"we blindly believed you were guilty and disowned you and you were alone for 8 years, but now that we have new evidence, we're sorry... and how dare you be rude to us for not accepting our apology and immediately embracing us as family!" They're a special kind of stupid.
@@Clov33 Nah, rest of the family believed without evidence. Not to mention no history of anything remotely close to that from OP. The only one who did nothing wrong is OP.
A huge, non-tactical, fifty-megaton dirty bomb nuke. Run, OP, find decent people in your life. Same happened to me, but I got slightly lucky. It was from a cousin who lied constantly about everything, so the fallout was...controllable. Somewhat. And in response to him trying to get out of a DUI charge where he didn't want to have his urine tested weekly. My own mother questioned me (she now wonders why I radiantly don't give a crap about her any longer). His parents instantly believed him until they needed stuff from me and can't seem to figure out why the word "No" is a knee-jerk reaction. The cousin offed himself when he went off his psych meds and figured more booze and drugs would do just as well. I do confess to sitting in the back of the funeral and thoroughly enjoying it. I am not a perfect person. My family's trash. Rich trash, but trash.
I wouldn't call it a dodge mate, your SO may be on your side in random accusations but when you have a SA case with visual proof damn right most of us would also jump to conclusion, the nuke that was dodged is from the bf of amanda
Sue him for fraud, assault, and defamation. Under a plea deal get the lady to testify against him. You have proof via the layer's recordings more then enough to ruin him forever. tell the parents you have none, and that you hope they rot alone without knowing your daughter. Jenny is useless, ignore her unless it involves your daughters.
Talk to the lawyer about suing the parents. Do NOT settle with a plea, and if they are boomers that read the local newspaper, make sure an article ends up there. They created this problem with the older son, they should reap what they have sown.
The brother beat him up, knowing that op isn’t at fault. Henry went out with two other women in order to get with Jenny. Henry needs to be destroyed and taken to court
@@SexManNordin I agree, but he finally got his life together and has a job, loyal wife, a baby otw, and a good friend circle. With the past threat of prison, do you think he'd actually want that on his record?
Family after so long: "we're disappointed how you reacted" Me if I were OP: "Well I'm disappointed that I was falsely accused of SA, my wife divorcing me and taking our children away, lost my job my friends, disowned by my very family for 8 years (I.E YOU), sending me into a depression where I thought about ending myself on a daily basis while I clutched onto the extremely few things I had going for me in my life...but YEAH your feelings of disappointment is FAR MORE IMPORTANT than mine"
I hate these stories because they remind me of people who use SA as a weapon to destroy someone's life. No morals, no qualms and no remorse. Just pure evil. Then plus the people who believe it without questions are even worse, especially those who are close yet they choose not to hear their friend/brother/husband/son/father denial.
It's even worse. Because of stories like this real victims of SA are often not believed and accused of lying. Henry AND Amanda need to go to jail for this. Imagine if OP actually went with his thoughts and actually k*lled himself. They'd have his blood on their hands.
Not to mention that it partially hinders actual victims of SA from coming forward and reporting it. Giving them a bad name and less credibility. People who weaponize SA are scum of the earth
It also hurts the real victims of SA. Every time someone does this it becomes more and more difficult for real victims to be believed. It used to be that the people who came forward were believed because "who would lie about something like that?", but now scrutiny is needed. Police have to determine if the alleged victim has any evidence. To that end it makes sense why the police didn't arrest him. The screenshots could have been anyone. I'm not personally familiar with that app, but if it's anything like Discord where the name you see isn't a username but rather a nickname there's absolutely no evidence to be had in that. The police probably used the report to get access to logs and with the logs probably determined that the evidence presented was false and then didn't go any further with it, but in that case why didn't the police notify anyone of such a finding? Or bring in the person behind the accusation for questioning? Now, I have mixed feelings about the cases where an accusation is recanted because in the present climate without a confession a life cannot begin to heal and I wouldn't want to discourage such behavior, and it does seem likely that she held back on confessing because she feared the consequences, but there should be some consequences for doing something like this. Unfortunately, even people who are caught lying rarely see more than a month of jail time and that's not much of a deterrant.
