She cheated. The murder happened 10yrs ago, but she didn’t not divorced 8yrs ago. She took zero responsibility for it, and minimized the murder, which diminishes the man’s life. This woman is a Never do anything wrong, it’s all YOUR fault, and then seeks revenge.. she’s too dangerous in many ways.
Yeah, she was lying. The stumbling thru the story was the first giveaway. Her whole situation is a mess and at 54, no man worth anything is gonna step into this
@@GrantAMoody I agree. If there was ever a follow up you know she’d lie again saying “Oh yeah, a bunch of Men hit me up”, Or she’d start talking a bunch of crap about how “Men suck, Men are cowards and intimidated because she’s too successful or whatever.. the usual racket” 🤦♀️
Even though I find it odd she was so eager to share that murder story. I'm glad she did and I hope she continues to share this story with every man, woman, dog, pet, rock, living and non living thing she comes across so everyone knows upfront not to deal with her
She was still married when he killed their friend, due to the dates she provides. She still speaks to her ex and doesn't see anything wrong with it. She moved from a city, to a new town. No one would date her in her old town. Now no one will date her in her new town. She's missing marbles. Lots of them.
It's disgusting how non chalant she is over the fact that a man lost his life due to her trifling behavior. It's not a laughing matter. She loves the drama and attention. She behaves as though she's enamored by the fact her ex husband still wants her and killed a man for her Men please avoid this woman at all costs!! She's not even worth a booty Call
Not a single ounce of accountability 🙁. Even after this tragedy it’s still about her and that ex husband . The loss of that man’s life is a by the way ☹️.
@SiArra Williams I know right! Just old and foolish! I'm so grateful that I was blessed with a bit of common sense and wisdom. Everybody won't get wisdom, no matter how old they get. She's a prime example. 54 and foolish.
She thinks it’s because she had the magic V jay-jay, the one to drive a man to insanity. She’s dysfunctional dry bragging and thinks this is going to signal to men that the pum-pum is powerful, in reality she has a dangerous, unstable ex she’s still talking to, who has unalived a man for dealing with her. She needs to devote herself to mental health help and stop putting men in danger!
“Erbody already know” ma’am…we didn’t know you or about this story before you appeared here. The way she casually talked about her ex-husband murdering someone she was dating is wild.
If someone died because of a situation… and my children are all grown. I’m not FOOLING with them! I’m not having NO conversation/ YOUR KIDS ARE GROWN!! He can contact the kids directly.This woman speaks like a child, and that might be due to culture/upbringing… if she’s trying to attract a grown grown man late 40s 50s well polished, she needs to work on conversation and delivery. From her delivery she comes off like she be entertaining this ex.
If my ex murder someone I was dating, he could never ever speak to me again. I don’t care how many kids we have together. Girl please, that man lost his life for what?? Probably was using him to make her ex jealous
I think she withheld the TRUE story! I think she messed around with his friend, being sneaky and the man acted out and murdered his ass behind her! He’s obviously wrong ofcourse but her ass played a major part in what went down! She got some weird ass energy!
She cheated I’m assuming and he killed the “friend” in self defense . I assume that would be the reason he’s out already and was able to remarry . I wonder if the new wife is aware of all of this .
So due to this story you had to move from your city and start over, you come on the show replaying the entire story all over for thousands of people to see and hear and hope your chances of landing a man will increase?
@@memyselfi1828 looolol she didnt do me any favors , with ll due respect she isnt my type. i am sure someone who loves living dangerously will still contact her lol
@@toricollins6516 I have learned in life there are logical thinkers, emotional thinkers and analytical thinkers. So what makes sense to you and i will never make sense to an emotional thinker, cuz the first thing you will hear them say is i feel like........
Nope. This woman is a huge risk. She's still entertaining her ex. We didn't even need to hear the murder story but she was quick to tell it. I think she get's an ego boost off of it.
The fact that she "still has love for him" is proof that she knew this man was capable of murder. She thinks it's cute that he stalks her. She likes it. No man in his right mind would even converse with her. She keeps saying he is in another state as if buses, planes, trains and automobiles have ceased to exist. Immature and dangerous.
Yup! And her ex husband knows where she is obviously. I would have skipped town like she did, but kept it a secret where I was! I would not want that man knowing where I was! SMH I wouldn’t be putting any other man’s life in jeopardy. SMH she got a big problem.
She’s 50 years old and she talks like she been to prison yourself. What man in they right mind would risk they life to be involved with her…🤦🏾♂️She should just apply to be on Love after Lockup…
Men…..come on…..it’s 2022 going into 2023 with all of the information just on RU-vid alone if you get evolved with this woman or any woman like this you deserve everything you get!!!! Her story, her mannerisms her attitude her plausible deniability is the hugest red flag 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩she is 100% into the drama surrounding her life!!!!!!!
She dated her ex husband’s friend and she knows she violated. I believe he caught her cheating and in a heat of passion he took the man’s life. This was probably in their bed at the time. She tried to gloss over cheating on her husband.
