The man actually has a point: When a baby starts crying, they need to IMMEDIATELY be taken out of the restaurant; and nobody wants to see that woman's tits.
The guy: Its very very rude to bring a baby to a fancy restaurant. Well sir, it is very rude to complain about a baby then making it cry, AND STILL COMPLAINING ABOUT THE BABY CRYING
The man actually has a point: When a baby starts crying, they need to IMMEDIATELY be taken out of the restaurant; and nobody wants to see that woman's tits.
Well any slight noises in a restaurant could make a baby cry and people go there to have a peaceful time with there family and then there's a annoying baby crying and the mother is breast feeding next to people who are eating
I completely agree with him, if there was a baby sitting next to me in a fancy restaurant and crying I would’ve been pissed off but he did express his feelings in a wrong way edit: y’all are funny arguing lmao😂
Thats the thing. The baby didn't even utter a peep until the man purposefully hit his glass with a spoon or fork. Like a ringing like that in a newborns ears especially after hearing being so mean just before that can really upset a child. That man should have just shut up and enjoyed his meal in the first place instead of starting a fight. Yes I understand crying does get annoying and I agree it would be annoying. But if someone is doing shit on purpose to make a child cry is just wrong
I don't know, maybe get up and change your seat? The mom and the baby have as much right to be there as the man does. They're not doing nothing wrong, so if he has a problem he can go somewhere else. I know first hand what it's like to be next to a screeching baby in a four hour flight right next to them, and I agree it's annoying but it's not in their control.
Sad that this comment has likes When I go to a restaurant I maybe don't like the way someone eats or how loud they talk, but I don't live alone in this world Stay at home if you hate people
EVERYONE are yall on something because SHE LEGIT SAID that this is her birthday and her only time off in so long and the fact that she does not make too much money so she can only afford the restaurant like man did yall even watch the whole vid before commenting (just saying)
I really appreciate how this mother stayed respectful and calm. Even when this man was being unbelievably rude. She gives other women especially of color a good name.
@@leatherface9022 Well then! Since you support the mother so much, why dont YOU buy her a babysitter so people can enjoy their dinner without being grossed out!
I was relieved to find out that Daniel and Rita were actually not a married couple, just a dating couple. With me having a misunderstanding that they were supposed to be a married couple, I was getting nervous about the part when would Rita would say "I want a divorce"
Guy had a point. You don't bring a baby to a Steakhouse edit- A- Why are you all getting so pissed? B-Would you want a crying baby right next to you if you were trying to enjoy a fancy dinner. Listen, maybe we can agree to disagree, but I stand by my opinion, so please... stop getting so fucking heated.
she can't afford a babysitter, but she can afford a fancy restaurant?? where's the logic?? plus, that's their problem. whoever wants to go to a fancy place and has a baby who can't be taken care of just shouldnt go. @@loganmalough2379
Breastfeeding is NOT gross. It’s beautiful. Take it from me, I get grossed out very easily. But breastfeeding would NOT gross me out. It’s feeding a baby.
@@leatherface9022 then people will argue, “Going to the bathroom is natural but I don’t do that in public” Yeah but that’s actually gross. I’d almost puke if that happened next to me
I'm a dad, not a mom, but I can definitely relate! There were plenty of times when I'd take my young children somewhere, only to encounter sourpusses who would start complaining about them before they'd even uttered a peep! I don't remember anyone as brazen and rude about it as the guy in this video, but I most definitely noticed the disdainful looks and audible mumbling. My wife most likely had to tolerate even worse if I wasn't with her. It's a pity there aren't more people out there like the waitress and restaurant owner in this video.
The man actually has a point: When a baby starts crying, they need to IMMEDIATELY be taken out of the restaurant; and nobody wants to see that woman's tits.
I went through a similar situation when I had a girlfriend who kept hounding me about meeting my two nieces (then 4yo and 10yo), then one day, I brought her meet them for the first time only for her to scold them and call them "brats". I kept trying to tell her they're just kids but she wasn't having it.
She did the right thing to let him go she feels humiliate to date someone like that the man is acting like a child he should learn his lesson fantastic story love it
The man actually has a point: When a baby starts crying, they need to IMMEDIATELY be taken out of the restaurant; and nobody wants to see that woman's tits.