@@Elliandr" It used to be that the people who came forward were believed because "who would lie about something like that?"," If you think ANY accusation of SA should be blindly believed, you're the kind of person who ends up enabling malicious false accusations. Scrutiny was ALWAYS needed, just like any crime, whether or not false accusations exist.
I fucking hate those feminists and others who push the victims should be believed no matter what crap, they have no idea the effect it has in someone who is being falsely accused, like it makes sense that nobody should take any sides till the full story comes out. I almost got falsely accused of SA by my ex but luckily I’m around people who don’t just blindly believe that crap and questioned her she couldn’t keep up with the lies and quickly admitted I did nothing.
Thats the worst part for me. That was your husband. The way tthe story. Is wrroten though it sounds like he might be from some developing country though so maybe they didnt understand pictures could be faked.
@@Distress.He did say that the law favors women so he is probably from North America or somewhere in europe though. Idk any developing countries that favor women lmao
The people in the best position to do that are Jenny in the divorce and the ExParents (great term that OP came up with) by disowning him in turn. As stated in the story they are already using their funds to keep his head above water. That would hurt him hard. As for suing him? He's broke. Blood from a stone.
There is an update in the story: Summary - He got in touch with his parents and made boundaries clear. Parents tried to get him to take care of them and meet his kid (Kim had his son by then) but he put up boundaries and cut them off when they crossed it. Mom cried and he let her have it. He got his brother's number, spoke to him, but his brother just laughed at him. His brother is now a bum and a leech with no job, only alive because the parents still give him an allowance
The parents want the op to take care of them? Let's check out the list here. The parents did not listen to him and kicked him out, lost his job and his kids. He was shauned by his friends, and he almost attempted suicide. The audacity to ask him if they could move in with him, no wonder his brother turned out messed up. Don't get me started on op's brother he is just pure evil and he just laughed at him. If I were op, I would've said keep laughing while being homeless and leeching off from mom and dad. You got no one that cares for you and your gonna stay single for the rest of your life due to your attitude, manipulation, and lying. Oh and I'll see you in court for defamation, and assault from when he was getting kicked out the house.
kim and dereck are the goat! a true asian and a true friend! you need nothing else!~ im glad you where able to stand up again and the person you are today!
@@sydneyps If I would find out that my GF/fiance had wrongfully accused another guy of rape, I would also run as fast as I can. I don't know if I would have thought in that situation about this other guy. So I see in Mark really an guardian angel for the OP. And I can't blame him for dumping such a piece of work.
This guy should definitely charge Henry, Amanda told him about how Henry had planned all that out, and faked evidence. That shit was straight up intentional, and pre-meditated. Henry should be forced to pay OP for his loss of wages from losing his job, + pain and suffering for losing his family, and likely having severe depression.
From the sounds of it Henry is a failure without pot to p155 in. What would be the point of a law suit? The POS could not cover legal costs let alone damages. All it would do is create a lot of drama. OP has found some peace in his new life. Leave the people who disowned him to their own guilt and turmoil. It is understandable that OP didn't want the problem 8 years ago but if he had rolled the dice and gone to the police himself this would have forced Amanda to perjure herself and risk prison. She might have cracked then. If she filed a false complaint then maybe he could have turned up evidence (security camera footage or similar) from the club carpark to exonerate him. Then he might have had Amanda and Henry on the hook for perjury or filing a false report. Even if they got to serve some time (probably not) it is unlikely that they would have suffered for 8 years but they would have criminal records. On the other hand OP may have a case against his former employer for forcing him out based on pretty much nothing. Could be a payday there.
@@McAnik-uo1ol re the old employer: I don't think so, but there might be a case there. A lot of legal recourse goes out the window when you "voluntarily" quit. He'd basically need to prove that it was a form of constructive dismissal. Plus after 8 years it might be past the statute of limitations, for a lot of employment laws those have fairly short statutes of limitations, like 2-5 years. But yeah, while in a mostly fair world this never would have happened, and in a slightly less fair world Henry would be paying him enough to retire, the fact is that you can't get blood from a stone.
