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@TheRamseyShow
@TheRamseyShow 3 года назад
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@GHC3
@GHC3 3 года назад
I was really sad and getting upset listening to her panicked call. I am really glad you both jumped in to help this person. Being stuck in a toxic and abusive relationship(in any form) is really scary and we all need help to get out sometimes.
@elainecrutcher674
@elainecrutcher674 3 года назад
Thank you Dave and to all your staff for helping that young lady.
@possums1010
@possums1010 3 года назад
Thank you for helping that family & doing this vid with the great advice!
@Jaesingh
@Jaesingh 3 года назад
Inappropriate
@richardv9648
@richardv9648 3 года назад
We don't really know the real picture here. She could be the crazy one. We need to keep emotion and biases aside and think logically.
@BonnieHalfElven
@BonnieHalfElven 3 года назад
This wasn't Dave Ramsey, financial guru; this was papa Dave talking to a woman in trouble.
@ShortCrypticTales
@ShortCrypticTales 3 года назад
it is caring for another not wisdom
@relsba
@relsba 3 года назад
It’s a shame everyone that needs this help doesn’t have Papa Dave to go to. So glad she made the choice to call someone that she knew would care.
@TEEPEEHOMES
@TEEPEEHOMES 3 года назад
Lord! Yes!
@NasciParaAdorar7
@NasciParaAdorar7 3 года назад
And I loved seeing it!
@maikeru1990
@maikeru1990 3 года назад
I was impressed how calm and methodical he was which is incredibly important to not cause escalation. Hats off to Papa Dave. Wish more people had fathers like him
@corbind.collectibles919
@corbind.collectibles919 3 года назад
I don't care what anyone says about Dave, to take a distressed woman of domestic violence and guide her through this situation has earned my respect and I hope yours to!! He took the role of a man, a husband, a father, a leader and a man of God.
@theunjustservant9220
@theunjustservant9220 3 года назад
A man of god doesnt shut the doors of heaven. Jesus and the prophets used the LAW to bring people to Christ through faith. But the rest i dont disagree . But the book of james explains that those who do the law should live in them; and if u fail in one then your guilty of all
@corbincreamer4353
@corbincreamer4353 3 года назад
@@theunjustservant9220 okay... What is it the part that you disagree with? Having trouble understanding the theology of your reply to the context of the situation that took place of the show. Thanks! :)
@theunjustservant9220
@theunjustservant9220 3 года назад
@@corbincreamer4353 honestly just the man of God part . Thank u for the reply tho
@corbincreamer4353
@corbincreamer4353 3 года назад
@@theunjustservant9220 no problem! Glad we have the space to discuss! God bless you!
@BRM202
@BRM202 3 года назад
This was a good deed, but Dave's still a charlatan.
@marshamercer876
@marshamercer876 5 месяцев назад
This girl owning her own home and having a good job was a dream come true for this guy. He got her with a baby. Now he took over. He felt she wasnt going anywhere and he could contol her. I wouldnt be surprised if when she sold the home he didnt demand half the money. Ladies take it from a old gal who has see it all walk away while you still can and dont look back ever!
@elsh332
@elsh332 5 месяцев назад
Exactly!! Don't stay, hoping it will get better. If he's going to get better, he can make those improvements without you there. Then, you'll see the proof and can make your decisions objectively.
@LaughingblueSu
@LaughingblueSu 5 месяцев назад
Excellent comment! Low value men are worthless!
@kcs.1728
@kcs.1728 5 месяцев назад
They are back together. She got him out of jail
@robertabaker7369
@robertabaker7369 5 месяцев назад
@@kcs.1728how do you know?
@hoperissa4253
@hoperissa4253 5 месяцев назад
Thats why all of my uncle advice to never let a man took the lead of the house you own. My mom is one of this victim. She bought the house under my dad's name and she messed up when my dad sold it to buy mistress a bigger house. If you are an outstanding lady, you need an outstanding man that matches you.
@Julia-en9xq
@Julia-en9xq Год назад
I’m a 911 dispatcher, and these domestic violence calls are not only the scariest calls I deal with, they are also the number one most dangerous calls to police officers. As much as I hate picking up those calls, I am also glad the victim is reaching out for help.
@GamersTrashTalk
@GamersTrashTalk Год назад
Thank god for people like you, never in a million years could i take your job.
@priscillahammond5828
@priscillahammond5828 8 месяцев назад
Thank you for what you do to help those people. You’re a hero. I cannot imagine doing your job. It takes someone very special to do this.
@christiethompson4692
@christiethompson4692 8 месяцев назад
YES!! Thanks to the Nurses, Drs. Everyone that works for hospitals… And for the ones who get you there.. Dispatching is the 1st point of call.. THANK YOU
@linda1909
@linda1909 8 месяцев назад
First question is access to a weapon.
@fauxbro1983
@fauxbro1983 8 месяцев назад
Weither you hate it or not, its your job.
@tulipchic34
@tulipchic34 9 месяцев назад
This is what abuse does. It makes you feel like nothing and doubt all your choices. I feel for this woman.
@lucillecairns6765
@lucillecairns6765 7 месяцев назад
I know all about it! People often blame the victim in this world sadly.Glad she's ok.
@dimples5933
@dimples5933 6 месяцев назад
I’ve been there.. my heart goes out to her. This situation will make you walk in circles with no idea how to get out, your brain freezes😢 I hope she’s ok
@jjeez1977
@jjeez1977 6 месяцев назад
This was a really hard call for me to listen to. I broke down into tears as a 46 year old male, married 25+ years, separated for two years now. My wife accused me of being abusive to her but not our kids, it was the most horrible year of my life. If she would have called Dave, she would have sounded the same way that woman did. I felt for her, I believe her yet in my situation both my wife's and my therapist didn't see things the same way my wife does. It's sad either way
@sandrachank6982
@sandrachank6982 6 месяцев назад
An abuser can make you believe you're too weak and stupid to live without him. Nothing is further from the truth. There are place women can go to be safe . The Police should know where these places are. God bless you...
@mortgageapprovals8933
@mortgageapprovals8933 6 месяцев назад
Being a victim of domestic abuse while women is horrible. Now imagine being a male victim of abuse. It's sort of like being a female victim except no one gives a shit , there are no resources, no one will help you , and your abuser doesn't go to jail
@reginarobinson7781
@reginarobinson7781 Год назад
As a survivor of domestic abuse... I CAN'T SAY THANK YOU ENOUGH FOR WALKING HER THRU THIS! GOD BLESS YOU DAVE thank you.
@rustyshackleford6637
@rustyshackleford6637 10 месяцев назад
I need to issue a brown toilet warning
@lorimcmillon3217
@lorimcmillon3217 7 месяцев назад
This brings back all the trauma to someone that has been abused. She needs to run! She is so scared. I want to tell her leave and never look back. Life will be better. You and your son deserve better.
@kathytew4698
@kathytew4698 6 месяцев назад
I'm a survivor also took me 16 yrs to escape. The people that say I would do this or that have no idea what mental abuse does to you it never goes away
@saynotohookups
@saynotohookups 6 месяцев назад
@@kathytew4698 My Mom couldn't get rid of her ex-boyfriend after awhile. He would find us if we moved. He would just break into the place if we weren't home. The Police wouldn't do anything to help us and neither would the Landlord. Our extended family members didn't seem to care. All the Landlord had to do was prove that he wasn't on the lease and the Police would have taken him away. She had to move to another part of the country to get away from him. The only reason why she dated him was because her friend told her to give him a chance after she told her that he looked like a creep. Well, my Mom called it right. Some friends need to mind their own business.
@sarahnelson8836
@sarahnelson8836 6 месяцев назад
@@saynotohookups and the legal system needs to demand accountability for landlords and others charged with providing safe housing (like police)
@mmkeno
@mmkeno Месяц назад
He’s 100% right. When you are under the influence of an abuser, you can’t see things clearly.
@dlghtfl1
@dlghtfl1 27 дней назад
It starts slowly and you get used to it. You can tell yourself you're not all those names he calls you or that you need to have some money of your own, but sometimes you're just trapped. And it escalates.
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 25 дней назад
It's true. You can't think straight. I was abused by violent ex for 16 years. I nearly lost my mind & I was suicidal. It took forever to see what was happening.
@livinginhell-f7k
@livinginhell-f7k 17 дней назад
It is terrible. I was like a scared rabbit around him, and my poor brain was completely scrambled. I finally fled and went into a womans refuge. I stay in my home now, and I do not interact with anyone but 4 family members. 😁
@DisabledAussiePrepper
@DisabledAussiePrepper День назад
Yes; narcissistic control is ALWAYS a characterising factor
@branver1172
@branver1172 2 года назад
He actually knew to say, “You’re not the crazy one.” So impressed.
@elizabethmullin7715
@elizabethmullin7715 2 года назад
That struck me too! Amazing!
@amarillo856
@amarillo856 2 года назад
She started crying right when he said that...she needed that!
