in your head could have been a comment a family member could have said when you were little that stuck with you or your ex didn’t make you feel good enough . Chop it down with the truth you’re worthy you’re good enough you’re a masterpiece
I wish I could give this video a million thumbs up. It’s been saved in my “watch later” playlist and I’m grateful that The Most High allowed me to watch when He did. Boundaries are so essential to healing and self growth. I receive this message and the prayer. God bless you and all the women who see this video.
Im definitely in need of boundaries, I no longer can allow myself to settle for less....I feel encouraged and empowered to set all boundaries that are needed for me to become and grow
I’m only 19 I’ve been hurt not only in my childhood, a story that I feel like I could help other women who are also rape/sexual assault survivors. Although Im transitioning into adulthood, in college I’ve become lost like many others. I’ve learned from this message that the previous growth I instilled in myself was not the growth I needed because I needed to create boundaries. I’m gonna rewatch to catch the good stuff I may have missed but thank youu I really needed this.
I definitely need to set boundaries on getting my rest, eating and being healthy, my thoughts, etc, it needs to change, lord I pray that you continue to work on me so that I can be the person you destined me to be.
This is where I am in life too queen. At 33 I’m still trying to figure my like out. Boundaries is a must and I love what you’re doing. I ask God the same thing for my life… just to work on me to become who he would have me be🙏🏾God bless you and your journey queen on becoming the best version of whom you’re meant to be❤️
That intro !!! About being the other woman! Is a confirmation on a book that’s been sitting on my heart since 2017 that God reminded me to complete this year ! I was too ashamed to write about it.
Wow that’s my same story. I saw your comment and you too inspired me to move forward in what God wanted me to release in 2017 and I procrastinated all this time because of shame. I had to realize that what God was asking of me wasn’t all about me! God brought me through those trials so I can help someone else to get through as well by sharing and completing this book. I encourage you. Write the book 🙏🏽
About 2 years ago I walked away from a toxic relationship from a person people respect in society. I knew personally I would never break boundaries I created and when this person threatened to break it over and over I walked away from everything that looked like “success and elevation” willing to heal and start all over again. It was indeed a Vashti moment. I later realized I was dealing with a covert narcissist and through much studying, therapy and allowing Jesus into the rooms of my life to heal, I am in a much better place and now married to my best friend in a very healthy relationship. Ladies, you are worth so much and we are on the road to becoming. Love you all and praying the best for everyone reading this.🤍
@@lotusvibration I’m so sorry you’re going through this! No one deserves such harsh treatment, manipulation, gaslighting and making you feel like a shadow of yourself! Please pray, see a therapist that is specialized in NPD and do what’s best for your mental health! Gods best for you does not involve abuse!
I am a woman in recovery and I am on a bus on my way to work sobbing because this ministry has touched my heart in such a profound way. Women in recovery many many times do not feel they gave any value we most times do not have good solid boundaries that protect us and we allow others to destroy the women God made us to be. I thank you I needed this today especially. God bless!!
You’re welcome 😇 if you love Sarah you should watch Brenè Brown and Mel Robbins as well. These women are all phenomenal. I struggle with mental illness and these 3 ladies are my go to . I do my light work on my end , but the fire 🔥 they give . Wheeeeeew They set it off .
AMEN! I’m only 17 yrs old, but I want start to begin to become the other woman in me. I’m enlightened to accept myself and other women for who we are🙌🏿 I hear you 🥺
Amen! I’m 17, starting college, in a relationship… I’m scared of the future most of the time. My crown is in fear and has been for years..I’m gonna change that today. Pls pray for me🙏❤️
God did not give you a spirit of fear but of POWER AND OF LOVE AND OF A SOUND MIND. YOU GOT THIS AND YOU ARE GOING TO BE GREAT. HES GONNA BE THERE THE WHOLE WAY THROUGH. GOD BLESS YOU. 🎉 CONGRATULATIONS ❤❤
Dear Cece, I pray that God wraps you with and grant you insight into His assuring and reassuring love, to enable you to trust Him totally, even when the future doesn't seem clear in your eyes. He will lead you into the place that He has prepared for you.
