Bride Cares MORE About Other's Opinions Of Her Dress Than Her Own | Curvy Brides Boutique 

Oh I'm so sorry. Glad you got away from him.

Oh no, that's just awful! I'm so sorry you had to go through that and happy your were able to move on 💓

I can relate. My ex was indifferent at the wedding and through out the marriage.

Congratulations on leaving him

I'm so sorry. :( I'm sure you looked stellar.

Such a shame… she clearly LOVED the second dress

Well said!

Maybe she was rethinking the getting married part. One could hope. There’s too many red flags in their relationship for me to feel confident in their pairing.

It was a little creepy.

Yes, she just lit up with happiness when she had that one on. Such a shame she didn't trust herself to choose that one, it really suited her.

2:34 The bride's friend says that she doesn't think that the groom tried to influence Holly; that he was just complimenting on her a dress that she showed him, rather than that was the only style of dress he wanted to see her in.

Don't worry, not your problem 😁it's for her to think about her choices

Me too. I am concerned.

He might not be controlling at all. She is the one who asked for that opinion. I know people who are just not able to make up their minds.

Maybe shes the one without backbone . people will give their opinions, especially when you ask them.

@@aminabakir8205 cold much?

Absolutely!

Agreed. By comparison, her face in the other 2 dresses was sad 😔 I hope she watches this

It so so obvious. But don't blame the groom. She asked for his opinion and he gave it to her.

Exactly! Her face lit up and she could not hold back a beautiful smile. I hope they will post what she finally selected.

she threw a monkey wrench in the whole thing because she showed him the pictures. already, she is teaching him that it is ok to put HIM first and herself last.

100%

He’s a narcissist. Avoid them at all costs.

That's not fair.. We didn't get all stories though...

I was thinking about that based on a comment her friend made. Just because he loves the cleavage doesn’t mean he wouldn’t love a different style, especially if she looks as radiant and giddy as she did in that second dress. Hopefully. Also, did the fiancé think through the fact that all their relatives would be seeing this dress? In that third dress, their baby would think it was feeding time.

We can't tell if his fiancé is controlling.. to me it sounds more as if he just told her his opinion and now she feels she needs to please him. She doesn't seem too confident, maybe even shows a codependency tendency idk

I hope they're happy together but when she was describing him, all I could hear was 🚩🚩🚩.

@@kirbyhatesincels917 hard same

I think she gave herself away by worrying so much about what dress HE wants her in. If he really loves you, he will love ANY dress you choose! She'll spend the marriage trying to please him. And that gets very exhausting.

@@annecaulder9495 Too true. Exhausting.

I agree with you I thought that 3rd dress aged her 20 years!

the fact her friends said, “he complimented her in a fitted dress and now she’s zoning in on how she needs that dress” tells me he’s not controlling, but like you said, she’s putting his happiness before her own. hope she realizes her happiness is just as important!

He really isn't controlling. He is the most amazing man and he is my best friend. The editing has made it look like something it's not. I had a baby, wasn't feeling myself. I have always been a people pleaser, its not to do with him. My insecurity isn't due to Jamie, he could try and build me up all he wanted and it wouldn't have made me feel any better at that time. It actually really upsetting to see someone you love being referred to as a red flag, because that is so far from what he is like. Anyway, I went dress shopping on my own, so I could only deal with my thoughts on what the dress look liked. I looked and felt amazing in a beautiful dress that I chose all on my own.

@@hollyMb-nt7ezexactly Holly. Wishing you and your significant other a beautiful journey ahead. ❤

@@hollyMb-nt7ez How wonderful. I'm glad you found a dress you wanted and married a wonderful partner.

I agree. The only person you need to please in the end is yourself.

I agree. She also appears to have zero self confidence or a voice for herself. I really hope that her groom isn’t an overbearing, controlling man. You could also be onto something with the postpartum.

But, it might take years before she figures it out. I lived all for him for 28 years B4 I realized, "I love him, he loves him, no one loved me-becsuse I had disappeared

She reminds me of myself when I was wholly and solely codependent on my partner. I'm not sure it's necessarily her partner that is the problem

Yes I'm getting that vibe from her too ....she looks depressed too ....possibly abusive...hence why she feels has to please jamie ....which is a huge sign of no self worth

Yeah that fitted one aged her 20 years!

Funny, I thought the last one was the least flattering and made her look much older than she was. And the boobage on display looked tacky, not discreet.

Sadly, it appears as if she is not sure about more than picking the dress.

Yes, the unsure tone in her voice, as she was talking while she had started crying/was wiping away her tears. There is something else going on.

His store does not have enough dresses for the curvy brides. He can't pull them out of thin air.