Nehi bhai aisa kabhi nehi hota Aap jitna bhi keh lo lekin pyar ek aisi chiz ho jo... matlab... ek feeling hai jiske bager aap kuch bhi kar aap ko kami mehsoos hogi To ye kehna thik nehi hai ki single raho Nehi pyar karo lekin samhal kar aur jaldbazi me nehi
I learn alot from a break up... As a girl... Don't love a guy too much... Don't be so obbessed with them... Don't revolve your life around them. Don't give up on your friends becoz of them... Focus on your life ... Work on yourself and give time to your life... Break ups are hard... If someone isn't appreciating having you in their life... They are not worth being with you....and when someone true will come in your life... You can be yourself and no need to pretend anything.... Take care of yourself ..the right perosn will come along
Hey as you said "don't love a guy too much"it's not only for you bt also applied on boys there is one saying"excess of everything is very bad" and it's true . If you love someone you give everything to him/her and don't value your feelings you lose your self respect to make your partner and the time comes he/she doesn't give you any sorts of value
@@singhbros5893 we used to have some arguments like once a month .. or so .. Everytime we had arguments I always apologize first .. he used to block my number .. and I had to call him from different numbers.. I knew he's gotten used to it...but this time the argument wasnt tht big.. we blocked me and as usual.. I decided to call him back.. but this time he changed his number .. and ignored me completely.. later that I know ... He was flirting with someone new...he contacted me after two months just to tell me that he is with someone new.. like he's dating but he regrets .. and how he still love me and all.. but he still blamed me for his rebound.....I couldn't stand the pain ... It still hurts .. tbh.. It's been 7 months now .. he called me sometimes ...but never talk about getting back together... I had to forgive him in order to move on... But still can't move on... I have. Trust issues now ... We dated for more than. 3 and a half year... Being cheated on is the most painful thing I had to experience in my life... My heart still aches .. I still cry sometiems .. thinking where I went wrong? .. why all this happen to me ..
@@IncredibleMay oh it's very sad to hear that my friend actually you gave him more importance than your you valued him too much that you lost your self respect. You should have not called him everytime. He understood that you love him soo much that he can do anything and you will not leave him I hate this type of people. when someone gives you respect then you should do the same or when someone loves you then you should do the same bt these things he never understood.dont worry my friend he will suffer for what he did.. do you still love him??
Learnings- 1. Don't make the relationship the epicenter of your life, there's career, health, family and hobbies that are equally important. 2. Don't stop believing in the concept of love, it does exist, it might take a lifetime to get there but don't give up. 3. Move on if you can't forgive the other person, just because you love something or someone doesn't mean that you have to own it. Advice to younger self- Don't rush in, take your time, stop looking for 'the one'
Basically selfish hona bohot imp hota h warna depression ho jatti h . Not everyone is same what they claim to be. Even I wish I was bold enough to put myself first rather than fullfilling people's exepectations
You seems exactly like me Me too, tries to not to offend anyone and end up hurting and compromising my own life. Hopefully, now I'm in the way to become selfish enough to live my life joyfully.
Same...I had relationship with someone for long 4years..she left me without any reason.. though I used get her phone busy many times during last few days of breakup....i was in deep deeeeep pain after Breakup for long 2years....last day suddenly I checked her insta and saw she is committed with someone else..I can't understand how people get involved with someone else after being with someone for long 4years....yes after seeing her status I got silent but now I have learnt how to Handel the emotion...I am ok now and happy even after seeing her status .so it takes time to be healed... breakup is painful if u love someone truly
@@wintherace108 bro very similar,, we were in relationship with 4 years she recently left with no proper reason idk what to do I am not able to move on plz help!