Amanda honestly is the worst.....helping pos Henry destroy an innocent guy just cause she had a crush and in the end henry just wanted to bone guys wife.....
I'm feeling second hand rage against jenny. How dare she. Honestly sitting here in tears because of what happened to this dude. So glad he got his happy ending with what seems to be a great woman.
@@Cafeallday222Not a good idea. A family member of mine was sexually abused by her stepfather for YEARS and her mother did nothing because she didn't believe her she had that same "you can't tell me anything about my man" mentality and it ruined people's lifes. Just be your own person and use your brain. Dont blindly believe ANYONE, even if you think you know them.
The ex wife is a special kind of mentally incapacitated. She believed random people over her own husband just because she saw a few (probably badly photoshopped) pictures of “evidence.” I’ll never understand how people believe rumours without question and then proceed to go on a witch hunt. Then his family has the audacity to act like they were also the victims. I guess critical thinking is a dying trait. No one is entitled to forgiveness either. The ex wife getting together with his brother of all people is also disgusting and suspicious. I wouldn’t be surprised if she had been flirting/cheating.
Yeah, Jenny really did come across as a $lu+ in this story. Even if she didn't cheat with his *brother* the entire time they were dating / married / together, before the divorce, she did sleep with Henry, give birth to Henry's baby & end up marrying Henry. Her Ex's *brother* ... so yeah, she comes across as a $lu+.
@@spaghettiupseti9990it was specifically his WhatsApp account, which is technically "social media" I guess but also what a lot of people use as their texting app. Basically made it look real by using the new number, setting that phone number as a contact under OPs name and with the same pic he uses for the app, the app probably wouldn't show the number, so it likely looked really convincing, but like 5 minutes of critical thought should show the holes in the logic
This story just filled me with rage like how fucked up do you have to be to first form a plan to break up your brothers marriage just because you loved his wife and then in the process have your own brother excommunicated from the family and frame him as doing a sexual assault its so fucked up hes a horrible person
Narcisssists 101. And he's also most probably Sociopathic (no remorse, no guilt, no sense of morality, no bottom line in committing something law-breaking, charming and manipulative; like a serial killer).
Good on Amanda's bf: He heard the confession from her, and instead of simply standing by, he made her tell the truth to OP and everyone else which lead to them being proven innocent. As for the "brother" take him to court. He was willing to destroy your life with a lie in order to steal your spouse, manipulated the person making those claims, whom he was sleeping with in the first place. He physically assaulted you and got pretty much everyone you knew to excommunicate you from their lives. And in the end he acted like a spoiled rotten child who got the toy and threw it away after. He deserves to get absolutely rail-roaded in court for all the damages he caused and them some.
OP should definitely go full defamation suit. What happens to Henry's daughter is none of his concern and not his responsibility, if Henry loses everything the daughter will still have Jenny and while it will suck to not have a dad its no worse than what OP's daughters went through. As for the parents, they are strangers to OP now and they don't deserve to have OP as a son after everything.
Really? Think who the dad is in this situation. The kid would do better without this kind of dad in her life. Jesus Christ, could you imagine the damage this girl could do if she was raised by him and took after him?
From the comments I reckon Jenny got involved with that demon after OP and her got divorced due to the SA accusation? Then that's all on her. I don't want to go through the whole video because 3 minutes in I already feel the secondhand heartache. Met a Narcissist once that destroyed my sister's marriage because of their jealousy and desire to monopolise and manipulate people... so I know that OP's brother is such a Narcissist and highly probably a Sociopath as well.
@@MacabreAfterpartyor not since the fabricated message will be found out fast thanks to digital forensics. And it is known that fake screenshots are easy to do
They literally sat there and watched my guy get the tar beaten out of him by a person that literally set him up. They have the literal audacity to want to talk when they should have eased into it and been on his time. Also couldn’t believe OP questioning if he should go after his brother legally. I would make that man destitute and unable to bounce back. The process of thinking all of that up and implemented damn near perfectly or at least good enough to have no one question things and have kids with his brothers ex is just solid proof of his treacherous nature and disregard for his own kin. Lastly wtf how does know one question things if 1. His previous marriage failed because he was too into Jenny 2. He was causing problems before with being into her Like that’s extremely weird how no one questioned a thing not even OP
It's an easily resolved situation. If the parents want to give a quick and easy proof they love him, they can bankroll the entire thing. No expense on OP's part, parents eat crow and Henry eats shit.