@perry6712
@perry6712 2 года назад
Wish people would stop using this pathetic crazy word it doesn't help mental health at all
@matthill2957
@matthill2957 Год назад
@@perry6712that is true
@BrideofJesuChristo2
@BrideofJesuChristo2 8 месяцев назад
❤❤❤
@haleytruslow7200
@haleytruslow7200 3 года назад
Even if he leaves, he knows where she lives. That’s why she wants to sell the house. God I hope she’s okay.
@RandomVids519
@RandomVids519 3 года назад
Rip
@clayhealey8428
@clayhealey8428 3 года назад
I was thinking the same thing.. sell it and start fresh
@regulus8319
@regulus8319 3 года назад
Yeah, she probably does not feel comfortable. Knowing that if the police do not arrest him he could easily come back and do something terrible to her and the baby or both of them.
@karenbuchanan2340
@karenbuchanan2340 3 года назад
@@clayhealey8428 That’s what I did..I had secret plans to leave him in the middle of a planned night. I packed my car and my cats and left my house where I was being watch and reported back to him. I moved to another state where I lived with my family for a year and started my life over…These women that are in domestic violent relationships have to realize that if you do not completely sever ties with these evil men they are pulling the whole family and with the drama which isn’t fair for them… fortunately this woman had a house in her name and a good income. She just needs to grow a backbone and really understand that true honorable men don’t treat women like that and kick him to the curb. But to realize that you have to go through a lot of counseling and want it! Unfortunately women who tolerate these types of men have something in the background that makes them want to or tolerate it, which I did and got counseling for.
@karenbuchanan2340
@karenbuchanan2340 3 года назад
@@regulus8319 The only way he can be arrested if She has visible Bruises or if he will not leave the house. In my case I took him back over and over and over again which hopefully won’t happen to her and she can get on with her life but she’s going to have to install a really good security system in her house and maybe learn how to shoot a gun for protection…I opted to leave the state and keep my Whereabouts secret as long as I live and only put my drivers license address in my families address
@KelleyBroussardMackaig
@KelleyBroussardMackaig 3 года назад
The terror in her voice was absolutely chilling...
@lovelyleon33
@lovelyleon33 3 года назад
I swear!
@glxskyiscool9990
@glxskyiscool9990 3 года назад
I felt that before.totally connected to hrr
@samsara-summermooncomehome5881
@samsara-summermooncomehome5881 3 года назад
I understand her reluctance to call the police. It's so, so hard when you're in that situation, and you think you have no choice but to stay. You feel that you are nothing without them, and nobody else will ever want or love you. You feel stupid, worthless and you're unable to think clearly. I heard this woman talk and it took me right back for a minute. I would love to.give this woman a big hug, and tell her she's gonna be ok. She probably still loves him or at least she will think she does. It's devastating for her. 💖
@irishspring5774
@irishspring5774 3 года назад
God Bless you for taking care of her.
@PX111174MUSICBOX
@PX111174MUSICBOX 3 года назад
She had me crying. So much pain!!
@RizzzKhalifa
@RizzzKhalifa 3 года назад
She’s calling Dave, because she’s too scared to call the police..
@rkj4107
@rkj4107 3 года назад
This was a scary call. I'm glad that Dave's team got on it to help her.
@sportsfan1683
@sportsfan1683 3 года назад
I definitely think some domestic violence is going on. Poor woman. This is not a house problem, this is battered woman problem.
@ThommyGunnGaming
@ThommyGunnGaming 3 года назад
So weird thing is, if you've ever called into the show, you have to leave a voice message explaining your situation and what you need to talk about, then Kelly or whomever screen those and call you back on another day. So more than likely she called a few days or week ago when she was in a better state of mind and they finally got around to call her back and she was in the middle of that chaos, so it was almost fate that it happened then, to give her the help she needed. Its crazy how that worked out and I hope she and her son are safe and grow past this.
@rkj4107
@rkj4107 3 года назад
@@ThommyGunnGaming I didn't know that
@janierudy2077
@janierudy2077 3 года назад
This call is recorded. Law needs to be involved. Young lady you ask for help. Your child is at risk and so are you
@epicherbalism
@epicherbalism 8 месяцев назад
How he called her baby doll while telling her he's calling the cops for her 😭❤️😭
@fishfish7070
@fishfish7070 5 месяцев назад
I know right! I felt safe and I wasn't even in the situation.
@chriswebster24
@chriswebster24 5 месяцев назад
Yeah, that was pretty creepy, wasn’t it? This guy definitely has some sort of weird dungeon in his basement. You can just tell. I bet he’s holding multiple women captive in his house, and making them call him “Doctor.” He’s a sick person, for sure.
@marythompson4648
@marythompson4648 5 месяцев назад
"baby doll" wasn't a phrase used towards a girlfriend, it was used towards a daughter. He's being a dad.
@ilyaalister8193
@ilyaalister8193 5 месяцев назад
@@chriswebster24”baby doll/girl” is what we in the south at least call our daughters. Stop making it sexual.
@VivaJeno
@VivaJeno 5 месяцев назад
@@chriswebster24you need Jesus 😂
@k8oclock
@k8oclock Год назад
The sigh she took when he told her she was not the crazy one. man that got me. I can feel her pain… praying for her healing
@TheCoCoBully
@TheCoCoBully 8 месяцев назад
Just reading this made me 😢 Because it was so spot on and her deep sigh replayed in my head over and over again😓😭
@BrideofJesuChristo2
@BrideofJesuChristo2 8 месяцев назад
❤❤❤
@devorahstevens6194
@devorahstevens6194 7 месяцев назад
I was abused. I still have damage. I've had issues, surgery. Etc. He said it wasn't abuse because he didn't "hit" me. I guess pushing someone down steps is a freebie? Thrown across a room? Sporting black handprints on my chest bone? Not abuse. Ok.
@sakitoby1581
@sakitoby1581 7 месяцев назад
@@devorahstevens6194It's the ULTIMATE gaslighting, truly. I hope every person who's been harmed by a partner hears this: THE ABUSER DOES NOT GET TO DETERMINE/DEFINE WHAT CONSTITUTES "ABUSE." If you feel harmed, if you feel frightened, if you feel threatened, if you feel physically injured or emotionally damaged in significant ways, if you feel unsafe--YOU are the one who has the right to define your abuse. Anyone who tries to convince you otherwise is an ABUSER. One that I've heard often is that it's not abuse if the batterer uses "an open hand" as if somehow it only "counts" if it's a fist punch. Anyone who's ever had a man thunk them in the head with his OPEN HAND knows the truth of how strong men really are, and how that non-fist can still make you see woozy stars. No one who loves you truly would ever hurt you in any of these ways. Ms. Stevens is completely righteous in her indignation because her man abused her and tried to gaslight her about it. May she never experience that again from anyone. It's time for so-called loved ones to STOP hurting their partners! For all those who've suffered abuse--young, old, female, male, trans, non-bin, gay, staight, and every other category of humanity, I'm sending this to them tonight: 🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕🤗🤗🤗😘😘😘 YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE ABUSED, my dears.
@maryromano2723
@maryromano2723 6 месяцев назад
@@devorahstevens6194😅
@hittingtax2670
@hittingtax2670 3 года назад
This is basically just a call for help in disguise.
@juliekennedy9891
@juliekennedy9891 3 года назад
Sometimes when you need help this badly - you don’t even know what you need help for. It is heartbreaking to hear someone else go through that .
@Good-DaySunshine
@Good-DaySunshine 3 года назад
Yes, she was using a lot of code. The first thing I'd have done would be to call the Police but keep her on the phone. Thank goodness he didn't gave a weapon. (other than his fists) It doesn't have to be about power- he could just have a twisted mind.
@crownjewels4
@crownjewels4 3 года назад
@@Good-DaySunshine she kept trying to talk more abt the money problems. he was next to her, its hard . my ex wouold break my phone, check my convos. but it on speaker. its hard
@widescreen1272
@widescreen1272 3 года назад
And she made the best decision to make that phone call.
@ktrudy1
@ktrudy1 3 года назад
I thought so too.
@nalla1782
@nalla1782 3 года назад
Hearing "he's standing right next to me" nearly gave me a heart attack
@patriciahunt2106
@patriciahunt2106 3 года назад
That's what they do she will be such a happy women the baby too I felt her pain
@firingallcylinders2949
@firingallcylinders2949 3 года назад
Dude she's quivering in her voice. Geez this was hard to listen to.
@jeffsupersaiyan
@jeffsupersaiyan 3 года назад
why ?
@emilylabelle3299
@emilylabelle3299 3 года назад
Is there any update on the situation? Is she and her son safe?
@jeremiahmeade710
@jeremiahmeade710 3 года назад
Why?
@joeh7417
@joeh7417 5 месяцев назад
“Medical debt from the birth of our son.” It’s a sad world.
