I’ve been broken since 3-14-14 when my daughter passed away... The hardest thing in the world is making funeral arrangements for your child. So thankful I have a wonderful, strong husband that is my rock and has been by my side through all of this hell.
Yep. A random facebook reel brought me here. I had kind of forgotten about this song, but it fits my life perfectly right now. I'm definitely broken, and it's my own fault. I lost the best woman in the world because I have a drinking problem that I didn't recognize at the time, and I couldn't get out of my own head.
Alot of people really don't understand how much this song hits when you're in a dark place sometimes listening to these apparent sad songs and going through the commentsand seeing others feeling the same pains you felt it kinda helps you feel better in a way because you feel like people actually understand
Sheds a little light in the darkness of feeling all alone. To know I'm not so alone. There's other's out there who'd understand this hurt I try so hard to hide. But I feel I must hide.. in such a "blind on purpose" world.
I feel very much like that. Like i just dont fit in anywhere anymore. I'm not wamted and just annoying people. That every one is better off without me around. Amd im tired of crying like a weak ass bitch. Im tired of the Darkness and I do EVERY day and night I fight and have been for a long time many years.
I know everyone here would probably be having a hard time in their lives but all I wanna say is that y'all are not alone man it'll surely get better some day, I'm with y'all hurt people...
Thank you man, my life only just starting changing to a good way recently, just hard to get back to it since it was so brief a good thing occurred. I hope your feeling well man, i really hope you are..
Sadly, while her music is unappreciated by the younger generations, I know a great many people that she is their idol. The huge turnout at the evanescence concert recently showed that.
This was the first song I ever heard Amy Lee sing. It was on a jobsite 15 years ago and it came on some guy's internet radio station. I stopped working and was mesmerised and before I could ask, he told me it was Seether with the singer for Evanescence. I bought the Fallen CD on my way home and have been a fan ever since . I like everything she does: from the live Synthesis album, to her movie soundtracks, to her contribution to the new Body Count album with Ice T.
i was 5 when i heard this song for the first time . and it took me 13 years to find it finely ... i'm 18 now .. and i just found out what the lyrics are talking about 💔
It honestly does when you listen to it years later, like when you were a kid and was just rockin out to it and now you're a teenager and you just feel the whole thing, and then again when you're an adult and you relate to it in a way deeper level
Still hits me the same way that it did 16 years ago when I lost my husband to suicide when he was fighting terminal illness. And to this day I still wish there was something I could have done to take his pain away 😭😭 There is nothing worse than losing your soulmate to death, that is the worst kind of broken because then you're no good for anybody else. 💔💔
@@jaybarbieri8619 no kidding ive listened to this song and immortal after finding out that two of my aunts died a month apart and last month my uncle passed. Hopefully the new year wont ve as bad but who knows.
@@joshuafrizzell3494 Me either, but I’m progressing. And at the end of the day that’s all that really matters. Progression and healing. Hoping for nothing but the best for you
No one else is here yet but I don't know if you want to do it 😔😔☹️. no one is here yet and those who watch it not until you are in that area and those things happen to go to the beach and when you look at the other one is here yet but I will let you have it would be a good to be home
I always miss my husband so much he's been gone since August 15th 2016. He was the love of my life, my best friend. The thought of never being able to feel his touch or see him ever again kills me inside and makes me feel so broken inside . I love you Nathanael I hope you know I'll never stop loving you no matter what.
I am so sorry for your loss. Just know that your husband lives on through you and he will always be watching over you and in your heart. Stay strong girl! You do have the power and capability to survive and make it through the tough times of your life. As long as you leap over the obstacles that lay in your path you will be fine! Losing a person in your life can be very tough but you are doing the right thing by talking about it. Its okay to talk about your sadness and how much you love your husband. Just think of all the good times you have had with him and use that to laugh a little. He's not gone but rather watching over you from a safe distance and protecting you every night when you are asleep. I'm sure he would want nothing but to see you living a great life until the day that you and him meet again in a better place!
@@lordcornholio3390 the reason why he died because Ares killed him Now his son has to avenge his father But he's also going face my cousin Greshnu (the son of Darkness)
My sister passed away this past May, and since she's gone away, I feel nothing but "broken". Although it hurts like hell to listen to this song, it brings back very vivid memories of her that I never want to lose. She will always be in my heart. My sympathies to anyone who is listening to this and has lost someone. Its a pain we will all have to go through, but I wish this on no one. May the music pull you through the darkness.
