Bullying trauma makes it hard for me to work. [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.04.22] 

As a person with social anxiety, I could relate to this concern so much. This guy seems like such a genuinely kind person, and I hope he gets proper counselling to help overcome his trauma. The effects of bullying can last for a very long time. I hope he finds a job which he will enjoy and I really wish all the best for him

Anxiety just eats you up inside. I always feel that way that whatever I'm doing people are always judging and seeing the worst so I just stop. I stay in my room almost 24/7 now

I HATE bullying Those who bully others tell more about who they are...those who spend their time looking for the faults in others usually spend no time to correct their own

Their parents really messed them up. They are timid because of watching them fight all the time at home. Then he couldn't speak up at school and got bullied because of it. I really hope they can both become more confident in themselves. I wish both of them the best.

I can relate so much with him. I've quit jobs too due to verbal abuse from my managers. They always criticized me for being too quiet, nervous, and not smiling enough. I also get judged by my University colleagues because I don't hook up or party every week like them. Ever since then, I've been scared of social interaction & hide in my room 24/7. It takes time to heal wounds but I hope he can improve with time

korea better wake up and realize this isn't laziness but a mental health problem. i'm praying for him as someone with a really similar problem

social anxiety is shit but I recently went back to work last week and I’m trying to better myself. it’s definitely not easy. I can relate a lot to him.

I don’t blame this guy. I got bullied for 5 years at my old school and I was left with ptsd from it. My ptsd has almost completely gone now but it was awful and bullying is an awful thing to go through. What he needs is a therapist or a counsellor to help him with his ptsd

Omg poor guy! He needs real counselling

He needs help from professional it's hard.

Korea has a really bad problem with bullying. Their culture really allows abuse to one another who are seen on the lower rungs of the latter. Bro has really sever social anxiety and needs real help.

I have really bad social anxiety and I can relate to this concern so much. I hope he can overcome this because he is really nice person and deserves to be happy and to enjoy his life! ❤️

6:10 definitely me . . so his path is like mine in future 💔 i always think that im incompetent and my boss or trainers will definitely mad at me .. im scared..

I can actually relate to this person, having anxiety myself. I think the reason why he can be comfortable at church with kids because he wants to do good and then feel useful. Then he can spend time with his gf because it is a person he feels comfortable with. I grew up watching my parents fighting too, but I manage to stay alive, I scored, Im shy but I have my trusted friends. BUT I am constantly scared and so trying to ‘please’ people in a sense that I want to prove to people at work for example, that I am capable to meet their expectations bcs I worry if I do not do well or make mistakes, i will be blamed / hated. They say im just overthinking but thats not the case. My anxiety might not be severe but it does eats up on me :’) I hope this guy gonna get better he genuinely look like someone very nice ^^

I agree being bullied is a traumatizing thing especially for children, because they carry those scars with them into adulthood. Although, that saying was sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt is so inaccurate. Those words are internalized by the victim, and even when they remove themselves from that environment the affects lingers with them forever, especially if they do not feel they have any allies or protection.

I think there should be someone beside him who encourage his fear (trauma) and said that he would get pass the struggle. He need someone to trust to let his trauma dawn and someone to listen his story/worry. If you closed to someone like this don't diss them, said "you're do a great, stay a bit longer, it'll be okay soon" they will try even with slow progress, but he knows there is someone who believe in him ☺☺

i have social anxiety and used to being bullied by peers too...but i need to work to get money to survive. Sure there's time i want to hide in dark hole...not caring for everything or anything..i knew it was hard for that brother but he's comparing his life to her sis saying his life is the worst as if it's her responsibility as the more privilege one to support him. Well, that purely selfish because he do aware the situation and he admit he's loving the feel of the glory and success but hates the struggle.

As a person who have been bullied before, i can relate so much on this case. When i was on secondary school, i had a crush with a really cute girl in my class (yeah im a girl too, im LESBIAN) then i decided to confess to her but she rejected me bcs she is straight. The worse is she told everyone in my class that i confessed to her so some girls in my class bullied me for being lesbian. I know that im wrong for still have grudge towards them but forgive them is never easy. I even still remember that they told me every gay person deserve hell, wrote some bad words on my table, called me "lesbian bitch" on a school canteen and even spit on my swimming suit when i should go on PE class exam. Dear, irene,aurelia,yijin,wenhua,christine,nadya,natasha and naomi, i hope you get what you gave.