@Nicole-wn4kp
@Nicole-wn4kp 5 месяцев назад
Not a sad world...sad country. 😢
@armon82638
@armon82638 5 месяцев назад
@@BeyondTigerMilk newsflash doctors in other countries with free healthcare still get paid🤯
@joeh7417
@joeh7417 5 месяцев назад
@@BeyondTigerMilk lmao what
@joeh7417
@joeh7417 5 месяцев назад
@@BeyondTigerMilk wait do you actually think every other country has doctors delivering babies for free and that’s why it’s cheaper in every other country!? Lmaoooo
@kaitlanparks8061
@kaitlanparks8061 5 месяцев назад
I felt it when she said “our.”
@BrotherEDEN
@BrotherEDEN 3 года назад
I was a Domestic Violence Hotline Counselor ... and the way he 'heard' what she wasn't saying was textbook ... and I have mad respect for him for knowing how to get her to open up and say as much as she shared. I had a moment of deja vu ... remembering that job was the most stressful one I've ever had.
@BrotherEDEN
@BrotherEDEN 3 года назад
@stewman82 ... it was chilling to hear that play out in real time, cause we know how quick it can go left !! Especially that moment when she said, 'he's holding the baby' next to the car .... !!!!
@tiffanyreeves2980
@tiffanyreeves2980 3 года назад
I agree with you both. He did a great job. I too am a crisis therapist/hostage negotiator and these situations can flip in the blink of an eye. Kudos to Dave for paying attention. I pray she and her baby remain safe and are able to move forward.
@Chris-es3wf
@Chris-es3wf 3 года назад
@@tiffanyreeves2980 everything looks like a nail to a hammer. If she was serious she wouldn't have called then. What a joke...
@tiffanyreeves2980
@tiffanyreeves2980 3 года назад
@@Chris-es3wf I sure hope no one ever has to look to you for help. Anywho... let us remember that she called about selling her house. DAVE was the vigilant one and noticed the distress in her voice. She NEVER asked him to call LE. Soooooo maybe you should stop looking for nails and hammers and see things for what is really going on. Talk about jokes....🙄🙄
@spiritual2020
@spiritual2020 3 года назад
@@tiffanyreeves2980 Yeah, Chris is an idiot.For him to read these posts right here from real trauma trained hotline callers and still remain in his same frame of mind, he comes across as ignorant of what DV can and IS LIKE.
@Happypen8779
@Happypen8779 3 года назад
Everyone please say a prayer for this lady. She is really in pain and needs help.
@kevinosborne8308
@kevinosborne8308 3 года назад
Please LORD help this woman and her child they needs you IN JESUS NAME I PRAY 🙏🏼✝️
@jmj1852
@jmj1852 3 года назад
God bless this woman in Jesus holy name and through his precious blood ✝️
@cdd2308
@cdd2308 3 года назад
Just did. I hope she is safe. This made me emotional.
@julievanderleest
@julievanderleest 3 года назад
Amen. I’ve been praying through this whole video. Breaks my heart.
@lindasobin9660
@lindasobin9660 3 года назад
Done!
@drsmiley1000
@drsmiley1000 3 года назад
Saddest thing is, abusers frequently ignore a restraining order. Praying for her and her son.
@julievanderleest
@julievanderleest 3 года назад
Even sadder yet, often times the victim cries for help so often but nothing ever gets done until it’s too late.
@bashirali318
@bashirali318 3 года назад
And yes and come back…..
@gobeklipepe
@gobeklipepe 3 года назад
2nd Amendment stops returners
@MsMarmolade
@MsMarmolade 3 года назад
That was my concern. I was in her situation years ago and he violated the restraining order all the time.
@deadpoolongoogle9682
@deadpoolongoogle9682 3 года назад
Yes sociopaths dont care about the law
@lindahughes9207
@lindahughes9207 5 месяцев назад
When she told him she was sorry, it made me cry, she probably felt like she was bothering him with her problem, glad he got her help and she's safe!
@alisondiem202
@alisondiem202 5 месяцев назад
Me, too.
@missnicolesays
@missnicolesays 5 месяцев назад
Same. Bless her heart. I hope everything worked out for her. I would love to hear an update.
@bleuskye8124
@bleuskye8124 8 дней назад
She probably has to say I'm sorry to her abuser all the time.
@jujutrini8412
@jujutrini8412 6 дней назад
@@bleuskye8124 That is exactly what i thought! She probably says that word a heck of a lot to try to appease him.
@bleuskye8124
@bleuskye8124 6 дней назад
@@jujutrini8412 So she finds herself always saying sorry. To everyone she interacts with. Abused people do that.
@GDBOYFilms
@GDBOYFilms 3 года назад
When someone is gaslighting you non stop, it's emotionally healing to hear you aren't insane
@jsm5166
@jsm5166 3 года назад
☝️ 👏 Yes!
@sandyg3772
@sandyg3772 3 года назад
Yes, but it takes years to believe it. I finally stopped spiraling after talking to my ex's SECOND ex-wife, who experienced exactly what I had. I wish I could have spared her the pain. But, at least we both know that it wasn't us - it was him.
@HealthyandLovingLife
@HealthyandLovingLife 3 года назад
@@sandyg3772 16 years later and I sometimes wonder if my ex-boyfriend beats on and emotionally abuses his wife. Rationally, I know he is a bad person but I have wondered if it was me that brought it out in him and that she caused him to change for the better. I am very happily married to the man I met whilst getting away from him but the grips of abuse still reach all these years later in some small way.
@sandyg3772
@sandyg3772 3 года назад
@@HealthyandLovingLife you didn't bring it out in him. He was that way because of himself. Chances are that he treats his wife the same way he treated you. It's typical to wonder if someone else will get " the better side" of an abuser. The answer is usually "no" because they don't change. I am happy for you that you are married to a wonderful man now.
@HealthyandLovingLife
@HealthyandLovingLife 3 года назад
@@sandyg3772 Thank you! I thank God he got me out of that.
@margaridabaldini
@margaridabaldini 3 года назад
As a domestic violence survivor, I can't thank you enough for how you handled this situation Dave. Obviously that man was manipulating her with her child and you gave her the best advice anyone could ever give her - *Leave, it's better to be a single mother than to be a dead one*
@maryconner1631
@maryconner1631 2 года назад
I to am a survivor. My boys dad would threaten to take my boys and change their names and I would never see them again. I was in my early 20's then. I was terrified.
@ari9313
@ari9313 2 года назад
I hope you are doing well now 💕💕
@ari9313
@ari9313 2 года назад
@@maryconner1631 I hope you are doing well now 💕💕
@Orang315
@Orang315 2 года назад
Was he the father of her kid ?
@ari9313
@ari9313 2 года назад
@@maryconner1631 I’m so sorry. I’m here for you 💕💕
@Marie-dv3wi
@Marie-dv3wi 2 года назад
Child of domestic abuse here: Dave is absolutely incredible. He cared about the woman and her baby FIRST, not the financial side of things. I wish I had had someone like him in my life when I was little.
@LM-ch8rh
@LM-ch8rh Год назад
i'm so sorry you had to live through that. i truly hope you've found some healing.
@randymillhouse791
@randymillhouse791 Год назад
The best revenge is to be that person who cares and stops others from suffering a similar experience. God bless.
@IsaacIKE
@IsaacIKE Год назад
I'm very sorry to hear that. I am praying for you ❤️
@siteworld123
@siteworld123 7 месяцев назад
🙏❤️
@Claudia-lq3ns
@Claudia-lq3ns 19 дней назад
So sorry you went through all that. I hope you are doing well 💗
@deblawson1575
@deblawson1575 8 месяцев назад
As a retired firefighter/EMT the worse calls were domestics. They are very dangerous for everyone involved.
@mortgageapprovals8933
@mortgageapprovals8933 6 месяцев назад
Being a victim of domestic abuse while women is horrible. Now imagine being a male victim of abuse. It's sort of like being a female victim except no one gives a shit , there are no resources, no one will help you , and your abuser doesn't go to jail
@sofimeow1233
@sofimeow1233 6 месяцев назад
@@mortgageapprovals8933and men set it up that way
@ihatepolice5459
@ihatepolice5459 5 месяцев назад
@@mortgageapprovals8933this is not true man if you’re getting abused please get help there are a lot of people out there that are willing to help you through this. anybody is capable of abuse anyone can be a victim of abuse and nobody deserves it. if you’re being abused please seek help
@jennys2543
@jennys2543 5 месяцев назад
@@mortgageapprovals8933 Idk about no one gives a shit. Johnny Depp certainly won in the court of public opinion
@raymondgordon-c2n
@raymondgordon-c2n 5 месяцев назад
@@jennys2543 money talks
@Sorvea
@Sorvea 3 года назад
You can tell Dave’s “father instincts” kicked in.
@zachknoxville9681
@zachknoxville9681 3 года назад
Yeah, it's rather endearing.
@filipinafaith
@filipinafaith 3 года назад
God bless Dave for pressing her like a father would, that was beautiful!
@michelegladle2300
@michelegladle2300 3 года назад
Yes great dad!
@l.c.7955
@l.c.7955 3 года назад
😂🤡
@akawiangel
@akawiangel 2 года назад
Yup, as soon as someone says “my sons father” and not their boyfriend or husband, you know there’s something wrong.
@MillionaireMindsetClub
@MillionaireMindsetClub 3 года назад
So much pain in her voice. This is scary.