@@RishiYT-is1ld u will not be able to move on...but as time will go on,ur pain will be going down...yes u couldn't forget her in ur whole life but feeling matters....one day u r not gonna have feeling anymore...see if someone left u without having proper reason then how can u be with that person ever?....now u will start realising ur own value
I was in a relationship for 13 years with a girl. She was always very loyal and made constant efforts to love me. Never let me down...I too loved her a lot but with time I started to take her for granted. Didnt value her love and I did and made her do things, the way I wanted..she did everything for me as she loved me that much. I was doing all these being unaware that I am wrong..I thought everything is ok...but I was hurting her is some or other way...She just craved my love and attention and I was busy in my own world. Although I always treated her like a gentleman and cared for her. She has been continuously telling me to talk to my parents for marriage, I wanted to marry her too but I kept stalling things . She fought for me with everyone in the family. I had a casual nature and failed to understand the gravity of the situation. She warned me many times it's high time now otherwise she will get engaged. I did talked to my family but due to some issue I gave up too soon but thought we will work it out again..She was fed up of me by this moment and decided to get engaged with a stranger. But she found a good family and the guy is nice to him too .She is happy and can't take a step back..now i am left alone as she has moved on and I am in depression as I lost a true gem..Didn't value her when there was time..didnt value the relationship. Although it was never intentional..might be I thought she would never left me cz she loved me so much. Now I am in pain and missing her..learnt the biggest lesson of my life...what should I do now?? I just wish to go back in time and fix everything. Nobody will love me the way she did..a selfless love. I feel such a loser.
I had the same guy who did this to me same situation exactly Some days ago I left him he exploited me a lot If u really feel u did wrong please go n apologize to her sincerely Not only u will feel less guilty but justice would be served The guy who did wrong to me never realised it so ik how important it is to apologise sincerely
i did eveythink for her , i loved her to much . i cryed alot for her . i am crying when i writing this pr andr se jantra hu acha howa usne apne asli rang dekha diya . i will use this pain as motivation . pray i will do my best , i want to be my best versone . usko beeta bolta ta me or wo janudi bolti te mujhe , uske liye ek he prathna hai - "beetha kush rhna hmesa , muj jisa pyaar krne wala partner mile yr usko
@@ShubhamGupta-li4bp bhai time hr gaav ko bhar dita hai , eske baad kafi time tak presan rha , rota rha fer ek time aaya sb tek ho gya , waps dosto se milna jyada howa or fer waps se 6 mahine baad smile aaye face pe , waps se busy ho gya life me . bhai aj bhoot kush hu . suggestion- 1. bhai time k sath sab tek hoga belive in universe 2. fealing ko Dabana nhi , we are strong buddy deal with it. 3. remamber no-one is parmanet so we have to learn to be alone i know - kya feel ho rha hoga , feel free bro . talk here . if needed, me apna insta de dunga , any time u text , call and talk to me .
I had a female best friend and she had a boyfriend they were dating each other since 2 year that guy was kinda mobster she was scared of him but at the same time she also loved him then she and i became friends we use to talk on texts and calls late night and we kept it hidden from her bf as she thought if her bf got to know about all this he is not gonna spare me and she cared for me and i cared for her as well then we became best friends we started hanging outs together without acknowledging her boyfriend one day i said her that i love her and she replied me the same i was so happy. she said that iam the only person in her life who is above all and no one can ever take my place. but the problem was her boyfriend whom she can't leave because she don't want to hurt him as she was dating him since 2 years and she cared for him. after some time we became close friends we were so close that we got intimate and we became emotionally attached to each other like when she laughs, i laugh and when she cries, i cries. but i started feeling jealousy and insecurity whenever she use to meet her bf. i had a very bad feeling and the thing i was much afraid of just happened one day. she got intimate with her boyfriend one day and then she realized that she cant play with 2 hearts and the same day she said to me that its over between us and i couldn't believed my ears its was very shocking because i don't know what did i done wrong with her , what was my mistake this entire time , why she is leaving me like that. my heart just broke into pieces and i went into depression, then i was not her priority anymore she only called me once in a day for 5- 10 min just to check that im fine and that got me further more into depression as talking to her whole day was my only comfort . Seeing her with her bf flashes our old memories in my mind which always put tears in my eyes. i got so mentally broke that i stated living in past. i use to read our old chats, see our old pictures together whole day just to relive those moments which made me happy. i use to visit those place where we use to hangout just to relive those moments i can't sleep and cry whole nights remembering that we use to talk to each other whole night and now i am alone. In present we are not friends anymore we are more like strangers we dont talk whenever we crosses path so that was the biggest heartbreak i faced till now and it taught me that never get emotionally attached with someone and never make someone your necessity of living because nothing is permanent
