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Breaking My Silence: My Experience with Spiritual Abuse | Church Hurt | 4 Signs of Spiritual Abuse 

Sade Solomon
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@Tanaeaa
@Tanaeaa 6 месяцев назад
As a former Jehovah’s witnesses I developed a discernment for cults and religious abuse because of my experience in that cult. I am still a believer in Christ but I don’t do well with religion even now as I try to be apart of church it just doesn’t resonate with me because once you get free from control it’s hard to go back and conform to that. I learned that if anyone says they are the way to God or their organization is the one true church etc I learned to run because Jesus says HE is the WAY the truth and life no one comes to the father except THROUGH HIM not an organization or another person JESUS ONLY… Thank you for your transparency
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon 6 месяцев назад
AMEN!!! This is so true, I thank God for freeing you from that cult. I pray that you will build the confidence to be the light to educate others who are trapped. Sorry for my late reply, I am just now getting back on YT!
@tynaklimengo
@tynaklimengo Год назад
WOW!!! Thank you for your transparency in sharing your story. This was such a good message. Super straight forward & to the point. Helping people to discern for themselves when they are being spiritual abused. It’s even making me think back to some of the churches I’ve attended, where I’ve witnessed some of these thing. My biggest prayer is that people would seek God for themselves & know that God will speak to them directly, that they don’t have to be dependent on a leader. When the word says ALL THINGS!!! He means ALL THINGS!!! Thank you for your obedience in serving while under these circumstances knowing that it was an assignment. and I Love how GOD is using you to shed light in this area. I also love how you properly left the church no drama, no smoke, JUST GOD‼️ May the Lord refresh & refill you for your pour! 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
Whewwwww Tyna, you always be saying all the right things. I be wanting to comment on every single point. But yes, God is using everything now and i wish people would study for THEMSELVES !!!!!!
@charnitadickson9784
@charnitadickson9784 5 месяцев назад
I definitely understand what she coming from
@KytiaLamour
@KytiaLamour Год назад
I’m glad you got to share your grievances with the pastor before you left that church because I do feel like people need to be aware of the wicked things they’re doing. Even if they deny it, you can’t say you didn’t try. Also, I can relate to you on the “prayer call” cult. A very similar thing happened to me and I didn’t realize how manipulative it was until God told me to stop joining those calls. 😳
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
Amen! Yes, I’m grateful for that too. I think that conversation helped me to release what I experienced. I’m grateful that I don’t have any resentment towards them for what occurred! God sure is faithful !!!! Thanks for sharing Kytia 🕊️
@lisanelson7234
@lisanelson7234 Год назад
Thank you for your willingness to be vulnerable. All of The Lord’s purposes will come to pass, and what He has brought you through is and will continue to be used for His glory.
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
Amen!! Thank you Lisa. I’m living in the midst of the fulfillment of those promises 💕
@lauryjerry1566
@lauryjerry1566 Год назад
For me i couldnt wait to leave ...Just because everytime was in the church ...was busy seeing everything opposite of scriptures !! I run
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
I feel that!!!
@Joey-fk7kb
@Joey-fk7kb 2 месяца назад
Thank you for opening up about this ❤️ I feel most over look what was talked out in this video. Sometimes many dismiss it as being a rebel🥲 im currently going through the same thing. After years of attending my church, it opened my eyes on how controlling that place is. Now I'm finding myself again after years of being bullied. im finally able to stand up for myself but it isnt easy🙏
@phillinsogood
@phillinsogood Месяц назад
This was so needed & well spoken thank you for sharing!! The church that I’ve been at for 5 years now I recently had an issue where I was trying to lead a dance life group but was rejected & was told a lot of mean things like “nobody would wanna join because I’m leading” & “you didn’t open up in this life group when this one guy opened up about being molested” all kinds of mean spirited things from a church leader. Shortly after this interaction I was quitly removed from the youth ministry as leader because I needed to work on my influence and how people perceived me as the funny person which is silly. I’m someone who’s kind and encouraging and I got dismissed for being myself. Also I find out that they green lit a dance life group to someone else behind my back which was shady.
@edwardnoeljr.5550
@edwardnoeljr.5550 Год назад
Hello Sister ! I understand what you've experienced. I and many other men and women went through this with a man who Pastors a Ministry and have had many people bound and deceived by operating in a witchcraft spirit and using God's Word to manipulate people. Many have been freed from that place but were severely wounded by Him and the things they he and his wife and leadership had done . I'm so glad that your eyes were opened and now your free . God Bless you . Keep the faith...❤
@healingisthechildrensbread96
This is my exact story. Thank you so much for sharing ❤ I’m grateful to God for this revelation and I’ve now gotten closure from your testimony.