I've been feeling that I have the same problem as this guy in the middle of the video and it's true, the real reason why he gets so afraid of people because he ever get bullied in the past. I can relate to this guy's problem alot. It's not fcking easy to get out of when you have anxiety especially when you ever had bullied. I always feel afraid and got nervous alot when I am about to go outside, like I always think people always stare at me and judged me. I hope he gets better and doing better in his life. Fighting! Remember you are not alone that feel afraid of people, I hope WE ALL can through it well and have a good life as soon as possible xx

Hope he can get a part-time job at his church. Seems like a good fit for him..... Korea is opening up more and more to mental issues but overall, it still is a social stigma.

I don't know if this guy will be read this comment or maybe can understand english, but if you are reading this, all I wanna say is that you are such kind human being, and this is the only thing that really matters to the end in life. Most of People have insecurities and fears about many things,(I am one of them) but you are really a wonderfull guy and many people deserves to know your big heart. So I hope you can be searching for counselling help to be capable to love you more😊

koreans are way behind when it comes to mental health. especially with these people on this show- just telling the guests what to do and make all these promises.. that shit's not gonna help you psychologically. it can help you jump start but in the long run, they're most likely going to fall back to the same routine. i really don't know what the point of this show is. none of these people are qualified to be giving guests all these "advice". i mean it's good for entertainment and for people to relate, but i see no merit.

Bullying does make you fear of people. I hope this guy can get become confident as time goes by

i feel so bad for him. you cant get over past trauma with "dont be nervous" "go out more" thats bullshit. wish hed get help. this made me cry so hard. reminded me of my past and the girl who bullied me. i left college cuz of her and changed my subject cuz i couldn't bear to see her in the exam hall

i don't blame him for being the way he is. i can relate to that, but most people would eager to change for a greater good. i myself is an introvert. having social anxiety ever since i was born. had difficulties to even speak out in public. basically just hide myself into my own world. tho i'm always trying to be as cheerful and more involving but things got worse when i'm used to be a victim of bullying in schools. got depression. eventually i "closed" myself up, not letting anyone into myself and staying out from others just because not wanting being hurt anymore. now that i'm 24, i'm trying very hard to at least improve myself as i'm out in the society. otherwise this "sickness" would eventually consume myself in the end. for now, my social anxiety has improved quite alot that i'm able to speak out and not scare of the public. my depression got better but i'm still closing myself. for that i have to slowly change, opening myself to accept good things. so what i'm saying here is he really need a change for a greater good, and not using his social anxiety as an excuse. plus he's 40!! he basically never live a life he deserve! so yeah...he have to be better.

i really like kwanghee. please keep being as a celebrity.. fighting, oppa!!

Maybe he has social anxiety?

Why don't he work at his church and be a social worker or counselor to help kids? He has a lot strengths so he just need to do what he like and good at.

People with social anxiety totally can relate to him. Me too...

I m so surprised to know Korean society takes bullying so lightly and make no laws to stop it.😲

The reason we should stop bullying, I had been bullied till my high school and my parents fight a lot too as a kid. Although they love us very much but those fights had traumtized my childhood. I m 31 Yr old and still think people are talking about me when I m in group they are criticizing me. I m changing a lot as I have a daughter, I don't want her to be like me.

Most people who grew up in a stressful/ bullying environment grow up thinking they’re dirt like their bullies told them . They also internalize all the things their parents did and become like their parents. They’re ashamed of themselves, have self pity and are narcissistic. They spend all their time thinking the world revolves through their minds when most people are also dealing with traumas. He loves counseling and listening to others so if he tried hard he could become a school counselor or do work where he helps people. But, he gave up on trying. I think like him sometimes and I know people like him so it was powerful for me to see all of his negative thoughts and realize that I must change my perception and even get counseling.

I feel so bad for him, because i can relate to his problem so much. Hope he's doing okay and will find a job that would not put so much pressure on him.

hyung u have a good looks and good heart too same as your sweet sister. be a good human being plus work for a better life

I don't think the audience realise how intense his fear is, it is not something he can endure through until he gets used it. He needs help with his self esteem and help with trusting people.

korea needs a wealth-fare system for sure asap

i once had social anxiety too.. now i have bunch of friends.. what i can say is, being a bad bitch is MY way to escape this.. just do what your sense tell you to do without thinking what other people would say.. the more you think, the more you cause problems to others..