Yl ab use bhulne ki koshish kro... And apki trh sbke dil tutte h or hr koi asa hi feel krta h khi na khi hme lgta ki ky hmko koi accept krga v but sbka dil tutta h or fr hmko hmri jsa koi na koi mil hi jta be hppy stay strong
Sometimes we can't help who we start liking!! She was already in a commitment, but she still fell in love with you. Definitely you are spsl for her. But now first accept it you can't have her in your life and start taking care of your feelings and your health... You will find your love❤
@@deekshachaudhary7130 I know what are you going through but all you can do is try to remain happy, keep yourself busy i know its not easy but you have to try or you can get really depressed i am telling you by experience. I have also been through the same and to be honest i still sometimes miss her even though its been 6 months now. I can assure you things will heal with time if you need any kind of advice then you can ask me any time
Like Rumi said, "Wound is the place where the light gets in". My experiences led to my spiritual awakening and it brought me closer to myself. I wouldn't have it any other way. :)
To fir app relationship ke baare me kaise janoge aur samjhoge. Life me jab paisa aata h to sath me frustration bhi ata hai. Kya kroge us paise ka, qki us paise se jo bhi krne ka soch re ho usse bhi kuch din me bor ho jaoge.
I m going through a heartbreak right now and it feels so difficult at times to bear.thank you so much for this video .it helped me gain a different perspective and felt like I too can overcome this.may be now I can stop blaming myself ❤️
Today's generation thinks that heartbreak means when you actually breakup with her/him or you couldn't get him/her but actually heartbreak means that when you couldn't get or achieve something it can be a thing, person, your goal or whatever for those you sacrifice your everything.
I am 27 and I recently had my 4th heartbreak and still I feel the same pain which I felt for the first time …it’s not at all easy ..no one should ever play with someone’s feelings it really can cause life time of scars
If you really want to move on ..just feel this pain don't run..trust me time heal everything i know this is unbearable but trust me you will become more stronger and clear..and most important don't block that person..it will even make you more anxious.
This is what teenage is all about. Everyone learns most important things about life and people and at the end when we look back we don't regret but smile. Heartwarming video ❤
Same situation yaha bhi hai lekin pyar to hoga ab usse jo actual me meri life me ayega . To yea ek motivation hai jo mai leke mai aage badh rha huu. Kuch na kuch to hoga accha 😎
I am 17 going to be 18 On November and this is 2020 I had my heartbreak one year ago I still cant get over this and seeking for her . I know it's quite impossible for me to be t back her but I wish god wherever she stays with whomever she stays she stays happy 😊may god bless her
I wanna give my warmest Thanks to Ranveer. I'm suffering from a serious heartbreak for over 3 months. I don't know how to get over. But his videos are helping me greatly. Thanks man ❤️
I had a heartbreak recently and the best thing that happened recently is I got up and I had beer while going for work in the morning and I had a great day working. What I learned was you cannot love anyone in one day cause it takes time for a flower to grow just as a relationship
It's been a year since my breakup and I have improved soo much. The best therapy is to level yourself up. The universe will put the right person in your life when the time is right. Trust the process and Devine timing.
I learn from my breakup story that we should not give our "everything" to one person because when she betrays you,that time your "centre of mass" will destroy.
That line of ranveer : If you are in love you won't change the next person because you have loved their current version not the version you are thinking about. Let me put an example. There are 2 things , love and like. If you like a car you are going to change it after sometime once you get bored over it, but if you love a car, you are going to have it throughout your life even if it is working fine or not, even it is that beautiful as earlier or not. Don't mix up like and love , dont play with others. Be yourself and one day you will find someone whom you don't just like but love and they too do so, and yes everything is sorted that day.
