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Breadline Britain: The job of Mum 

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Breadline Britain: The job of Mum
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Meet Charlotte, a single parent in Leeds trying to cope as parent-support services close. Before splitting up with her daughters' father, the couple shared responsibilities, allowing both parents to work and continue education. This film finds her alone, struggling to provide a healthy diet for her children.
• This is one of six short observational documentaries from the frontline of poverty in Britain funded by the Rowntree Foundation

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@okaymea
@okaymea 5 лет назад
I feel so sorry for her. She looks exhausted, depressed and sad. I hope she's okay now
@marlboroughsounds9710
@marlboroughsounds9710 4 года назад
Absolutely agree.
@skapunkoialternativeliving6522
@skapunkoialternativeliving6522 4 года назад
I don't she made her bed now she can sleep in it like many of you fools you must learn to be responsible for your actions leave responsible you know you can afford some things don't do it is that simple live within your means..
@minniemouse8389
@minniemouse8389 3 года назад
@@skapunkoialternativeliving6522 Yeah but the dad should be responsible too.Stop blaming women for their kids father's not being around. Even if a woman does everything right,gets married etc,hef husband could still cheat and leave her penniless.
@family-peace-love
@family-peace-love 3 года назад
@@minniemouse8389 most single mums are (probably) not married though when they have children. I'd be interested to know how many that applied to compared to the break down of a marriage situation.
@Warriormum-ox5sf
@Warriormum-ox5sf 3 года назад
@@family-peace-love of only the world was black and white eh
@swizzleproxi4810
@swizzleproxi4810 8 лет назад
Least she has shown loyalty, faithfulness, kindness and determination by sticking by her 2 girls unlike the father. The young women should be given some support
@d1s2l3a4w5
@d1s2l3a4w5 8 лет назад
+Alice Exactly, women always get the harder time of it, whilst the father swans off getting more 'victims' up the duff, with his stupid lies and infidelities..
@sassysgamer2370
@sassysgamer2370 6 лет назад
For a young girl I’m very impressed with her attitude she does not come across like most of the teen mums you normally see you no them ones that are full of it and think there owed something in life and don’t do much of good job of raising there children I think with some help and support she will go fare once those kids are in school she just needs a boost
@questions6776
@questions6776 6 лет назад
WHYYOUNOTRISSON don't known if you got taught biology. But it take a women and men to get pregnant. It's a 50-50 situation so the father should also be held accountable. If men wanted reproductive right they would have gotten it because if you're a men your voice is heard. They just don't want the responsibility and prefer to walk away from their kids who didn't do anything.
@jamesgreen6376
@jamesgreen6376 6 лет назад
+POV2017 2017 no your 100 wrong just a woman
@ella-bt8hp
@ella-bt8hp 6 лет назад
Alice I agree with you she may not have had a job but decided to give her children a chance and let them be born we aren't in a position to judge anyone anyway!!
@jazzybleedo2770
@jazzybleedo2770 7 лет назад
She seems like a really sweet girl and very devoted to her daughters. She acknowledges that she made her choices and has responsibilities. Don't a lot of us make choices that we regret, or if don''t actually regret, recognize that they have made life a lot harder? She's not a worse person than anyone else, including those who work and pay taxes. Do you want a society where little children will be homeless and hungry or do you want a society that has compassion and cares for those less fortunate?
@combatduckie
@combatduckie Год назад
yes, i can understand ONE bad choice or birth-control negligence maybe, but TWICE!!??
@emmabelate7897
@emmabelate7897 6 лет назад
These comments are awful. Kick a woman whilst she's down. She's trying her best to raise two happy and healthy children, whilst the dad gets to live his own selfish life without being berated by the public!
@fionagregory8078
@fionagregory8078 3 года назад
@m. we get child benefit too.
@helenabarnett1699
@helenabarnett1699 3 года назад
Fiona Gregory Yeah but they get child tax credit even if they don’t work.., Over here if you don’t work & pay taxes you’re not gonna get the dependent child tax credit on your tax return. Plus ours is capped, theirs isn’t.. we can only claim up to 4 dependent children, if they have 11 kids they’re gonna get benefit for all 11.