@@JENNt519 mad Kendra didn’t press her. She left town because she foul for messing around with the ex husband’s friend. Plus it sounds like that manslaughter charge he only got a few years. He shouldn’t have killed the dude by any means. But this lady cap.
@@mikelynk4659 I belive the husband got manslaughter due to a crime of passion like catching her messing with his friend. This is why he's out and not still in jail.
They all knew each other and grew up together and had known each other for years. Her ex-husband is now remarried, but still tied to her by their children in common. She needs to heal and keep that story to herself. No man in his right mind will touch her with a murderous ex.
She likes the attention from her ex. Manslaughter and she acts like it was no biggie and even uses the word "allegedly!" He was convicted ma'am! He killed a whole man.
Ya'll book how she tried to keep herself out of the murder story until Kendra pressed her.. To this day she hasn't taken accountability for her involvement in the slaying of that man. You just cannot make this up!
I wouldn’t say she’s has no remorse, I believe she’s healed past it. My ex boyfriend died in 2016 and for the longest it was hard to talk about him without crying now I can speak about him without shedding tears. She seems to have some kind of kinda Stockholm syndrome goin on cause she keeps in touch with him…🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Dysfunction in the black community is real….. Idc how far the state is that the ex is in… He can travel and she seems like she’s the type to lead him right to her.
Fella, social media is he best thing that ever happened for us. Just when you think there were a few bad apples out here, social media let us know it's far worse than we think !
She said she was divorced in 2014 which means she was cheating on her husband because she said this happened 10 years ago that's 2012 from today...... when she was asked were they divorced already she answered yes which was a lie.... her ex-husband killed the other guy because the friend was sleeping with a married woman... the ex-husband's wife which is her smh
Bingo....and the reason why the ex-husband was only charged with manslaughter is because it was likely a crime of passion which is a mitigating factor to reduce a murder charge to manslaughter
@@deepsista36 They’re kids are all adults nobody is under the age of 21 (I’m being generous). There’s really no need for them to be in regular contact like that…
You can’t be a good person and cheat on your husband with his best friend. Let’s say she didn’t cheat, she still dated her husband’s best friend. That’s trifling. They were not even divorced before she started seeing him.
She’s never gonna find any man of quality to bring to the table what she expect due to the traumatic baggage that comes with her unfortunately. Such a sad situation. Prayers for strength and healing to her cause she need it.
What I find fascinating is the ex husband is already REMARRIED after a prison term and she's still trying to heal from what he did. Goes to show that there's always a woman out there willing to pick up a piece of trash man from off the street and bring him into her home and bed. Men have no incentive to get it together so long as these women exist.
You missed the entire point. She was cheating, got caught. The judge ruled it was a crime of passion, so it's not murder its manslaughter. It probably occurred at the ex husband's home. Stop making excuses..this bitch put her husband in a twist, he got out of it and moved on her fat ass is seeking sympathy from other desperate bitches like you. This proves that a convict has more value than her...this bitch is homeless at 50 looking for a man. Welcome to your future.
@@dragonfly4494 Even if the other side was heard, it's not far fetch from what she's saying from a general standpoint. Even men would tell you themselves that they aren't actually held accountable for a lot of things and that's why they continue to do with they do in the black community because there's always a chicken head willing to take on his BS.
She’s confusing. “U know what I’m saying?” Naw girl we don’t. But we do know that story about the ex, the friend, and being divorced isn’t adding up 👀.
I honestly believe she needs a team of therapists. She definitely needs one who will open up her eyes to realize she doesn't need to communicate with that man at ALL. She has adults, not children. He needs a therapist too so he can move the freak on. She needs to realize that forgiveness doesn't mean you have to continue dealing with a person.
@@ifyjoanna no it wasn't NC he is STILL trying to keep up with her after 10 yrs plus he's married. Were you not listening? Also prison is NOT therapy, esp for someone to REDRUMED their EXWIFE'S boyfriend. You probably need a treatment plan yourself to fix the level of delusion you have going on.
She is withholding information about this already disastrous and tragic situation. She started off calling the deceased her friend before finally admitting he was her boyfriend. She was vague about how they got involved and what led up to that man dying. So her ex got to kill a man, get out and start a whole new life. While she still talks and entertains to this dude who has shown the capacity to kill. This is dangerous fellas. She likes that attention. Her kids are grown grown and there really is no reason for them to interact. Let alone him calling to check up on her. Stay far away. Glad she put herself out here so men can stay far away. Nobody deserves to be lonely but she has learned nothing and will for sure get someone else hurt or killed.
This is one of the most off the rails, and disturbing interviews I've seen Kendra G do. I'm at a loss for words honestly 😕. Fellas run 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♂️ she's nothing but trouble and you could lose your life.
She didn’t move far enough away! She should have moved STATES away and never let him know her location. You’re on a whole show! He’s gonna watch this and it’s gonna trigger tf outta that crazy ass man! Stay safe ma’am!!!! Please 😢
People like this are dangerous! I have relatives like this and I’ve met people like this 🤣🤣🤣🤣 They are seriously more dangerous than people who are under any influence 🤣🤣🤣
If I’m not mistaken she is from my home state. And the guy who was murdered shot her ex husband after they fought and the next time they crossed paths the ex husband killed the guy at a club after a confrontation.