@jengable4888
@jengable4888 3 года назад
Yes !!
@00700556
@00700556 3 года назад
More like FEAR.
@kiwiskiwi
@kiwiskiwi 3 года назад
totally. This is how i sound when Im freaking out...
@juliegula8862
@juliegula8862 3 года назад
Let's join Dave Ramsey tech via*telegram
@susantslbry2174
@susantslbry2174 3 года назад
Jesus, please help this momma and her baby🙏🏻 in your holy name, I pray, Amen
@tweetdezweet
@tweetdezweet Год назад
That phone call sent chills down my spine. Glad they did a follow up the next day to let the audience know she was alright. He handled it great, staying calm and reassuring her that what her boyfriend told her was just manipulation and she needed to first ensure her safety
@josephgavlek3419
@josephgavlek3419 7 месяцев назад
my fight or flight response kicked in so fast.............I have never felt that before in my 22 yrs of God-given life
@karenlubeck3294
@karenlubeck3294 7 месяцев назад
@@josephgavlek3419, A lot of Women of all ages are feeling vigilant about their safety these days.
@robertafierro5592
@robertafierro5592 7 месяцев назад
He's probably the Best Brother in the world...he understands how frightening life can be when you're a woman on your own...
@OhNoNoNoNoNo
@OhNoNoNoNoNo 6 месяцев назад
I am pretty desensitized to a lot of content, but this one was hard to listen to. You could hear it in her voice, like Dave said, how distressed she was. Too many victims go back to their abuser and I truly hope she's not one of them.
@LuannCriger
@LuannCriger 6 месяцев назад
What happens when he gets out though? He knows where she lives. That’s scary as all get out.
@paolofabris7447
@paolofabris7447 2 месяца назад
"He has convinced you that you’re not able to operate without him, but I am convinced the only way you’re ever going to be able to operate is without him!". The definition of a narcissist! I was in a relationship with one, and that's exactly what happens when you "love" this type of people! Dave Ramsey here was an absolute hero! You need a boyfriendectomy! Love him!
@thomasmoore9003
@thomasmoore9003 3 года назад
Can we just take a second to appreciate how calm Dave was here while even his own daughter was getting afraid. That's leadership
@dannym6552
@dannym6552 3 года назад
Good to know there are decent men around, I met one today too
@cam4short
@cam4short 3 года назад
Absolutely!!
@h3sh926
@h3sh926 2 года назад
@@dannym6552 Most men are decent.
@peternighswander9629
@peternighswander9629 2 года назад
This is where Dave truly demonstrates magnificence. God Bless Him
@richardramfire3971
@richardramfire3971 2 года назад
A great man
@ChildOfThe1970s
@ChildOfThe1970s 3 года назад
My mother was killed as the result of domestic violence in 1977 when I was seven years old. If any woman reading this is being abused, or your kids are being abused, you simply have to overcome the fear and find a way to leave. Because even if you stay, you are not safe in an abusive situation. If my mother could speak to you now, she would tell you that very thing. God be with you. John 3:16.
@tundrellaCat68
@tundrellaCat68 3 года назад
I'm so sorry.
@sassysavannah4383
@sassysavannah4383 3 года назад
And also with you...
@theduchessofkitty4107
@theduchessofkitty4107 3 года назад
Hugs. May God bless you, too.
@Pipsterz
@Pipsterz 3 года назад
Father, I pray asking you to heal & mend every broken fragment of this heart. Remake and renew each broken piece into something new and beautiful. You are Jehovah Rapha. I pray Your healing & peace for everyone who has experienced trauma and brokenness. In Jesus name.💓
@beagledog2001
@beagledog2001 3 года назад
I am so sorry, I cannot imagine how she and you suffered
@ShaeDaily
@ShaeDaily 3 года назад
She called about her “home” pretending she really wanted to sell so she could tell someone she needed help. He was in front of her and She cried about selling her home. She was really calling because she was in danger. Edit: Thanks for all of the likes and comments. I enjoy Dave’s show because he speaks to people of all backgrounds. I also love watching ‘Millennial Money’ because it’s really gives perspective, saying that to say we are all on different paths but I wish the best for everyone.
@jsm5166
@jsm5166 3 года назад
Domestic abuse looks like this.
@laliz7025
@laliz7025 3 года назад
Yes. Wow.
@Chris-es3wf
@Chris-es3wf 3 года назад
She just wants attention... her BF didn't do anything... people making a lot of assumptions while she never said ANYTHING.
@DJRenee
@DJRenee 3 года назад
@@Chris-es3wf naw this isn't attention
@lashaefripp2393
@lashaefripp2393 3 года назад
Good point. I didnt think about it like that.
@danieltanner5804
@danieltanner5804 4 месяца назад
I’ve been in this woman’s shoes. My ex-wife absolutely terrorized me. Which is hard to admit as a grown man. Leaving her was the best (and most difficult) decision I made in my entire life.
@DavidWiseFAN199
@DavidWiseFAN199 2 месяца назад
Keep your mental health up. Sometimes late onset PTSD can strike randomly (I know from personal experience). Stay mentally healthy. Glad you're okay now.
@devisissy1
@devisissy1 Месяц назад
I'm so glad you got away. God bless!
@ruddiko
@ruddiko Месяц назад
You did good Daniel. It wasn't your fault
@celestaisthebesta2359
@celestaisthebesta2359 Месяц назад
I am glad you said this, most people don’t think about male dv victims and sometimes don’t believe they are actually victims because of their gender.
@rachelcoad6585
@rachelcoad6585 Месяц назад
Thank you so much for sharing this, it’s so important that people remember men can be victims of DV as well. I’m so glad you got away from her, I hope you are well!
@laliz7025
@laliz7025 3 года назад
The most dangerous time is when you leave the abuser.
@emmanuelking9988
@emmanuelking9988 3 года назад
💯% 😔
@HaleySmith
@HaleySmith 3 года назад
Absolutely. This is why I stayed in my abusive relationship, it was terrifying to leave. People don't understand this. (I'm not in the relationship anymore by the way)
@Faithistheanswer
@Faithistheanswer 3 года назад
@@HaleySmith glad you broke free. 🙏🏽
@cloudedcolour5329
@cloudedcolour5329 3 года назад
@Mikael no actually its when you first leave and the abusers desperate to get their sontrol back
@Strongpoeticmind
@Strongpoeticmind 3 года назад
@Mikael And Abusive men don't care about a court order of protection that triggers them to get what's theirs by any means necessary.
@JohnBeezy3
@JohnBeezy3 3 года назад
The sad thing is that this is not over for her. Guys like him don't go away easily.
@judymanuel4314
@judymanuel4314 3 года назад
They can be made to go away.
@JohnBeezy3
@JohnBeezy3 3 года назад
@@judymanuel4314 How
@brittanymillerry2327
@brittanymillerry2327 3 года назад
@@JohnBeezy3 classic ol fist fight
@JohnBeezy3
@JohnBeezy3 3 года назад
@@brittanymillerry2327 What if he wins the fist fight?
@lissahenry6751
@lissahenry6751 3 года назад
They never change. Unfortunately I have had everything taken from me. There is not always a way to live some place else.
@mbargo06
@mbargo06 3 года назад
The pain in her voice breaks my heart. A real man protects women and children. Period end of sentence.
@alankuruvilla8939
@alankuruvilla8939 3 года назад
Not a real man but a real person protects everyone, regardless of gender.
@Lon1001
@Lon1001 3 года назад
I think that's why a lot of women go for these badass wannabe tough guys, assuming that they and their offsprings will be included in the guy's circle of protection, absolutely unaware that the abusive guy is the actual lowest common denominator in all the violence that surrounds him.
@mucheq5386
@mucheq5386 3 года назад
@@alankuruvilla8939 do you have to ruin everything with your feminist bs
@bubbanape1
@bubbanape1 3 года назад
@@mucheq5386 agree and disagree but as a full grown 40 year old man woman can be the abusers as well I literally had no choice but to deal with it try to be a guy and get a restraining order she tried OVER 2k times to have me arrested for crimes I did not commit she stalked me at every turn made to where I could not work I could go on and on but until your in that situation you could never understand But with that said There should be more people in the world like Ramsey truly someone to look up to
@alankuruvilla8939
@alankuruvilla8939 3 года назад
@@mucheq5386 What? Everyone should protect all people; regardless of gender. We are all humans & need to support one another.
@SisterShirley
@SisterShirley 6 месяцев назад
It's March 25, 2024 Can we get an update of this brave lady? I prayed for the safety and well being for her and her baby.
@chasingchrome
@chasingchrome 6 месяцев назад
Would really love that too 😢😢😢
@Paentie
@Paentie 6 месяцев назад
Me three !
@paulaparker9577
@paulaparker9577 6 месяцев назад
Me four
@FatootooKhamoun
@FatootooKhamoun 5 месяцев назад
I believe the cops were called and he's in prison
@2das
@2das 5 месяцев назад
​@@FatootooKhamoun and you believe that because of what?