@fredrickaappletree3402
@fredrickaappletree3402 3 года назад
Health care isn’t free.
@robuk3723
@robuk3723 3 года назад
You get the right to decide what you do with your body, and to live with the consequences.
@johnmarlonscott6693
@johnmarlonscott6693 3 года назад
Completely agree,some guys unfortunately are an embarrassment to the rest of us other guys
@ashleybosvik3031
@ashleybosvik3031 Год назад
I hope life has gotten better for this woman she looks like a lovely person
@kimberleynelson8259
@kimberleynelson8259 6 лет назад
I like her. She'll make it. She is a good mommy. May God Bless her with good fortune
@lolly8624
@lolly8624 3 года назад
She might not.
@anaangel5434
@anaangel5434 2 года назад
I hope she's doing well today. She's strong and kind it seems.
@valeriel3821
@valeriel3821 8 лет назад
Dear Charlotte, you are a brave, loving and kind mother. Good luck at uni!
@oliviaprincevaughan7017
@oliviaprincevaughan7017 6 лет назад
Valerie L I
@martaranson5199
@martaranson5199 5 лет назад
Valerie L She’s a good mum if I lived closer I would help her out
@iamgroot_x5288
@iamgroot_x5288 6 лет назад
My mum is a single mum to me and she is amazing , she puts my needs beyond everyone else's . Love you mum .
@ella-bt8hp
@ella-bt8hp 6 лет назад
becsisnotonfire _x if I was your mum I'd be very proud knowing I'd raised a child correctly and on my own. There's nothing wrong with single parents I think it makes the bond stronger in some ways because your mum did everything for you on her own hope you and your mum are both doing well =)
@sisteratpeace1565
@sisteratpeace1565 4 года назад
@@ella-bt8hp so sweet of you
@rainbowkitten8990
@rainbowkitten8990 3 года назад
Danielle Elizabeth This is my new account now, but thank you so so much for this comment. I have nearly finished college, and am going to university to study mental health nursing. Take care :)
@tom4412
@tom4412 3 года назад
Rebecca E well done,
@johnmarlonscott6693
@johnmarlonscott6693 3 года назад
Couldn't put it better myself 👍
@ciarajones4970
@ciarajones4970 2 года назад
What a lovely mum, the way she looks at her sleeping daughter at the end of the video made me tear up. Loving mother who has a great attitude.
@ninisworld667
@ninisworld667 8 лет назад
your doing a fab job with those little girls. I hope u manage to get a job when they are at school like you said. all the best to you x
@azenkwed
@azenkwed 7 лет назад
cut the crap. This irresponsable bitch is a burden to society. Where is the dad ? what did she do to him ?
@nicoladouglas3270
@nicoladouglas3270 7 лет назад
+Azen Kwed don't be a hypocrite kretin!
@specialneedsmum714
@specialneedsmum714 7 лет назад
Azen Kwed, how about you cut the crap. Not all single mums are bad. My ex was an abusive selfish ***. Here I am providing 24/7 medical care to his son at home. Who he wanted to die in hospital. We are not all BAD as you say.
@sherryl5356
@sherryl5356 6 лет назад
Azen Kwed yes why it all her thought where is the dad why is he not helping financilly
@sloeberdoet
@sloeberdoet 4 года назад
These girls are lucky with a mum like that. Kindness, warmth and love are more important than a lot of money.
@niaramirez1624
@niaramirez1624 8 лет назад
She's sweet and god knows it's not easy alone
@rochelleyanuzzi9729
@rochelleyanuzzi9729 6 лет назад
Doll,you sound just so exhausted and drained. I'm just watching this video now,but I really hope things have gotten better for you and your perfect little family. I'm a single mom,too. And I know what you're going through. Things do get better.
@ella-bt8hp
@ella-bt8hp 6 лет назад
Rochelle Yanuzzi me too that's a lovely comment. You said what I was thinking. Thinking of this lady and her girls and wishing them luck xxx
@The16BitLolita
@The16BitLolita 8 лет назад
And from of all this, people are complaining about her dying her hair?! Are you for real?? And she deserves to feel a bit better about herself, and dying the hair does that. Besides you can buy a dye for 3€ at the chinese shop! Stop being so nasty!