I know how you feel. I lost my sister in May of 2017. It's been almost two years & I still cry. We have to remember the good times & push forward. I'm truly sorry you have to experience losing a sibling 🙏
When my wife left me in 2011 the song that hurt like hell for me was Breaking Benjamin's- Dear Agony! These are both amazing songs for those of us Broken or in some kind of Agony we don't understand or can't comprehend. Hugs and comfort to you!
This song brings the feels like crazy. My best friend, Christina Nicole, was killed in a car crash September 26, 2008. She adored Amy Lee so much, and this song really brings her memory fully alive. It's bittersweet to say the least, and it's so difficult because I miss her so much every damn day. She was such a great person, I don't for the life of me understand why she had to go so young, or go at all. I love you Christina, more than you ever knew. Tomorrow, 8/22/2019, would have been her 31st birthday. 8/22/1988-9/26/2008.
It was also my birthday date and i know you're friend is still watching you still loves you and may god bless you i hope you live long I can understand your pain. RIP christina Nicole 9/26/2008. The god written our fate we can't escape from it.
Still lonesome, still broken. I'm a hopeless romantic, emphasis on the hopeless. I still like this song. It's beautiful and reminds me of better times.
My grandmother passed away yesterday. I painted a seashell for her and my grandfather, thinking I had more time to get it to them, only to be sorely mistaken. I can't bring myself to give it to just my grandfather, as it was a "I love you forever" type of painting to show the love between them... To anyone who's reading this, please show your loved ones how much you love them. Say "I love you", apologize after arguing with them, don't hold grudges against them... it seems like they'll be in your life forever, but they won't be, and time with them seems infinite but it's not. Your loved ones might be taken away from you sooner than you realize. Please never forget to show your loved ones how much you care. 💔
you know when your old middle school leave you and you have a hard time moving on from them....and when you finally make a friend in highschool and you think that they're gonna be that one friend...that eternal friend....and then they block you out of your life for no reason...a while later.....you're still thinking about them....but they've probably forgotten about you...you still see them in college...you try not to look at them...because it hurts....because it bring back those good memories..and you just can't let them go.....
Don't you hate when someone acts like they really love you and then they just stop talking to you but u still love them too much to let go and all day you think about them
It's been 5 years and the pain is just as real now as it was then. Maybe it's the lack of closure. I always felt like maybe there was some chance we could still be together, but the only way to heal is to move on (hell of a lot easier said than done). I still to this day, despite my best efforts, would probably make tremendous sacrifices for her. I guess love is an emotion that doesn't fade well over time.
+Tyler Cunningham yes when you find your true love, and they no longer need you nor want u it stays with u for a life time , my has been gone for 4 years
My kids knew the band members of Evanesence in their early days and I've been a fan ever since. This is one of the best duets in history very underrated
I feel the same I've been broken since my husband died 5 years ago I was with him for 43 years it tore me apart and now I don't know how to get my life back together to be happy without him but God's with me so I'll try to make it and everyone else that lost someone I'm real sorry for your loss God bless all of us❤
A family member told me that some friendships are best left in the past....However, in order to return to the innocence that helps us move forward in life, forgiveness has to happen first. Followed by good natured salutations to people around us. This results in a fresh start and sometimes even a second chance at an old friendship....🙂
I've heard this song for years, and also know the lyrics, but today is the first day I've LISTENED to them. I actually feel them because I'm in the situation. Strange how music can do that.
When you're happy you love the song and when you're sad you understand the lyrics. There's something about the lyrics that you truly get when you feel the words
I've had 3 cops pull me over and then they walk up and I'm balling my eyes out listening to this. Like snot bubbles crying. 1 cop actually gave me a hug and sat with me. And, just let me vent to him.
It's funny , isn't it? Your issues and problems and tribulations can be so overwhelming for you ---- yet no one gives a shit. They can't see what a victory it is for you to make it through another day. Yet----how many of us are going through the same shit? Why is it so hard to find happiness being alone?
Dear John that's not always the case! I have serious back issues can't get a job or insurance for 10 years now . I love myself and my son I can get around and do most things that I did before. So that's not always the case just saying.