I'm almost 22 bro😂😂 And nobody finds me attractive either 🙂 It feels bad when everybody talks about their relationships, break-ups and link-ups, and I just sit there wih awkward silence because I've nothing to contribute.😂 I'm an introvert it's really hard for people like us to have a girlfriend, but it is the way it is.
let me share my story.... i have been alone for quiet a while now what i have realized is that if you need someone else's support you should have a relationship but if you can stand alone why dont be single there have been many single people throughout history like Tesla and Newton so relationships are not that important but its my opinion i would like to know all of yours opinion too it may help us!
Thnku ranveer bhai mujhe nhi pata aap ye comment pdhoge ya nhi pr i feel very good after watching becoz i am with someone whom I trust A lot we know the reality that the things not gone happen in future Or us btt se m kl rtt se preshan hu han m abhi 16 he hu but.... Mujhe bhr jana pdega apni padhai ke liye or usee bhi but best btt jo apne batai h vo distance doesn't matter but love matters baaki sari baate jo apne batayi h vo sb sun kr ek positive hope ayi h so thnk uh so much 🙏🏻
Bro same thing happened with me. 3 yrs ago i used to love a girl.firstly we became good friends.Actually she lives in another city. So we used to chat each other and this daily conversation brought both of is closer to each other.we were just friends. But then i realized that i fell in love with her and she also realized this. After some time she started replying late and then stop chatting. She started messaging me twice a week and then twice a month and now once in two months.now i understand that she has no interest in me anymore.but i love her till now. But i don't know why she did this with me.whenever i miss her i start reading our old conversation and seeing our old pictures.💔💔💔 sorry for the grammatical mistakes actually if u found any.
@@TonyStark-ti6id bas khud ko pyar kro or apna high standard achieve Karo or fir jab option honge na to na kisi ki yad aayegi or na kisi ke jane ka dukh hoga 😺
I watched this video 3 years ago and today again. The difference was back then I was just hearing different break up stories now I can relate. Thanks Ranveer bhaiya
M 24,1st breakup at thr very crucial time of my career, Suggestion 1) do not trust anyone till u re not arranged marriage 2) love is the worst thing one can do 3) be away from boys... Becoz i hd always been so aware, but my mind didn't come into way when I done it, we should use mind at the very 1st indtance
Phle ye sbb love, breakup, heart breaks mjaak lgta tha, but now when I am going through it I realised how painful it is. And I am unable to tolerate all this. But hope to recover soon.
Meei wali toh sbse alag thii We were in a relationship from 4 years, then she started ignoring me/avoiding me, made me feel like i m nothing to her. Then i came to know that she is in live in relationship with a guy (whom i know as her cousin brother, though he is her best friend that thing i came to know later) So our whole realtionship of 4 years was made of lies. That lie broke me so hard its been 3 years now nd i m still battling depression Having sucidical thoughts from last 3 years, overcoming drugs nd alcohol abuse nd still struggling with my career Earlier i used to be dude in every field be it academics/sports/extra curriculum/show off/ be it anything Now m just a under confident guy who spend 20 hours daily in my room alone overcoming my mistakes nd weakness nd trying to find reasons to live in this misreable world.
Seeking a shelter in alcohol and drugs could just be the worst decision you're making bro. I'm personally fighting with something like that myself, but, rather than choosing shelter. I've choosen spirituality, gym and running. You should too. Just find yourself enough courage for just once, and, step out at night for a run. See how much you can run in a single go, and improve that over a period. You'll see yourself becoming better day by day. Its been 5 months now since I'm doing this, and I've already ran a half marathon now. :D
Ranveer...i loved someone alot...i gave him my everything but he rejected me n went on a relationship wid someone else... 10 days later i have my CA finals.. He called me yesterday n said all this...he didnt had even humanity ki abhi ye sb bolne se mere exams pe kya affect pdega... Ranveer do people change all of a sudden? How can ppl forget all memories in a second? U said after 4-5years we ll realise why this breakup happened...but aaj ka kya...aaj kaise smbhaalu khudko? Aaj k dunia me jaha log sirf matlab se rishte banate h waha main apna tuta dil leke kaise survive karu... Kaise bharosa karu ab kisi ladke pe? Aasun nh aa rhe eyes se lekin andar se sb tut gaya hai.. How can i forget all the insult the rudeness the pain he caused me? 😒
Breakup se ek hi bat sikhi hai ki pyar sirf apne kam se karo.jitna jyada karoge utna progress karoge.kabhi dukh nahi milega.attachment nahi rahni chahiye.