@theresamischeski71
@theresamischeski71 8 лет назад
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@suilvenmountain2395
@suilvenmountain2395 8 лет назад
+The16BitLolita why does she deserve to feel better about herself when i work to subsidise her feckless lifestyle?
@The16BitLolita
@The16BitLolita 8 лет назад
Suilven Mountain Just because everyone deserves to feel better about themselves. And its just a friggin' dye forgodsake. And because until you're in a bad moment in your life its easy to criticise others. I admit i've done the same. And then i've been under. That reality slap taught me to be kind. You never know what tomorrow brings.
@The16BitLolita
@The16BitLolita 8 лет назад
JCBAirmaster73 well that is very true. But there unpredictable things sometimes... When cancer strikes your family and you have to help, and money just flies away. You need to be with that person while at the same time taking care of the kids in the family, and you end up losing your work.. Its just an example how things can change in a blink of an eye... And there you are. In the most awefull situation possible. Offcourse with faith and power of will you do your best to get on your feet. But sometimes its hard. I stopped judging people because of what happenned to me. But its just my personal experience, you know?
@The16BitLolita
@The16BitLolita 8 лет назад
JCBAirmaster73 You are right... I lost my mom a couple of years ago. This 24th December my nan, and on the 29th one of my aunts. All Cancer... =( My sister and i keep doing check-ups and exams all the time, because it runs in the family and we are scared when it is going to be our turn. Because we know one day it will... I learned about compassion and kindness while visiting my mom in the Cancer Center... I learned how i cant take anything for granted, not our job, our money and certainly not our health.. Nothing is obvious and secure anymore. Maybe that clouds my judgement a little. I must admit that the UK is full with leaches that take advantage of Social Security. But there are some people that indeed must need the benefits... Here in Portugal its not like in the UK. Its hard to get benefits and many people suffer a lot from poverty and health problems. And even when you have a good life things can change dramaticaly and theres no one to help you. I wish you all the best.
@darramuldoon7745
@darramuldoon7745 6 лет назад
I feel so sad for this girl I have 2 children myself and I'm 21 but Im lucky enough to still be with the children's father I honestly couldn't imagine not having him and having to do everything on my own she deserves a medal 😢
@mrmrsmsmisscloud7512
@mrmrsmsmisscloud7512 8 лет назад
My heart goes out to her & I'd like to assist her by giving her some money just to get by, she's a decent lady who deserves to go to college & have something for herself. Her daughters are beautiful too.
@BritishMomma
@BritishMomma 6 лет назад
MrMrsMsMiss Cloud she would get benefits and she would get collage free and the childcare free too.
@adjjal
@adjjal 2 года назад
@@BritishMomma that's not true
@BritishMomma
@BritishMomma 2 года назад
@@adjjal what's no
@adjjal
@adjjal 2 года назад
@@BritishMomma in England u don't qualify for free childcare till they're 2 I'm pretty sure, and even then it's only 15hrs a week or something
@BritishMomma
@BritishMomma 2 года назад
@@adjjal I commented on this 3 years ago so I haven't been to college since then but I had the course free I could have had childcare help with it at the nursery in the college
@tammyshuttleworth4465
@tammyshuttleworth4465 6 лет назад
What 2 beautiful little girl's she has!! Charlotte u are doing the best u can as a single mother!! I wish nothing but the absolute best for u & your daughter's!!
@kimmaried.4497
@kimmaried.4497 7 лет назад
This women and her children are doing the best they can .Who knows, maybe one day those who have said they wouldn't grow up to be productive just may be helped by one of these kids. They could be your doctor, your nurse, or your aide who takes care of you. I just hope that they find you worthy which they probably will since their mum is raising them well. Too bad others were not raised so decently.. Don't cast these people aside. You just may need them one day !
@kimmaried.4497
@kimmaried.4497 7 лет назад
Brutus Tan how do you equate all of that with these two little girls ? It's not just poor people or people on welfare that raise trouble kids. We have plenty of people who have money and so called respect who could give two shits about what their kids do and turn a blind eye to their actions. If you pay attention to your children and raise them to the best of your abilities maybe just maybe they will turn out to be great productive law abiding citizens. There are no guarantees in this day and age. I think maybe we all need to educate ourselves a little better and be a bit more understanding.
