That’s awful. You could work every day to heal, to be better, and find a counteractive comfort in that your children will learn to do the same. To try to be good, to make the best of what we got.
I come from a very broken family. My grandmother was so effed up she ended up murdered by one of her johns and her body wasn't found for 20 years. My grandfather molested my mother (his daughter) for most of her life, the most recent time that I know of having been 6 years ago. My mother has been bouncing from crackhouse to crackhouse, being beaten and drugged and abused. She's lost custody of all 6 of her children (all from different men). My father has spent over a decade in prison for so many crimes I can't even list them all here. He too has some serious drug and alcohol issues. My point with this story is this: I got away from that. I experienced a lot of trauma growing up. Yet I pulled myself away from it, and healed (and I'm still healing). I now have 3 children with my husband. We are successful, happy, and healthy. I am building a good business for us and we are building our dream home together. I broke the cycle, not the bloodline. Where there is a will, there is a way. A lot of work, a lot of difficulties, but a lot of possibilities.
@@Heathers.Chainsaw the reason I see for the scars to get bigger is that they try harder, fight harder, during their life to break the cycle but they always get pushed back and retaliated on Sorry it's deep ^^"
There is actually a little lore for this short. The original captain daughter was a princess following queens going through the same cycle and she broke it to be a captain
This one kinda speaks to me. I am not passing my childhood trauma to the next generation like my grandfather did to my father and my uncle and them to me and my cousins. My trauma ends with me.
@@chrissylouise3226 Even though I am scared of the thought if I ill be able to do it or not , but I do have the mentality for it. Still I don't wanna take the risk of turning out to be an A-hole father like the generations before me.
I'm not having kids for the exact same reason and additionally because I am of the opinion that the world we live in is no place to bring more people into.
@@captain_ryuu totally can understand you. Just an information: if we are talking about child ab*se - most times it's not because of being p*d*phile, but about being in power over someone and mostly recreating unprocessed trauma. M*l*sters have usually been m*l*steht themselves, but haven't have therapy. Same about d*m*st*c v*ol*nce. True p*doph*les are quite rare and respond well to therapy, too. The awareness of having grown up in a toxic environment changes a lot in personality. Science says we either want to be like our parents or their complete opposite and actually end up living that way. Nevertheless I respect your feelings and thoughts about this. Wish you all the best.
Yes it's so good! Nothing to do with it though, for some reason I find the part when the kid say the echo of dumb I just find it really cringey and it's what ruins these chain videos. Idk y I put it here and didn't just comment it. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Ha, I actually did this. My former abusive father was really big on the idea of male heirs and the bloodline and so on. I got fixed at 29 and married someone who also doesn’t want kids. We are both very loving and kind to our cat. 😊
Finally. Not about royalty, it's about pirates. One of my ancestors was a pirate, u don't know how grateful I am about this! :D (Edit): I LITERALLY HAVEN'T CHECKED THIS COMMENT IN SO LONG. I FORGOT ABOUT IT. Btw thanks for 36k likes!
@@alfie9089 Which is more like an anthology series. Unless you can tell me what the overarching plot is, and how each generation of Jojo builds upon the story of the previous generations. instead of being mostly unrelated. Star wars would have been a better example even. Even though they fumble the end completely.
Our trauma ended with my father and I'm incredibly proud of him for that. He did not push his traumas on us, he broke the cycle. Believe me, he would have had every reason not to, but he lived through so much shit (grew up very poor, father hit him and was a drinker, imprisonment under dictatorship, torture, and much more...) and decided not to do the same to my brothers and I.
Similar situation. Learned that my grandmother on my dad's side grew up in generations of abuse and molestation. She pushed her issues on my dad and my aunt. He never did anything to my brother or me and said f that.
@olive_garden87 same here tbh, my grandmother was abused horribly and no one said anything because it was the 1940-50ish she would get starved and mentally abused, she then went onto (almost) mentally abuse my mother and her brother (my uncle) my mom does her best and I'm so greatful for her and her loving nature
@Rae sorry your mom and uncle and everyone else had to go through it. Huge credit to your mom for doing he best to stop it there. It's so weird to me that people can't talk themselves out of perpetuating that stuff even if it's what they grew up with.
Megan has got this so sorted, each character is individually independent, what an awesome story line - and yes the end just blew my mind - my favourite character is the second mother daughter scene - mum seems attentive to her daughter who looks so keen, and when the daughter becomes a mum...she bears a scar!
"if i can't end this corrupted cycle... I'll end this bloodline" Edit- y'all can you stop I never said that I'm the original one Everyone knows that I'm not original Someone else is
It took me about 30 times watching this over 3 days to fully grasp how powerful this is... The daughter is looking up to the mother/captain, and when the transitions happen, the daughter is wearing the same shirt, just modified with an accessory. The mother/captain gets progressively ruder and meaner to their daughters as the generations continue... until the last daughter steps up. its supreme story telling in a single minuet! ♡ im so impressed.
Well yes but actually no She probably didn’t help, but she was dealing with her own trauma as well, and just because she processed it differently than her predecessors, doesn’t make it any less valid.
I know you probably won't see this, but I feel like I need to say it regardless. I was scrolling thru your shorts because your transitions are amazing and beautiful and well pirates. I watched this once and I was like huh.. that resonates with me. Then I saw the title. As a mother who was a victim of generational trauma, I work all the time not to pass it along. I see my siblings passing it down and I struggle. I have literally been watching this clip on repeat for 3 days. I downloaded the song on Spotify and, it's like I can see your pirates. You have deeply touched me with this. Thank you.