I use to have a potty party because I felt that I needed friends all the time to be happy , I even got angry with God for removing people and isolating me . I now know he wanted me to love myself and to know I’m in control of my happiness ❤ love this sermon
I was also like that and I was not even aware and God removed every person I was relaying on in my life fast forward to 2022 it was the best decision he made for me and I'm greatfull ❤️
I don't and have not 🚫 involved my self with anyone that's in a relationship engaged not married unless it business. If I was truly on him we would have had sex ...note I'm not a whore like you sleeping with everything that has a pulse. Relationship/ friendship takes time to build it not an over night process.. you do greet meet and sleep with the person.( That nasty like you if you do that) . A women must know here value and worth what she want in a before she begins involve herself she should know how once in a man and a desires that she should give to God 🙏 a woman should not just settle for any man and you shouldn't have to run behind no man or anyone's boyfriend husband or or lover. You have to be desperate.
Hey you, I am so greatful to God for your life and that of those young women you impact. God is so good. having you Say what you said during the sermon I felt so blessed.
AMEN!! ❤ Thank you, Father God. I have to thank you, Sarah. I came across your "Girl, Get up" video about 2 months ago, and it completely transformed my way thinking, or rather reinforced what I wanted to do and change in life and the way I needed to be done or said. Thank you GOD for always putting signs in front of me to let me know I am in the right path. I am nervous for the new, but I trust you God. Amen!
Amen!! “ lack of boundaries may keep you in position, but it also keeps you from growth.” Trust in HIM always, God respects our boundaries. Amen Lord knows I needed to hear this. 👏🏽
Yes! I have to create boundaries so that I can see God! I’m willing to lose my seat at the table so that I can be one the God fearing woman I’m being called to be. Amen! I’m living in this moment right now… 🙏🏾
Focusing so much on yourself and improving your life in such a way that you don't compete with another woman but you embrace her and pray & hope that she is happy. Each and every one of us deserve to be happy. I am becoming that woman. Who uplifts others. I am becoming that woman who pours into other women and gets her strength from the Lord.
"A lack of boundaries may keep you in position, but it also keeps you from growth." That line alone speaks volumes. I needed to hear this more than I knew. As a woman that gives and leaves no room for herself, this message hit so close to home. Thank you, God that I am on the road to becoming. I am thankful for this message because I am in a season where I need to create boundaries and in order to stand by those boundaries, I need to lay down the crown of the woman that I currently am to become the woman that God wants me to be. Amen! This message was everything and then some.
I prayed a couple of days ago to God asking him to help me about a situation I’m in with a guy I think I like and then I stumbled to this😭😭😭😭 God is faithful. This is EVERYTHING i needed 😭😭😭😭
We have a lot of work to do this year,Pheew!! Boundaries! Boundaries! and more Boundaries!! God make me the Queen of Revolution, where I can put on the type of Crown that only the Heavens can honor.😭🙏🏾👑 Amen.
Thank you for being you! I am 8 months pregnant, a single mom and am recovering after being hit by a car while crossing the street. I've been battling between a dark and light place. This made me feel reconnected with my faith and I shed so many tears but it felt relieving instead of sad this time. As I bowed my head and closed my eyes to listen to the prayer an image of a sunflower popped in my head. Thank you for these videos you heled push me into a better space.
This was a different spin on Queen Vashti that I didn't know. However, this was exactly what I needed. I pray your new therapists keeps getting in your business because it is making me walk through mine. Love ya sis!!!!
Thank you this morning, Sister Sarah, as a woman soon to be 64 years old, married for 40 years and Truly a Woman of God, I am grateful for this message. It reminds me that years ago I had to find that "other woman" inside of me too. And I did the work! Where were Women like you back in the 90's...I think they were finding themselves just like I did. Blessings to you always, Faye Healey Goggins
I feel this message is for me. I’m in a relationship with a guy who says he’s Christian. We have so many disagreements lately because every weekend he wants to go out, get plastered drunk, and go to clubs and strip clubs with his friends. I told him how I felt but he cares more about the fun. Now that I’m getting closer to God I am having more problems with him. I know I am being called out of this relationship but I am so scared. I’ve liked him since middle school and now I’m in college. I can’t just leave, but I also can’t continuously get hurt every single weekend. I need prayer 💜
Sweetie I pray that you found, or are finding, the strength to leave. I know it’s been a long relationship but if you think about how important it is to please God, and as you draw closer to Him, pleasing people becomes less important. Praying for you.