@kimmaried.4497
@kimmaried.4497 7 лет назад
Brutus Tan... Why so angry ? Maybe you have a problem but I don't. Because I don't agree with you , you feel the need to come at me so aggressively and speak to me the way you did. That says a whole lot about you. Having compassion for someone and choosing not to label their children as worthless let alone judging who they will be as adults makes me wrong ? Then I guess I will be wrong. I chose not to belittle you or call you names because it's needless and wrong. Your entitled to your opinion but maybe you should work on your people skills. If you can't get your point across without becoming abusive it's your children I worry about not this women's. Have a blessed night.
@dazg5552
@dazg5552 6 лет назад
exactly my cousin grew up like this hes a plastic surgeon/doctor now
@minniemouse8389
@minniemouse8389 3 года назад
So true! Kamala Harris' mom was a single mom on welfare, but look how much she's accomplished.
@kimberlylusby3365
@kimberlylusby3365 7 лет назад
I admire her drive...May God bless her and her family.
@lizzyq9059
@lizzyq9059 6 лет назад
What a lovely lady. She should be so proud of herself.
@rachael-777
@rachael-777 6 лет назад
What a fine young mom with a positive approach to life! Keeping her chileren's best interest at heart. ♥ All the best to Charlotte and her girls!
@onepotmakesplenty
@onepotmakesplenty 6 лет назад
She seems really sweet. We all make mistakes when young, perhaps she didnt have as good opportunities or role models but shes doing a great job now. Her girls look very happy and well cared for.
@gemsworld85
@gemsworld85 7 лет назад
What a fantastic young lady and mother.
@amberosborne4688
@amberosborne4688 8 лет назад
I honestly feel for her at least she's trying with her children many mothers would just give up her children are fed clean and clothed
@62roxana
@62roxana 5 лет назад
Amber, and clearly LOVED..
@madmags3292
@madmags3292 6 лет назад
Don't listen to stupid comments and judgmental people who don't know nothing about your past! Keep going strong my girl You are a great mum Dont give up on your dreams You and your girls deserve to be happy! God bless you and your beautiful children! X❤❤❤
@janevarey9031
@janevarey9031 6 лет назад
I feel for single parents. Its a job on its own raising children. our older generations had stay at home mums, now you have to do it all. The pressure to be a full time worker and then go home and do everything there, is ridiculous. we should be supporting single parents, not demonising them. my children are grown now, so I have no one to worry about, but myself. i could not bear to give up 24 hours of my life , day in, day out again. it was gruelling and thankless at times s. i remember crying myself to sleep sometimes, because my marriage failed, and I was left alone. I worked in the home and out of it, and I was exhausted and stressed. Now, it feels like a breeze, just working for me . Please be kind to parents. They are raising the next generation, and many of them are doing it with a stigma, that they feel.
@ella-bt8hp
@ella-bt8hp 6 лет назад
kelly fallbrook I've spent the last hour reading all these coments, and I have to say your comment is spot on I agree with you 100%, my boys are 3.5 and 1.5 and an elder one in school but looking after little ones all day is very hard work. Everyday is exhausting and I totally relate to crying at times. Most mums have those moments, reading your message gives me positivity for the future when one day I'm just working for and looking after myself. I love my kids to bits don't get me wrong it's just long days and like you say sometimes there thankless, other times being told ' I love you all around the world and back'with two big cheeky smiles and a game off peekaboo or hide and seek. Is more thanks then anyone could ever express.