Ranveer, when you said that she cheated on you. I felt that. I'm 20 and 5 months ago I broke up with her. She was in a relationship with another boy who was with her for 10months and she used to tell me that "ye chutiya mere piche pada pyar krta hai mujhse and all that" She was dating him and never told me before. We dated for 7 8 months. Found it out about him in May when the boy messaged me. Broke up with her. She tried to explain herself. i was angry at that time and still am at her. All I had asked from her was love, loyalty and truth received none. Gave ever bit of my heart to her tried my best to make her. Breakup gave me KT in 3 subjects. Finally from last few days I think I have started believing in myself and love. PS don't hate and not insulting her
15th guy to like and 17th guy to view this... Recently I'm going through the same phase, almost similar to what happened to you Ranveer Bhai, so Thank you for this video❤️
It was a pure school love . It lasted for 2 years but for me I guess 3 years .....it's been a year since we broke up but I still feel him around me ....I miss that person and not who he is today l miss that golden time and all those precious memories of first love. I fail to understand why am I not able to move on even though I am completely detached from him not even seen his face since a year . I guess it's the every day and moment captured in my heart afresh ❤️
This is the best video ranveer , the way you said everything and explained it touched my heart , completely relate with this video , and ya everyone recovers from the heartbreak and ya one should never lose their faith in love , love will happen whenver there is a right time and also a right person for you♥️ , at last lots of love and always best wishes for you ranveer♥️
Recently had a very bad heartbreak , she cheated just 3-4 months back , learnt a lot a lot it's amazing as well yes we grow after that just leave that person bro don't chase her don't give up you will learn what you don't want she will sooner or later realise what she did but it's not about her it's about you , you need to prove yourself , if anyone reading this , bro you are amazing and you are strong and you are lucky that this happened beacuse from now onwards you will be more strong and yes don't say i love you to her just don't and be strong and don't ever go back just build yourself and focus on yourself and creating an impact on the earth and to the people and also don't loose your niceness just beacuse one person wasn't good keep going keep growing
sach batau vo apse better ki talash me rehti jese hi use koi apse better mil jata h fir pehle vo apko ignore kregi then din apki ladai ho jayegi or fir breakup, ye better ki searching kabhi khatam nhi hoti h, hume lagta h ki hume usse better koi or nhi mil sakti h
My heartbreak in 11th std when I was studying biology science stream but I learned from it that never give up.. Move on and never lose confidence and self love because planet has a over 8 billion people any time you will connected with somebody so don't felt disappointed and Be Strong always.
Abhi mai 23 year ka hu..mai jb 12 me tha tb mujhe apne coaching ke ek ladki se pyar hogya (bolte hai n love at first sight)kuchh waisa hi tha..fir maine ussse bate krna suru ki coaching me or at least maine uske friend se uske mob no liya or 14 feb 2014 ke raat ko mai usee ily ka msg kiya. But uska koi jawab nii aaya.. fir jub hum college me gaye tohh ..wha bs jb usee koi kam hota tha tb oo call krti thi or puchhti .ek din maine college me usse bol diya yrr jb tmhe koi kam hota hai tohh call kroge or aise kyaa hai..fir uska sam ko call aaya or boli tmhe aise ni bolna chaiye tha college me ..or fir rote huee boli i love u. Tb se hamre bich daily baate hone lgi..fir oo ek din aahi agya jb usne mujhe btaya ki uski saadi kisi or se fix kr di gai..h fir uske baad usne dire dire mujhe bate krna km kr diya..or at least just july me hi uski saadi ho gaii hai..tb se mera heartbreak huaa..or abhi tk sayad waisa hi ..abhi mai koi bhi kam me focuse nii kr pata hu.khus rhne ki kosis krta hu fir bhi khus ni rh pata.. mai usse bhulane puri kosis kr rha hu pr pir bhi mai bhula nii pa rha..
