I’m a guy & it’s no way in hell I can get my 🍆 up if I had 1/3 of these problems. I love 🐱 like no other, but having my ish together is 1000% more important
I think she has genuinely has the mental capacity and reasoning of a 15 year old. Apart from making so many wrong life choices she was so proud to to list out everything from “just finished breastfeeding” to “sleeping with a baller whilst pregnant”
She needs to find all those baby mama's so them kids don't end up dating or having sex with eat other in the future. With how close they all are in age he's definitely operating in a small radius. Nobody wants to talk about it but all these slow people in the community probably are related. Think about it people.
@@LOSTGPS that's absolutely how it works. If you have failed relationship after failed relationship with different people YOU are the only thing constant in that situation.
As a single mother it didn’t take but 1 child and 1 dead beat “Baby Daddy” to realize having multiple kids with the possibility of making bad choices was a hard pass for me. Kids are a beautiful blessing but they are expensive, they deserve and require your time, and equally someone that can provide for them. She is a walking example of what Kevin Samuels spoke on. Working on herself and focusing on her kids so she does not repeat the same bad choices and not recreate possible generational curses through her kids should be key at this stage of her life. Wishing her the best of luck in figuring that out sooner rather than later because there aren’t any and/or many Captain Save A …. waiting in the rafters for her. 🤦🏾♀️
I agree. I’m a single mother. It took me ☝🏾 time to realize what I got myself into. I love my child and I am blessed to even be a mother. I do not and will not have any more children until I am married.
As a mother of 5… (before therapy) I was a mess. I made poor choices. Because I had problems that I should have been addressed. It took me realizing that I was blaming everybody for the reason I was so sheisty. Anyway I say this to say SIS LEAVE DATING ALONE. FIND YOU. GET A JOB …. Stop bringing these men around your children. Especially that you have girls. From one mother to another for your kids GET THERAPY.
Don't 4 get 2 tell her to stop getting knocked up by dudes she dosen't know and stop having all them damned kids. My tax dollars could be used more productively elsewhere.
Yea bc anybody I feel like anybody that says they are a photographer, do multiple jobs, and people who claim to have businesses, etc are all unemployed.😂
I try to be positive when the women come on but as soon as some of them start talking it's very hard for me to do that lol she has a shit load of kids no job but has this requirement for a partner smh why not take this time and energy towards yourself. A relationship with some one outside of self isn't what she need at this very moment
First 🚩 “My name is Zoe anti. Black People, please stop with these names. Second🚩”I just finished breast feeding.” Kendra: “How old is your child, I have a 2 month old, a one year old…three different Fathers.” Girl, hang up!!!!😂😂
she wants a man to pay all the bills while she doesn't work and has 5 kids...this is insane....Then says she wants a boss while her multiple baby fathers are bums. This is truly sad
man i love the hell out of my man after i watch these shits im like im glad i got mine and im out the way we are forlifers now fuck that im not goin into the dating world no more
@@EyeTapTapThruAds not never this dont work out ima goin have alot of toys ctfu fuck that i can talk to my dammmm self and my kids for that matter and alot gain knowledge focus on life and protecting them babies
By her own admission, she doesn’t get to know the men well enough but has children with them. Ladies and gentlemen….VET YOUR PARTNER before engaging in a life long commitment of parenthood
This show shows the dysfunction of the black community from men & women and what’s sad is everyone points the finger towards everyone else but themselves lol
It's one thing to be dysfunctional in your own home, it's a completely different animal to showcase your dysfunction on the internet, I could be two times more fucked up than she is, but you'll never know.
I sincerely pray that nothing inappropriate ends up happening to her children. Her situation puts her in a position of limited viable options and unfortunately she's going to continue to make bad decisions and I can only say that I pray none of the kids are harmed in a inappropriate way.🙏🏿
It's probably already happened. It's 4 baby daddies and how many more men in between? The chances none of them were into the kids instead of her are slim.
The bigger picture is everyone, especially black women knowing the statistics of the damage that single mother hood does to kids and the community and they are still deciding to bring forth kids as a single mother
Any man who will have sex with a very pregnant woman, who's carrying another man's child is extremely creepy and disturbing. I was told by a seer that these types of men are almost guaranteed to be child predators.
@@spreadmorelove5235 I can believe that. She called the man high value or a boss, some nonsense like that. What sort of 'boss' is having sex with an unattractive 5 time baby mama who is 7 months pregnant?
You’d expect a teenager to be this immature. You can’t make this up. The more she spoke, the more shocked I was. Talk about no self respect. She knowingly made her life a hot mess. What will her children think when they’re old enough to see how she was living? She is delusional. No decent man wants this woman. I’m embarrassed for her. You’d think birth control and condoms didn’t exist.
Our black community need to break that generational sex demon. Women/men celibacy is 🔑 it clears your intuition/discernment by denying the flesh. Self love is a shortage nowadays smh😢
.....bad decisions, lack of mental skills, lack of insight, inability to cope with herself by herself, emotional immaturity, lacks self awareness, constantly putting herself & children at risk, uses her body to compensate for insecurities etc
By her count she has 4 children fathers, the 12 and 11 year old have the same dad, the 7 year old has his dad, the 1 year old has his dad and the 2 month old has it’s own dad.