@eloisehxo
@eloisehxo 5 лет назад
kelly fallbrook what a beautiful thoughtful comment♥️♥️♥️
@karencobham4967
@karencobham4967 5 лет назад
I agree
@marlboroughsounds9710
@marlboroughsounds9710 4 года назад
Absolutely agree
@JD-bn5pw
@JD-bn5pw 3 года назад
Kelly Fallbrook spoken like a true hero to your children and many people reading this 😝🤩🥳
@lesleyhubble2976
@lesleyhubble2976 4 года назад
It’s nearly 2020, be nice to know what she’s doing now
@johnmarlonscott6693
@johnmarlonscott6693 3 года назад
Ive often wondered that,they should have made a follow up
@sarahsmyth5383
@sarahsmyth5383 3 года назад
Had more.kids
@anitadhm_
@anitadhm_ 3 года назад
@@sarahsmyth5383 how do u know or are you assuming
@CM-vs5cj
@CM-vs5cj 3 года назад
A year on and I still wish and hope she’s doing so much better, such an amazing woman who should be utterly proud of herself and her girls will be to❣️
@milliemaw
@milliemaw 7 лет назад
this mum has her heart in the right place, she is doing the best she can and I have to say she is a great mum. Good Luck with everything. I was a teen mum so I know how tough it can be but also know being a teen doesn't make you any less capable as a mum and actually at 39yrs old I find it harder now parenting my 5yr old lol. young motherhood had definite advantages lol x
@johnmscott4556
@johnmscott4556 5 лет назад
Watched this a few times, a very honest insight into the struggle of a young single parent, having to survive on very little, I'm a bloke who has always been impressed by the way she controls her own life and look's after her girls, I'm not in her shoes, but I am on a very low income, it's a hard life, she's a lovely mother, would be nice to know what she is up to in 2018/19.
@johnmscott4556
@johnmscott4556 5 лет назад
Unfortunately, young single parents do get Stereotyped , but the one thing no one can argue with, is that they care for their kids and babies🍼very often going without food themselves, that's fact.
@tanyamcoleman36
@tanyamcoleman36 5 лет назад
I remember when I was a stay at home mum with a partner who worked. People would complement me on staying home to raise the children and say how lovely it was to see. When my relationship dissolved my ex and I decided that I should stay at home untill our youngest was 3 years old which he supported financially. I found however, that as a single parent others often criticised me for not working and looked down on me, I was definitely treated differently being a stay at home parent as a single mum, almost shamed about it!
@ashleybosvik3031
@ashleybosvik3031 Год назад
I wonder how much they would have gotten on benefits
@d1s2l3a4w5
@d1s2l3a4w5 8 лет назад
She looks so sad really, bless her, she's trying to make the best out of a hard situation.. been there, done that...
@AmyJayne008
@AmyJayne008 9 лет назад
i hope she does get a job, maybe then she will feel better about herself. being a single mom isnt easy. i hope she gets what she wants from life x
@nordiskkatt
@nordiskkatt 4 года назад
Where's the dad? Why isn't he assuming responsibility for his kids?
@CaptchaNeon
@CaptchaNeon 2 года назад
You keep asking that as if it’s shocking yet another man up and left his kids. That’s just what they do
@janetashbrook5614
@janetashbrook5614 Год назад
Well done Charlotte with the university course . Hope that you can see it through to the end it will change your life regardless of what job will be at the end it.
@jenniferjones1470
@jenniferjones1470 3 года назад
Her hard work is not in vain. Those girls are going to grow up and be the best friends, confidants, etc. she has ever had!!! They're going to have her back. guaranteed
@shandi4868
@shandi4868 9 месяцев назад
She is very brave and responsable. I wish her the best
@shellbythesea12
@shellbythesea12 8 лет назад
Comments on this video is why I hate the majority of humanity.
@claireajibola3287
@claireajibola3287 7 лет назад
Same.
@theblytonian3906
@theblytonian3906 7 лет назад
+MaryRachelle C You *almost* got it right. Let me correct your sentence and thus adjust your thought process for you from inanity to one of probity. You should have written, _"This video is why I hate the majority of humanity."_ No need to thank me. My pleasure to assist.
@shellbythesea12
@shellbythesea12 7 лет назад
The Blytonian Go away grammar nazi. No one likes you.
@britishmgtow7251
@britishmgtow7251 5 лет назад
I agree, too much sympathy for this welfare surfer.
@robertsmith7667
@robertsmith7667 4 года назад
MGTOW Gopnik exactly, first remove the right to vote for women, second, abolish welfare.
@katlondon9618
@katlondon9618 6 лет назад
What a lovely woman. She is dedicated to her girls. Her education can be picked up later. The way she speaks to her girls is with kindness and patience. She is alone and doing her very best. She deserves a great life and I think she is the kind of person who will do really well later in her life and her children will be lucky they have a good mum. She had taken responsibility for her life. It's hard with small children.