@rrose9117
@rrose9117 3 года назад
Good job Dave! I’m a 911 operator and I hear this every day! I hope she doesn’t let him back in her life!
@kathleenking47
@kathleenking47 2 года назад
If she does, he could take her out
@ItsSyTv
@ItsSyTv 2 года назад
😥😥
@marita6862
@marita6862 2 года назад
Most women do take back their abusers
@TxLoneStar817
@TxLoneStar817 2 года назад
@@marita6862 🎯
@abigailvincent4909
@abigailvincent4909 2 года назад
@@marita6862 most times out of fear
@tylerjohnson2480
@tylerjohnson2480 3 года назад
I weep as I write this.. 38 years ago, I was the baby in the arms of my father, who abused my mother. He threatened to take me to be raised by his parents in rural North Dakota. It was my mother in the driveway begging him to put me down and leave. Thankfully he did. My mother passed away in April of this year. She was that brave woman once upon a time. The bravest woman I have ever met. I only met my father again after I turned 18, and have seen him only a handful of times. We're not close, and I can't imagine we will ever be. I am so thankful for the life I didn't have with him, and even more thankful for the life my mom made for us. We were poor financially. She struggled with debt, she couldn't always pay the bills. Our lights were cut off at times, as was our phone. Once we even had to move because she couldn't keep up the rent. I understand why we lived the way we did. I understand the fear that she lived in that he'd come back. He didn't. Amazing clip, and... Danielle, if you ever happen to watch this video and read this note: Thank you for getting help by whatever means you needed to. You and your child will be ok. There will be hard times, and money may be a challenge at times, but you just made the best decision you could have possibly made for you and your child. Don't look back.. not even for a moment. THANK YOU FOR MAKING THAT DECISION!
@TheHoriginal
@TheHoriginal 3 года назад
WOW Tyler. Amazing story you have there. Wishing you well
@tylerjohnson2480
@tylerjohnson2480 3 года назад
@@TheHoriginal thank you!
@GMAMEC
@GMAMEC 3 года назад
Thanks for sharing. Sometimes people feel stuck in these situations.
@Romans828girl
@Romans828girl 3 года назад
Tyler, as I read your comment, the scene that was playing in my mind was that of my two-week-old son, in his father's arms, being dangled off the edge of a 6-foot tall porch. I had made it across the driveway, in my bare feet, and was on the way to the neighbors' house to call the police. I had to choose. I chose my son's safety and I walked back into that house. I survived that day, and I left him, and my son, who barely remembers his father, is now 21 and will earn his Master's next spring. My kids are all healthy, happy adults. Mama bears do what we have to do, and God is good. Thank you for sharing your appreciation of your mom with us. I'm so sorry for your loss. It's obvious that she raised you right. I'm sure she was very proud of you.
@tonib-luv
@tonib-luv 3 года назад
I hope she reads this , as a mother, we only want the best for our children.
@ther1ny
@ther1ny 3 года назад
Dave went full dad mode. God bless Him !
@kab6368
@kab6368 3 месяца назад
This is the most dangerous time for a woman and her children. This is a delicate situation.
@Elena-sm2hv
@Elena-sm2hv 3 года назад
When you’re 32 years old own a home and made to think you’re the problem...that’s gaslighting 100%.
@micheleh5269
@micheleh5269 3 года назад
Yep she should watch a few Dr Ramani videos on narcissism. The confusion will clear much quicker
@SC-gp7kt
@SC-gp7kt 3 года назад
10000000%
@naajacelestine9232
@naajacelestine9232 3 года назад
What is gaslighting
@williambrandondavis6897
@williambrandondavis6897 3 года назад
Lol, sure. Like there are no 32 year old people with homes that don’t have mental problems. Birds of a feather flock together folks. I have witnessed a lot of domestic abuse situations and it has been very rare that both parties involved didn’t take part in perpetuating the violence.
@chilloften
@chilloften 3 года назад
@@williambrandondavis6897 oh yes, women are not the prey. Nearly all of us come from dysfunction and only with RU-vid do they even figure out what toxic is. And thank god!
@kmcclarney
@kmcclarney 3 года назад
All those men who abuse their lady's and kids are just dirt. So proud of the Ramsey team and this young lady fighting
@dontblameme6328
@dontblameme6328 2 года назад
And the willing women? What are they called?
@kobelcofan
@kobelcofan 2 года назад
The one that couldn't have a nice guy. This is why we just say date a bad boy you can see what happens.
@Love2Banime
@Love2Banime 2 года назад
You mean abusers of both genders, not just men, right?
@cyndismith4939
@cyndismith4939 2 года назад
@@dontblameme6328 victims. Just because someone gets in this kind of situation doesn't take the blame from the abuser.
@cyndismith4939
@cyndismith4939 2 года назад
We need to stop calling them men. They are male but don't deserve the title of man. All men are male, not all males are men.
@ryanlipple6854
@ryanlipple6854 Год назад
I think the only reason she called a radio show about finances was in hopes of being rescued in a covert way. It seems to me that she made such a brilliant move that even Mr. Ramsey didn’t catch her true intention behind her desperate call. Thank God he called 911, I’m assuming that’s what she was praying for.
@emmasarge4057
@emmasarge4057 Год назад
Exactly.
@gyrlyninja
@gyrlyninja 8 месяцев назад
Nah, he knew . The” do you need me to call 911” shows he knew exactly what was going on what to do …I’ve been there, called a cab company covertly and they caught on. Called the police to extract me safely.
@samanthasmiles9112
@samanthasmiles9112 3 года назад
This shows how mental abuse makes you feel trapped within your own mind. It's her home and she is ready to sell the home just to get out of this situation. God give her strength to fight for that baby. And for herself.
@dawnrowsey2645
@dawnrowsey2645 3 года назад
Your first sentence is SO on point.
@brownelcamino3051
@brownelcamino3051 3 года назад
Dave might have just saved this woman’s life I hope she and her child are safe…wishing her the best
@karenbuchanan2340
@karenbuchanan2340 3 года назад
I also recommend women take a self-defense training course and learn martial arts as the defense of Thai Chi
@mariejones7136
@mariejones7136 3 года назад
@@karenbuchanan2340 like in the movie Enough with JLO..
@karenbuchanan2340
@karenbuchanan2340 3 года назад
@@mariejones7136 I understand your thoughts, but not quite what I am talking about…self-defense through martial arts of Thai Chi with one simple hand movement you have them at their mercy or you can just push them away consistently without really hurting your opponent
@donhill1825
@donhill1825 3 года назад
@@karenbuchanan2340 Giving people a false sense that they can defend themselves is dangerous & irresponsible.
@adamho8059
@adamho8059 3 года назад
@@karenbuchanan2340 your heart in in the right place, but tai chi is not a fighting martial art. Learn jiu jitsu or mma to be able to effectively defend yourself
@cruiseny26
@cruiseny26 3 года назад
This was my situation. He wouldn't leave my house. He didn't help me with anything, taking care of the baby, chores, bills. I wanted to sell the house to just get out of the relationship. I had to sneak out of my house to see a lawyer and get a restraining order to get him out. These abusers are crazy. They feel entitled to own you, your property, your children.
@rogers5622
@rogers5622 3 года назад
The nerve to not even pay anything but want to control everything 😳glad you got out of that .
@annamarie2754
@annamarie2754 3 года назад
I am going thru this now. He threatens to burn the house down
@jessicacarey1186
@jessicacarey1186 3 года назад
@@annamarie2754 I'm so sorry to hear that. Have you reached out to any domestic violence hotline or anything for advice and assistance?
@traciebecker6669
@traciebecker6669 3 года назад
Sounds like my storu too. Today I am safe!!
@maryannmcleodevans2012
@maryannmcleodevans2012 3 года назад
@@annamarie2754 PLEASE please please take every threat seriously. Get a restraining order and purchase a gun. Take a class or have a good friend show you how to use it. Do not tell him about the gun. Leave the house and stay with family. Surround yourself with friends and/or family. Do not think he won't kill you. Get armed and get strong!
@robertafierro5592
@robertafierro5592 7 месяцев назад
This Gentleman who walked the poor young woman through the Process of Protecting herself and her little boy, just earned a Thumbs Up and my Subscription as well! He made a difference in their lives, for sure!
@user-bd4bo4tb8u
@user-bd4bo4tb8u 3 года назад
Terrifying situation. That man can manipulate and emotionally torture her with their baby. So horrible. Good job, Dave.
@davidmuth4571
@davidmuth4571 3 года назад
We've heard half the story and she picked him and made a baby. She will have a co-parenting relationship with this guy for 18 years whether she likes it or not. Dave should try to get the boyfriend on for an interview.
@jeanna7851
@jeanna7851 3 года назад
@@davidmuth4571 maybe, maybe not. If he's violent and /or terrorizes the mom and potentially the kid... He will probably lose his rights to be in the kids life.
@davidmuth4571
@davidmuth4571 3 года назад
@@jeanna7851 "Emotional abuse" without specifics is always suspect.