I was a single mother with two children there's no way in hell I would bring my kids to a fine dining restaurant have some common sense the mother in the video said that she couldn't afford a babysitter well if she can't afford a babysitter why is she going to a fine dining restaurant with the stupid baby common sense go be at home
@leatherface9022 Exactly what I said. If it was at the movies, I would totally side with this guy, but it’s not. But this is typical behavior from Karens (and Ken). They don’t care about logic, they just want a reason to control everything and everyone around them like they own the place.
u cant always trust baby sitters number one. number two SHE SAID she wanted to treat herself . Number three. MOMS are aloud to go out with there baby. U just want something to whine and cry about. be quiet
We aren’t winning tell your bratty baby to stop crying when your have good moments and screaming so shut up the brat also she could use family if not comfortable with baby sitter
Sadly, things like this happen. People always comment on Mums breastfeeding in public when all they're doing is trying to feed their child and always complain, which is silly as the people complaining can get told that others don't like the way they eat, there's no difference. Breast feeding can happen anywhere and breasts are meant for feeding babies and not just for men's pleasure.
@@leatherface9022 no one is sexualizing breastfeeding. No one wants to see that because it's ugly and disgusting. Their bodies aren't sexual, they are stretched out, damaged, and ugly and no one wants to see that including their husbands.
I remember I was in a restaurant with my boyfriend once a few years ago we were both 17 and 19 were On a double date with our two friends who were 16 at the time and these two toddlers were running all over the place when I told her to keep her kids quiet the manger asked us to leave
Daniel would likely be the type who would think his stay-at-home wife was lazy for taking a nap after having a busy day of housework and rearing children, while doing nothing to help her except criticize.
Also walk in men shoes getting society turned their back on them and we work more as we have higher jobs but high crime is well for example my future could have been destroyed as a girl in high school accused me about bullying her and cuz shr is a girl my teacher believes her lucky after a week her freinds figured out she lied
@@ClownCapp babysitters cost alot of money! Also I took my daughter everywhere I went, to restaurant, to baby showers, to weddings and I loved the time we send together and so did she! The reason I said he should walk a mile in the lady's shoe is because hiw hard it is for a single woman to do things! Some men will not help!
@gwenniecase2810 The lady did the right thing by dumping him. His childish behavior towards that mom and her baby, shows exactly what kind of father he would have been if they decided to get married and have kids.
“you’re the only adult here acting like a baby” 😂. he really thought he got what he wanted and then got insulted lol 😝. and then gets dumped too 🤯 life clearly is going great for him 💀.
@@onceaonceforeveraonce523she shouldnt bring a baby to a fancy restaurant, she claims a babysitter is too expensive, but she can eat at a fancy restaurant
@scoobie4269 Depends on your attitude. If you always let useless things, like a random baby crying bother you, you’re night/day will always be ruined no matter what.
@extremelypropanda8082 He was acting like a “Ken”. Feeling entitled to get his way and sticking his nose into other people’s business. He ruined his own night.
It's not actually about being able to afford a sitter or not. She is a breastfeeding mom, she likely cannot leave the baby with a sitter. Also, a QUALIFIED babysitter for a newborn is extremely expensive. We're talking a registered nurse who knows infant cpr etc, for 5 hours probably. Even if the baby can drink from a bottle (many breastfeeding babies CANNOT), she would have breast engorgement/ risk mastitis not nursing on schedule. Babies HAVE to be with mom for the first 6 months at least, and if the mom is still breastfeeding beyond that they likely have to still not stray/be babysat. Many mothers also cannot use a pump, in case you were wondering. I am one of them... Just doesn't work for me.
@@extremelypropanda8082 You cannot have any expectation of a truly bougie experience unless you reserve a private table/room at a restaurant, or stay home. Guarantee you this is just an average restaurant, and other people have rights too. Women shouldn’t be expected to be unable to go out in public for a year after childbirth, and this is a very young, very quiet infant. Newborns aren’t really fussy, they’re asleep most of the time. Sick of blatant anti-natalism masking as “decency”. Guarantee you the people who would complain about the baby would complain whether she was at a Silverado’s or a McDonalds, and it would have everything to do with their expectations of what would happen rather than reality…. I always strived to go to places I saw as more accepting of kids after the birth, but you know what? It’s her birthday, baby is quiet, and there is only an imagined problem. People need to be more accepting of people breastfeeding and wearing their babies, they are much much calmer worn and breastfed, and truly not a nuisance. Babies cry only when they need something and the parent has been trying to ignore it/make them wait.
Ima be honest, I don’t like toddler because of their mess eating, drooling and crying, it’s too loud and annoying for me, so I can see where this man is coming from.
