I consider myself highly religious. THOSE PEOPLE ARE A CULT!! Don't try to bring in God every time you want to get your way. When people do that, they don't believe in God, they believe in the benefits thay believing in God has, but the not the responsibilities that come with it.
"This isn't evidence of harassment it's just a domestic dispute" said every cop before the wife/gf ends up dead or in the hospital. 2A exists for a reason. Get armed, get trained. God created men, Colt made them equal. - Samuel Colt
“Not enough evidence of harassment” Ex bf literally gave her food he knew she was allergic to, showed up at her door unannounced after they broke up, not leaving her alone when she’s asking to be left alone, and overall, just being a creep but no, this clearly isn’t “harassment” in their eyes.
OP is free to feel hurt, but when comments are telling her WTF she’s still doing by being in this abusive relationship is wild to me that she found that offensive. She was fed cake with an allergen, she was gaslit by the ex, and the father saying she was in the wrong? WTF. There was nothing redeemable about the ex.
As a preacher’s kid myself that first story had me fuming. I would never ever do that to a guy I’m dating, let alone date a guy like OP’s ex. Ew!! Like who tf?!! I’m a Christian, idk what that is.
Story 1: He gave OP food that he knew she was allergic to. After your told he did it on purpose, you should have been out the door. When he said he didn't know you were in the hospital, it was lie. You shouldn't have to explain anything. Just leave. Tell his father in front of hus parishioners what his son wanted from you and what he did to you. Mention to bf about going to police and then DO IT.
Thou Shall Not Commit Murder, Thou Shall Not Commit Adultery, Thou Shall Not Bare False Witness, Thou Shall Not Steal and Thou Shall Not Convent Thy Neighbors Wife.
Story 2..Ngl I would be like "Ohhh Nice anouncment..Sis pays for this food and Place..Have extras it's all on her On this BIG DAY" Bruh not your time...Go get your own timing.
Story 2: Can't wait till the sister f's up and gets divorced, moves back in with her parents, and dumps the baby on them. Only then will they realize the truth about the selfish sea unit they raised.
The funny thing is that God, especially in the Old Testament, was a pitiless and merciless killer who didn’t hesitate to kill anybody who strayed from his path. So the main version of God isn’t any saint either.
Jesus didn't come to break the law, but to complete it. (Meaning Christians don't have to follow the old testament essentially) But yes, God did salt pillar a few people once or twice.
@@brianaschmidt910 technically🤓 Jesus was a criminal and a heretic in the eyes of the law. But I’m not gonna get further into that I’m just being goofy
Nooo, OP should announce her own "pregnancy" at the gender reveal and her her subsequent "loss" at the baby shower. Sister and parents cannot complain without showing their double standards and Sis gets a well deserved taste of her own medicine.
Ooh, shout out to Charlotte Dobre, I like her videos too. For story 1, yeah, I agree that moving will be the best option, cause the level of crazy and entitlement from this family, I'd run too, and the audacity to use religion as the reason for it (which, by the way, behavior like this is condemned in the Bible). The fact that this creep still talks about having a threesome and will not respect your boundaries, I get very disturbing vibes from not just him, but this so-called church as well. OP, my advice is simple: run for the hills! Change your number, change your address, put a lot of distance, cause I can assure you the crazy will never go away if you remained where you are.
Ladies, stop deciding that a guy s datable just based on their looks and not caring who he is inside It will save you from stuff like this Same advice to men, since crazies, false and narcissists exist in both genders
Story 1, I had a hard time understanding at first minute, it's quite funny for a clergyman devoid of god in their heart. Story 2, you can't argue with golden child and people that enable them, just record everything just in case
@@IsabellaBaratti 😂 My bad. Upon further research, I remembered that was the end to "my boyfriend lied about getting a vasectomy, got me pregnant, and wants me to keep it" or whatever it's called. I got them confused because both boyfriends have extremely religious parents. Check that one out if you haven't, it has a crazy ending 😂
He knew she was allergic and gave her the food anyway. At best, this is bodily harm. At worst, it's ATTEMPTED M--DER! Forget breaking up: OP should've gone full sc--ched earth and pressed charges.
Not me thinking this is Utah with the fundamentalists. A friend of mine who lives out there and almost went through the same thing but she found a wonderful man recently.
I was thinking small Southern congregation. Some of those churches can be incredibly cultish and new members are basically born or marry in for the most part so the church dating pool is super shallow.
Story 2: “Being “selfish”, at your wedding, for not letting your sister share her pregnancy announcement”, “her moment,” “apologize,” you should get you family tested.
My grandmothers church would have torn down the hospital looking for you after the incident Then the church mothers would have cooked coconut free food for you in the following weeks And the pastor would have had a serious sit down with the so called son
story 1 did he know that OPs allergic to that food. If he didnt know, he is the AH. If he knew (even accidentally gave her) but acted like it was a small problem, he is still the AH. He didnt care enough about OP bc allergy might cause big troubles. Its clear that he was trying to manipulate you
story 2 definitely Ops parents and sister are the AH. Who tf try to draw everyone's attention on you when its not even your day? Cut ties with all of them OP, toxic people
How come some people can sue or press charges even for made up things, but story 1's OP or the one who had a stalker finding her new places, trying to trick, breaking in, bf or not, can't get help for a very clear danger to their health and mental well being?
I also want to say I think people need to start reading books that help them understand when somebody is a red flag or not maybe that's just me but I think people need to do better on who they did and not just go with oh this person is nice to me yeah I totally need to just give myself over to them completely just because they happen to be a good nice person yeah that needs to stop already
I'm curious. That food he started leaving for her was it meant to make her feel sick as an 'Act of God' for not wanting his creepy ass or was it normal because he was worried she'd have it tested and wanted to launch 'OP is crazy and paranoid' campaign? Its a bit cruel, but leaving the nicer presenting stuff at his parent's doors when he's not there, instead of throwing it out. Would anything happen? Keep documented proof that it didn't came from her or was tampered with at any point if course. Excuse if caught? She didn't want it go to waste. Especially if its full of allergens and not stuff that caused her stomach or heart problems. Or better just give it away if parents find packages from their son unopened on her porch or something
I’m always confused about how people don’t realize that they are eating something they are allergic too. In A lot of these stories, especially this one, the food items are super obvious.
Alot of times allergic reactions can be caused by cross contamination. So we wouldn't what we ate until after the fact. I always have to be super extra careful when I go to certain restaurants and fast food places.
he didn't even say bye to her, she said he used to bully her as well. the people who told her she was being naive where being honest and it was necessary and not bullying or being mean.