If your family and loved ones believe a random story from a person and believe it without a chance to defend yourself, they Do Not Deserve You at all in return
People in the comments: "WHY IS HE CONFUSED, HE SHOULD DESTROY HIS BROTHER" It's because he's a genuinely kind person. The only reason he's being this cold in the first place is because of all that was done to him. The fact that he can go through all of this and still speak civilly with not just his ex, but the woman who literally FRAMED him, AND go on a successful honeymoon, and keep it together the whole time, is a testament to his character. Edit: Wow, didn't know you all were pissed off enough to be breaking out scripture. Calm down, for goodness sake.
OP got lucky in a lot of areas considering what happened, I know it’s really awful shitty I know I know but what I mean is because he wasn’t working when OP’s wife filed for divorce that allowed him to get out of paying child support and alimony. I’m usually one to say men should pay child support but if you’re kicked out of your own family, yeah that’s good enough reason to not be forced to pay. Also his boss informing him he should resign is what led the courts to determine he couldn’t pay the child support, thank that boss. That boss was right too, resign before he’s forced to fire you if/when the cops come around
I heard this story on other channels, and I remember a couple conversations speculating this might have happened in Asia, probably China or India (though there are other options). It could be that the country this happened in does not do child support.
@@TwilightMysts OP mentions himself that he got out of paying child support and alimony due to being unemployed 6:30 so OP definitely lives in a country where child support exists
@@ngndndOr India. Courts lean incredibly towards women in gender issues here. Well intentioned, no doubt, but that only makes the misuse of laws easier.
Like my mom always said, all you need is a handful of true friends and never betray them in turn, this will lead your life to being one worth living. This guy has Kim and Dereck and that has made his life far better than I could have hoped for. Stay strong my man, and for the love of all you deem holy take that piece of shit brother to court and ruin him. However be careful, he might not take this laying down and might try to harm you two girls.
Shred him. If Henry faces no consequences, he'll pass that kind of behavior on, and his behavior has already influenced OP's children. They need to see that actions have consequences.
It has a lot of the elements of classic fiction mixed with the unrealistic holes that modern tech would fill. Shy man finds happiness. Jealous brother betrays him and bad family shun him. He falls to rock bottom by no fault of his own. Chance meeting leads to great results (even gets buff to the point of gaining 50 lbs!!!!! From stringbean to heavyweight athlete?), and the big one - bro marries ex-wife. The hole in the story? This happened in smartphone times. He could have proven he was elsewhere during the party. If he was at the party, there'd have been witnesses who hung out with him.
@@YoYo-gt5iq that assumes anyone would actually listen to him, which it sounds as if they were too angry to even hear a word in his own defense, much less tech that many boomers think can just be hacked. I'm with you in thinking the story is a work of fiction though.
A couple years ago I was falsely accused of pedophillia and lost all of my friends. All of my friends blindly believed the minor who lied even though I had proof that nothing of the sort ever occurred but was dismissed and abandoned. I've often cringed at myself for having dreams about defending my innocence and those old situations but I saw a lot of myself in this guy and his story. I'm really glad that things worked out for him and sometimes wish that the liar in my story would do what Amanda did and admit she lied but somehow I don't think it ever will. It's hard sometimes having gone through that because it feels like you're completely alone and in a way you are, but seeing this story and others who have gone through something similar makes me feel in some fucked up way a lot less isolated, like there are others who know what it's like because they've lived it. Happy for him.
@@BoomboxMasterYT They were just far too angry and emotional to even consider looking at or listening to anything I had to say. I did have a couple friends who were more level headed who heard me out who I'm good with now but the vast majority refuse to speak to me even now. I'd go back and address this whole thing to them but anger turned to hatred and both those things make listening to someone hard.