@@Gingersnap_Adventures I like how you just acknowledge that it is 50-50 and you don't have any more right to be there than the parents. Balanced individual, despite your not wanting to sit next to a baby in the restaurant :) There are some true idiots in this comments section, you are reasonable lol
This man is definetly a male version of a karen. I like how he got kicked out for his rude and childish behaviour and that his girlfriend dumped him lol.
The man actually has a point: When a baby starts crying, they need to IMMEDIATELY be taken out of the restaurant; and nobody wants to see that woman's tits.
the man was right that crying babies in a fine dining restaurant is annoying and inconsiderate. but in this case, the baby was quiet until he made the noise. and i believe there is nothing wrong with breastfeeding. the baby is eating it’s lunch/dinner, just like how everyone else is. and she was also covering herself while feeding so there is no exposing. however, if the baby was continuously crying in a fine dining restaurant, I would 100% agree with the man. I also feel like the owner was biased since she had a baby as well. And a meal on the house? that sounds too good to be true, no fine dining restaurant ever does that irl. this is my honest review about this video
Due to my autism, babies crying is pretty overwhelming for me. I visibly flinch. But I know there's nothing no one can do about it because crying is the only way for babies to tell people that something is up. So it's best for me to focus on keeping myself under control rather than get angry at the parent(s), especially when all the baby is doing is crying because they want to be fed, like everyone else. It's really a shame not every adult can have the maturity to understand that simple fact about babies.
I’m autistic too and can totally relate it’s not the baby just the loud noise of crying that triggers a sensory overload… earphones are great we can just ignore the world n listen to music 💜
The man actually has a point: When a baby starts crying, they need to IMMEDIATELY be taken out of the restaurant; and nobody wants to see that woman's tits.
I can't blame the guy, I was at a restaurant once and there was a baby at the table next to me and they were not only crying and being annoying, they literally go to my table and was being a idiot.
@@Comrade_YGI work at a grocery store and I hear little kids cry and scream at the top of their lungs. I just can’t understand how these parents can let their kids be as loud as they can!
@@lucascrubjay1914 He certainly did! By all those disrespectful things he said about the baby. He shouldn’t even be in that restaurant if he’s going to embarrass his girlfriend and complain about a crying baby
You’re supposed to have a calm and quiet voice at a restaurant anyway… you shouldn’t be shouting for the whole place to hear you. No one goes “ARE YOU ENJOYING OUR DATE, BABE? HOW WAS WORK TODAY?!” He’s acting like he literally got violated😂
@@bhood2000 I’m saying that yelling will make babies more scared and they’ll cry more. Adults shouldn’t be crying unless there’s a valid reason, even then you should stay quiet or leave the public place if you’re going to cry. A happy cry is different. If you’re proposing, happy crying is fine. If you’re annoyed at a proposal, that sucks. People are going to propose at fancy places.
I’m a guy. My sister breast fed her kids. It was awkward when she would pull out her breast and start feeding my niece or nephew at the kitchen table at our parent’s house. Yes, it is absolutely a perfectly natural thing to do but rather uncomfortable (well at least for me) when I was having a donut and a cup of coffee.
We all have the right to be where we please in peace. And if that means splurging at a nice restaurant, so be it. I like myself some sushi. 😋 This world has so many experiences that cost money, but we can all do this! Peace! Keep counting your blessings❤
@CIslas-im1um Just like people have a right to treat themself to a nice dinner and bring their family along. It’s highly disrespectful to deny people of that when you don’t have the power. That man was a GUEST not the owner! He needed to learn his place. The only way you’re going to be a quiet meal is to eat at home.
Honestly, I see both sides here. I don’t think you should bring a baby into a fancy restaurant. But I’m not going to be rude to you if you do. However, if your baby is crying excessively, then yes, I will complain to MANAGEMENT, not amongst other patrons. I would not have kicked the guy out. I would have asked the lady and her baby to leave for the excessive noise her baby was making. It’s a restaurant, not a daycare.
First of all, a mother cannot bring her baby to a public place with no one to help with the baby. Secondly, this is a public, eating place where people come to eat food, not to listen to a baby crying and making baby noises. A mother cannot randomly just start breastfeeding her child in front of everyone. There are milk bottles that you can put your milk in for the baby. There are no rules that you can bring a baby to a restaurant, but you as a parent should know that kids are not allowed in public places for adults unless you can control them and tell them what to do and what not to do. If you can't find someone to look after your child, don't bring your child to a public place and accept people to just ignore the noise. That's just the truth.