@davidmuth4571
@davidmuth4571 3 года назад
@@jeanna7851 Well, supervised visitation. A person I know had supervised visitation. She wanted to take her kids to Hawaii for a week, but had to take her ex mother-in-law. In the end that turned out very well.
@TowDow3
@TowDow3 3 года назад
and that woman can manipulate and emotionally torture that man with their baby, financially torture that man.
@rwdonkulus
@rwdonkulus 3 года назад
The emotion she showed when he told her she wasn’t the crazy one. Wow.
@NasciParaAdorar7
@NasciParaAdorar7 3 года назад
I know! 🥺💔
@MMyers-mh4jq
@MMyers-mh4jq 3 года назад
It’s because that man has told her she was!!
@JaymeOrr
@JaymeOrr 3 года назад
Because he has made her feel crazy for however long they've been together
@theeggtimertictic1136
@theeggtimertictic1136 3 года назад
He's obviously gaslighting her.
@Mom_of_the_Chickies
@Mom_of_the_Chickies 3 года назад
As someone who has been in an abusive relationship, you don’t believe it can ever happen to you or that it’s happening to you until it is already too late
@borisvandruff7532
@borisvandruff7532 3 года назад
Dave and Rachel, Your kindness and empathy to this woman on this call are from God. Beautiful souls, both of you.
@ayela562
@ayela562 3 года назад
@Matt right ? They gave the appropriate response to anyone in need. This is what people SHOULD do .
@77Friction
@77Friction 3 года назад
@Matt you obviously dont know humans... the normal human response is what her "husband" did
@ayela562
@ayela562 3 года назад
@@77Friction No , it is not the normal human response to be a domestic abuser. Some people are , that doesn’t make it normal.
@barnandhome
@barnandhome 3 года назад
@Matt yeah, I think Boris forgot that evolution programmed kindness into our DNA.
@topcheese2889
@topcheese2889 3 года назад
@@77Friction not true
@mdelaney9008
@mdelaney9008 5 месяцев назад
As a 911 dispatcher of 20 years, I’ve handled many calls of this nature. But despite law enforcement intervention, the woman most generally returns to the abusive situation. She invariably feels guilty and worst, alone, without anyone. These women have been stripped of any confidence in themselves and even allow themselves to be convinced by the abuser that they deserve the abuse. These women don’t believe they can make it on their own. It is a cycle that is hard to break. I’ve seen it happen too many times. My heart goes out to them.
@tamaradebose
@tamaradebose 5 месяцев назад
The mental effects are brutal!
@frankrivers3797
@frankrivers3797 3 года назад
The look on Rachel's face says it all. Him holding the baby was such a punk move. That's why every woman needs at least one strong male figure in her life. This woman used Dave as hers.
@mlovespring7892
@mlovespring7892 3 года назад
She has a brother and a father! And she called Dave to ask if she should sell her house!
@FlowLai
@FlowLai 3 года назад
Sad that the man in her life couldn't be that for her. World would be different without weak men and scummy men.
@julianaristizabal1657
@julianaristizabal1657 3 года назад
M Love Spring STRONG male figures. No strong male figure would allow those things to happen to a female relative like that.
@Rileysuniques
@Rileysuniques 3 года назад
@@julianaristizabal1657 they may have tried and she pushed them away. Like she tried to dave
@musicismysaviour22yearsago
@musicismysaviour22yearsago 3 года назад
@@Rileysuniques well if a man raised her, she wouldn’t have been in this position, no strong male gets pushed away by their daughter
@susanmarie2231
@susanmarie2231 3 года назад
This is the most alarming call I have ever heard on the Ramsey Show. I pray this woman and her baby are safe. Very upsetting just to listen to this call.
@dorcasasare1452
@dorcasasare1452 3 года назад
Yeah. I'm still watching and crying and I don't know why?
@moneghan6
@moneghan6 3 года назад
Yes it is
@naturallyginger1
@naturallyginger1 3 года назад
“We don’t need to call a realtor, we need to call the police, your father and your brothers” 🙏🙏🙏.
@traciebecker6669
@traciebecker6669 3 года назад
Sometimes the father or brothers won't help. But she must leave.. no matter what!
@jake56812
@jake56812 6 месяцев назад
FUCK everything people say about dave’s decisions and financial statements, dude just saved two people’s lives over a phone call.
@seebelieve5899
@seebelieve5899 2 года назад
I love Dave Ramsey, he can feel her pain, fear, and terror. His intuition is spot on. He saw right through the situation in seconds. We need more Dave in this world. What a beautiful human being.
@juliestevens0426
@juliestevens0426 Год назад
he became "Dad" and not "Dave" on that call.
@dummgelauft
@dummgelauft 8 месяцев назад
He has a daughter!! And dads with daughters will rip a dude's heart out for giving grief to their little girl.
@marcusjones3011
@marcusjones3011 3 года назад
Wow. You never know what people are going through behind the scenes.
@shawnm9237
@shawnm9237 3 года назад
Unfortunately this is way to common in the US. I’ve been in a situation like this as a child and the only way it can change is by leaving.
@marcusjones3011
@marcusjones3011 3 года назад
@@shawnm9237 Shawn, I'm glad you made it out.
@BP-vr3rt
@BP-vr3rt 3 года назад
She could be faking it too. If she was in danger, she would've left, call 911, and start the process of eviction against boyfriend number 70. Also, she would have applied for a restraining order
@marcusjones3011
@marcusjones3011 3 года назад
@@BP-vr3rt anything is possible, but she sounded very afraid and desperate to me.
@Pleaseopenyoureyes
@Pleaseopenyoureyes 3 года назад
@@shawnm9237 *too common
@christopherhiggins4249
@christopherhiggins4249 3 года назад
The sheer horror and this woman’s voice got to me. I wish we could find out how this woman is doing.
@JP2GiannaT
@JP2GiannaT 2 года назад
They did a follow-up, the boyfriend is in jail.
@saynotohookups
@saynotohookups 6 месяцев назад
@@JP2GiannaT Good!
@user-xi9jh1oq1y
@user-xi9jh1oq1y 24 дня назад
Made this grown man tear up. She went to a voice of reason. Sounds like she was raised right and went into a spiral of bad choices.
@thedeels7522
@thedeels7522 3 года назад
He’s using fear to control her. That’s the devil right there. I pray she gets out of that abuse. Been there!
@abigailr0se103
@abigailr0se103 3 года назад
This poor woman, you can tell she just needed someone to reach out to, not for her debt but for help in this situation. I’m glad that they handled this the way they did instead of just brushing her off and telling her that it’s not their problem.
@cconroy1677
@cconroy1677 3 года назад
Has Dave ever done that? He wouldn’t get great ratings if he did. I don’t think he had a choice here.
@abigailr0se103
@abigailr0se103 2 года назад
@@cconroy1677 honestly havent really watche d this channel so no clue. but either way I hope she took what he said to heart
@moomouse6676
@moomouse6676 2 года назад
Real men don't treat women like that
@timesmash
@timesmash 3 года назад
I hate hearing a woman in this kind of fear of the man she is with.
@jeffsupersaiyan
@jeffsupersaiyan 3 года назад
what kinda of fear ?
@spiritofvincennes
@spiritofvincennes 3 года назад
@@jeffsupersaiyan duh
@RoyalMasterpiece
@RoyalMasterpiece 3 года назад
He isn't even worthy to be called a man!
@SleekMouse
@SleekMouse 3 года назад
@@RoyalMasterpiece She isn't worthy to be called a woman either.
@mikegallegos7
@mikegallegos7 3 года назад
Wish I could have helped him out of the home ...
@mama-llama4527
@mama-llama4527 7 месяцев назад
I don’t normally post but I am a huge Dave Ramsey supporter and I am not Christian. He is so respectful that I attended a seminar and he announced at the end of the show that those who wanted the religious insights to stick around and I chose not to. And I send every person I meet his way. I don’t care what you believe - this man brings sanity and decency into lives.
@Spajd
@Spajd 5 месяцев назад
Couldn’t agree more with your comment
@coriemmett1363
@coriemmett1363 4 месяца назад
Thank you for your positive comments. I appreciate you. God bless you! ❤
@MalloryNewcomb
@MalloryNewcomb 2 месяца назад
Love that. As a Christian, I love seeing a man who not only shares his faith openly but also gets the respect of people outside the Christian community for doing his job well & having decency.
@NathanDCLubb
@NathanDCLubb Год назад
Im actually crying. When he said, "It needs to happen, and its happening today." Im all about peoples freedom to self determination but sometimes people just arent in a place to do whats best for themselves and they need someone to step in on their behalf. What a beautiful way to handle the situation.
@robertwoodpa6463
@robertwoodpa6463 3 года назад
I'm a Florida lawyer. She can get a domestic violence injunction easily. In Florida she is automatically the parent who has legal custody of the child if she is not married to his father.
@FreedomsNurse
@FreedomsNurse 3 года назад
"she is automatically the parent who has legal custody of the child if she is not married to his father." Wow, so much for equal rights in Florida! LOL
@annetteconant8234
@annetteconant8234 3 года назад
@@FreedomsNurse This is not an equal rights issue. It is a safety issue. Domestic violence is involved so this argument does not make sense at this time. I agree that both parents should share custody as long as a parent is not putting their children in harm's way. What is best for this child?