@carolemills8680
@carolemills8680 5 лет назад
She doing an amazing job !! Hats off to all single mums ❤️👊🏻
@bosslady5536
@bosslady5536 8 лет назад
being a single mom myself I understand how hard it Is on top of people judging us. I work my ass off for my kids, my kids eat every day always have clean clothes on their backs and a roof over their head
@michaelpowles226
@michaelpowles226 8 лет назад
What's you ponit you wanted a child now you have one and clearly it's up to you to work hard to pay for it this
@bosslady5536
@bosslady5536 8 лет назад
My point was simply that I understand how she feels. And I agree somewhat but the father should also do his part. My situation: I didn't agree with abortion never will
@michaelpowles226
@michaelpowles226 8 лет назад
+Boss Lady that's done to personal choice clearly things have not worked out for her but all I can see is someone feeling sorry for them self's life dose not always work out and you just have to get on with it she is doing nothing to get a job your not even alound to have a debate about mums working
@bosslady5536
@bosslady5536 8 лет назад
Michael Powles yes its a personal choice. I'm allowed to have a debate on what ever I'd like 1)I have a job. Being a single mom isn't the end of the world and I was simply saying I can understand the struggle of single motherhood when the father won't step up.
@michaelpowles226
@michaelpowles226 8 лет назад
+Boss Lady awwww I feel sorry sorry for her poor women how dose she cope it must be horrible let's give her the world or sorry we are already paying for her family
@krystofkotylo2680
@krystofkotylo2680 7 лет назад
Inspirational attitude Charlotte, and, if you read this, I wish you and your girls the very best of luck.
@stevehayward513
@stevehayward513 5 лет назад
Charlotte shudnt be so hard on herself.. she's a brilliant mum, her kids look happy and healthy. .she shud b proud of herself, I am.. happy mum is happy kids
@abigailpip112
@abigailpip112 6 лет назад
What a lovely caring, intelligent woman. I hope she as successful in her education and career as she is the this film with her children. They will have a great roll model
@golgotha3938
@golgotha3938 3 года назад
Charlotte you're a great mum and I hope you and your lovely kids are ok.
@dianastera3393
@dianastera3393 6 лет назад
can't believe I live next to her and this is how different our lives are wow I never knew till I seen this feel like helping her now all I can
@toniclanton832
@toniclanton832 4 года назад
This is 1 strong young lady ! Im so so proud of her . She's gonna be ok ......
@asmamalik1898
@asmamalik1898 5 лет назад
This lady is a super mum well done lady we are proud of you.
@ruthvandoesburg6703
@ruthvandoesburg6703 3 года назад
What a wonderful strong lady. Respect
@EmmaDivaOfficial
@EmmaDivaOfficial 8 лет назад
You're a great mum x
@ella-bt8hp
@ella-bt8hp 6 лет назад
Emma Diva Official nice to read a kind comment on a video likd this I expected cruel and nasty stuff the whole way down
@britishmgtow7251
@britishmgtow7251 5 лет назад
Paid for by tax payers
@abbierose7823
@abbierose7823 6 лет назад
Charlotte is very mature and together for her age, especially being a single mum of two. I know girls her age who also have kids and they couldn't care less about being on benefits, acting like having kids is contributing enough to society and they deserve to not work. Acting like they didn't choose to have those kids, that they had no choice in the matter. It's important to not view every young single mother as the same though, because yes there's girls who are just scrounges but there's also girls out there who are trying to better themselves.
@deewms8955
@deewms8955 2 года назад
I wish her the best of luck. 🙏🏾
@barbarastepien-foad4519
@barbarastepien-foad4519 6 лет назад
Charlotte, I wish you the very best, you are a kind,decent person and a good mother. I do hope you no longer struggle and that you obtain more financial security.
@susanannmclaughlin1634
@susanannmclaughlin1634 5 лет назад
No one hound have to struggle alone like that ...she a brilliant mum.