I think the guy is good with helping others counselling, with his trauma he can help other people and probably a regular job may not be for him. I can understand him a bit too.

I really feel sorry for him. I can tell he has serious social anxiety.

Nobody's perfect! Don't be shy. 빚지는 것보단 광희(?)처럼 욕먹어도 꿋꿋하게 깡으로 버티고 일하면 트라우마 극복할 수 있어요.

신이시여, 이들에게 축복을 내리소서. 🙏

What did he get sorry it got cut off so if you can fill me in, thank u. In our day and age there are issues which we all try and hide, but if you need to seek help, keep trying until someone hears!!! I love this show its funny, informative and has a very caring panel.

I have social anxiety too..everyday is a challenge. But keep telling yourself everyone dies, what is happening right now is just a moment that is not important in life.everyone is busy paying attention to themselves n not us. I believe one day I can shake off social anxiety n the world will be beautiful.

I was bullied all my life from kindergarten to highschool i have PTSD and Anxiety disorder from elementary school because of this i have no memory of elementary school of what i learned only the bullying this is what bullying does to people i dont understand why people bully

남매끼리 서로 의지하면서 잘 살기를! (물론 동생은 결혼을 했지만)

The culture is different and I still don’t understand what the point of doing promises when you need A REAL person who can help by process

he needs help from a professional or a specialist for this kind of problem and a support group that could understand and help him improve.

this guy is someone i can see myself being good friends with, i dont understand why he got bullied during his school years it is sad to see a good human suffering. he really needs a strong support group and professional counselling. i really hope he can succeed going forward.

So basically he is in depth of 17.5 million won OMG

I am 18 .. he is me like right now on what career I want to do

if someone invite me to this show you will never see me walk again bcs my soul come out many time that it will never come again

he need a proper counselling session. I think he has persimist problem... I hope he get better

Wow 😮this is so crazy 😶 because from the first guest to the last I have something that connect to the from the first guest I can't eat too if there's only 5 dishes it should be more than 5 and I also don't eat the food that I don't like and when it's not cooked properly, from the second guest I also want to do a lot like sports and when I want it there's no way that I can't do that, from the last guest (this ep) I have insecurities too I hate/afraid about what people would think about me,I always get afraid when performance in something is not good, but the deffirence is that I don't quite to my any activities even I'm afraid of what will people think about me... And about in the first guest our different is that when I said this is what I want to eat I can have it without any argue with anyone. But of course I know this is concern too not now but maybe when I get married or when I have boyfriend. I don't have any same problems with the one who have concern about the "STOP TEACHING ME". ..... WELL I'M JUST SAYING 😊🤐

at some point you have to rise above your circumstances, or be buried under them :/, so i really hope he can get his shit together and support himself

Whoa his life just like an anime I watched once. He got bullied, developed social anxiety and come from an unstable household. He probably doesn’t have basic understanding of money management. He’s debt not because he wants to be but because it was his avenue to pay for his living. Basically he’s disabled mentally needs treatment or it’s gonna get real bad.

우리 광희 너무 좋아요. 이젠 많이 성숙했어요~~

I'm early but I don't know what to say lol guess i will just wait until other people tell their opinion about this episode

I am glad that they won He could use that 1000$

I understand what he feel. I'm 18 and I did 4 works with in 2 months because I feel like my colleagues hate me 😂

10:04 couple outfit? So cute 😍

If you are going to be arguing with your husband/wife none stop when your children are present, then don’t have kids. (The majority of adults issues are traumatic experiences from childhood, because of the parents fault or because of lack of parental conversation while their children are going through bad experiences during their school years.)If you won’t be PRESENT for your family, then just don’t have kids and live your life the way you want. Don’t bring innocent people to this hell that we call world.

Kwanghee's eyebrow though 🙄

거긴 그래도 아빠 엄마가 윷놀이하다가 싸웠죠? 우리집은 눈만 뜨면 싸웠어요.

Bp​ มา

who makes the title .. like dang

Uï

오빠가 아니라 원수네~ 기가 막혀ㅡㅡ??

한심하고 철없다

나이값 좀 하자 그리고 평생 혼자사시길

이런 정신상태로 교회 이야기하지마라ㅡ 교회 ,욕 먹이는것 ㅡ너나 정신과치료,받아야지ㅡ 누굴~~?????