Hey, Big brother Ranveer ! I recently had a break up but tbh I have learned lots of things from it. Most important thing I have learned is * Never change yourself for others and even don't try to change others too *. And yes we are not together but she taught me lots of things like I can get good marks if I try. And patience is the most important thing for every prospective of life. Yes I'm going through depression but trust me I have learned alot. For me break up is a teacher. So that I can be a good and mature partner for my soulmate.☺️
Me 4 years 1 hi reletionship m hu n hum roj jgte h bhut bde bde jgde hue bt hum kbi alag hi ni ho pate ...n boy is very mature vo muje hmesa sambhalte h i lv him lot❤️
The video didn't come into my suggestions ... I searched it and watched it ... Yes i can relate a loooot ... I am going through this "weirdly tough" situation right now ... Feels like dying in a body that is breathing and tangled between millions of threads each containing different good memories, bad memories, confusions, questions, lies, truths, moments i cant believe happened, moments i dont want to believe happened, moments when trust broke, moments when expectations broke and moments where i broke ... Closing eyes to sleep invites flashes that torture me ...
Why heartbreak is always considered as break ups from romantic relationship?? It can be anything in which your heart got broken, when you fail in exams after so much hardwork, also heart breaks!
Thank you for this-- I had a break up like 2 hours ago or maybe it happened 20 days ago but it took time to accept...I couldn't accept the fact that a person who loved my simplicity, my aims so much cheated on me for a girl who was just a bit more beautiful but aimless in life! Maybe this happened because I deserve better in life..no I don't mean a better lover...because that's never happening. You can't trust someone that way again. I mean a better life, the one that I've always dreamed of. I hope time heals me and everyone it broke! 🙂💔
Jab mera breakup hua me 17 ki thi.....itna hurt hua tha I mean 2 din bilkul hi khamosh ho gayi........baar baar yaad satata tha...roti thi.....baat karne ke liye unki friends se contact karne ki sochti thi.............esa lagta tha jindagi tham sa gaya hai...... after 18 months unki intizar karne ke baad ek din esa aya jab pehli baar mere sath aisa hua ki........ mujhe unki reply... ignore se fark nahi pada......... it was really a very hard time to heal my heart.........i learnt from this breakup that no one is permanent in our life.........hume age badhna padta hai.....so I think those people are lucky who face breakup it ecctuly means to learn some lessons..............❤️
Hello ranveer bhaiya , I had some relationships in the past , they all were sucks. Now I am in college perusing Architecture, I have my very best friend with me since school , we both spended 7 years together being best friends , but now we both have feelings for each other , we both supports each other and we wanted to spend our rest of life with each other , but the most difficult thing in our relationship is our family , we both belongs to different casts and we lives in a small town Agar malwa ( M. P ) and here the people are narrow minded , so we both are so much confused that how to talk to our parents 🙁
You are lucky for that your best friend accept you .after knowing different caste ..... this is true sign of love 💕 In my love story I was rejected for not being a jaat
Thankyou sir for make a video in this topic since 4 months I was in depression as my girlfriend cheated on me and it was a very hard time for me because 2 years we are in a relationship and now I m in 12th standard so for that I was not able to concentrate in my studies
True breakup bahut kuch sikha deta h,especially after breakup hum khud ko bahut achchi tarah se samajh jate h,hamre life ki kya priorities h wo samjh aa jata h
Ye video jitni der ki h m utni der lgatar roya dekhte dekhte ....pr smjh agya ki jyada expectation ni rkhna chahiye ... Kisi ki wjh se aap ni sad hote ho ap khud ki wjh se sad hote h ...