The LORD will strengthen you and also help you to forgive yourself. We all have strengths and weaknesses but our weaknesses offer us the greatest opportunities for the LORD to use us and to show Himself the mightiest in our lives. Those weaknesses as we humbly surrender them & ourselves to His Protective Custody are like colorful accommodation metals on a soldiers uniform displaying the tests He's brought you through. They're honorable and not to shame you but actually to promote you for greatest in Him. He absolutely adores you don't give up you're a warrior in JESUS *
AMEN AMEN AMEN...I'm going through a spiritual breakthrough and becoming the best version of myself that I`ve longed for in so long in different aspects of my life that I needed growth with and this was the the exact message and confirmation I needed to hear that I`m headed in the right direction...I'm not fully where I want to be but I'm happy where I've made progress where I longed to progress....Love you Sarah
Boundaries then becoming. I need boundaries in all areas of my life Everywhere! Thoughts, taking care of body as far as going to bed, my self talk and self care, my business, with my kiddos, with my friends.
YESS LORD DIS WAS 4 ME I THANK U LORD CONTINUE HAVIN UR MIGHTY WAY N MY LIFE LORD I THANK U 4 ALL U HAV DONE & STILL DOIN N MY LIFE N JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN
I'm grateful to have heard, shared, and received this message. God is truly speaking through you. He knows exactly what we are in need of as the mighty women we are, wounded, tired, in transition and all. So thank you
She’s speaking what I’m going through now exactly everything about her past relationships mind you I’m 21 🥺😭😭I’m just crying in a place of peace and healing
This was everything I needed to hear… I just was broken up with for me enforcing my boundaries. He didn’t like the push back. I was told I was insecure because I didn’t like the actions of some female “friends”. I also wasn’t getting equal effort or the love and care I deserved… he left… I’ve been struggling for weeks to cope. But by God. I honored myself, I respected myself enough to stand up for what I felt was what I deserved. Glory to God, I asked for answers and this message was sent to me.
That’s me!! I needed this at this moment and had my 16 y/o daughter listening as well. Thank you I’m hurting and I’m working on healing. All my relationships
Pastor Sarah… I never understood Queen Vashti quite like you shared with me tonight… thank you for sharing your message about boundaries! I am Minister DaNita, I am learning to deal with my boundaries…Amen❤️🩹🙏🏾❤️
" if there’s A women worried about college tell her help is on the way " me watching this was divine direction as am dealing with all the things said in this sermon. Thank you for sharing 💜
Amen…..I’m in a new city and feel totally lost with no boundaries. Depression has sunk and I sit on Fb all day looking at every one else live their lives. My day goes so fast and I’m getting nothing accomplished. I’m not living my purpose and I need to be. I need boundaries and I needed this message. Please pray for me!
I'm praying for you. Ask God for the strength to take baby steps, and as you step, be specific about what you want Him to do in your life. Say with specificity, God, remove xyz, increase xyz, support me as I xyz, and so on. Praying for and with you!💖
Girl you can do it 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. God has placed so much inside of you. Your past doesn’t define you. Your current situation does not define you! God is waiting on him to meet you !!! I will be praying with you !!!! Claiming the victory for you in Jesus name !
I'm going through the same. This just came in just when I'm asking my self why am I still hurting though I was the victim...then someone posted , "even if it was toxic ,what no one tells you is that you will still grief it"
And sometimes God sees that YOU are ready to change and that man may not be, so He'll give him another woman that may was where you were with him YEARS ago, and get you out of there to prune you for your kingdom spouse! I just went thru a divorce last year and watching this, I realize that my ex husband is still in 2007 when we met, and I was ready for much more! God had to remove me, by way of him leaving, to free my hands for Greater!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
That's me sis... today in the morning a spirit of suicide attacked and even at church... I am in a process of changing my life from being broken to a queen and the self betrayal is on another level... this right here just freed me because truly boundaries are what I lack at.... Amen sister may God continue to keep you and keep helping us through you in Jesus's name.
“Lay down the crown others have given you and pick up the crown God wants you to have” that was a word. This message was so good and I needed to hear this. Ill make a in effort to set boundaries in my thoughts. Thank you !
Amen, Amen, Amen. I'm expecting greatness in 2022 but I know I must step into the NEW. This word hit me at the core. I just love your transparency Sarah, it's that thing that helps set women free. I'm grateful to have came across this word. We serve an intentional God and he knows just what we need. Thank you Lord for ordering my steps, healing me from the inside out and may your will be done in my life and not my own. In Jesus name, Amen.
Amen 🙏🏾 this video hits so many points ❤. I was so stressed out for no reason and confused before my sister sent me this video and now I feel refreshed and at ease🙌🏾
Thats Me! This literally speaks to my situation. I have a hard time setting boundaries in my relationships. This message encouraged me to learn how to maneuver my relationships from now on. With love, but also with boundaries so that I can hear God and continue to grow in my purpose.