Charlie Brown , it seems as though your sadness is with your disabilities. The question to which I responded was in reference to finding happiness and being alone. You have a son. Your not alone. I believe sometimes we put to much "hope" in areas that require action. Loving yourself is a process of knowing and accepting yourself. The truth is.. if you don't love yourself you won't respect yourself. We teach ppl how to treat us in what we do and do not allow. If we can't love ourselves how are we to teach someone else? Happiness alone is finding peace of mind in who you are when no one else is watching. It's in your soul. Just a personal thought 😊
Miss you Em, wont forget the 7 long years that you were there with me and everyone else as we struggled to grow into adults. I still think about you all the time. Love you
Who still playing this thinking about that one specific person... Edit Hey everyone.. I wrote this post about my first love and even tho we both had moved on I got terrible news today. She died. Was shot by her current boyfriend. I'm only 21 . So is she. This just show everyone needs to wake up and quit playing games . Noone lives forever.
I have been broken since 05/13/2016, when my son passed... There is nothing in this world like losing your precious child, regardless of how old they are! There is this hole, this half of my heart, my life, my mind, my soul that will NEVER be whole again! They say in time it will get easier, it's been 6 almost 7 years and not an ounce of pain is gone! I'm still as broken as the day his little heart stopped beating!
Amen hallelujah we're going to ask God to please mend your heart that's something no parent should ever have to go through I'm scared to go through it myself python almost died my son almost died I got a runny nose and only God knows why I'm standing out in the cold so we can have to face that a rehab but it's okay I'm in Louisville Kentucky by the way where are you from fournette for a season I can write your biography I drop like riding horses of course God be my answers riding at Pale Horse for flipping off covid-19 we're going to be on the cover of the Rolling Stone you and me
rip David....you were only 14...so young. I'm trying to stay strong for you. I wish I could've just held you high and stole your pain. 😭stay strong and fly high man. I love you...
Your beloved artists EXISTS considering that people had taken a opportunity to listen to these guys! *watch?v=kFDMJa_fZt0* Almost all I could say is impressive! RU-vid this URL and enjoy!!
I opened up recently something I never do and I regret it. Rejection hits different when you let someone in for the first time in 8/9 years. Song puts it into words far better than I ever could
If you need help Go talk to your friends, family and People you Trust, Life can Be Great full of Good memories and experiences and Will get even better after the pandemic ends so dont waste it, If necessary search for help in the internet and If you can afford it call a therapist "ending it is a permanent solution for a temporary problem" so many People that tried to end it changed their minds and are glad to Be alive,. we all have the dark chapter of our lives but you can pass through it btw dont Be shy to call for help...
I just came across this today. I lost my youngest son in 2017 and while I know the song is about break-ups, the words hit me hard. I’ve been broken since my son died from an overdose.
This song is bittersweet for me. My older sister used to love it and one of my fondest memories of her is us singing this together while playing lips. Unfortunately she passed away last year, so when i listen to it i smile but it still stings
Anyone else sobbing? Anyone else feelin ? Lifeless and numb I feel as if my heart has melted in this song right to the core... I feel so wretched right now... (An edit. 2 years later, and I thought I had it bad then. I'd like to say that to anyone reading that just keep trying(
I am, are you a female and single? Can we make each other feel better? I am lost, partly disabled, and living in my car. Or does nobody want someone broken? We need to be loved to love, when people say you have to love yourself first, I feel the opposite with that. We have to be that one to love too, but only can if we are seen. Maybe one day I will feel again... I'm a single male in NC, a hopeless romantic waiting on his soul mate! Hope you and all of us broken receive our desires! ✌💓
You hit the nail on the head my dude. Exactly. I sent this to my girlfriend who lives across the country with the intentions of it being about long distance.
I just ended a 7 year relationship with my girl. This was our unification song..... we both were hurt in the past (like most people unfortunately 😔) and this song resonates with us. Or at least me, it seems She found someone else. I feel like shit listening to this song, but it also relives my pain. I don't know what to feel......
I use to be you, it gets better you will find someone better and you will grow to become BETTER you won't see it now but in time you will........trust me. *from some random internet guy* 👊
@@jeremyscorpio4170 thank you. When it happened it felt like my soul imploded. Thank you internet stranger. believe it or not your comment gave me a warm feeling inside, I'm in no way "better" but I'm headed in that direction.