@@cheerie9654 Not at all! It's just that (in my experience with reddit stories), the more deatailed they are the bigger the probability it is to be fake. In real life stories, when people publish them on reddit, they tend to not tell their whole life, just the crucial info others need to know, and they mostly just publish it for advice or to get it off their chest. Like, for example, horror stories on reddit (those that are fake) are written in a quality that could get them published. But real horror stories tend to not have that same amount of deatail (not sure why, just a pattern that i've noticed). Just to remark, that doesn't mean THIS story is fake, but it certaintly adds to the probability. There is another reason i belive THIS story MIGHT be fake, and i didn't mention it before because i wanted to recheck it... Usually, is SA cases (especially when it goes public), it's something that goes to court and that people get persecuted for. Like, if someone publicly tells their SA story (which will definitely ruin the reputation of the perpetrator), yet they don't ever mention going to court or TRYING to, that's a red flag. It means they just want to get their public reputation ruined, as there is no other reason to publicly tell it without involving the police (unless it's for protecting others, but going to court would also do that). Again, this doesn't mean the story is fake, there is really no way to know for sure if the comenter doesn't outright say it is. But i've learned it's best to take every story from stranger on the internet with a grain of salt. I've seen many times people accusing eachother of things, only to start a war between the followers of each one... it doesn't end well, especially when it comes to light that the side i supported was the one lying. So i always reccomend people to have a little skepticism, and limit themselves to only give support/advice if needed.
It really pisses me off at how people lie about stuff like SA so that things could go their way without realizing the consequences it leads to. This is also why many people don't believe REAL victims
People truly do not underatand how much false accusations ruin lives. They ruin the lives of innocent people, destroy the bonds of friendship and familial ties. Its a disgusting thing to do to anyone, it also lowers the chance of actual SA survivors being believed. Truly just a horrible thing to do, people who falsely accuse are terrible and people who believe them without even checking the story or listening to the other side are just as bad.
I mean it should irritate you more that it’s a victim fetish post and completely fake. There are several of these going around that are only slightly different.
The ex has no right to be upset that you’ve moved on if anything she should be grateful that she’s even being able to speak to you again. As if believing the lies weren’t bad enough she did you the greater disrespect of marrying your brother.
As a person who actually was assaulted, I feel like being assaulted and being falsely accused of SA is pretty much equally horrible. Im so sorry for people who have to go through either
I will never understand how even after everything this individual wonders if they should ruin their brother. This situation demands vengeance, the defamation lawsuit should be just the start.
It would be a lot of time, money, and effort. He'd also put some blowback onto his ex and family, and it would pretty obviously screw up any chance of reconciliation.
Fuck reconciliation. You should never think so low of your ownself that you would ever need that kind of trash around you and in your life. He needs to grind his brother down to the smallest level of dirt that he is until he attempts self deleting because he deserves nothing less. As for the family they should never be allowed around the children and he needs full custody of his children from Jenny who is not capable of taking care of them by allowing them to be in a person like Henry’s life. But that is only in a perfect world. So none of that will happen sadly 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
I'm not the vengeful type. Getting back at someone makes your life dramatic, too and I would rather live in peace. There are exceptions... I would consider it here but I would have to weigh it out
Yeah nah. Fuck reconciliation and everyone that was involved would deserve the blow back. Only innocent party besides the OP is the children. Ruin that fuckers life and walk away from the wreck without looking back.
That brother is most definitely a malignant Narcissist and also highly likely Sociopathic. He's able to influence and manipulate the people around him (probably charming and communicate very well because his one-sided words and acts alone can convince the stupid enablers around him) from a very young age, never feel guilt, almost has no bottom line in morality and sense of propriety, and has been isolating OP from his parents etc from early on as well. That's how these types of people work.