@YT4Me57
@YT4Me57 3 года назад
@Dorian Sullivan not true if his name is on the birth certificate.
@benzmane7564
@benzmane7564 3 года назад
@Dorian Sullivan oh, so in Florida, biological fathers who aren't married to the mothers of these children don't have to pay child support since they're "not the parent" ? Lol
@TheMichelleaking
@TheMichelleaking 3 года назад
@@benzmane7564 well no if they aren't on the birth certificate than paternity would have to be established for them to be court ordered to pay child support
@maryhornsby9441
@maryhornsby9441 3 года назад
I have never been so scared listening to this show in my life. That poor woman, I hope she is okay!
@konradvonmarburg7733
@konradvonmarburg7733 3 года назад
I agree. I usually have this playing in the back ground as I'm working on other stuff, but this made me pause. I was like wth is going on. I hope he provides an update. Jesus Lord!
@Sheryl777
@Sheryl777 3 года назад
Mary Hornsby the good thing is that Dave and his team are offering all their help to her, so hopefully things will work out alright.
@JM.TheComposer
@JM.TheComposer 3 года назад
This comment section is like therapy for all of us who were perturbed just listening to the call and experiencing how the situation was affecting her.
@JLJ8039
@JLJ8039 3 года назад
I love the empathy Dave shows, but: This woman needs an exit extrategy. A woman is the most susceptible to being killed by her aggressor as she is trying to leave them. That's why she wants to sell. She can call the police, but she has got to move.
@kirkalderson1017
@kirkalderson1017 3 года назад
This episode needs viewer discretion advised
@Alisha_79
@Alisha_79 8 месяцев назад
I am soo glad she called in! That took soo much strength. As a former victim of mainly mental and emotional abuse, this gave me chills.
@CaliCoast805_lovin_life
@CaliCoast805_lovin_life 8 месяцев назад
❤️🙏
@Donna-C
@Donna-C 3 года назад
“And It’s happening today” - you could here her sigh of relief. Well done team.
@yves8639
@yves8639 3 года назад
Unbelievable how domestic violence can destroy people’s lives.
@lolife1981
@lolife1981 3 года назад
Domestic violence and substance abuse; I hear substance abuse.
@deecee2174
@deecee2174 3 года назад
Domestic violence is the second most deadly call for police, next to break and enter robberies
@ghhm2705
@ghhm2705 3 года назад
Unbelievable how many SAY they would stand against it UNTIL it’s their brother, their son, their friend, their coworker…..”but he’s such a nice guy”…they simply cannot believe it. Until we understand AS A SOCIETY that abusers are not the Hollywood portrayed maniacs throwing lamps and raging chaos. Abusers are very much IN control - that’s why they’re abusers. They are in control. It is calculated and manipulated.
@2KCamaroZ28SS
@2KCamaroZ28SS 3 года назад
This is why I wanted to be a cop
@juniorgod321
@juniorgod321 3 года назад
What's really unbelievable is how women seem to like jerks...If he was nice, she probably would've dumped him a long time ago!
@kristin1652
@kristin1652 Год назад
This made me cry 3 minutes in. I escaped a relationship like this. I lost my house, all my savings and everhyhing i worked for. I escaped with 50/50 custody and 6 years later I am fighting for full custody of my kids. I wept for this woman.
@midlifeandnailingit6342
@midlifeandnailingit6342 7 месяцев назад
Same
@mitchchrisburd3421
@mitchchrisburd3421 6 месяцев назад
I am so sorry, and praying for her....
@marianraftery
@marianraftery 6 месяцев назад
You’re so strong. You can do it !
@jacquelynroe9036
@jacquelynroe9036 6 месяцев назад
I hope you get full custody and are healing ❤
@jen9015
@jen9015 5 месяцев назад
50/50 custody is insane... For 6 years...Ugh, crazy. I'm so sorry.
@RyanMiddleton_the_Rhino
@RyanMiddleton_the_Rhino 3 года назад
Dave, you and your team handled the woman's situation at a professional and very humanitarian level.
@jamesrobb474
@jamesrobb474 3 года назад
Dear Lord, please protect and deliver this woman Danielle and her baby boy from this evil situation. Amen.
@sportsfan1683
@sportsfan1683 3 года назад
Amen.
@Faithistheanswer
@Faithistheanswer 3 года назад
Amen 🙏🏽
@rubysteward2199
@rubysteward2199 3 года назад
Amen 🙏🏽
@jasminegonzalez2007
@jasminegonzalez2007 3 года назад
Amen
@sherryobar5750
@sherryobar5750 3 года назад
Amen, Father Mt 18:19 in Jesus' name.
@livinit6620
@livinit6620 3 года назад
She needed help at that exact moment. It was code. She was smart enough to call an unbiased party ( which husband would only allow at the time, without hanging up her phone). Complete acute DV distress.
@cynthiaosgood3804
@cynthiaosgood3804 Месяц назад
That poor child. Praying for her safety.
@janebaker4912
@janebaker4912 Год назад
The most dangerous time is when you leave
@Yourlibrarian
@Yourlibrarian 5 месяцев назад
Oh god, yeah. You never know if you’ll just see them in a store or something. Then if you do, you gotta worry about getting followed.
@scrapykat3028
@scrapykat3028 4 месяца назад
Especially when you leave!
@scrapykat3028
@scrapykat3028 4 месяца назад
@@Yourlibrarianand they will follow!
@FrankS111
@FrankS111 3 года назад
Ladies…be VERY careful of the men you chose to have children with. If a man lays his hands on you even once, then he’s made it very clear that he’s capable of doing it again. Leave immediately…no second chances when it comes to physical violence
@ThePooppantsman
@ThePooppantsman 3 года назад
Not only men dont blame men for all the issues
@nicolebond3992
@nicolebond3992 3 года назад
Frank S, well said. Leave immediately and don’t look back nor go back, no matter how much the abuser cries, begs and apologizes.
@seanmclaughlin3718
@seanmclaughlin3718 3 года назад
Same for men.
@cindylong624
@cindylong624 3 года назад
@@nicolebond3992 Correct! They are trying to find your weak spot so you will go back to them! They lie 100%
@twizzle8993
@twizzle8993 3 года назад
"You don't need a realtor" was spot on. I hate punks with low self esteem that inflict pain on people. I'm glad they locked him up. I pray for her continued safety.
@ratsofatso5525
@ratsofatso5525 3 года назад
Punks have unbelievably high self esteem. That's why they think they can tell everyone what to do. The ultimate in EVIL is one who would hurt his family to get what he wants. That's total disregard for EVERYONE but one's own self.
@glxskyiscool9990
@glxskyiscool9990 3 года назад
They locked him up.
@alexandrialynn124
@alexandrialynn124 5 месяцев назад
As someone who had been abused for many years, especially by my ex-husband and his family I want to say thank you for reaching out and helping her. It is such a lonely time to feel like you have nobody you have to do it yourself 🙏🏻
@thistles
@thistles 3 года назад
He’s holding the baby. She’s afraid to do anything while he’s holding the baby.
@OCDTraci
@OCDTraci 3 года назад
Yep, and that's exactly why he was holding him.
@greekgirl9897
@greekgirl9897 3 года назад
@STUPID TABLET Hey Stupid, sometimes you don't know you're trapped until you are!
@almaz1648
@almaz1648 3 года назад
@@greekgirl9897 isn't his name very fitting.
@sharonlain3956
@sharonlain3956 3 года назад
@@greekgirl9897 Truth !!!! 🙌
@birdlady2725
@birdlady2725 3 года назад
Restraining orders dont work. It is terrifying. Thank you for helping her.
@BuddysDIY
@BuddysDIY 3 года назад
Sitting in a doctor's office rn and this had me sweating. Poor girl. Raise your sons right so people don't have to go through this
@rickdeckard4735
@rickdeckard4735 3 года назад
Raise your daughters right so they don't put themselves in these situations - take responsibility folks!
@greysongladney4403
@greysongladney4403 3 года назад
Both of you are right.... people in general need to be raised better with better morals
@Sheryl777
@Sheryl777 3 года назад
@@rickdeckard4735 Things can change drastically from the time a relationship first starts to where it gets to this point where there is danger involved. Women don't always realize the man is dangerous in the beginning and then it usually slowly gets worse over time, until really bad things start happening eventually. So what seemed like an ok relationship in the beginning turns into a nightmare in the end. I don't blame the woman for that at all. IF it's the man who is causing pain to others, then yes, there is definitely something wrong with HIM. You seem to wrongly blame the woman for the bad things that the man is doing when you say "raise your daughters right".
@mercuryrising2424
@mercuryrising2424 3 года назад
@@Sheryl777 When the situation shows itself to be bad the women need to have enough strength to recognize it and get out of the situation. If she is not strong enough, then seek out male help in the form of a dad, a brother or a male friend.
