Please it's not as easy as you saying it,some wives never listens to their husbands ,unless the husband goes to the wife's parents to report a case,if you haven't been in that situation before you will never understand, this is simple logic,if two married couples understands each other, most of the time, no other third party will hear their marital issues, the husbands too are sometimes like that, so always the wife runs to her pastor or the husband's parents to report,it's normal till they humble themselves and starts listening to each other's worries