@tinatina1104
@tinatina1104 5 лет назад
Absent fathers need to support their kids
@ella-bt8hp
@ella-bt8hp 6 лет назад
I have done both work as a single parent and been unfortunately on benefits as a single parent and let me tell you it's not an easy ride or a happy life you get by on the bare minimum and it's a struggle and hard, but when I work part time 16 hours I get the same in benefits except £70 a week in income support is taken but £320 a month off working tax credits is added aswell as my £500 roughly amount in wages so I actually receive more in benefits when I'm working I still get the housing benefit and tax and working tax credits. There is more council tax to pay than when your on benefits but it certainly isn't a ride in the park,!! Definitely could never afford to drive a car or do anything special with the children it's a system that's there to catch people when they fall, not one invented for long term use and I agree with that I hope to work full time eventually. But my point is that If someone is working don't automatically think there paying tax and not receiving benefits. The real crooks are the multi millionaires who dodge paying their taxes, when your everyday familes are paying large percentages of there income on taxes!!
@alison2984
@alison2984 3 года назад
@Sara some peoples rent are so high so u stop ur dam judgement or her or her kids could have some disability so get a grip just cos some need it and u dont
@ladychatelaine697
@ladychatelaine697 5 лет назад
Poor young girl. She obviously had good plans for her life and to go to college etc. Shame on that cowardly so called 'man' who gave her two kids and then bailed out. I object to taxpayers having to support all these abandoned families, but I also feel sorry for these struggling mums and their innocent children.
@charlottehall6774
@charlottehall6774 9 лет назад
you can give a boy a fish to feed his whole family for a day or you can teach him how to fish to feed his whole family for life! this mother has made he chooses in life and accepts the responsibility, what she needs is support to learn how to achieve those things she wants out off life. that is where we all are guilty off rather than slagging her off, whats wrong with SUPPORTIVE advise.
@TheJackasskids11
@TheJackasskids11 9 лет назад
Agreed. Them move her and her child into a hostel where she can have some support and don't let her have her own house/flat.
@7arboreal
@7arboreal 3 года назад
What a courageous young woman.
@meganmaynard-skelton4359
@meganmaynard-skelton4359 4 года назад
Would love an update, hope she got what she wanted for her and her babies
@toastoneggs7356
@toastoneggs7356 6 лет назад
I think she’s a wonderful mother
@ninabee4899
@ninabee4899 5 лет назад
Your incredible person you should feel so proud of yourself great mom x
@janetjones8123
@janetjones8123 3 года назад
Clearly loves her children
@joycebentopoulos6748
@joycebentopoulos6748 Год назад
What a wonderful mam she is i wish her all the luck in the world godbless you and your children
@F1reb1ad3
@F1reb1ad3 2 года назад
What a great mom
@carama3507
@carama3507 5 лет назад
What a wonderful mother! :)
@MsSharon2011
@MsSharon2011 6 лет назад
She’s so lovely and a great mam I hope she’s doing well x
@heatherchandler4573
@heatherchandler4573 3 года назад
This is the village next to mine, Middleton/Belle Isle... scary how she is struggling so much 💕
@anaangel5434
@anaangel5434 2 года назад
Adorable children with a sweet Mommy.⭐
@gailcarey3597
@gailcarey3597 3 года назад
What an impressive young woman. I hope she found success.
@jayne-annephillips8000
@jayne-annephillips8000 3 года назад
Charlotte - what an amazing girl with plans for the future. I am very proud of you -xx
@jessjoxy6521
@jessjoxy6521 5 лет назад
I wish all the best to this lady she seems s very sweet and lovely mum.
@ohmeowzer1
@ohmeowzer1 8 лет назад
She seems like a nice person ,hope things work out for her she's.a good mom God Bless her
@the_pink_robin_7830
@the_pink_robin_7830 6 лет назад
Your doing a great job! Your girls are happy and your attitude will get you far in life, good luck in uni xx
@asmamalik1898
@asmamalik1898 5 лет назад
Keep going girl we are proud of u best of luck hun.
@Kiki-yw9kc
@Kiki-yw9kc 3 года назад
I hope she achieved everything she said she would one day ❤️
@petermccann9227
@petermccann9227 2 года назад
You u appear a very caring mother who need a bit of a help in in this world. Keep ya chin up lady, try the very best u can do, don't let anyone put u down, ur doing a grand job, I hear ur care, dedication, love and commitment in ur words. Get to college / uni. Make a difference to yoursef, ur children, those who r in your heat and the world. U HAVE CERTAINLY GOT WHAT IT TAKES. The very best of luck to you. Peter McCann.
