HipHopEnthusiast Her priorities were absolutely correct but she could have let them know earlier. I think that's what Tamar was mad about, even if she didn't articulate it appropriately. She (Towanda) ruined the plans.
I understand both sides but I agree more with Tamar. Yes. before she booked the show she asked if it was an ok date and towanda said it was ok knowing that she had other plans for that day
Lol I remember this I was like wow it make sense and I understand why Tamar snap but what really had me laughing was when Tamar was like "I don't know need kids to understand"! "I don't need kids to understand"! lol I love that lol
Tamar was completely right in this situation. .....As a professional yu need to plan your time accordingly. When yur working with others in a group they need to know this in advance so that they can also plan accordingly. If towanda had said something earlier then they could have rescheduled that particular rehearsal so she could be home. But instead she sprung it on them. That's a waste of everyone's time. I would've cancelled my part in the performance as well. They don't realize that tamar is the reason the performance will be successful....I doubt p ppl are coming to see towanda...or trina..... come on now.
Lol I can understand what they both are saying....but at the end of the day, through the rest of this episode Towanda knew the moves and Tamar didn't. They could've just continued without her lol
I think Tamar just invented a new dance move by accident. It's called " I don't needs kids to understand Neck Roll". could be the next best thing since Michael Jackson's moon walk...LOL!
So Towanda had a very bad attitude. When she told Tamar to "take it down a bit".. Tamar was actually talking very calmly and asking questions that needed to be covered in regards to a live performance. Guess that's why she's winning and Towanda still at the house hating. That's sad huh?
Yes, Tamar did not handle this well but I'm sorry... what towanda did was UNPROFESSIONAL!! Towanda knew this stuff so she should have either not agreed to do the show OR told the girls in advance so that everything was in order by the time she left.
In this Episode, they were performing the song that they made just the three of them (trina, tamar, towanda) off their album. For the full group thing, around this time, Toni wanted to experiment and change things up artistically and wanted to things on her own rather than with her sisters which she has been doing for over a decade.
RIGHT! Toni and Tamar have the same work ethic. They put 110% into what they do to make sure that it is on point. They also have the inner ambition and drive that is needed in order to be successful. Which is probably why Toni is an icon and Tamar has the #1 album and single and nomiated for 3 grammys!
I COMPLETELY agree with Tamar...no one isn't saying stop being a good mom or miss your kid's first day of school...what she IIIISSSS saying is that, PROFESSIONALLY, you DON'T book the date if you have things that you feel are more of an obligation! I love Towanda on the show but that was a trifling and unprofessional move!
Its rare for anyone of any race to avoid argumentative behavior when in a disagreement. It's not just a black thing...everyone argues and talk over each other...it happens in all of the reality tv shows...and it happens to almost all of us in real life. No one is going to whisper to make their point.
it wasnt the fact that towanda was going to her child first day that made tamar upset what made her upset was why come and wait till the day before to annouce you were leaving if she new they had business to take care of
I'm so sick and tired of Towanda blaming how Tamar acts on her being the youngest. What the fuck does that have to do with anything? Tamar is a grown ass woman and can do what she wants and say what she wants to say however she wants to say it. Towanda is CLEARLY jealous of Tamar is doesn't take an Einstein to figure that out
The whole thing with Towanda and her child's first day of school...I'm sure she's known when that was for quite some time now, so Towanda didn't think it would be a good idea to say something about it earlier than the day before their show? I mean that, in and of itself, is very unprofessional. When you have work commitments you let people know in advance if something is going to change or be altered in your schedule. I can understand Tamar's frustration.
yo I'm so sick of these whack azz tamartianz who think its ok to act a fool and never take responsibility for there own actions. its called home training and being a lady no real man wants a bratty little girl not even Vince for long.
Calvn Brown That attitude is what's wrong with most of us humans today, self serving and self gratifying with no conscience whatsoever. I can't with that child Tamar!
+KeepingItReal66441 in one of the episodes tamar asked her sisters if the date of the show was fine with them. They all agreed even towanda said it was ok knowing that she had other plans for that date.
I don't understand all of the opposition to what Tamar said. At the end of the day, Towanda shouldn't have booked a gig if she couldn't FULLY commit; that's UNPROFESSIONAL! She should've just stayed at home with her kid because that's where her first priority was and no one would've been upset.
The thing was, Towanda knew the moves. She didn't need more practice... her sisters did. Why should she stay if she has a pressing family commitment? Maybe she goofed on the conflict... we all do that, and sure, she could have owned up to it, but as Towanda said, Tamar goes to 10 on a dime and she didn't want to deal with it until necessary. Towanda has put up with Tamar for a lot longer than we have, as have the other sisters, and they all call Tamar a baby, a brat and a big mouth. I think they know a little more about how to deal with her drama than we do.
Screw that. The business will be there. You don't get do overs with your children. I respect Towanda's stance and wish more so called mothers were like her.
I made three separate comments because the thoughts came in at 3 different times. I think that is allowed. And you are correct it is a personal choice. everyone has to decide for themselves. I didnt say that she was wrong. she's doing whats right for her but it looks like she changed her flight so that she could rehearse more and catch a later flight and all was good.But to say that Tamar was wrong is incorrect.
They don't have to have kids to understand. It IS simple. If you have something that you feel is more important, don't double book and then back out. It would be a shitty thing to do no matter what the reason.