That story was disgusting but im glad OP got his life back together seeing his own daughters again and starting a new family with a good woman, also Derrick is a bro
It’s amazing how much power a woman’s word can have with just two words she can ruin a man’s life. In most cases the law just side with the woman and the man if not cut out from his family would more than likely just go to jail the courts really need to take an account some men do this but most men don’t. In many cases these men are falsely imprisoned by women who feel they are wrong by them searches and breaking up or not going out with them and Coates will take this as much as in this man up to jail and if not that is name will be Tarnished and ruined forever
There was no police investigation here, it wasn't the law, it was his family and friends that sided with her. If a police investigation had been done then the fake texts would have been fund out
Anybody's word. They'll always believe the accuser, particularly if the victim was a golden child and the accusee was more of the scapegoat in the family. That happened to me. Later on, if proven false, they'll wonder why you don't just forgive everybody in sight and move on like nothing happened (some therapists will even pull that crap). I consider the remaining anger the reminder that one's family is trash and must never be trusted again.
There was actually a similar case on an RSpace video where a guy got assaulted because he exposed his SIL for cheating and even though there was security footage and he had scratch marks on his face,the police gave him that Futurama fry stare and asked "are you sure you want to press charges?" Talk about equality lmao
This man's practically a saint, i swear to God. After 8 years he basically gets *the golden ticket* to revenge. Then getting contacted again by everyone that abandoned you? When i heard that i could only think of one response, a quote that sprang to mind _immediately:_ "...So whatever you're thinking, you'd better think again! Otherwise I'm gonna have to head down there and I will rain down an ungodly f***ing firestorm upon you! You're gonna have to call the f***ing United Nations and get a f***ing binding resolution to keep me from f***ing destroying you. I am talking scorched-earth, motherf***er! I will massacre you! I will f*** you up!" -Les Grossman, 2008
These stories always have these good people who say “I had a group discussion, called my parents, etc etc.” There’s not gonna be another meet up. It’s been 8 years and nobody believed me and everybody disowned me and not even nobody secretly checked in on me. Imma just tell them all to go fuck themselves. I’m so mad two kids got mixed up in it, cus that’s the only reason why he has to stay mixed up with those monsters.
The audacity of Jenny to think she is entitled to a hug from OP smh, it was very satisfying when OP held his hands up to stop her and then introduced Kim
theyre disappointed with how op reacted because they wanted to clear their own conscience and guilt through op's forgiveness. but thats something they will need to live with forever.
Ah yes. The favorite child is believed even despite everything he's done. The OP is somehow easily accused and almost everyone believes he's guilty. And the audacity of the family to be mad at OP for not being sure if he wanted contact with them even after what had happened. What a horrible family 😒. Hopefully OP doesn't have to deal with them ever again.
SA is not something that should be used as a false weapon I myself have been a victim of SA at 9 years old and it makes me sick to my stomach knowing people like henry exist, henry is a horrible human being if he can even be morally described as a human.
Unfortunately the early 2000s was the start of this crazy girl power feminism. Actually, women falsely accusing men already existed for a very long time. Remember Emmett Till? It's just recently it has become mainstream as social media allowed crazy women to validate themselves and form echo chambers
I mean the parents had always favoured OP's brother so it actually makes sense they believed him first... But Jenny, Jenny the f*ck is wrong with you? How do you trust your husband's brother over him without proof and with the likely hood of knowing the fact he's always been favoured and OP and him likely don't have the BEST relationship (maybe not awful before this but there'd still be some resentment)
Pardon me for flat out copying my story from above. Same happened to me, but I got slightly lucky. It was from a cousin who lied constantly about everything, so the fallout was...controllable. Somewhat. And in response to him trying to get out of a DUI charge where he didn't want to have his urine tested weekly. My own mother questioned me (she now wonders why I radiantly don't give a crap about her any longer). His parents instantly believed him until they needed stuff from me and can't seem to figure out why the word "No" is a knee-jerk reaction. The cousin offed himself when he went off his psych meds and figured more booze and drugs would do just as well. I do confess to sitting in the back of the funeral and thoroughly enjoying it. I am not a perfect person. My family's trash. Rich trash, but trash. To expand a little with another concept I used, it's the case where the cousin was the golden boy of the narcissists. Why, I can't say. He was always in trouble, substance abuse problems, stole things, thrown out of high school in tenth grade, and so on. Never had a stable job. I was the scapegoat of the entire family. Again, no real reason. Model student, graduated Ivy League, good career, I currently do medical audits for a gigantic company and my job requires ridiculously high levels of ethics and attention to detail. My parents were/are both narcissists. My childhood was...let's not go there. At this point, I'm no contact with a lot of the family and very low contact with my mother. My husband does more of that by necessity. She really doesn't have anything nice to say to anybody. (Shrug) It is what it is. I won't meet her eventual death with anything but a shrug and a bit of mourning for what should have been, and none at all for what she actually was.