I needed this comment to realize that ending trauma, doesn't mean ending a bloodline. Some times I get so stuck being in the dark, that I fail to realize that there are others looking deeper into the recesses I refuse to fathom, until I see them looking back at me, and the darkness I've walked out of. Maybe you didn't see me, but I saw you looked back. And you said it wasn't for me....
Honestly, I see that last one ending with a different sort of tragedy, with that last pirate captain having a daughter but leaving her instead of bringing her into the pirate life. Little does she know, that daughter becomes a pirate anyway to find her and get revenge. Pirate mom has explaining to do... all set to the music "Never Love an Anchor" by Crane Wives for your next short!
I've seen a few of these videos for this trend lately. I am not just saying this cuz I'm recently subbed, but yours is the best I've seen by far, even better than the girl that did it first. The way you walked during it is phenomenal, and how you pace each character a bit differently. Not to mention the emotion you put into them. Bloody good job, love!
Why do I want to know what the last one did. Like I want to know what she did next and how she got her scars. Like I’m literally obsessed with this like I have watched this 10 times
@@willowreeves4574 *phew! I'm maaad ADHD and struggle w/ audio retention. The things I hear are almost always wrong, bit waaaaaay funnier(this case weirder) than the original. Thank for clarifying, that makes more sense.
This inspired a story for my #ironsworn #starforged character. Currently she has been alone for as long as she could remember, dearest mother might pop up in her travels.
Omg it's hard to explain my feeling right now in English 😭😭😭😭 this video is such a masterpiece 😭😭😭😭 you can show the figure and the way they "be scared" and "be obsessed" (idk if this word is suitable 💦) of each generation. Especially the green one who was scared of her mother. When she grew up we can see her "childhood trauma" in her attitute 🥺
Like literally this song was made 6 years ago by Sabrina carpenter and it has been famous from the past few months.. can anyone just appreciate Sabrina like WOWWWW! She's an absolutely amazing n fabulous artist.
I have generational trauma that begins with my grandmother abandoning my mother with her stepdad while she was at work and then my own mother abandoned me with my dad while she worked and left me and my sister to be raised by a man who was more interested in drinking beer than raising 4 kids because my younger brothers were so little they had to be babysat by me and my sister
Been following the page close to a year and i just saw this as the short came up on my feed. This is by far one of thee most epic and creative videos you've done. I wish we got an enchore on this but I suppose it's tough to continue the theme.
Can someone explain how this song is related to breaking generational trauma? I've seen a few of these videos and they're entertaining but I don't get it lol
The song itself isn't necessarily about that, it's more about how humans are expected to function in society, and therefore, breaking social expectations. The "trend" just found a clever storyline to build on the song.
@@ha-di4313 If you want too look at the comment section of her doing this with Queen and princesses. Someone kinda explained the "reasons" and personalities of each stage and how it leads to the last one breaking out.
Além de quebrar esse ciclo com os meus filhos, também estou tentando concertar os “estragos” que minha avó 👵 provocou de certa forma na minha mãe 🥰 e tá dando certo!
Am I the only one who would LOVE to see a series about this sort of generational thing where daugters follow in their mother's and grandmother's footsteps and inherit some characteristics from them, yet have their own style and way they do things? Kinda like in this video: they are all women and pirates, but some of them seem more kind or "pessimistic" towards life than the others and they all treat their daughters differently. I find that as a cool detail. Like their different scars and the way they act as daughters compared to when they are mothers themselves. Their adventure, their story, is different from one another that it changes them as the time goes by. They discover things themselves and develop own views on the world and those things are a big part that defines who they are and what they become. I mean, there's a GOLDMINE in here with all the possibilities of great and interesting characters and their stories. Wish this would be made into a series almost just based on this video here.
@@kaeyasimp3918 I mean that it is completely your choice, and I really don't mean this in any condescending way but, I hope you're happy as you get older, I've met a lot of people who don't have kids let alone end their bloodline who feel listless or like they have a hole in their soul as they age. If your an American I also hope you have some other sort of family or friends to take care of you, since as from experience with a lot of older relatives, our nursing home and elder care system sucks horribly. Also to respond to the initial comment, I would say in general the better option to break generational trauma is to get help and work be a better parent. I agree that the best option is not to stop having children but, also don't just go into it blindly hoping for the best without having memories of a good parental figure to base your style on, talk to some sort of professional.
These videos hit home, in my family there's a line of knowledge that is passed through most of the women on my mom side, and theres a lot of pressure that comes with it, im the only girl my mother had, so im planning on breaking the line.
Love it 🥰😍 !! my husband works in oil field we call them modern day pirates... it really is a family curse.. the job you hope to never see your kids fall in to but they go after that dangerous 💰☠ 🏴☠️
@@brokenprincessofhell4743 ... Yeah. I know....... OVERWHELMINGLY done as royalty.. Not pirate themed. So again I say, I enjoyed the twist on the trend.
This. I recognize there’s no malice in how this video ends, but it risks telling victims they can’t do better so they shouldn’t try to have fulfilling relationships in the first place “to avoid the inevitable” (it’s not inevitable, it’s a choice).