@Sheryl777
@Sheryl777 3 года назад
@@mercuryrising2424 Well at least she did call Dave which shows she is reaching out for help. Glad about that anyway.
@angeleyes3386
@angeleyes3386 Год назад
You can hear in her voice she was frightened. Trying to stay strong to figure a plan out. Much respect to Ramsey for his care and concern and pray this woman safely got out of her situation.
@Thr33God
@Thr33God Месяц назад
This is the first time I've ever heard of Dave. I'm happy that he exists and is able to help, like he did in this video. Thank you, Dave.
@vincetaliaferro2777
@vincetaliaferro2777 3 года назад
Way to go Dave. Financial advice is not even the best of his work, the man has a lot of wisdom.
@nickade2256
@nickade2256 3 года назад
Agreed. That's Dave for you. He is a people advocate in general.
@chromelemon
@chromelemon 3 года назад
Financial advice is only like 20% of why Dave is worth listening to. He is a wise, caring man has helped millions of people.
@alicia_shaun
@alicia_shaun 3 года назад
She literally sounded like she was running I was like is she running on her call but she was sitting down… that was a lot of adrenaline running through her… thank you Dave because this happens too often..
@Originalman144
@Originalman144 3 года назад
It's probably nothing new for her. She might be a saint, but probably not.
@elavke5441
@elavke5441 3 года назад
@@Originalman144 nobody is a saint. But she is in a bad situation
@Originalman144
@Originalman144 3 года назад
@@elavke5441 Exactly. It might be a bad situation from the outside looking in but part of her loves the drama the chaos. She knew exactly who she was laying down with to create a child.
@kimberlybardin6949
@kimberlybardin6949 3 года назад
@@Originalman144 you sound a bit narcissistic. Blaming the victim is despicable.
@justinbieberforev330
@justinbieberforev330 3 года назад
@@Originalman144 you don't always know what a person would do when emotions are high. The person you start dating is not the same person you break up with.
@e-spy
@e-spy 3 года назад
I would bet she hadn't talked to her father or brothers for quite awhile. They always try to separate you from family and friends who may help you. She can't live in her house anymore... I wish her safe.
@richardv9648
@richardv9648 3 года назад
She could be a narcissist too. We don't know the full story here.
@SC-gp7kt
@SC-gp7kt 3 года назад
Exactly.
@SC-gp7kt
@SC-gp7kt 3 года назад
@@richardv9648 Narcs never have fear in their voices like this woman does.
@kristivaughn1984
@kristivaughn1984 5 месяцев назад
The way they both winced when she said her baby was only 8 months 😭 Such a visceral reaction to how helpless she was at that moment. “The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing” He stepped up and did something. May we all
@glodaily
@glodaily 3 года назад
When she started crying, I started crying.
@UGOOMERO
@UGOOMERO 3 года назад
I started spiraling. I had to collected myself.
@Amandafromappalachia
@Amandafromappalachia 3 года назад
Amen!
@latinouruguayo1
@latinouruguayo1 3 года назад
@@UGOOMERO Me too
@thehealingdaughter
@thehealingdaughter 3 года назад
Same, she was trying so hard not to.
@MsPbass
@MsPbass 3 года назад
Same here. It was soo emotional because I’ve been through that before, I remember being so afraid and embarrassed to tell anyone what I was going through. Eventually, I got enough strength to call for help and I got the support that I needed. I’m forever indebted to the DV crisis workers that saved my life and those who do this work everyday! 🙏🏾
@lightheart2183
@lightheart2183 3 года назад
That level of fear in her voice. She could have possibly died that day. Glad she reached out to Dave who had the resources and could get to the real issue while also managing a crisis situation.
@NorthernWindNut
@NorthernWindNut 3 года назад
She immediately freaked out when he mentioned police. She's been conditioned
@alittlepieceofearth
@alittlepieceofearth 3 года назад
Yeah, that made my blood run cold.
@elliotjames5172
@elliotjames5172 3 года назад
She also said she tried that. The police aren't a big help in these situations unless there is a clear crime, and usually in progress. This girl needs Mike from Breaking Bad, no half measures with this POS.
@DuckingTaylor
@DuckingTaylor 3 года назад
Police only help after a crime is committed.
@21mejia25
@21mejia25 3 года назад
Kid napping is a crime
@NorthernWindNut
@NorthernWindNut 3 года назад
@@elliotjames5172 Yeah if the coward isn't holding a baby then .357>911
@corinnayerbich9501
@corinnayerbich9501 24 дня назад
This made me cry. I have been this afraid for myself and my daughter. God bless you Dave. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@donnapiraino3323
@donnapiraino3323 3 года назад
This is the most dangerous time...when a woman is trying to plan her escape from her abuser ....The abuser feels the loss of control and will often hurt them the worst during this time...Sometimes even kill them.
@Pipsterz
@Pipsterz 3 года назад
And children too, even a baby. When she was asked where the baby was and she said... "In his father's arms - in front of my car" I felt sick. My stomach dropped.
@donnapiraino3323
@donnapiraino3323 3 года назад
@@Pipsterz yes I was extremely frightened for her
@bittenichtofnen
@bittenichtofnen 3 года назад
Mine asked to meet him with our children ! Went into our house after I left to grap paperwork saw a sawed off shotgun on the floor 😪! I knew this wasn't going to be a happy meeting ! Hid our kid's and myself for a while scared for our lives 😪😪😪
@dc4me44
@dc4me44 3 года назад
She needs to sell the house, delete her social media and move somewhere far away from him. Also get a restraining order and put cameras on her new house in case he comes back
@aerynsunn7500
@aerynsunn7500 3 года назад
I agree. A restraining order is just a piece a paper.
@msseedlady2587
@msseedlady2587 3 года назад
He will be back. They don't just go. Mine still tries to call me six years later.
@hautemami
@hautemami 3 года назад
All of this. Sell or rent it out and relocate out of there. Only way it will work!
@NashvilleBraids
@NashvilleBraids 3 года назад
You’re right. I have been watching Investigation Discovery and things like this never end well unless it truly taken care of
@candyluna2929
@candyluna2929 3 года назад
You forgot the essential: arm up
@rodrigofernandez9055
@rodrigofernandez9055 3 года назад
This call was gut wrenching. No all heroes wear a cape. God bless you Dave.
@elizabethbrown-xj3fs
@elizabethbrown-xj3fs 3 месяца назад
Police do nothing unless there’s blood or serious bruises. I’ve been through this my own children have called the police looking for help for me. RAge, threats, holding the walls shaking and screaming is not a police matter. They have to wait until you’re on the floorin blood. Women are terrorized because of the threats. When I finally left he stole 530,000 from our company account. He stole $800 from my sons piggy bank. Cut all credit cards, electricity everything. As a woman I respect you Mr. Ramsey more than ever before!!!!❤❤❤❤
@SueEmmDee
@SueEmmDee 3 года назад
This is so upsetting; I am so worried about that woman caller and her young baby.
@Ant0417
@Ant0417 3 года назад
She wasn't calling about the house, the debt or the money. She knows what she needs to do but she's terrified to call the police and she trusts Papa Dave.
@Vizaru
@Vizaru 3 года назад
Even if she wasn't consciously aware that she was doing that, that's exactly what she was doing.
@SC-gp7kt
@SC-gp7kt 3 года назад
Exactly. She knows what she needs to do but has zero people supporting her right now.
@callmeogre6495
@callmeogre6495 3 года назад
Daddy dave
@mirandakh17
@mirandakh17 3 года назад
This is just devastating. God be with her and Charlie.
@jogriffin9347
@jogriffin9347 3 года назад
Which god
@mucheq5386
@mucheq5386 3 года назад
@@jogriffin9347 Allah
@halolivingston1497
@halolivingston1497 3 года назад
Run please.
@mogusmonroe9431
@mogusmonroe9431 3 года назад
@@mucheq5386 good job guy. This was not a religious issue. You bring it up and then start a debate that means nothing. Best case senerio is tha likely to cause division to people over your religious beliefs. Your the winner. Tell your family, you might get a back slap.
@Darlajw
@Darlajw 6 месяцев назад
As a survivor of domestic abuse 41 years ago, I want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for recognizing and helping this woman. To anyone in such a situation like this, there is hope but you have to get away from such a toxic abusive person. God bless.
@julievanderleest
@julievanderleest 3 года назад
“He’s standing right next to her.” Goodness my heart was pounding. I don’t think Ramsey was prepared for this one but man, he was good. He went from financial advisor to Dr. Phil. I hope she is okay now.
@nmarkert01
@nmarkert01 3 года назад
I think he was far more helpful than Phil, but I agree otherwise.
@levirleon5001
@levirleon5001 3 года назад
Lol, dr. Phil….
@TheCc064
@TheCc064 3 года назад
This makes it acceptable to hate men
@sethdavis459
@sethdavis459 3 года назад
@@TheCc064 bruh what? It makes it acceptable to hate that man, not all men
@Lydia-Roe
@Lydia-Roe 2 года назад
@@TheCc064 What in the actual heck? Bye misogynist.
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