@@queerdeificeeli985What makes it even more baffling is the fact that she KNEW that Herry already had an obsession with her. She really didn't even think twice about it when his husband got framed, and then actually went on to marry his brother?! Like, at this point I feel like she just wanted to be with the brother so she just went along with the story without questioning it.
He should most definitely go scorched earth on the brother. I would. The only reason Id spare Amanda is bc she came clean and did everything I asked her to do. Family can kiss my ass too. Every year id send a pic of my new family in a holiday card made out of the Letter of disownment
@@noobslayer6915 nah scorch earth her,if shes wasn't so spineless and morally corrupt this guys life wouldn't of been torched into nothing,glad her husband left her.
@@Dustin81 Well, he sent texts on his daughters birthdays, so they could tell he was still alive if they wanted to check. If it were me, I would not have done that. Bridge burned, zero contact. But in that situation I would leave the region, put hundreds of miles between us, change my name, new phone number, stop using any social media, put some work into changing my appearance (possibly even plastic surgery to change my face if I had the money). Everything I could to make sure that the person they knew no longer existed, and they could not find me. Probably work with a PI to make it as effective as possible. And as vindictive as I would probably feel in that situation, there is a good chance that I would try doing something to convince them I canceled my subscription to the mortal realm. I'd likely work with a lawyer (to make sure it was legal) and a PI (to make it convincing.) You burn me that badly and you don't get a second chance. If they did some how discover that I was innocent, they wouldn't be able to find me, and they would not even have a reason to try since they would think I was gone.
I hate to disappoint but also a little happy to say the story is fake. I went onto reddit to fins any updates and only found people discussing how the story is basically a copy paste with a few tweaks. One that is posted every other month.
Well, we all know that (deep down anyway.) It’s like the people who shout that professional wrestling is fake. Of course it’s fake but that’s just missing the point.
It reminds me of the temple bombing story arc in Star Wars. Ahsoka was framed for the crime, expelled from the order, and was being tried for treason. Eventually, the true perpetrator was caught, but the damage was done. When the council wanted to restore her into the order, she just left, seeing how corrupted it truly was.
As someone whose worst fear is being rejected, abandoned and forgotten, this probably wasn’t the best thing to watch. Especially with it being the second thing I watched today
Henry needs to be taken to court. It doesn't matter he has a child with Jenny. He caused his brother, his own blood to be disowned by the family and he also lost his both daughters. Its not something that happens and heals, 8 years he suffered from that. I would not forgive anyone that stabs you in the back that quick.
I heard of this story before and I heard that it was faked. Two redditors posted the story. The first redditor deleted it and it seems that the other one did it as well. Though the first redditor could've been real, but I don't know.
Could be. It's not like these things don't happen IRL. One lady got a man sent to jail because she dreamt he raped her. She recanted decades later. Classy lady. Real classy.
@@coldermanSo not only did she falsely accuse and ruin a man's life.....but she also decided to make money off of his despair?! Wtf kinda hell are we living in?
one thing ive learned over the course of my life is that bad people need to be punished. if they arent they will destroy everything they come in contact with. sue his ass.
This is a great example of, “There is always two sides to a story.” I hate people who just make up some SA story about themselves and the other person is instantly blamed because people will always believe the “victim”.
Simple: go nuclear, take them for everything they have. OP has enough to press charges. Ghost them afterwards, they have no place in OP's life. Derek and James did more for OP than his own parents, brother, and ex-wife. Those dudes deserve to be called OP's family.