First of all, breastfeeding is necessary no matter where you are. Secondly, moms have every right to breastfeed in public places. Ultimately, if you think breastfeeding should be done in the bathroom, you should eat all your meals in the bathroom.
We get that you are a single mother/parent and it's your birthday, okay? That doesn't mean that you should stick out one breast in a restaurant and expect people to be okay with that, even though you're covering it with a blanket. Babies make noise all the time, in a good way. You can't bring your child and have a good meal at the same time. You can't accept people to believe that you don't have any family members who can look after your child or a friend. Everyone who's a newborn parent will always have someone who they can go to for help. It can be financial help (💵💰) or physical help (help with your child or children), no charge needed.
@franklinkhama3038 it doesn't matter if they're not okay with her breastfeeding in public. If they don't want to see it, they could either look the other way or leave the restaurant. If you want quiet, go to a library or a movie theater. It's not rocket science. It's common sense.
The man actually has a point: When a baby starts crying, they need to IMMEDIATELY be taken out of the restaurant; and nobody wants to see that woman's tits.
Or maybe he’s right.. there are certain places that are only for adults and that’s how parents can actually stand being around their kids. When they get to drink multiple glasses of wine and smoke a joint.. then we go back to our kids after
Yeaaaah, but most "fancy" restaurants... usually don't like when people are loud. Unless they're "celeb" standard fancy restaurants..those are louder places. So he's kinda wrong too. And the baby wouldn't have been an issue if he just minded his own business. He purposely made the baby cry. I went to fancy places, took My babies to movie theaters. And they never were loud or cried. But I also always made sure I had loud noises around my belly when they were in the womb. Lol
I work in a restaurant as a manager and we get lots of kids, we always love children here but sometimes we get babies screaming their heads off and the other guests look visibly uncomfortable, I feel like you should leave your children at home if they’re not old enough to at least be able to control their behaviour
The man actually has a point: When a baby starts crying, they need to IMMEDIATELY be taken out of the restaurant; and nobody wants to see that woman's tits.
So you don’t have enough money to hire a babysitter but your at a fancy resturant also I’m not a mom but if someone started breastfeeding a kid in a fancy resturant or anywhere in public…
she was treating herself since it was her birthday + her first day off in a really long time. she might've have been saving up to go to this restaurant
He is the one who is right actually, kids really bother other customers they are loud and while people are trying to enjoy their meal they cry and ruin the moment
This film is obviously fake, in real life babies always make a scene. We all have families and love the babies, but there is a time and place for babies and this is no place for babies. Have respect for other people and let them enjoy their dinner.
I do understand the fact why the man is annoyed because he does have a point about the baby being in a fancy restaurant. But it was his way of handling the situation and being a hypocrite that was bad. The man also has a point about the woman breastfeeding next to people eating.. could she not do it in a bathroom?
Ok 1. She kept herself covered and kept the baby covered. There was no part of her skin showing that would be considered indecency. 2. That baby was quiet until he hit his glass which a high pitched noise like that can very well disturb any baby no matter what. The fact he did it on purpose as well was inconsiderate. 3. No one else was bothered about a INFANT being there. That old man was the only one disturbed despite that baby not even making a peep. Yea I get it crying can get annoying. But that baby didn't do anything in the first place. That man started shit then got even more pissed off after that child got startled and woken up. U cannot blame that child for that GROWN MANS outburst over a "problem" that never even happened
There’s no such thing as a quiet restaurant. This isn’t the library or movie theater, has it been either of those 2 places, I’d completely side with the man but it isn’t. Restaurants are filled with people socializing and music playing.
I ain't gonna lie, Im with the guy on this one. You gotta have some sort of manners when dining at a fancy restaurant and bringing an annoying ass crying baby isn't gonna get everyone feeling sorry for you. Also if you can afford a fancy meal at a fancy restaurant, you can certainly afford a babysitter for 2-4 hours.
She could clearly bottle feed the baby while in public place! That’s why there are breast pumps, so nursing moms can pump milk for bottles! No excuse this days!
Dhar mann really taught me and still teaches me a lot of life lessons thanks to him i now know the reality of some people! Thank you so much for your efforst Dhar😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉
I don’t sympathize with grown folks who act like Karens (or Kens). This guy doesn’t own the restaurant, so he doesn’t have a say as to who gets to come in and who doesn’t.
In this case I have to aside with the man. He reserved the date night, spent his money and time, just someone can bother him or expect him to stay silent because it's some stranger's baby's nap time.