I was looking for this comment. How did no one in Kendra’s live chat catch that? At the 1:00 mark she says 3 baby daddies but at the 7:00 mark, she talks about four.
I'm only 45 seconds in and I know this is a train wreck. Any woman with a child/children under 3 should not be dating. Period. Focus on your kids, career and well-being. This woman clearly has no discernment when selecting a man, dating should not be her priority.
Baby is 2 months old already trying to get a man. Did you get to the point where she admitted fkn a man WHILE being pregnant by another. Let's you know how much she cares about her children. She doesn't they're just side effects of having sex to her
@ViciousDredHed facts! I almost fell off my chair when she said she was active at 7 months! I'm a single mother of one, my son is almost 3, and I've been celibate his entire life. I learned my lesson the first time. This woman is reckless with her womb.
I had to stop listening. I just read some of the comments and confirmed why it was in my best interest. Protect our peace and be wise of any gate to be open to our daily lives.
Birth control. Condoms. Actually getting to know someone. Therapy. Celibacy. I mean all of these things are a choice 😅 She has 5 kids with men who have hella children. At least 15 kids. Yikes. Ladies, LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.
Exactly! I really wish Kendra would mention condoms, celibacy and birth control more often. She recommends therapy, but let’s be honest, most of these women won’t go. Yet, even without therapy, prophylactics would solve a lot of problems for the ignorant individuals in our community.
She trifling, got all type men - raggedy men just skeeting up in there even while pregnant. Got the nerve to be looking for a man. WTH is wrong with so many of these women. She needs to be spayed and take care of her kids. Wow
What kills me is when a woman won’t see flaws until after the baby. These women love pointing the finger at the man/men. Some point you have to do what MJ said “ I’m starting with the man in the miorror”.
To Christians how do you reconcile that you’re religious and want a god fearing man but have 5 kids out of wedlock and aren’t married? Serious question.
I'll tell you many are calling themselves Christians, as if it's a name chain. We know the fruits by its tree. So many have been manipulated by family and those being at the pulpits, not knowing their itching ears are being fed with deception. As long as they have enablers, they will not correct their doings. We can't accept things as anything goes. Lies are now embrace as the truth and the truth is embraced as being lies. When we know better, we do better, even if we may trip, we will get back up and mature. Many are still children wearing adults' clothes. I hope my little two cents drop some clarity.
Serious answer, when you understand the word of God he knows that we are sinners and all have fallen short. He wants us to strive to be our best selves. He shows grace and mercy and simply wants us to seek him. He can love us without loving the sin. We still reap the consequences of our actions and she is reaping the consequences of her actions as we speak. Christians recognize that we aren't perfect but don't use that as an excuse to not work on ourselves. Most of us want to be with like minded individuals who have the same morals, values, Outlook and belief system. Being a Christian doesn't mean we are perfect. If we are flawed that doesn't mean we aren't going to recognize God/Jesus for who is to us. God is our creator and we honor and respect him. We don't always get it rt but that is where our heart is. Again, being Christian doesn't equal to being without sin or flaw.
Just because someone call themselves something, doesn’t mean it’s true. Look at all these “rappers” in the black community. It’s plenty of Christians no matter their race, who are married, raising children, whom they’ve made within the marriage. They’re law abiding, and living right. Be honest, every woman on here, stated they wanted a god fearing man, AFTER they’ve had 3,4,5,6 kids with several men! BW don’t want great god fearing, blue collar working men, until they’ve wrecked their lives. BW don’t want a healthy, healed, stable man. They want pookie and Ray Ray! Then the hypocrisy, when they become passport bros, and or married outside their race. Every woman on here, especially the ratchet ones, want 6 figures, 6ft, and 6 inches. If he’s not making 100k, he’s not good enough for them! KS was right, buy a dog.
Straight forward answer is that she’s possibly a Lukewarm Christian and does truly fear him. Yes we all make mistakes but it’s obvious that she probably wasn’t trying that hard to stay on the right track. She idolized a man and a relationship and is paying for it. She needs to focus on herself, get closer to God, and allow time to be single and stay single until God feels she ready smh. All we can do is pray for her.
So the youngest two children are 10 months apart and two different daddies? Absolutely no way you know these men well enough at all! Also she initially said 3 baby daddies then counted four. Just saying.
She said her baby daddy had a gambling problem but her alleged job is gambling and gambling in real estate. She seems like she was lying and trying to make her baby daddy seem low when she does worse than him.
I really want to see the day where women stop wasting this opportunity by giving their unrealistic wish list and actually be realistic about their expectations!!
People meet today and be in the bed before the day is done. These men didn't change... You just threw that kitty on them before you properly even learned their name 🤷🏾♀️
My mother, who would be almost 80 earth years, if she was still alive on earth, used to say...... 'these men wasn't hitting on 💩 when I was young and they still ain't hitting on 💩, now'. I can see what mom meant but I see the other side as well and that's the women, who have way more information, options and resources than my mother's generation could have imagined, continuously making 💩 choices in men and they lack severely in accountability .