@Abel_Y
@Abel_Y 7 лет назад
Life is all about Choices, a single wrong choice can doom one's life.
@yellowspeaks4980
@yellowspeaks4980 6 лет назад
Amazing mum 💛 bless her and and her beautiful children 🌷
@CaptainConnieCreativ
@CaptainConnieCreativ 6 лет назад
You're doing a good job girl! Your kids are happy. Stick to your goals - go to college and work for the job you want. You're a good example for your daughters.
@katzillaaa85
@katzillaaa85 6 лет назад
She's an amazing and strong woman! She doesn't even know it!
@libellenflugpoetry6800
@libellenflugpoetry6800 2 года назад
She remindes me of ... myselfe. And I would love to give her a hug. Wish her luck !
@bonniespizzeriayt4235
@bonniespizzeriayt4235 6 лет назад
She seems to be a good and patient mum.
@GurpreetKaur-wp3iy
@GurpreetKaur-wp3iy 6 лет назад
u guys jst made me realize what i have and many ppl dont.god bless u nd ur girls.
@charlottehawkes1029
@charlottehawkes1029 7 лет назад
I have to get food from food banks and my ex partner was a drug dealer and I live in St John's woking surrey
@NoName.._.
@NoName.._. 6 лет назад
Awww it's so hard to get a job with babies I work and I struggle bless her hope it all goes well
@SouthernGirl1965
@SouthernGirl1965 Год назад
I really enjoy your programs.
@nocturneowl2660
@nocturneowl2660 Год назад
OMG! She’s so Zen. I want to be like her Zen personality. And she’s beautiful 😍
@amycorbett4664
@amycorbett4664 3 года назад
Fantastic mum x
@johnnywalker8326
@johnnywalker8326 Год назад
I wonder how Charlotte and the little ones are doing now? This was years ago.
@PhilinoniBYTZ
@PhilinoniBYTZ 4 года назад
Once again where is the dad!? This poor girl has been left to fend for herself and bring up 2 children and let’s be honest it’s not easy with mum and dad there so by yourself is just exhausting. I am guessing from the immature and socially blind comments I’m seeing that a lot of you are very sheltered from this or lack the life experience to be able to empathise and that’s fine no one should have to struggle in life in any shape or form but until you’ve walked a mile in her shoes you have no idea how heavy they are let’s all have a little compassion
@steveb1593
@steveb1593 24 дня назад
She's a great Mum to those two girls. . I wish her well .
@brendalancour9573
@brendalancour9573 Год назад
This was made 9 years ago and now her girls are 9 years older is there an UPDATE on her and her daughters?? Just curious how they are doing in 2022
@ianshaw1664
@ianshaw1664 7 лет назад
Hi John - when are you posting the video of how to build the boat we saw you with yesterday ? Thanks Ian & Ben
@tajmahal5572
@tajmahal5572 10 месяцев назад
Your such a beautiful lovely mum and strong 💪 I worked to get nursing qualification I've been working for 18 years and bought my own house and I'm even doing extension now don't give up my lovely carry on be strong for your sweet girls
@storytimewithchell2974
@storytimewithchell2974 3 года назад
Only just came across this vidoe has anyone got any updates of this amazing mom and her girls x
@veronadyer8558
@veronadyer8558 4 года назад
Thank you
@anniereborn9721
@anniereborn9721 10 лет назад
It's nearly a year on now since this video was made I really hope this younge mother is doing better, she really seems like she is trying her best,
@bluelady4183
@bluelady4183 5 лет назад
Good luck Charlotte I’m sure things will improve for you and the girls!!! Chin up darling!!
@KaityJane1995
@KaityJane1995 6 лет назад
She sounds so sad, I wonder how she's doing now
@codzydee1870
@codzydee1870 5 лет назад
people shouldnt judge single moms cause you know what it will happen to their daughters or grandaughters or who ever judges these poor girls God Bless em xox
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