@@masonpallanes7258 it took me 4 years before I could listen to avenged sevenfold *her favorite band* And it took me 2 years years before i could get within a few feet of her stuff like a letter she wrote me something like that *everytime I got close to it my heart would beat faster* so I left it up on a mantle for two years until I could finally read it* My point is I understand what you went through and trying to explain to someone that "it gets better" when everybody says that shit meant very little to me, BUT having gone through it and having found someone better and knowing far ive come and how much I've GROWN as a person? I can't say with 100% conviction that.....IT GETS BETTER 💯 I'll tell you what I told myself "That bitch broke your heart Jeremy but she will never break your spirit." A broken heart can be repaired but a broken spirit needs to be reconstructed. My current girlfriend can break my heart but no person on this earth can or will break my spirit. Anyways this messages might now mean much now? but save it and 5 years from now it'll make more sense.
@@jessihalleck5653 me too my girlfriend and I have to separate because both our families being paranoid racist so we never seem each other and talk ever again and we been together for 3 years until now I been heartbroken for 3 months seen thanks to those old bastards
My moms boyfriend died just a few days ago, and I wasn't ready for goodbye. I was out of town when it happened and still am, and every song reminds me of him. I wish I could've said goodbye, but I'm so far from home I can't even go to the funeral. I'd do anything to bring him back, even just for a day. I didn't remember to even call the night it happened before, and I didn't get to say goodbye in any form, if I hadn't been do lazy and had called id have got to hear that voice one last time. You were so perfect for my mother, and she needed you more than me. I'm sorry I didn't accept you sooner, Jeff. I can't stop missing you. You were like a second father to me, and I wasn't ready to lose you. I'm sorry for all the times I hurt you and said I didn't want you around, you were special. I'll never forget you, keep making people smile above.
every time I am hurting this is the first song that comes to mind.....the lonliness i feel always sets in and all i can do is hear this song in my head and in my heart.....
I know the feeling, like your alone, wanting to be isolated after time, being hurt to the point you don’t see yourself coming back, well, just know, it’ll get better, i know it may sound like a fairytale because i looked at it like that but i bet it’ll get better eventually, just catch on, please don’t do this for 4 years like i did…
My brother passed away 3 years ago and we would listen to this song in his truck riding around town. I will never forget the talks we used to have the lectures he gave me I would do anything to hear that he is proud of the woman I have become. Love you jay😭
zombie prodigy her voice is amazing i sang sally song in my choir class like last month i dont remember but my teacher said i did good and that her voice sound almost like mine.
+Ron The Bird I understand exactly how you feel.I just went through leg surgery & can't walk. I can't believe that certain people didn't call me at all just shows me they really don't give a damn. If the roles were reversed I'd be on the phone in a heartbeat. Just makes me depressed to know how alone I really am😟
Her voice is great, it's just that one song by evanescence that gets over played. I think it was wake me up or something like that. That song pisses me off xD
October 16th, 2021 The day when my cousin died at the age of 30, due to several tumours at his lungs and heart. Rest in peace, John. I'll always love you! 💔
This song helps with my mom passing in 2012 and i was only 9 when it happened ♡ to anyones loved ones that recently passed or just have passed and just love 2 everyone! !!!; (
This song is hitting way too close to home right now... I lost my best friend to kidney failure last month and my heart still feels like half of it is missing.
I agree with me too I lost my older sister (she was born sick, did not speak and did not walk) and I miss it so much. And I feel like a part of my soul has gone with her too 😭😭😭😭😭 and that's not the only loss I've had. I lost my grandfather when I was little, an aunt of my father's sister, my grandmother, in short ... I am literally destroyed 💔💔💔💔💔 but my older sister was very important to me and always will be 💪💪💪💪 and I try to keep going even if the pain is strong
This kind of music is so unappreciated in times like this, especially from younger people like me, but there are a very few people that realize that this type of music is magical, and there's no other kind of it. I hope hard rock/goth comes back soon, and that most of people will appreciate it more.
I know this song since earliest 2000 but just made sense to me when my daughter moved to another city with her mum and I was in a really depression/drug problem…this song kind of helped me out
I’m young and grew up listening to this song from my dad playing it… I love this song it gave me shivers listening to it again for the first time in a while
When I heard this song first time, I didn't get or hear the lyrics much. But I thought it was great singing and production together. And always turned up on the radio.