No one was bothering the man. He should've kept his mouth shut and minded his own business, not to mention badgering a breastfeeding mom is illegal in some states.
@ itsMari- This isn’t about being right or wrong or taking sides. The way you HANDLE a situation says a lot about you and your character. This is the real world! We ALL at some point have to put up with things we don’t like. If you choose to become parents or a nanny, crying babies is something you have to deal with everyday! Not just as restaurants. Even when you go to be store to run errands, you may spot kids screaming and crying. It’s a part of life. But if you react in a rude way, people will look down upon you for having a nasty attitude.
@WannabeSelina He knew what was upcoming. And it happened as he predicted, baby started crying, BECAUSE he raised his voice, but excuse me, he was supposed to stay silent due to their personal accommodation? Maybe he was being too harsh, but he had all the right to.
Most people probably can’t afford to go to a restaurant every day so likely can only go once a while and imagine a baby just crying right next to you then the mother breastfeeding her whilst your trying to eat .and you get kicked out ,I am obviously siding with the man.she can’t afford a babysitter when she is literally in a fancy restaurant
Due to my autism, babies crying is pretty overwhelming for me. I visibly flinch. But I know there's nothing no one can do about it because crying is the only way for babies to tell people that something is up. So it's best for me to focus on keeping myself under control rather than get angry at the parent(s), especially when all the baby is doing is crying pecause they want to be fed, like everyone else. It's really a shame not every adult can have the maturity to understand that simple fact about babies. That doesn’t give you the right to be rude to someone Children misbehave it’s normal, his grown ass behaving like that isn’t normal.
@Birchtree16 Not the same story. The guy in the video did NOT have autism, he was just acting like a selfish Ken who thinks he’s entitled to his own way.
If u clearly notice, it was that guy who made the sound from the glass and intentionally made the baby cry so he could blame the mother. I agree you get annoyed by a baby crying, but that doesn't give you the right to humiliate the mother and the baby
Who says she’s a bad mother? She knows what’s right and what’s wrong and I’m sure if she left her baby at home all by herself she probably would’ve been charged for child neglect, child abandonment and child endangerment because that’s what I call a bad mother! I can see that babysitters are expensive even if I didn’t understand that as child because it is a job but babysitter or parent she is a fabulous mother! She and her baby didn’t cause a scene he just made the baby cause a scene by causing it himself! For those who think someone whether they’re children aren’t doing anything wrong or people with problems that aren’t bad or whatever are gonna cause a scene and are being rude to them just walk out or ignore them because you’re the ones that are causing scenes for everyone. And Dhar it’s just like you said in another video it’s not about the mother’s right to breastfeed it’s about the child’s right to eat! I love you!!! 🩷💖💗💝💕💓💞🫶🏻👍🏻🙏🏻
The man actually has a point: When a baby starts crying, they need to IMMEDIATELY be taken out of the restaurant; and nobody wants to see that woman's tits.
I like the video because I can see if my people don’t like I am a single mother breastfeeding, her child in a restaurant, but the same time I see discrimination in it and I can see how Danielle is acting like a baby with his feelings and emotions, and I don’t agree that anyone should go through that, and it was a great video
Not EVERYONE likes sitting next to a baby. The man who’s accused of causing a scene was quiet and still tolerated them until she started to play that stupid toy which was definitely annoying and disturbing. There are other people sitting to enjoy their quality experience not to hear someone inconsiderately shaking that toy. The baby was already asleep so it doesn’t makes any sense to do that. I agree it’s a fancy restaurant so don’t act like as if you’re at some local neighborhood. She could have quietly sit with her baby and not play that stupid toy when the baby was already sleeping and it wouldn’t have caused the man to be disturbed. It’s that simple. Everyone could have quietly enjoyed their time.
Nobody was forcing him to “deal” with the baby. He has the freedom to get up and go back home to cook his own food. Or order door dash. Problem solved.
What’s not normal about a baby eating? Is it because you sexualize a woman’s body and forget that her purpose is for much more than sex and the male gaze?
tbh, i side with the "rude" guy. moms with newborns shouldn't go to fancy restaurants, with their child. it could be really annoying for other families/couples who want to celebrate a huge milestone in their lives, listening to babies crying-
100% agreed with ya. Other annoying things would be:drooling, messy eating, and if you’re looking after ur niece or grandchild it’s annoying to listen to “Peppa Pig” or “Cocomelon”. *Yes, I’ve had personal experience with my niece.*