The question that made her tell that story is "why did you get divorced?", turns out she was already divorced when it happened which means she was just waiting to tell that story. I mean it's important to know for the man pursuing her, but idk she doesn't seem aware of how she comes off. Maybe save that story for the DMs and also keep the 1 night stand to yourself.
That part. At first she told Kendra he was just her friend. The. She finally fessed up they were fooling around. She divorced that man when he went to jail
She has some spiritual stuff going on. She’s still traumatized and needs healing from the incident. I’m curious if the husband actually is after her like she claims or if she’s just paranoid. There’s something off about her.
She didn't say why she got divorced but it sounded like it wasn't because her husband didn't care for her... To be leaving a marriage like that to end up one night standing at 54 is wilder than her story
@@danishaford2205 He still calls to check on her even though their kids are fully grown and she's happy to take his calls. If it really was toxic she would want not parts
Kendra asked what caused the divorce... She said he killed a friend then like 1 minute later says they were already divorced and then the "friend" is a boyfriend 🙄 #run
@@sagittariuslady2846 theres nothing wrong with healing but at the same time if you KNOW your issue will require a lifetime of recovery you may as well marry the therapist.
Her therapist needs to work at it some more because after 10 years, you’d think she’d hold some accountability for her role in the man’s death. She knew her husband wasn’t playing behind her.
🤦🏽♀️ How are you still talking to him? Even if he fathered your kids he's a murder and not for self defense. Something isn't right she's acting like this situation is a joke.
Her math ain’t mathing…. She said she was divorced in 2014. She didn’t start messing with the friend until after the divorce, which was murdered 10 years ago… she messed with her husband’s homeboy… she don’t want to come off as the bad guy
Textbook histrionic personality disorder. DEFINITELY attention seeking and the kind of woman that will get you kilt and then play dumb about why it happened. She also claims to want to get away from her past, but then comes on a MAJOR international platform to try to get somebody to buy her raggedy life story 🙄🙄🙄
Omg I'm and LPC and you took the words right out of my mouth....this is a grown woman CHILD and this is why I AM TRYING TO BRING BACK KEVIN SAMUELS cuz they getting out of hand again
It seems like she isn’t over the ex. He is remarried and she is still single. Very telling! We are the same age and there’s no way that I can see myself be behaving in this manner. So sad!
This lady obviously is lying. Here is what really happened. This lady was cheating on her husband with his friend. The husband killed him, was given a temporary insanity verdict, went through therapy. When he got a piece of mind, he knew she was being a 304, found a lady that was loyal and better and married her. She is the one who cannot let go, she is the one who cannot stand seeing him happy. Everybody knew how she did him, that is why she had to move, no chance of love for in her own hometown. No chance even with her changing locations either. Too old, too sneaky, too grimmy no chance.
How do you ask, “why do you still call me”… No the question is why does he have your number and why are you answering. Bye lady, you think this shit is cool!! It’s not and could potentially get someone else murdered, go out and walk the beat looking for a date.
I’m sorry she’s delusional this man took a whole life over you, I don’t care how many kids we have I wouldn’t have had nothing to say to him because if he will take somebody’s life over you he will take yours
My thoughts! I only have 1 child & I still don’t speak to his dad (for 3 years now) & he’s never killed anyone. I realized years ago he’s toxic. Now I dread any of my son’s future celebrations. It’s either I’m there his father not or his father there & Im not. I’m good FOREVER! Celebrations will be separate because I can not.
Agree with the spiritual healing. While she may have been trying to be honest, authentic, and forthcoming, it was a bit odd to lead with something so traumatic, even if she claims she's healed. She says she moved states to get away from him and to have a fresh start, but she cannot do that if she thinks it's normal to lead with such a story. Maybe as a motivational speaker & giving testimonies and stuff, but not when meeting new people. Such information isolates her and any sane and emotionally healthy person would look at her story as a major red flag.
That level of trauma, therapy for ten years. Her PTSD has her numb inside. The guy who dates her will have to be even number 🎉than her. Recipe for TOXIC X to the highest power
Kendra I’m so sorry but you go through a lot of weird stuff these people scare me through the tv it’s some weird people coming on your show DAMN straight weirdos girl damn !!!!
11:53. You mean liable? Not reliable. She cannot complain if someone does not want to date her when she admits to still talking to her husband that killed another man who was her friend. You've got to cut ties with this crazy man... No man in his right mind will date you when you continue to have a relationship with your ex who is violent. He'd have to be crazy.
Too many holes in the story. Sounds like a woman I know he still keeps in contact and hangs out with her ex because he literally saved her life. Someone was about to kill her for something she did and he stopped it. Sonya has some blame in this but she's not taking any. Hence the 10 years of therapy
What she don’t kno if she could be next if she don’t cut ties with the ex.she clearly haven’t learned enough.if he would kill ova u he will dam near kill u to 🤦🏽♀️