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
Wow!! Bless God. Testimonies like this keep me going!! God bless you ❤️
@denisecrystal1717
@denisecrystal1717 2 месяца назад
Wow each one of those things I just experienced in the church I just left. The first fruit seed offerings, the seating in the front, the mandatory outfits, the 3 mandatory services every Sunday, and so many other things. God is so merciful, I’m glad I’m free now.
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon 2 месяца назад
Did we go to the same church?! Sheesh!!!!
@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044
@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044 Месяц назад
Give Cesar what is Cesar and to God what is Gods. You pay taxes to the government why not give money to the church your a member of?
@victoiredouniama9125
@victoiredouniama9125 Год назад
Girl I just found your channel I am blessed by this video . I am from Congo and I have come across church leaders like this its horrible and he was so charismatic too, Not I just pray at home coz the church in Congo is a scam and I can tell this is kind of a global issue in the body of Christ God help us.
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
It is a global issue, it’s really sad but only a sign of the times!
@folasadesofowora6645
@folasadesofowora6645 Год назад
Wow thank u for this. I have been wanting to make a podcast on situations like this. We need to pray for people who are still in bondage. Thank u for speaking out.
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
Yes we do !!! Please do the podcast. This happened to me so many years ago and I’m just sharing it! Don’t be me !!!
@Universaltruth333
@Universaltruth333 Год назад
Dang had to leave my church recently. I asked the group to take me off their text thread and they texted me randomly saying they are praying for me. I was pissed so I went to the pastor. Then a leader from my other group messages me wanting to know the tea. Churches are all just a cult business that’s it. And these “leaders” have way to much sense of control and love to manipulate people. So glad I’m out of that mess. I never liked going over there.
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon 6 месяцев назад
I dont think this is true for all churches but I'll admit, finding a good church is HARD
@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044
@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044 Месяц назад
Was there a specific reason you asked to be removed fe the group text?
@yshstar
@yshstar Год назад
We thank God for His Word which always confirms what is not of Him. We appreciate your testimony of transparency. Great counsel is shared here. Matt. 7:20 “Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them”
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
Amen 🙏🏾
@aaliyahlunan876
@aaliyahlunan876 Год назад
That’s so scary to experience. I’ve had this video saved in my ‘Watch later’ for a while and I’ve been hesitating to watch because I know I’ve experienced some of these things and it hurts to revisit them but it’s so important to have these conversations.
@Tanaeaa
@Tanaeaa 6 месяцев назад
I just want to say thank you so much for this ! Because I know that God called me to this particular church and I’m struggling so bad for so many reasons I speak up and of course they get on the platform and speak indirectly about the things I’ve said but I also see them address the things I express my concern about but in a way that still makes me look like I’m bitter I don’t feel there is any compassion and it’s just a lot going on that goes against my own personal values but I know God called me there but I haven’t been a good steward I’ve been fussing in and out telling them take me off the roster because I feel that the church placed me in bondage but you said something that rang a bell in my mind the Lord placed you there to ground you to prepare you for spiritual warfare in order to go out to do what God called you to do! Thank you I believe this is my situation but I’m like I cannot go through this again Serving religion but losing my relationship I tried just coming and going but the calls and the pressure to be in ministries make me angry because I only want to show up and be silent because I know God called me there but I don’t like religion… This blessed me and gave me something to pray about thank you so much for this
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon 6 месяцев назад
this is soo good! Thank you for sharing. We are called to be the light in the world and most times, the light is to shine on the darkness, don't forget that !
@Mpho_Makola
@Mpho_Makola Год назад
Man! Thank you so much for sharing this!! A lot of us have been through a lot in the church 💔
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
It’s unfortunate !!
@miananicholas4514
@miananicholas4514 Год назад
This video is very on time. Thank you for sharing your experience.
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
Wow bless God 🥹🥹
@SJD36
@SJD36 Год назад
It was so courageous of you to make this video about your experience . This can help a lot of people who are going through this. I appreciate you sharing. I too have left churches because of things like what you mentioned and it is freeing. Praise God you have learned so much from all that and now can help others see. Much love and prayers for you! God bless!
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
Amen! I thank God for the spirit of boldness ! My prayer is that these videos set the captives free. I know what being in bondage feels like and I don’t want that for my brothers and sisters in Christ. God bless you and thank you for the encouragement !
@SJD36
@SJD36 Год назад
@@sadesolomon praise God! May we all walk in boldness more fully and watch chains be broken!