😳 Something is terribly off with this woman. I’m just going to pray for her children and the quality of men she might possibly be bringing into their lives. Her decision making skills and track record are just flabbergasting. 🤯
This is what no accountability looks like. Her bd’s probably do have all those issues, but I guarantee there was red flags before that she ignored. Like c’mon.
Some of these women need to focus on being single, being self reflective and taking care of their children. To think that a man should be ok to come into this confusion isn’t fair at all.
😢😢😢chyle these women out here getting pregnant like crazy. I learned to chill out on cocking my legs open after my first. Be more selective. That’s my rant for today
So you’re a born again virgin after riding the cock carousel. You women think you’re flexing. You just sound like you were a hoe. Your body count still counts even if you take a break, sis. You’re not fooling anybody.
@Pretty Bones lol stop the cap, there's exponentially more women with problems on this show than men. You can literally parse through thumbnails to see it.
@@nisuperman number 5. She already has 4. The Kousins didn't catch that the math wasn't adding up. The oldest 2 have the same dad, the 7 year, 1 year old and 2 month old all have different dads when she explained.
I feel bad for her children. This is insane. Her youngest is 2 months?! 😵💫 ma’am seriously you don’t need to be dating at all. She needs to get to the bottom of why she gravitates towards the wrong men. Therapy is needed!
Sad, epitome of not taking accountability for poor choices she's made. Every single one of them showed these flaws after a child came into play. Focus on your kids at this point.
Referring to one another as "baby mama, baby daddy" will always take away from us valuing ourselves and the other person we choose as our kids parent.. it's nonsense, but we don't want to accept that
Future “Singles” guests, please note that the answer to the question “what do you say to a man who sees your jacked up situation and would be hesitant to get involved” is N. O. T. a response that simply addresses whether there is a chance of reconciliation between you and your baby daddies. It is asking you to take an honest assessment of your situation and explain why a man should overlook how much of a glaring red flag you are to step into a situation with you and (what most worthwhile men will regard as) your Bebe kids. This is where you need to sell whatever good qualities you possess - i.e. your kids are well-behaved and you maintain a highly structured and disciplined environment, you have all undergone therapy for your poor choices in men whom you procreate with, and them for having to suffer through your poor choices in men, you won’t interfere with him setting structure/boundaries over your children, etc. I’m not guaranteeing this will make a man choose you, but this is what the answer should address.
I have a feeling Kendra might not last too much longer. Displaying the disfunction from the women in our community 4 times a week has to be taking a toll on her
Sidenote: I don't know where Forest, Virginia is but 80k to support yourself, your own children, her and HER 5 kids is EXTREMELY tight in Hampton Roads, NOVA, or RVA!
She wants all of that? I’m afraid it’s too late for her. It is what it is. Y’all noticed how in all her failed situationships she blamed the guys but never placed blame on herself?? She’s a walking red flag 🚩
She didn't change one bit..she's looking for someone but having her option open with another guy. This girl is just straight up like to get screw around the clock.
It took 5 babies for her to realize she really needs to get to know a person before she sleeps with them? Jesus be a fence. I’m so glad I’m taking time to heal from my brokenness!
Jesus. 7 months pregnant and hooking up? I would take that info to my grave. I started out disgusted and now I feel sad for her. She has limited self worth… if any at all.
5 kids, 3 baby daddy's, never been married, had sex with a man while 7months pregnant by another man but can't think of 3 flaws... No self awareness. IJS. Sad
Why every time Kendra asks these women why they aren’t with the __ year old father, they start with “he”? Why don’t they start with “I” fucked up? Lol 😂
Its literally like a therapy session to some of these people. Just imagine meeting some of these folks and exchanging phone numbers just to hear these stories in person. Horrible decision making, zero self accountability, traumatic experiences etc… She said “You should be a psychologist “ smdh The 3 flaws list was partially self awareness that she doesn’t realize she needs.
What Kendra said around @5:00 is EXACTLY why she should not keep promoting "Im team girl" "I'm nicer to women at times than men" etc etc She can really help these women learn and grow just by continuing to be kind and honest Great job by Kendra - she looked so dissapointed @15:20 This is a caller that should've received therapy
It's crazy how a 35yr woman with 5 kids 2 mo old & 1yr have different dads &, 7, 11 & 12 and everything is the man's fault..... Zero accountability for her decisions and lack of discernment....
I agree, but I wouldn’t say it’s embarrassing or a downgrade. However at least there would be a certain level of understanding of what it means being a parent.
_I just got finished breast feeding..._ Yeah, that's not usually a line that men on the dating market want to hear. That's like a man saying _hey, I am glad I caught you today because I am getting evicted next week and I just lost my job. Where the women at?_
This was hard to watch, she needs to focus on raising, teaching and spending time with her kids!!! Stop sleeping around and this would not keep happening to you!