Scorched earth would be too kind for these kind of people. OP needs to go to the tabloids and just destroy them completely. Forgiveness is just a word in a fantasy story - Destroy, dismantle and decimate those who seek to do harm to you.
Honestly, no punishment is too severe for all of them, not just his brother but the ex-wife and his parents too. What they did is absolutely inexcusable when there was no proof of SA
Ruin him, ruin him so badly that his new name will be Sodom. He doesn't deserve any mercy. He's had more than enough. Karma's a bitch? Then let him feel that.
My heart hurts for op. Loosing his family after trusting his brother despite knowing he shouldnt..the betrayal cuts deep. It mustve been hell for him to loose his girls like that. Im a bit happy that amanda got her karma, to think she wouldnt even consider coming out to tell the truth until her bf/ex forced it out of her.. i hope op gets the closure he needs and lives happily with his new family and friends.
So we're clear, a sexual battery claim was never investigated by police in a nation where the laws "favor women"? Assuming this story happened to someone, it wasn't the person who posted about it.
Yep. It’s a victim fetish post. They follow the same template. -family calls me over. No one believes me. Dad hits me. -disowns me. I have yet to find a country where you can disown an adult. You just cut contact -build new life with wife -truth comes out and family wants forgiveness but I moved on Nothing about this story makes sense.
Had a crazy ex tell my mom I SA'd her. My mom instantly believed her, because in my mom's heart, someone wouldn't lie about stuff like that. She has good people around her and in general NOBODY lies. I'd never seen such seething hate in her eyes before. Lasted a week, maybe two tops. The crazy ex got caught in a different lie and it unraveled a whole fake image she was building that ultimately showed my mom that she never said one honest thing, including the SA... just wanted to hurt us. Things could have ended up way bad for me if the lies had been more structured. If it had blown up this bad, I don't think I would have blamed my mom, though. Whole sutuation sucks.
@CakeMan-mz8ze Oh yeah she felt like shit. I could tell her immediate reaction was from a place of personal trauma from when she was young, and not about her trust in me. We (Mom & I) still lived together and she didn't kick me out for that week or two. So her immediate reaction was pain, horror, and she kept me at a distance while she processed this. Afterwards, she couldn't fathom how this girl could lie about that... and I think it made us closer, when she realized what kind of chaos I had been putting up with, and probably other things from my past she hadn't fully believed but now had WAY more trust in me. Dare say it brought up closer in a weird way.
I never understand how easily the partner always believe these other people. Like if someone told me my husband cheated/assaulted someone i wouldnt just blindly believe it.
Nah I would’ve ruined his brother’s life without hesitation Like how do you just ruin a life and expect nothing bad to happen?! And how could you believe a fake accusation that fast about the man you married and had kids with?? Seriously it just sounds like he’s the only smart person in his family
The fact that she didn’t even think to question it. I’m not saying make excuses, but if someone accused my partner of SA, I’d take them to the police station. That way there was a full investigation. There are too many cases that aren’t resolved because of the fact they don’t go to the cops, and shit like this is the opposite end of it
This proves that karma will come. It may not be when you want it it may feel like forever, but it will. Im so happy for him and wish him and his family nothing but the best!
they had no evidence he did anything and took another persons side anyway. They neglected and beat him, disowned him and helped ruin his life and they think themselves entitled to his politeness? His forgiveness? Worthless trash, at least OP didn't grow old with them; that's the silver lining to this tar black cloud.
If I was ever accused of something like this, my wife, stepchildren and parents and siblings would not believe it without evidence. You are a great guy obviously. I wish I could say the same about your family.
He needs to proceed with the lawsuit against his brother, that's way too much to just let go and if he was smart he would go through with it, otherwise he's no better than his ex-parents in this manner for dismissing the golden child. His actions should land him in jail, Skanky(jenny) can raise her unfortunate spawn of Henry alone like she did with his two daughters.
God the saving grace was not having to pay child support and alimony huh? I can’t even imagine a wife taking the side of that horrid family, truly a nuke has been dodged in the long run compared to what could have gone even worse.