@heisrisen6898
@heisrisen6898 Год назад
Thank you for sharing your past experiences I am 1000% that millions of other people have been going through this for the past many years. Me and my family left a church called King Jesus ministries in Miami Florida just about everything you mentioned is a direct reflection of that place. Thank God we have been out since the beginning of the plandemic and up to now thousands of people have left that please multiple so-called leaders have left from under his wing. The main pastor has gotten a divorce. Even his son has gotten a divorce after that but anyway, it’s sad and unfortunate because they started off well and at this point only God knows their position but yes, that place became all about politics. Greed after greed after greed, money, money money money hungry may God have mercy on his soul like my wife says we are living in times where the church is no longer going to be the building. Yes, the church has left the building. It is pretty much online or on the streets to God be the glory in the name of Jesus Christ. I forgot to mention we were there for about 16 years.
@jenniferraleigh3500
@jenniferraleigh3500 4 месяца назад
You made a very important statement when you said ‘you had not established a relationship with God’, during this time of following a woman. You can read Mark 1:23-25 where evil spirits dwell in the church/synagogue. As believers, beside going to church, befriending other believers, we must read, meditate and pray on God’s word to develop a relationship with Jesus. We can’t depend on other people to do it for us. We must put in the work or be subject to be mislead and yes drawn into ‘cult’ like situations. Praise God for His mercy.
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon 4 месяца назад
Amen!!!!!!
@Momo-lv4kn
@Momo-lv4kn Год назад
Thanks for sharing, you look good.
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
Thank you !!!!
@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044
@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044 Месяц назад
@@sadesolomonAbraham gave 10% to a priest who was also a king called Melchizedek and this took place before the law of Moses. But about everything else I understand what you mean.
@itskhennwickk4841
@itskhennwickk4841 Месяц назад
⁠@@onewotldgovernmentonlywhen9044 but like she said… now be blessed
@Tanaeaa
@Tanaeaa 6 месяцев назад
The manipulation of scripture to fit their point of view making women feel like they are trying to be men if they are embracing their singleness and self care it’s like women should always be sacrificing or else they’re trying to be men if they starts focusing on self it’s selfish but yet is acceptable for men. Women are supposed just be sitting around waiting and praying for a husband. Then they have to be so perfect in order to get one then tolerate his shenanigans and labor in prayer for him just women suffer suffer suffer and that’s what I can’t take either. I don’t mind marriage etc but in the mean time I’m enjoying singleness and self care I don’t need to be sitting around crying for a husband. my worth isn’t attached to that. I just that feel my church isn’t for single people in general it’s supports men marriage and single mothers…I don’t fall into any I am a single woman without children …but this blessed me and I realize that no matter how much I don’t want to be there if God called me there I need to go and not care about what they think of me and continue to stand my ground by not conforming to false teachings even if it’s coming from the pulpit when I know it’s in opposition to Gods word … Thank you you spoke to my soul
@terminatorx6230
@terminatorx6230 3 месяца назад
You should name the church that you’re talking about so people can avoid it.
@jacqueline8566
@jacqueline8566 Год назад
Did the senior pastor know about the “prayer call”?
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
Yes! I told him everything before leaving and his response confirmed that I needed to go!
@A51793
@A51793 4 дня назад
Honey, it wasn’t just spiritual abuse it was a cult!
@alivinggodservice
@alivinggodservice 3 месяца назад
Its flamboyance not charisma. Charisma is good in balance
@bria7885
@bria7885 Год назад
What Church did u go to and did u report it?
@sadesolomon
@sadesolomon Год назад
I don’t think it’s necessary to mention the church’s name. I shared what the Holy Spirit allowed me to share.
@lxparisblu777
@lxparisblu777 Месяц назад
You're not helping the next person that is experiencing hurt. Please read and share if you can. Matthew 18:15-17 is about dealing with sin in the church. The passage says: "If your brother sins against you, go and rebuke him in private. If he listens to you, you have won your brother". "But if he won't listen, take one or two more with you, so that by the testimony of two or three witnesses every fact may be established". "If he pays no attention to them, tell the church. But if he doesn't pay attention even to the church, let him be like an unbeliever and a tax collector to you" Proverbs 31:8-9 ESV / 140 helpful votes Helpful Not Helpful Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are destitute. Open your mouth, judge righteously, defend the rights of the poor and needy.
@user-iq9zf3gv2p
@user-iq9zf3gv2p 3 месяца назад
The problem you have was being obsessed with the woman and the title she held.
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